Parental Child Abuse in Child Custody Matters

This article is connected to the topic Child Custody and Visitation Court Applications. It may be useful to read up on it before proceeding to read further. Otherwise, read on to find out more about parental child abuse and the legal aspects surrounding it. Parental Child Abuse is a common occurrence in our society. This article does not deal with the merits or demerits of parental child abuse. However, it gives light on this aspect in a child custody case.

What are the common forms of child abuse?

Child abuse can take many forms. This includes physical, emotional, sexual or psychological abuse. Each case may be different. However, the common theme, in a child custody situation would be that the child is being detrimentally affected by the parent’s conduct. Therefore, should a parent beat the child, neglect the child, or cause harm to the child, it would be seen as abuse.

What happens in cases of child abuse?

Of course, in extreme cases of abuse, such parent would be refused contact completely. This is especially in the case where the child would be traumatized should he or she have contact with the parent. However, what often happens, is that a parent would be granted supervised contact to his or her child. This is done to benefit both parent and child.

What to do when your child is being abuse by the other parent?

There are various things you can do to protect your child who is being abused. Those include going to the police, obtaining a protection order, or limiting the other parent’s rights with an order of court.

Should you approach the Domestic Violence Court?

As a parent, you may apply to the domestic violence court for a protection order on behalf of your child. This may be the best route to follow.

What about Court Application limiting parental rights?

Should there be a court order in place, affording a parent parental responsibilities and rights, you can apply to vary it. This would be applicable when supervised contact would be in the minor children’s best interests. The court would listen to both sides, and make a decision.

When should you consult with a lawyer?

Seeing that you are dealing with parental rights and responsibilities, it is best to first try to resolve issues with the other parent. If that does not work, then try mediation. Should that still not work, see a lawyer who would advise you on what would be best for you and your child. If need be, a Court application would have to be launched

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Parental Child Abuse in Child Custody Matters

This article is connected to the topic Child Custody and Visitation Court Applications. It may be useful to read up on it before proceeding to read further. Otherwise, read on to find out more about parental child abuse and the legal aspects surrounding it.

Parental Child Abuse is a common occurrence in our society. This article does not deal with the merits or demerits of parental child abuse. However, it gives light on this aspect in a child custody case.

What are the common forms of child abuse?

Child abuse can take many forms. This includes physical, emotional, sexual or psychological abuse. Each case may be different. However, the common theme, in a child custody situation would be that the child is being detrimentally affected by the parent’s conduct. Therefore, should a parent beat the child, neglect the child, or cause harm to the child, it would be seen as abuse.

What happens in cases of child abuse?

Of course, in extreme cases of abuse, such parent would be refused contact completely. This is especially in the case where the child would be traumatized should he or she have contact with the parent. However, what often happens, is that a parent would be granted supervised contact to his or her child. This is done to benefit both parent and child.

What to do when your child is being abuse by the other parent?

There are various things you can do to protect your child who is being abused. Those include going to the police, obtaining a protection order, or limiting the other parent’s rights with an order of court.

Should you approach the Domestic Violence Court?

As a parent, you may apply to the domestic violence court for a protection order on behalf of your child. This may be the best route to follow.

What about Court Application limiting parental rights?

Should there be a court order in place, affording a parent parental responsibilities and rights, you can apply to vary it. This would be applicable when supervised contact would be in the minor children’s best interests. The court would listen to both sides, and make a decision.

When should you consult with a lawyer?

Seeing that you are dealing with parental rights and responsibilities, it is best to first try to resolve issues with the other parent. If that does not work, then try mediation. Should that still not work, see a lawyer who would advise you on what would be best for you and your child. If need be, a Court application would have to be launched

Sharing is Caring

This and other articles and posts found on this website are written by Adv. Muhammad Abduroaf to assist people with various family law related issues they may have. If you find any of our articles, free resources and posts interesting, or possibly useful to others, please like and share it on Social Media by clicking on the icons below. For more interesting articles and information on Family Law, view our articles and Q&A page. If you have a family law related legal issue and you want someone to answer or reply to it, feel free to post it on our Family Law Blog. Therefore, kindly like and share.

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Top tips and tricks from a Senior Family Law Advocate on claiming maintenance for a five-year-old child in Klerksdorp.

Child Maintenance is the right of the child, and not that of the parent. It is also not a privilege granted to parents who must pay it. It is their duty to pay child maintenance and support their children. Once the child is self-supporting (being able to care for him or herself), the obligation falls away. This can happen when the child is 18, 20, or even 30. It all depends on the circumstances of the case.

