Legal Problems South Africa – Explanations – Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf 

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Legal Problems South Africa – Explanations – Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf 

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Most family law matters come with heightened emotions and stress. It, however, does not always have to be that way. Staying focused and rational is important to get the best results.

Many legal practitioners will tell you, the one aspect of family law, that differentiates it from other branches of law, is the emotions that come with it. It would often happen that a client breaks down, or sheds a tear in your office. This is understandable, as family law issues have a lot of history behind it. Even simpler family law legal matters, for example, the terms of an antenuptial contract, can stir emotion.

Types of family law matters that cause heightened emotions and anxiety

Before we delve into this topic, let us first bring things into perspective. These are some of the family law matters we are referring to:
  • Divorces (Contested or Undefended);
  • Domestic Violence matters;
  • Child maintenance disputes; and
  • Child custody disputes.
The actual list is more extensive. You may even want to consider including last wills and testaments and winding up of deceased estates. As can be seen from the types of matters mentioned, there are always children involved or personal relationships. Some of these relationships have lasted for decades. We often see people who were married for more than 30 years, getting divorced. And in other cases, the relationship, albeit personal, could have been for a very short while, but still, elicit a lot of emotions. For example, a domestic violence family legal matter.

The personal nature of family matters makes it harder to deal with

One of the challenges for a legal practitioner is to try to convince the client that he or she should trust the law, and not focus too much on the other party. For example, in a divorce matter, where a spouse has been abused. The abused spouse would sometimes agree to sign away everything just to get divorced speedily. This is not only unfair but could lead to many issues in the future. This situation must be avoided at all costs.

Intimidation in abusive relationships

Then we have the challenge in a domestic violence matter. A party who has been abused would agree on withdrawing an application for a protection order, even though it is dangerous to do so. Or there is the situation where a party would agree that a protection order is issued against them due to being intimidated either by the other party, or his or her lawyer. This they do not do because of having committed domestic violence, but just to get the matter over and done with. The consequence of that is the applying party would have an interdict and a warrant of arrest against you which may be abused.

Intimidation in child maintenance or alimony cases

We cannot count the number of times we have been told that the reason why a parent does not want to approach the maintenance court, is due to being told by the other parent that he or she will get much less than what they are receiving. This is emotional abuse and not in the child’s best interest. One reason for believing the abuser is due to the relationship the parties had. The abuser was controlling and abusive during the relationship, and the victim has been brainwashed into believing everything the abuser says.

What people must understand in family legal matters?

Although it is understandable for someone to be anxious when dealing with family law related matters, it is important to note that issues need to be dealt with properly. If your spouse was abusive during your relationship, that does not mean it has to continue after your relationship ended. There are laws in place to protect people from abuse and violence. For example, the Domestic Violence Act. If you make use of the law, you would have a better chance of getting the legal results you want. Go to the Police if necessary.

Final words to people who are intimidated by, or is afraid of the other party

Although it is easier said than done, we implore people not to be bullied when it comes to family law matters. This includes being intimidated by the other party, or his or her lawyer. If you have rights; enforce them. Believe in yourself and your cause and others will learn to respect it. Many cases are won by unrepresented litigants who were up against a team of lawyers. Moreover, no one has the right to belittle you or deny you of your rights. Take a stand and fight for what is right. We are certain that you found the above article useful and interesting. Please consider sharing it on the share buttons below. They include Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, Gmail and more. Someone may find it useful as well. Should you require business advice or services, feel free to click on these links: Business SA | Private Legal | Envirolaws    
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Draft you own Divorce Summons and Particulars of Claim, Western Cape High Court, Cape Town

In South Africa, a court of law would be approached to divorce a couple if the marriage broke down irretrievably. In other words, the marriage cannot be saved. Once a decree of divorce is granted, then spouses are immediately allowed to remarry and move on with their lives.  This is what is hoped and expected. There are however factors that may keep spouses connected post-divorce. This could vary from couple to couple.

Connecting former spouses post-divorce

If there are minor children born from the marriage, then the parties may have to deal with each other in relation to child maintenance, and visitation after the divorce. If it is ordered or agreed upon prior to the divorce, that one spouse should pay personal maintenance to the other spouse, or alimony, then on that basis the parties may have to continue dealing with each other after the divorce.

The divorce process in South Africa

Many spouses contemplate getting divorced. However, do not know what procedures need to be followed. Only courts of law in South Africa can divorced couples. And not every court is authorised to do so. For examples, the criminal courts or tax courts will not be able to divorce a couple. The High Courts and the family courts would be able to divorce a couple. The entire legal process starts with the issuing of a summons out of the relevant court.

Issuing of a Summons from the divorce court

A summons is a legal document that needs to be drafted. The summons will be issued out of the court that has jurisdiction to attend to the divorce. Usually, it would be the court that deals with divorces where one of the parties resides in.   The registrar of the court would sign and stamp the summons and provide a case number. Basically, a court file is opened.

Particulars of claim

Attached to the summons would be a Particulates of Claim. This document basically outlines certain relevant information to the divorce court. For example, when the parties were married and details of minor children if any and the reasons for the breakdown of the marriage. The other party and the court would, therefore, know what issues they are going to deal with. Below you will find an example of a Particulars of Claim. You will also find an online form which you can complete to assist you in starting that divorce process.

Example of information in a Particulars of Claim

1. The Plaintiff and the Defendant are as described on the face on the summons. 2. The Defendant and/or Plaintiff are domiciled within the area of jurisdiction of this Honourable Court. 3. On 01 January 2000, at Cape Town, Western Cape, the parties were married In Community of Property, and the marriage still so subsists. Kindly find attached a copy of the marriage certificate marked “A”. 4. Plaintiff avers that by virtue of the following facts and circumstances the marriage relationship between the parties has broken down irretrievably and that there is no reasonable prospect for the restoration thereof in that: 4.1 There is no love and affection and meaningful communication between the parties; and 4.2 The Parties do not wish to live as husband and wife.

WHEREFORE PLAINTIFF PRAYS FOR:

A. A Decree of Divorce; B. Equal division of the Joint Estate; C. Costs, only in the event this action is defended; and D. Further and / or alternative relief. DATED AT SIGNED AT CAPE TOWN THIS___DAY OF __________________2020.   ______________________ Per: JOHN WILLIAMS (Plaintiff in Person) 4 Green Street, Greenland, WESTERN CAPE TO: THE REGISTRAR HIGH COURT CAPE TOWN AND TO: JANE WILLIAMS 1 Apple Street, Apple Town, WESTERN CAPE

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