Divorces in South Africa – A simple guide to understanding how the legal system on divorces works

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I want to relocate from South Africa to the United Kingdom with my minor child. The other parent does not want my child to relocate to the United Kingdom. What can I do?

The United Kingdom is a popular destination to emigrate to. People emigrate from South Africa for many reasons. It ranges from better employment opportunities, family relations, or for a better standard of living. Whatever the reason a parent wants to relocate to the United Kingdom, if a minor child will be joining that parent and also relocating to the United Kingdom, then the parent remaining in South Africa’s consent would usually be required. Let us unpack the legal issues a parent may encounter when wanting to emigrate to the United Kingdom. Before we do so, let us list the various cities and towns in the United Kingdom to which you may want to relocate: England, Bath and North East Somerset (unitary authority), Bedford (unitary authority), Bedford (city), Blackburn with Darwen (unitary authority), Blackpool (town and unitary authority), Bournemouth (town and unitary authority), Bracknell Forest (unitary authority), Sandhurst (town), Brighton and Hove (unitary authority), Brighton (town and urban area), Hove (town and urban area), Bristol (city and unitary authority), Buckinghamshire (county), Aylesbury Vale (district), Aylesbury (town), Chiltern (district), Amersham (town), Chalfont St. Giles (town), South Bucks (district), Beaconsfield (town), Stoke Poges (town), Wycombe (district), High Wycombe (town and urban area), Marlow (town), Cambridgeshire (county), East Cambridgeshire (district), Ely (town), Fenland (district), Wisbech (town), Huntingdonshire (district), Huntingdon (town), Ramsey (town), St. Ives (town), South Cambridgeshire (district), Cambridge (city and district), Central Bedfordshire (unitary authority), Ampthill (town), Dunstable (town), Cheshire East (unitary authority), Congleton (town), Crewe (town), Knutsford (town), Macclesfield (town), Nantwich (town), Cheshire West and Chester (unitary authority), Chester (urban area), Northwich (town), Cornwall (unitary authority), Bodmin (town), Falmouth (town), Fowey (town), Helston (town), Launceston (town), Looe (town), Lostwithiel (town), Newquay (town), Penryn (town), Penzance (town), St. Austell (town), Saltash (town), Tintagel (village), Truro (city), Cumbria (county), Allerdale (district), Cockermouth (town), Keswick (town), Workington (town), Barrow-in-Furness (town and district), Carlisle (urban area, city and district), Copeland (district), Whitehaven (town), Eden (district), Penrith (town), South Lakeland (district), Grasmere (village), Kendal (town), Darlington (town and unitary authority), Derby (city and unitary authority), Derbyshire (county), Amber Valley (district), Belper (town), Bolsover (town and district), Chesterfield (town and district), Derbyshire Dales (district), Ashbourne (town), Matlock (town), Erewash (district), High Peak (district), Buxton, North East Derbyshire (district), South Derbyshire (district), Repton (village), Devon (county), East Devon (district), Axminster (town), Exmouth (town), Sidmouth (town), Exeter (city and district), Mid Devon (district), Crediton (town), North Devon (district), Barnstaple (town), Lynton and Lynmouth (town), South Hams (district), Dartmouth (town), Totnes (town), Teignbridge (district), Ashburton (town), Dawlish (town), Newton Abbot (town), Teignmouth (town), Torridge (district), Bideford (town), West Devon (district), Okehampton (town), Dorset (county), Christchurch (town and district), East Dorset (district), Wimborne Minster (town), North Dorset (district), Purbeck (district), Corfe Castle (village), West Dorset (district), Dorchester (town), Lyme Regis (town), Weymouth and Portland (district), Durham (unitary authority), Barnard Castle (town), Chester-le-Street (town), Durham (urban area), East Riding of Yorkshire (unitary authority), Beverley (town), Goole (town), East Sussex (county), Eastbourne (district), Hastings (district), Lewes (district), Lewes (town), Newhaven (town), Rother (district), Battle (town), Bexhill (town), Rye (town), Winchelsea (village), Wealden (district), Crowborough (town), Herstmonceux (village), Pevensey (village), Essex (county), Basildon (district), Braintree (town and district), Brentwood (town and district), Castle