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IN THE HIGH COURT OF SOUTH AFRICA (WESTERN CAPE DIVISION, CAPE TOWN) CASE NO: /20__ In the matter between: JOHN LAWYER (Plaintiff) and JANE LAWYER (Defendant) __________________________________ TO THE SHERIFF/DEPUTY: INFORM JANE LAWYER, an adult female employed as a lawyer (hereinafter referred to as the Defendant) whose home and work address is 1 Lawyer Road, Cape Town, Western Cape THAT JOHN LAWYER, an adult male, employed as a lawyer (hereinafter referred to as the Plaintiff) whose home and work address is 2 Lawyer Road, Cape Town, Western Cape, hereby institutes action against him/her in which action the Plaintiff claims the relief on the grounds set out in the Particulars of Claim annexed hereto; INFORM the Defendant further that if he/she disputes the claim and wishes to defend the action he/she shall:-

within 10 (TEN) days of the service upon him/her of this summons file with the Registrar of this Court a notice of his/her intention to defend and serve a copy thereof on the Plaintiff’s Attorneys, which notice shall give an address referred to in rule 19(3) for the service upon the Defendant of all notices and pleadings in the action;
thereafter and within 20 (TWENTY) Court days after filing and serving the notice of intention to defend as aforesaid, file with the Registrar and serve upon the Plaintiff’s Attorneys a plea or exception with or without a claim in reconvention;

INFORM the Defendant further that if he/she fails to file and serve notice as aforesaid judgment as claimed may be given against him/her without further notice to him/her or if, having filed and served such notice, he/she fails to plead, except, or to counterclaim, judgment may be given against him/her; INFORM the Defendant also that if he/she does not intend to defend the action, he/she may give written notice to that effect to the Plaintiff’s Attorneys and the Registrar and the action may then, at the written request of the Plaintiff’s Attorneys, be forthwith set down by the Registrar for hearing; And immediately thereafter serve on the Defendant a copy of this Summons and return the same to the Registrar with whatever you have done thereupon. DATED AT CAPE TOWN THIS DAY OF 202__. ……………………………………………………………… REGISTRAR OF THE HIGH COURT JOHN LAWYER _____________________ Per.: John Lawyer (Plaintiff in person) 2 Lawyer Road Cape Town, 8001 Email: [email protected] Tel: 021 000000 To: THE HONOURABLE REGISTRAR OF THE WESTERN CAPE HIGH COURT HIGH COURT CAPE TOWN And to: JANE LAWYER (Defendant) 2 Lawyer Road CAPE TOWN ____________________O0O___________________

PLAINTIFF’S PARTICULARS OF CLAIM

The Plaintiff and the Defendant are as described on the face of the Summons.
The Defendant and the Plaintiff are domiciled within the area of jurisdiction of this Honourable Court.
On 01 January 20___, at Cape Town, Western Cape, the Parties were married to each other In Community of Property and Profit or loss. The marriage still so subsists.
Kindly find attached a copy of their marriage certificate marked “A”.
There are no minor children born from the marriage.
Plaintiff avers that by virtue of the following facts and circumstances the marriage relationship between the Parties has broken down irretrievably and that there is no reasonable prospect for the restoration thereof in that:
- There is no love and affection; and
- The Plaintiff no longer wish to be married to the Defendant.

WHEREFORE PLAINTIFF PRAYS FOR:

A Decree of Divorce;
Equal Division of the Joint Estate;
Costs, only in the event this action is defended; and
Further and / or alternative relief.