Claiming child maintenance for your child in Klerksdorp

Whether you claim child maintenance in Klerksdorp, or any other city in South Africa, the procedures would be the same. There are however two (2) courts that can deal with child maintenance matters. That is a divorce court, in a divorce matter, and a Child Maintenance Court. For this article, we will focus on claiming maintenance in a Maintenance Court matter in Klerksdorp.

The maintenance scenario – Klerksdorp South Africa

In this article, we will deal with the following fictitious scenario, in a child maintenance matter:

  1. The Child is seven years old and attends school in Klerksdorp
  2. The child is cared for by the mother who works in Klerksdorp
  3. The mother works and earns a Salary of R 10 000
  4. The father sees the child every second weekend. He also lives and works in Klerksdorp
  5. The child’s monthly expenses are R 6000 – 00 which includes food, clothing, accommodation, education, travel etc.
  6. The father earns a reasonable salary and can afford the R 20 000 – 00 per month
  7. The mother claims R 4 000 – 00 maintenance as the father earns double her salary

What is the first step the mother must take in claiming child maintenance?

The first thing the mother must do is work out exactly what the child costs by item. She breaks down the minor child’s living expenses, starting from rent or accommodation to groceries to school fees etc. Once she has done that, she would need to determine what exactly does the minor child cost per month, seeing that she will be asking the father to contribute towards that. As best as possible, she needs to collect proof of expenses. This can be in the form of receipts.

How does she start the legal process?

The mother now needs to approach the maintenance court in the area where she lives or works to lodge a complaint for child maintenance. If she lives or works in Klerksdorp, it would be the maintenance court in Klerksdorp. She will complete a Form A wherein she will provide all the expenses for her and the minor child. She would also have to stipulate her income. Once she completed the form and submitted it to the maintenance court, she must then follow the next step.

What do you do while waiting for the maintenance court date?

While you wait to be informed of the court date by the Maintenance Court of Klerksdorp, and up until the actual first court date, you need to ensure that you keep a record of all income and expenses for you and the child. This is very important as the court allocates maintenance based on recent income and expenses.

What happens at the first court appearance at the Klerksdorp Maintenance Court?

Once you have been notified of the maintenance court date by the Klerksdorp Maintenance Court, you need to ensure that you attend it. On that day, both you and the father of the child would appear before a maintenance officer. The maintenance officer would go through both your income and expenses as well as that of the father. If all the relevant information is not before the maintenance court, then the matter may be postponed in order for the parties to submit it.

The maintenance officer will try to settle the matter and have the parents come to an agreement regarding the amount of child maintenance to be paid. If they cannot come to an agreement regarding the child maintenance to be paid, the matter would have to proceed to a formal hearing or trial before a Magistrate.

How does the Maintenance Court hearing or trial work in Klerksdorp?

Essentially, the maintenance court is called upon to make a fair ruling regarding what is a fair amount of child support that needs to be paid. For that to happen, the parents would have to give evidence in that regard. The mother would present to the court what the child costs, what she contributes and what she requires the other parent to pay. The Father would have a right to question the mother and to present evidence as to why he cannot afford the amount requested or why he feels it is an unfair amount. The mother can they also question him.

At the end of the day, the Klerksdorp Maintenance Court would be able to properly determine what is a fair and adequate amount of child maintenance to pay after being presented will all relevant information. The Klerksdorp Maintenance Court should play an active role in determining what is a fair amount of child maintenance the father should pay.

The above child maintenance application principles should apply to the following provinces and cities:

Eastern Cape:

Alice, Butterworth, East London, Graaff-Reinet, Grahamstown, King William’s Town, Mthatha

Port Elizabeth, Queenstown, Uitenhage, Zwelitsha

Free State:

Bethlehem. Bloemfontein, Jagersfontein, Kroonstad, Odendaalsrus, Parys, Phuthaditjhaba, Sasolburg, Virginia, Welkom

Gauteng:

Benoni, Boksburg, Brakpan, Carletonville, Germiston, Johannesburg, Krugersdorp, Pretoria, Randburg, Randfontein, Roodepoort, Soweto, Springs, Vanderbijlpark, Vereeniging

KwaZulu-Natal:

Durban, Empangeni, Ladysmith, Newcastle, Pietermaritzburg, Pinetown, Ulundi, Umlazi

Limpopo:

Giyani, Lebowakgomo, Musina, Phalaborwa, Polokwane, Seshego, Sibasa, Thabazimbi

Mpumalanga:

Emalahleni, Nelspruit, Secunda, North West, Klerksdorp, Mahikeng, Mmabatho, Potchefstroom, Rustenburg, Northern Cape, Kimberley, Kuruman, Port Nolloth