Point (district), Chelmsford (town and district), Colchester (town and district), Epping Forest (district), Chigwell (town), Harlow (town and district), Maldon (town and district), Burnham-on-Crouch (town), Rochford (district), Tendring (district), Harwich (town), Uttlesford (district), Saffron Walden (town), Gloucestershire (county), Cheltenham (town and district), Cotswold (district), Cirencester (town), Forest of Dean (district), Gloucester (city and district), Stroud (town and district), Tewkesbury (district), Tewkesbury (town), Winchcombe (village), Greater London (metropolitan county; See also London), Inner London, Camden (borough), Bloomsbury (neighbourhood), City of London (borough), Smithfield (area), City of Westminster (borough), Charing Cross (locality), St. Marylebone (neighbourhood), Soho (neighbourhood), Hackney (borough), Hammersmith and Fulham (borough), Haringey (borough), Islington (borough), Clerkenwell (neighbourhood), Kensington and Chelsea (borough), Lambeth (borough), Vauxhall (neighbourhood), Lewisham (borough), Newham (borough), Southwark (borough), Dulwich (neighbourhood), Tower Hamlets (borough), Limehouse (neighbourhood), Wandsworth (borough), Battersea (neighbourhood), Outer London, Barking and Dagenham (borough), Barnet (borough), Bexley (borough), Brent (borough), Bromley (borough), Croydon (borough), Ealing (borough), Enfield (borough), Greenwich (borough), Woolwich (town), Harrow (borough), Havering (borough), Hillingdon (borough), Hounslow (borough), Kingston upon Thames (borough), Merton (borough), Wimbledon (neighbourhood), Redbridge (borough), Richmond upon Thames (borough), Teddington (neighbourhood), Sutton (borough), Waltham Forest (borough), Greater Manchester (metropolitan county), Bolton (town and metropolitan borough), Bury (town and metropolitan borough), Manchester (city and metropolitan borough), Oldham (urban area and metropolitan borough), Rochdale (town and metropolitan borough), Salford (city and metropolitan borough), Stockport (urban area and metropolitan borough), Tameside (metropolitan borough), Trafford (metropolitan borough), Wigan (town and metropolitan borough), Atherton (town and urban area), Halton (unitary authority), Runcorn (town), Widnes (town), Hampshire (county), Basingstoke and Deane (district), Silchester (village), East Hampshire (district), Alton (town), Eastleigh (town and district), Fareham (town and district), Gosport (town and district), Hart (district), Havant (town and district), New Forest (district), Rushmoor (district), Test Valley (district), Andover (town), Romsey (town), Winchester (town and district), Hartlepool (town and unitary authority), Herefordshire (unitary authority), Hereford (city), Leominster (town), Ross-on-Wye (town), Hertfordshire (county), Broxbourne (district), Dacorum (district), Berkhamsted (town), Hemel Hempstead (town and urban area), East Hertfordshire (district), Bishop’s Stortford (town), Hertford (town), Ware (town), Hertsmere (district), North Hertfordshire (district), Letchworth (town), St. Albans (town and district), Stevenage (town and district), Three Rivers (district), Watford (town and district), Welwyn Hatfield (district), Hatfield (town), Welwyn Garden City (town and urban area), Isle of Wight (unitary authority), Carisbrooke (village), Cowes (town), Freshwater (town), Newport (town), Ryde (town), Ventnor (town), Isles of Scilly (independent administrative unit), Hugh Town (village), Kent (county), Ashford (town and district), Canterbury (town and district), Herne Bay (town), Whitstable (town), Dartford (town and district), Dover (district), Deal (town), Dover (town), Sandwich (town), Gravesham (district), Gravesend (town), Maidstone (town and district), Sevenoaks (district), Edenbridge (town), Shepway (district), Folkestone (town), Hythe (town), Lydd (town), New Romney (town), Swale (district), Faversham (town), Thanet (district), Broadstairs and St. Peter’s (town), Margate (town), Ramsgate (town), Tonbridge and Malling (district), Tunbridge Wells (town and district), Royal Tunbridge Wells (town), Kingston upon Hull (city and unitary authority), Lancashire (county), Burnley (town and district), Chorley (town and district), Fylde (district), Hyndburn (district), Lancaster (urban area and district), Pendle (district), Preston (city and district), Walton-le-Dale (neighbourhood), Ribble Valley (district), Rossendale (district), South Ribble (district), West Lancashire (district), Skelmersdale (town), Wyre (district), Leicester (city and unitary authority), Leicestershire (county), Blaby (district), Charnwood (district), Loughborough (town), Harborough (district), Market Harborough (town), Hinckley and Bosworth (district), Melton (district), North West Leicestershire (district), Oadby and Wigston (district), Lincolnshire (county), Boston (town and district), East Lindsey (district), Lincoln (district), North Kesteven (district), South Kesteven (district), Grantham (town), Stamford (town), South Holland (district), Crowland (village), West Lindsey (district), Gainsborough (town), Luton (town and unitary authority), Medway (unitary authority), Chatham (town), Gillingham (town), Rochester (town), Merseyside (metropolitan county), Knowsley (metropolitan borough), Huyton (former town), Liverpool (city and metropolitan borough), St. Helens (urban area and metropolitan borough), Sefton (metropolitan borough), Southport (town), Wirral (metropolitan borough), Birkenhead (town and urban area), Middlesbrough (town and unitary authority), Milton Keynes (town and unitary authority), Norfolk (county), Breckland (district), East Dereham (town), Thetford (town), Broadland (district), Great Yarmouth (town and district), King’s Lynn and West Norfolk (district), Castle Rising (village), King’s Lynn (town), Sandringham (village), North Norfolk (district), Norwich (city and district), South Norfolk (district), North East Lincolnshire (unitary authority), Cleethorpes (town and urban area), Grimsby (town), North Lincolnshire (unitary authority), Scunthorpe (town and urban area), North Somerset (unitary authority), Weston-super-Mare (town), North Yorkshire (county), Craven (district), Hambleton (district), Northallerton (town), Harrogate (town and district), Knaresborough (town), Ripon (city), Richmondshire (district), Richmond (town), Ryedale (district), Malton (town), Scarborough (town and district), Whitby (town), Selby (town and district), Northamptonshire (county), Corby (town and district), Daventry (town and district), East Northamptonshire (district), Oundle (town), Kettering (district), Northampton (town and district), South Northamptonshire (district), Wellingborough (town and district), Northumberland (unitary authority), Bamburgh (village), Bedlington (town), Cramlington (town), Hexham (town), Morpeth (town), Warkworth (village), Nottingham (city and unitary authority), Nottinghamshire (county), Ashfield (district), Bassetlaw (district), Worksop (town), Broxtowe (district), Beeston and Stapleford (urban area), Gedling (district), Mansfield (town and district), Newark and Sherwood (district), Newark-on-Trent (town), Rushcliffe (district), West Bridgford (town), Oxfordshire (county), Cherwell (district), Banbury (town), Bicester (town), Oxford (city and district), South Oxfordshire (district), Henley-on-Thames (town), Vale of White Horse (district), Wantage (town), West Oxfordshire (district), Burford (town), Peterborough (city and unitary authority), Plymouth (city and unitary authority), Poole (town and unitary authority), Portsmouth (city and unitary authority), Reading (town and unitary authority), Redcar and Cleveland (unitary authority), Rutland (unitary authority), Uppingham (town), Shropshire (unitary authority), Bridgnorth (town), Ludlow (town), Much Wenlock (town), Oswestry (town), Shrewsbury (town), Stokesay (village), Slough (town and unitary authority), Somerset (county), Mendip (district), Glastonbury (town), Wells (city), Sedgemoor (district), Bridgwater (town), Cheddar (village), South Somerset (district), Ilchester (town), Langport (town), Taunton Deane (district), Taunton (town), Wellington (town), West Somerset (district), Dunster (town), Minehead (town), South Gloucestershire (unitary authority), Badminton (village), Kingswood (urbanized area), South Yorkshire (metropolitan county), Barnsley (town and metropolitan borough), Doncaster (town and metropolitan borough), Adwick le Street (town), Rotherham (town and metropolitan borough), Sheffield (town, city, and metropolitan borough), Southampton (city and unitary authority), Southend-on-Sea (town and unitary authority), Staffordshire (county), Cannock Chase (district), East Staffordshire (district), Burton upon Trent (town and urban area), Lichfield (city and district), Newcastle-under-Lyme (town and district), South Staffordshire (district), Stafford (town and district), Staffordshire Moorlands (district), Tamworth (district), Stockton-on-Tees (town and unitary authority), Stoke-on-Trent (city and unitary authority), Suffolk (county), Babergh (district), Sudbury (town), Forest Heath (district), Mildenhall (town), Newmarket (town), Ipswich (town and district), Mid Suffolk (district), St. Edmundsbury (district), Bury St. Edmunds (town), Suffolk Coastal (district), Dunwich (village), Felixstowe (town), Woodbridge (town), Waveney (district), Beccles (town), Lowestoft (town), Surrey (county), Elmbridge (district), Epsom and Ewell (district), Guildford (town and district), Mole Valley (district), Dorking (town), Reigate and Banstead (district), Runnymede (district), Spelthorne (district), Staines (town and urban area), Surrey Heath (district), Tandridge (district), Waverley (district), Haslemere (town), Woking (district), Swindon (town and unitary authority), Telford and Wrekin (unitary authority), Telford (town and urban area), Thurrock (town and unitary authority), Tilbury (town), Torbay (unitary authority), Brixham (town), Tyne and Wear (metropolitan county), Gateshead (town and metropolitan borough), Felling (ward), Newcastle upon Tyne (city and metropolitan borough), Newburn (neighbourhood), North Tyneside (metropolitan borough), Wallsend (town), South Tyneside (metropolitan borough), Jarrow (town and urban area), South Shields (town), Sunderland (town and metropolitan borough), Washington (town), Warrington (city and unitary authority), Warwickshire (county), North Warwickshire (district), Nuneaton and Bedworth (district), Bedworth (town), Rugby (town and district), Stratford-on-Avon (district), Warwick (district), Royal Leamington Spa (town), Warwick (town), West Berkshire (unitary authority), Newbury (town), West Midlands (metropolitan county), Birmingham (city and metropolitan borough), Coventry (city and metropolitan borough), Dudley (metropolitan borough), Sandwell (metropolitan borough), West Bromwich (locality), Solihull (metropolitan borough), Walsall (metropolitan borough), Wolverhampton (metropolitan borough), West Sussex (county), Adur (district), Shoreham-by-Sea (town), Arun (district), Arundel (town), Bognor Regis (town), Chichester (district), Petworth (town), Crawley (town and district), Horsham (town and district), Mid Sussex (district), East Grinstead (town), Worthing (district), West Yorkshire (metropolitan county), Bradford (urban area, city, and metropolitan borough), Haworth (town), Keighley (town), Saltaire (village), Calderdale (metropolitan borough), Halifax (town and urban area), Todmorden (town), Kirklees (metropolitan borough), Dewsbury (town), Huddersfield (town and urban area), Leeds (urban area, city, and metropolitan borough), Wakefield (urban area, city, and metropolitan borough), Pontefract (town), Wiltshire (county), Amesbury (town), Bradford-on-Avon (town), Chippenham (town), Cricklade (town), Devizes (town), Malmesbury (town), Marlborough (town), Salisbury (city), Trowbridge (town), Westbury (town), Wilton (town), Windsor and Maidenhead (unitary authority), Ascot (locality), Bray (town), Eton (town), Maidenhead (town), Windsor (town and urban area), Wokingham (town and unitary authority), Worcestershire (county), Bromsgrove (district), Malvern Hills (town and district), Great Malvern (town), Redditch (town and district), Worcester (city and district), Wychavon (district), Broadway (village), Droitwich (town), Evesham (town), Wyre Forest (district), Kidderminster (town), York (city and unitary authority), Northern Ireland, Antrim and Newtownabbey (district), Antrim (town), Newtownabbey (district), Ards and North Down (district), Newtownards (town), Bangor (town), Armagh, Banbridge, and Craigavon (district), Armagh (city), Banbridge (town), Dromore (town), Craigavon (town), Lurgan (town), Belfast (city and district), Stormont (locality), Causeway Coast and Glens (district), Ballycastle (town), Ballymoney (town), Coleraine (town), Portrush (town), Limavady (town), Derry and Strabane (district), Londonderry (city), Strabane (town), Fermanagh and Omagh (district), Enniskillen (town), Omagh (town), Lisburn and Castlereagh (district), Lisburn (town), Mid and East Antrim (district), Ballymena (town), Carrickfergus (town), Larne (town), Mid Ulster (district), Cookstown (town), Dungannon (town), Magherafelt (town), Newry, Mourne, and Down (district), Downpatrick (town), Kilkeel (town), Newcastle (town), Newry (town), Scotland, Aberdeen (city and council