DATE AT CAPE TOWN ON THIS ____ DAY OF _________ 2021. I AM MY OWN LAYWYER _____________________ Per.: John Lawyer (Plaintiff in person) 2 Lawyer Road Cape Town, 8001 Email: [email protected] Tel: 021 000000 To: THE HONOURABLE REGISTRAR OF THE WESTERN CAPE HIGH COURT HIGH COURT CAPE TOWN And to: JANE LAWYER (Defendant) 2 Lawyer Road CAPE TOWN _____________________O0O___________________ Best Divorce Lawyer Cape Town Western Cape - Summons and Particulars of Claim

Posted on 11 February 2025 by Telelaw

COMBINED SUMMONS

IN THE HIGH COURT OF SOUTH AFRICA

(WESTERN CAPE DIVISION, CAPE TOWN)

CASE NO: /20__

In the matter between:

JOHN LAWYER (Plaintiff)

and

JANE LAWYER (Defendant)

__________________________________

TO THE SHERIFF/DEPUTY:

INFORM

JANE LAWYER, an adult female employed as a lawyer (hereinafter referred to as the Defendant) whose home and work address is 1 Lawyer Road, Cape Town, Western Cape

THAT

JOHN LAWYER, an adult male, employed as a lawyer (hereinafter referred to as the Plaintiff) whose home and work address is 2 Lawyer Road, Cape Town, Western Cape, hereby institutes action against him/her in which action the Plaintiff claims the relief on the grounds set out in the Particulars of Claim annexed hereto;

INFORM the Defendant further that if he/she disputes the claim and wishes to defend the action he/she shall:-

within 10 (TEN) days of the service upon him/her of this summons file with the Registrar of this Court a notice of his/her intention to defend and serve a copy thereof on the Plaintiff’s Attorneys, which notice shall give an address referred to in rule 19(3) for the service upon the Defendant of all notices and pleadings in the action;
thereafter and within 20 (TWENTY) Court days after filing and serving the notice of intention to defend as aforesaid, file with the Registrar and serve upon the Plaintiff’s Attorneys a plea or exception with or without a claim in reconvention;

INFORM the Defendant also that if he/she does not intend to defend the action, he/she may give written notice to that effect to the Plaintiff’s Attorneys and the Registrar and the action may then, at the written request of the Plaintiff’s Attorneys, be forthwith set down by the Registrar for hearing;

And immediately thereafter serve on the Defendant a copy of this Summons and return the same to the Registrar with whatever you have done thereupon.

DATED AT CAPE TOWN THIS DAY OF 202__.

………………………………………………………………

REGISTRAR OF THE HIGH COURT

JOHN LAWYER

_____________________

Per.: John Lawyer

(Plaintiff in person)

2 Lawyer Road

Cape Town, 8001

Email: [email protected]

Tel: 021 000000

To: THE HONOURABLE REGISTRAR OF THE WESTERN CAPE HIGH COURT

HIGH COURT

CAPE TOWN

And to: JANE LAWYER

(Defendant)

2 Lawyer Road

CAPE TOWN

____________________O0O___________________

PLAINTIFF’S PARTICULARS OF CLAIM

The Plaintiff and the Defendant are as described on the face of the Summons.
The Defendant and the Plaintiff are domiciled within the area of jurisdiction of this Honourable Court.
On 01 January 20___, at Cape Town, Western Cape, the Parties were married to each other In Community of Property and Profit or loss. The marriage still so subsists.
Kindly find attached a copy of their marriage certificate marked “A”.
There are no minor children born from the marriage.
Plaintiff avers that by virtue of the following facts and circumstances the marriage relationship between the Parties has broken down irretrievably and that there is no reasonable prospect for the restoration thereof in that:
- There is no love and affection; and
- The Plaintiff no longer wish to be married to the Defendant.

WHEREFORE PLAINTIFF PRAYS FOR:

A Decree of Divorce;
Equal Division of the Joint Estate;
Costs, only in the event this action is defended; and
Further and / or alternative relief.

DATE AT CAPE TOWN ON THIS ____ DAY OF _________ 2021.