Western Cape:

Bellville, Klerksdorp, Constantia, George, Hopefield, Oudtshoorn, Paarl, Simon’s Town, Stellenbosch, Swellendam, Worcester

 

 

 

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Child custody appeals from the Children’s Court to the High Court of South Africa

This article deals with an appeal from the Children’s Court to the High Court. I’ve never been one to complain of my legal situation. The father of my daughter, and I have always had a cordial relationship. Until recently, the father of my minor child paid child support, and he would have contact with her regularly. However, what the father has done recently was approach the children’s court and make false allegations that I have been refusing him contact with his minor daughter. This was not to be done, and I could not allow him to continue lying to the court.

Our past relationship before approaching the Children’s Court

To give some context, the father of my minor child and I met 12 years ago. Soon after, I fell pregnant, and my minor child was born. The father was not involved much in the minor child’s life until soon after she was born. He only met the minor child for the first time when she was about seven months old. He saw her at least once a year until she started attending school. At this time, I approached him for child maintenance because he had not been paying adequate child maintenance for the minor child.

Approaching the Maintenance Court and the Children’s Court

We then approached the maintenance court, and the maintenance court ordered that he pay half the minor child’s school fees, place her on his medical aid, and pay a cash contribution towards her daily expenditure. At the same time, we also approached the children’s court, which assisted us in drafting a parenting plan. The father would see the minor child every second weekend from a Friday until late Sunday as well as one evening in the week. We would also share half the school holidays as well as special days. This would include the minor child‘s birthday, Father’s Day, Mother’s Day, and so on.

Father wanting every weekend with teh minor child

All went well regarding visitation until about a year ago. The father said I am limited his contact regarding the minor child. He wanted to have her on weekends with her as well. Me not agreeing to is, according to him, is refusing him contact. I told him that I also need time with the minor child on weekends. I already care for the child during the week. I attend to her homework and all her needs. At least two weekends a month, I require time to go out with her, take her to the beach, maybe watch a movie, and have some fun time together.

Father approaches the Children’s Court for a variation of the Parenting Plan

It is unfair that he should have the minor child every weekend and not take care of her during the week. Furthermore, the care and contact arrangement that is in place was finalised with the children’s court. I was therefore acting in terms of a court order. The father then approached the children’s court, and we had a hearing date. The matter proceeded to the children’s court magistrate, who heard both parties.

Decision of the Children’s Court

At the end of the enquiry, the children’s court made an order that the father may have the minor child in his care for three weekends per month. What the children’s court did not do was ask the minor child what the minor child wanted. Furthermore, it has not appointed a legal representative for the minor child. Lastly, there was no expert recommendation on this matter. For example, the children’s court did not appoint the office of all the family advocates, or are you a social worker to investigate this matter?

Appealing to the High Court regarding the Children’s Court decision

They failed to consider various factors and assistance from other parties that would assist the court in determining the minor child’s best interest. I then sought the assistance of an attorney, who advised me that I would need to appeal the children’s court’s decision. We then requested reasons for the children’s court decision. In short, the children’s court magistrate was of the view that the minor child does not need to spend so much time with me on the weekend, seeing that I am already caring for her during the week.

High Court dealing with the Appeal from the Children’s Court

The matter then proceeded to the High Court. The High Court took issue with the fact that the children’s court had not consulted with the minor child, has not obtained the assistance of the office of all the family advocates or a social worker, nor has the children’s court appointed a legal representative to the minor child to determine what the minor child’s view and wishes are. The High Court ordered that the care and contact arrangement that was in place should remain.

Possitive outcome of the Appeal to the High Court

I was thrilled that I took the matter to the High Court and appealed the children’s court decision. Had I not decided to take the magistrate to the children’s court on appeal, the father of the minor child would’ve had three weekends a month with the minor child and me only one. This, I believe, would have been unfair.

Assistance with an Appeal to the High Court, Supreme Court of Appeal or the Constitutional Court

Should you require assistance with an Appeal to the High Court, Supreme Court of Appeal or the Constitutional Court, feel free to connect with the firm of Adv. Muhammad Abduroaf.    

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Best Advice: The Importance of Having a Skilled Criminal Trust Account Advocate – Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf

It is possible to obtain the services of an advocate directly. In other words, not via an attorney. That is the case should you make use of a Trust account advocate. If you want to use a referral advocate, you must go via an attorney. This article deals with a trust account advocate who provides legal services for criminal law. In criminal law, having a competent and experienced criminal trust account advocate by your side can be the difference between a favourable outcome and devastating consequences. Criminal charges can have life-altering implications, including imprisonment, hefty fines, and a permanent criminal record. Therefore, it is imperative to understand why securing the services of a highly skilled criminal trust account advocate is essential.