area), Aberdeenshire (council area), Banff (town), Braemar (village), Cruden Bay (village), Peterhead (town), St. Fergus (village), Angus (council area), Arbroath (town), Brechin (town), Forfar (town), Glamis (village), Montrose (town), Argyll and Bute (council area), Campbeltown (town), Dunoon (town), Inveraray (town), Lochgilphead (town), Rothesay (town), Tarbert (village), Clackmannanshire (council area), Dumfries and Galloway (council area), Dumfries (town), Gretna Green (village), Kirkcudbright (town), Lochmaben (town), Whithorn (town), Dundee (city and council area), East Ayrshire (council area), Cumnock (town), Kilmarnock (town), Mauchline (village), East Dunbartonshire (council area), Kirkintilloch (town), Milngavie (town), East Lothian (council area), Dunbar (town), Haddington (town), East Renfrewshire (council area), Edinburgh (city and council area), Leith (port), Falkirk (council area), Falkirk (town), Grangemouth (town), Fife (council area), Buckhaven (town), Culross (town), Cupar (town), Dunfermline (city), Glenrothes (town), Kirkcaldy (town), Rosyth (town), St. Andrews (city), Glasgow (city and independent council area), Highland (council area), Alness (village), Cawdor (village), Cromarty (town), Fort William (town), Invergordon (town), Inverness (town), John o’Groats (village), Nigg (village), Thurso (town), Wick (town), Inverclyde (council area), Greenock (town), Midlothian (council area), Dalkeith (town), Moray (council area), Elgin (town), Forres (town), Lossiemouth (town), North Ayrshire (council area), Irvine (town), North Lanarkshire (council area), Coatbridge (town), Cumbernauld (town), Motherwell and Wishaw (urban area), Orkney Islands (council area), Kirkwall (town), Perth and Kinross (council area), Dunkeld (city), Kinross (town), Perth (city), Scone (village), Renfrewshire (council area), Paisley (town), Renfrew (town), Scottish Borders (council area), Coldstream (town), Duns (town), Galashiels (town), Hawick (town), Jedburgh (town), Kelso (town), Melrose (town), Newtown St. Boswells (village), Peebles (town), Selkirk (town), Shetland Islands (council area), Lerwick (town), Sullom Voe (locality), South Ayrshire (council area), Ayr (town), Alloway (suburb), Prestwick (town), South Lanarkshire (council area), East Kilbride (town), Hamilton (town), Lanark (town), Stirling (council area), Balquhidder (village), Bannockburn (town), Callander (town), Stirling (town), West Dunbartonshire (council area), Clydebank (town), Dumbarton (town), West Lothian (council area), Linlithgow (town), Livingston (town), Western Isles (council area), Stornoway (town), Wales, Blaenau Gwent (county borough), Abertillery (town), Ebbw Vale (town and urban area), Bridgend (county borough), Bridgend (town and urban area), Porthcawl (town), Caerphilly (county borough), Caerphilly (town and urban area), Gelligaer (town), Cardiff (city and county borough), Llandaff (former town, neighborhood), Carmarthenshire (county), Carmarthen (town), Llanelli (town and urban area), Ceredigion (county), Aberystwyth (town), Cardigan (town), Conwy (county borough), Colwyn Bay (town and urban area), Conwy (town), Llandudno (town), Denbighshire (county), Denbigh (town), Rhyl (town), St. Asaph (village), Flintshire (county), Hawarden (town), Holywell (town), Gwynedd (county), Bala (town), Bangor (city), Caernarfon (town), Harlech (village), Isle of Anglesey (county), Holyhead (town), Llangefni (town), Merthyr Tydfil (town and county borough), Monmouthshire (county), Abergavenny (town), Chepstow (town), Monmouth (town), Usk (town), Neath Port Talbot (county borough), Margam (locality), Neath (town and urban area), Pontardawe (town), Port Talbot (town and urban area), Newport (town and county borough), Caerleon (town), Pembrokeshire (county), Haverfordwest (town), Milford Haven (town), Pembroke (urbanized area), St. David’s (city), Tenby (town), Powys (county), Brecon (town), Builth Wells (town), Llandrindod Wells (town), Montgomery (town), Newtown (town), Welshpool (town), Rhondda Cynon Taf (county borough), Aberdare (town), Hirwaun (village), Llantrisant (town), Mountain Ash (town), Pontypridd (town), Swansea (county), Swansea (city), Torfaen (county borough), Cwmbrân (town and urban area), Pontypool (town and urban area), Vale of Glamorgan (county), Barry (town), Cowbridge (town), Llantwit Major (town), Wrexham (county borough). (https://www.britannica.com/topic/list-of-cities-and-towns-in-the-United-Kingdom-2034188)  