I AM MY OWN LAYWYER

_____________________

Per.: John Lawyer

(Plaintiff in person)

2 Lawyer Road

Cape Town, 8001

Email: [email protected]

Tel: 021 000000

To: THE HONOURABLE REGISTRAR OF THE WESTERN CAPE HIGH COURT

HIGH COURT

CAPE TOWN

And to: JANE LAWYER

(Defendant)

2 Lawyer Road

CAPE TOWN

_____________________O0O___________________

Best Divorce Lawyer Cape Town Western Cape - Summons and Particulars of Claim

Parents with Mental illnesses in child custody and care matters in South Africa
Biological parents are the ones who have parental responsibilities and rights over their children. Not grandparents, aunts, uncles and so on. Parental responsibilities and rights refer to caring, maintaining and acting as guardian for the child, to mention a few. Mothers automatically have parental responsibilities and rights of care, contact and guardianship, and fathers may either have it or acquire it. This depends on the facts of the case. The obligation to maintain your child however always applies.

Various factors are looked at when deciding what is best for a child

Having said the above, how parents exercise their parental responsibilities and rights would differ from case to case, especially if the parents are not living together. In such a case, various factors and circumstances will be looked at in determining what is best for the child. As would be seen later, in the case of a dispute in relation to how separated and divorced parents should exercise care and contact, expert advice needs to be considered. What this article deals with is how to resolve the issue of parental responsibilities and rights of care and contact when it comes to a parent having a mental illness or disease.

The child’s best interests in all matters concerning a child

We all want what is best for our children. That includes for them being cared for in the best possible way, either by you as a parent, or the other parent if that is best. Having parents who are mentally sound as caregivers are, therefore, an important aspect when it comes to raising a child. Logical and rational caring would take place under the circumstances. Parents would, therefore, communicate in a sensible way with the goal of caring for the child in the best possible way.

Mental illness in a parenting situation

If a couple lives together, and one of them has a mental illness, the other parent would be in a good position to care for the children and the other ill parent. However, problems arise when the parents are separated or no longer living together. The question is what happens to the child if one of the parents are mentally ill or have a mental disease or disorder? It must be stated that not all mental illnesses and diseases warrant consideration when it comes to the issue of care and contact in relation to minor children. If the mental illness or disease is adequately treated through medication and therapy, then it may not be a factor when it comes to parent’s parental responsibilities and rights of care and contact.

Types of mental illnesses and disorders

There are various types of mental illness and diseases. Some of the main groups of mental disorders are:

mood disorders (such as depression or bipolar disorder)
anxiety disorders
personality disorders
psychotic disorders (such as schizophrenia)
eating disorders
trauma-related disorders (such as post-traumatic stress disorder)
substance abuse disorders

Examples of signs and symptoms include:

Feeling sad or down
Confused thinking or reduced ability to concentrate
Excessive fears or worries, or extreme feelings of guilt
Extreme mood changes of highs and lows
Withdrawal from friends and activities
Significant tiredness, low energy or problems sleeping
Detachment from reality (delusions), paranoia or hallucinations
Inability to cope with daily problems or stress
Trouble understanding and relating to situations and to people
Problems with alcohol or drug use
Major changes in eating habits
Sex drive changes
Excessive anger, hostility or violence
Suicidal thinking

If any of the above-mentioned mental disorders and symptoms thereof would detrimentally affect a parent’s capability to care for a child; then it needs to be considered in a child custody matter. It could, therefore, happen that one parent who had custody over a child, loses it, due to developing or acquiring a mental illness.

How mental illness and diseases may manifest itself in child care and parenting situation

It may be that people with mental illnesses live normal lives as single individuals without any children. They would go to work, partake in sport, and socialize as any other person would. However, when children come into the picture, their mental illness could cause the following to occur:

The minor children are not cared for due to one parent having an obsessive-compulsive disorder of always washing his or her hands. They are therefore not fed on time, bathed nor care for properly;
A parent is violent and abusive towards the children. He may get angry very fast and act violently;
The parent is on strong medication which causes the parent to want to sleep all the time. The minor children are therefore not cared for at all and left to their own devices;
The parent lost all form of rationality and makes illogical decisions when it comes to the minor children, placing them in danger. For example, the parent may decide to take the minor children to walk with him or her to the shop late at night when it is dangerous to do so; and
The parent may suffer from hallucinations and live in a fantasy world. He or she may be guided on how to parent the minor children from “spirits” who visits and communicates with her.