Expertise in the Legal System

A criminal trust account advocate possesses the specialised knowledge necessary to navigate the complexities of the legal system. Criminal law is multifaceted and constantly evolving, with various rules and regulations that can be challenging to interpret for someone without legal training. A seasoned trust account advocate will be familiar with the law and can leverage this knowledge to build a strong defence.

Protection of Rights

One of the most important roles of a criminal trust account advocate is to protect your rights throughout the legal process. From the moment you are arrested, you have legal rights that must be upheld. A skilled trust account advocate will ensure that law enforcement, police and the prosecution do not violate these rights, potentially leading to the dismissal of evidence or even charges.

Case Strategy Development

A good criminal trust account advocate analyses the details of your case, including evidence, witness statements, and procedural aspects, to develop an effective defence strategy tailored to your situation. They can identify potential weaknesses in the prosecution’s case, negotiate plea deals, or prepare for trial if necessary. This strategic planning is critical in achieving the best possible outcome.

Negotiation Skills of the Trust Account Advocate

Many cases are resolved through negotiation rather than going to trial. A proficient criminal trust account advocate will have strong negotiation skills to secure favourable plea deals or reduced charges. Their experience in dealing with prosecutors allows them to trust account advocate effectively on your behalf and seek the best possible resolution to your case.

Emotional Support

Facing criminal charges can be incredibly stressful and emotionally draining. A good trust account advocate provides legal representation and emotional support during this challenging time. They can explain the legal process, answer your questions, and keep you informed, helping to alleviate some of the anxiety associated with the situation.

Trial Experience of the Trust Account Advocate

If your case goes to trial, having a trust account advocate with trial experience is invaluable. They understand courtroom procedures, evidence rules, and strategies to persuade a judge or magistrate. Their ability to present your case compellingly can significantly influence the outcome.

What to Look for in a Good Criminal Law Trust Account Advocate

Selecting the right criminal law trust account advocate is a critical decision that can significantly impact your case. Here are some key factors to consider when searching for a good trust account advocate:

Experience and Specialisation

The first factor to consider is the experience of the trust account advocate. Look for someone specialising in criminal law and with a proven track record in handling similar cases. Inquire about their prior cases, outcomes, and overall success rate. Trust account advocates with specific experience in your type of case (e.g., DUI, drug offences, theft or fraud, violent crimes) will have a deeper understanding of the nuances involved.

Reputation of the Trust Account Advocate

Research the reputation of potential trust account advocates within the legal community. Word of mouth, online reviews, and testimonials can provide insight into an advocate’s credibility and effectiveness. A good reputation often reflects an advocate’s dedication to clients and ability to achieve positive outcomes.

Communication Skills of the Trust Account Advocate

Effective communication is essential in a lawyer-client relationship. Your trust account advocate should be able to explain legal concepts in a way you can understand while also being a good listener. They should take the time to address your concerns, provide updates on your case, and ensure you feel informed and empowered throughout the process.

Availability of the Trust Account Advocate

Assess the trust account advocate’s availability and willingness to dedicate time to your case. A high caseload may mean less personalised attention. Choose someone willing to invest the necessary time and effort into building your defence.

Fees and Costs of the Trust Account Advocate

Understanding the trust account advocate’s fee structure is critical. Some charge flat fees, while others bill by the hour. Be sure to discuss costs upfront to avoid surprises later. Additionally, consider a trust account advocate’s willingness to provide a clear breakdown of services included in their fees.

Trial Preparation

If your case is headed for trial, it’s essential to have a trust account advocate who is well-prepared and has a clear trial strategy. Inquire about their track record, experience in the courtroom, and how they plan to approach your case if it goes to trial.

Personal Rapport of the Trust Account Advocate

Finally, it’s essential to choose a trust account advocate with whom you feel comfortable. Building a trusting relationship is vital, as you must share personal information and rely on their guidance. Meet with potential trust account advocates to gauge your comfort level and ensure they are someone you can work with collaboratively.

Conclusion

In conclusion, having a good criminal trust account advocate cannot be overstated. Their expertise, knowledge, and dedication to protecting your rights can profoundly impact the outcomes of your case. When searching for a criminal law trust account advocate, consider their experience, reputation, communication skills, and more. Taking the time to find the right trust account advocate will provide you with peace of mind, knowing that your legal representation is in capable hands. This decision is one of the most important steps you can take in navigating the complexities of criminal law and achieving the best possible outcome for your case.  

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