Why do I require the other parent’s Consent to relocate to the United Kingdom?

According to South African law, if you are a co-holder of parental responsibilities and rights over your minor child, you must consent to your child leaving South Africa. In this case, relocating to the United Kingdom. Here we refer to section 18 of the Children’s Act 38 of 2005. The entire provision is as follows: 18 Parental responsibilities and rights  (1) A person may have either full or specific parental responsibilities and rights in respect of a child.  (2) The parental responsibilities and rights that a person may have in respect of a child, include the responsibility and the right-  (a) to care for the child;  (b) to maintain contact with the child;  (c) to act as guardian of the child; and  (d) to contribute to the maintenance of the child.  (3) Subject to subsections (4) and (5), a parent or other person who acts as guardian of a child must-  (a) administer and safeguard the child’s property and property interests;  (b) assist or represent the child in administrative, contractual and other legal matters; or  (c) give or refuse any consent required by law in respect of the child, including-  (i) consent to the child’s marriage;  (ii) consent to the child’s adoption;  (iii) consent to the child’s departure or removal from the Republic;  (iv) consent to the child’s application for a passport; and  (v) consent to the alienation or encumbrance of any immovable property of the child.  (4) Whenever more than one person has guardianship of a child, each one of them is competent, subject to subsection (5), any other law or any order of a competent court to the contrary, to exercise independently and without the Consent of the other any right or responsibility arising from such guardianship. (5) Unless a competent court orders otherwise, the Consent of all the persons that have guardianship of a child is necessary in respect of matters set out in subsection (3)(c). Now let us explain what Parental Responsibilities and Rights are.