Diagnoses of mental illness in a parent

It often happens that before a couple has a child, there are no apparent signs of mental illness. It may even happen that the parents of one of the parties knows of some underlying mental illness, but does not want to disclose it to the new person in their child’s life. In other cases, it is well known to all that there is a diagnosis of mental illness which is under control through medication, therapy and so on. And then there is the case where the person with the apparent mental illness does not want to seek any help or is in denial.

What happens after the child is born where one parent has a mental illness?

We are not medical doctors, psychologists, nor psychiatrists. However, in our experience, we noticed, in many of the cases we dealt with, that once a couple has a child, the mother’s medical illness surfaces, or becomes worse. The same may apply to the father. This observation could be because those types of matters make it to our office and should therefore not be a general assumption. However, be that as it may, if one parent has a medical illness that could affect her parenting skills, that needs to be looked at. This is so, even though it is not the parent’s fault that he or she has a mental illness. Now the best-case scenario would be for both parents to remain together if one has a mental disorder when there is a child involved. In that way, the child would be raised with both parents in his or her life and they can work as a team. Depending on the symptoms of the medical disorder, the family can live a balanced and fruitful life.

What happens to the child if the parents separate or divorces?

This is where the issues arise. Should the parents’ divorce or separate, the parties would have to decide who is best suited to care for the minor child or children. If the parent with the mental disorder was the primary caregiver of the minor child since birth, it would be hard to consider a change in primary caregiving. The parent with the mental illness may feel that it would be best that he or she care for the child, despite his or her mental condition. This is where things become very complicated and challenging. On the one hand, you have a parent who always cared for the child, but now has a mental illness, and want to retain primary care. On the other hand, you have a parent who was never the primary caregiver but now wants primary care due to the other parent’s mental condition.

Factors to be considered by the court and experts

Various factors come into play. For example, the age of the children, in whose home they will be living in, and also the mental condition itself. For example, if the child is 16 years old, and the mother has a serious mental illness, for the past 10 years, it would make little sense to change the primary residence of the minor child on that factor alone. By now the child would have learned to care for himself with the assistance the mother provided under the circumstances. On the other hand, if the child is 6 years old, and the mother cannot even take care of herself, then under those circumstances, it may be a good idea if the father primarily cares for the child after separation.

How does one resolve the issue of primary care if one of the parents have a mental condition?

Seeing that the condition is a medical one, mental health care experts need to get on board. An assessment would have to be made as to whether or not the child can be cared for by the relevant parent notwithstanding his or her mental condition. If there is no documentary proof, and such is required for court; the problem that one may encounter is that of doctor-patient confidentiality. This may not always be the case. But especially so if the parents were not married or living together. Usually, medical aid statements would give a timeline of the condition and its treatment. This would apply if the parent with the condition is on the other parent’s medical aid. If the medical practitioner is willing to give a report on the patient’s medical condition, and the inability to care for the minor child; things should be easier to resolve. However, if no such report or diagnosis is forthcoming, then things would be a bit more challenging. Either way, even if you have the report confirming the medical condition, and the issue is not resolved, then the court needs to be approached.

Approaching the court in a child custody matter where one parent has a mental illness

Not all cases of mental illness warrant a child being removed from the care of the primary caregiver. Each case is different and it depends on the facts of each one. However, should the mother had primary care, and she refuses to have the minor child reside with the father due to her mental condition, the court, unfortunately, have to be approached. If the father, in this case, has proof that the mother is mentally unsound and unable to care for the minor child, then the court would have to consider such evidence. This could be a report from the treating doctor or some medical records. The court may however not be in a position to decide how contact and care arrangements should be exercised. For this, the court may want the Office of the Family Advocate or a private social worker or psychologist to conduct an investigation and provide a report in the matter. Once the court has the expert report and heard from both parents concerned, would the court be in a favourable position to rule on what is best for the minor child? It does not mean that because the mother has a mental illness that she should not remain the primary caregiver. As outlined above, various factors would need to be considered. Especially the impact the mental illness would have on her caring ability towards the minor child.

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Posted on 11 February 2025 by Telelaw

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