What are Parental Responsibilities and Rights of a parent in relation to a child?

As can be seen from section 18(2) of the Children’s Act, when we refer to Parental Responsibilities and Rights, we refer to the following: (a) to care for the child;  (b) to maintain contact with the child;  (c) to act as guardian of the child; and  (d) to contribute to the maintenance of the child. Therefore, if a parent has parental responsibilities and rights over a minor child, and accordingly, rights of guardianship, their Consent is required when it comes to issues of guardianship. As seen from section 18(3)(c) of the Children’s Act above, both parents’ Consent is required should a minor child depart from the Republic of South Africa. In this case, to emigrate to the United Kingdom. Even if the minor child only wants to go for a short holiday to the United Kingdom, both guardians’ Consent would be required.

When would the other parent be seen as a guardian in the case of a relocation matter to the United Kingdom?

It must be noted that not all parents are legal guardians over their minor children. We should therefore distinguish between married or divorced parents and parents who were never married. As you would see below, usually married, or divorced parents’ Consent would be required for a minor child to relocate or emigrate to the United Kingdom. However, that does not automatically apply to parents who were never married. This could be because the child could have been born from a brief encounter and never met his or her father. It would not make sense that a parent who never met his or her 15-year-old child, should give Consent for relocation to the United Kingdom.

Mother’s Consent for relocation of the minor child to the United Kingdom

Section 19 of the Children’s Act deals with the Parental responsibilities and rights of mothers. It states the following: 19 Parental responsibilities and rights of mothers  (1) The biological mother of a child, whether married or unmarried, has full parental responsibilities and rights in respect of the child.  (2) If-  (a) the biological mother of a child is an unmarried child who does not have guardianship in respect of the child; and  (b) the biological father of the child does not have guardianship in respect of the child, the guardian of the child’s biological mother is also the guardian of the child.  (3) This section does not apply in respect of a child who is the subject of a surrogacy agreement. As seen from section 19(1) of the Children’s Act, in most cases involving the relocation of a minor child to the United Kingdom, the mother’s Consent is required as she has full parental responsibilities and rights over the minor child.

Married father’s Consent for the relocation of the minor child to the United Kingdom

Section 20 of the Children’s Act deals with Parental responsibilities and rights of married fathers. It states the following: 20 Parental responsibilities and rights of married fathers The biological father of a child has full parental responsibilities and rights in respect of the child- (a) if he is married to the child’s mother; or (b) if he was married to the child’s mother at (i) the time of the child’s conception; (ii) the time of the child’s birth; or (iii) any time between the child’s conception and birth. As can be seen from sections 20 (a) and (b) of the Children’s Act, if the father and the mother were married, or are married, then his Consent is required for the minor child to relocate to the United Kingdom. Of course, an exception to this would be should a court of law order otherwise. This would be the case should the parents be divorced and the divorce court ordered that only the mother may act as guardian. Next, we deal with the issue of an unmarried father’s Consent to relocate a minor child to the United Kingdom.

Consent of unmarried fathers for the relocation of their minor children to the United Kingdom.

Section 21 of the Children’s Act deals with parental responsibilities and rights of unmarried fathers. The section states the following: 21 Parental responsibilities and rights of unmarried fathers  (1) The biological father of a child who does not have parental responsibilities and rights in respect of the child in terms of section 20, acquires full parental responsibilities and rights in respect of the child-  (a) if at the time of the child’s birth he is living with the mother in a permanent life-partnership; or  (b) if he, regardless of whether he has lived or is living with the mother-  (i) consents to be identified or successfully applies in terms of section 26 to be identified as the child’s father or pays damages in terms of customary law;  (ii) contributes or has attempted in good faith to contribute to the child’s upbringing for a reasonable period; and  (iii) contributes or has attempted in good faith to contribute towards expenses in connection with the maintenance of the child for a reasonable period.  (2) This section does not affect the duty of a father to contribute towards the maintenance of the child.  (3) (a) If there is a dispute between the biological father referred to in subsection (1) and the biological mother of a child with regard to the fulfilment by that father of the conditions set out in subsection (1) (a) or (b), the matter must be referred for mediation to a family advocate, social worker, social service professional or other suitably qualified person.  (b) Any party to the mediation may have the outcome  of the mediation reviewed by a court.  (4) This section applies regardless of whether the child was born before or after the commencement of this Act. As can be seen from the latter sections, a father of a child born out of wedlock does not automatically have parental responsibilities and rights over his minor child. He may however acquire those parental responsibilities and rights over his minor child if he is materially involved in the child’s life. That would be where the father and the mother were in a permanent life partnership when the child was born or he is meaningfully involved in the child’s life, as outlined above. We shall not go into much detail regarding that. However, in most cases, if the father had regular contact with the child and paid child support, he would have acquired parental responsibilities and rights over the minor child.

What do you do if the other parent does not want to consent to the minor child relocating to the United Kingdom?

Suppose the other parent also has parental responsibilities and rights over the minor child, and he or she does not want to consent to the relocation of the minor child to the United Kingdom, then in such a case, the Court needs to be approached. Here I refer you back to section 18(5) of the Children’s Act referred to above where it states: (5) Unless a competent court orders otherwise, the Consent of all the persons that have guardianship of a child is necessary in respect of matters set out in subsection (3)(c). Therefore, after your Court Application has been launched an both sides have been heard, the Court would make the necessary Order. If you are successful in your application for the relocation of your minor children to the United Kingdom, then the Court will make an Order similar to that which is shown below. [caption id="attachment_10840" align="alignnone" width="658"]Relocation consent Court Order for minor child to the United Kingdom - UK - Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf Relocation consent Court Order for minor child to the United Kingdom – UK – Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf[/caption] [caption id="attachment_10841" align="alignnone" width="678"]Relocation consent Court Order for minor child to the United Kingdom - UK - Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf Relocation consent Court Order for minor child to the United Kingdom – UK – Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf[/caption]

I cannot afford to pay child maintenance during the Lockdown. What can I do? The other parent of my child has not paid any maintenance since before the lockdown. What should I do?

  We are now on day 19 of the National Lockdown. Many expected the lockdown to endure for only 21 days. However, it is now set for 35 days. Unless you are an essential worker, or a business providing essential services, you may not go out to work or earn a living. You may, however, work from home making use of email, telephone calls, and video calls. However, the vast majority of workers in South Africa do not work from a computer or have the ability to earn money from being online. This applies to restaurants, retail stores and suppliers, the building and maintenance industry, and so on. The list is extensive.
For those who are lucky to be employed, some will only receive half their salary and some none. No work, no pay. This is a sad reality of the national lockdown. Many people will be left without jobs and unable to pay their expenses. We can only hope and pray that the COVID-19, coronavirus pandemic comes to an end as soon as possible. South Africans can then work together in building our nation back to where it was and beyond.

Regulations regarding the movement of children during the lockdown

Concerning the issue of a parent’s inability to pay child maintenance during the lockdown, let us first outline the current regulations regarding the movement of children during this period. This would place this article in perspective. Children may only be moved between homes under the following circumstances:
  1. There are arrangements in place for the children to move for one parent to another in terms of a court order; or
  2. A parental responsibilities and rights agreement or parenting plan registered with the office of the Family Advocate; and
  3. In the household to which the child is to move, there is no person who is known to have come into contact with, or is reasonably suspected to have come into contact with, a person known to have contracted, or reasonably suspected to have contracted, COVID-19;
  4. The parent or caregiver transporting the child concerned must have in his or her possession, the court order or the latter agreement, or a certified copy thereof.
To view the regulations, click here.  

TAKE NOTE! There is NO Child Maintenance Payment Holiday during the National Lockdown Period!

On 07 April 2020, an article was published entitled: TAKE NOTE! There is NO Child Maintenance Payment Holiday during the National Lockdown Period!  This article still stands. We received many queries and comments from parents who cannot afford to pay child maintenance during the lockdown, and parents who have not received any child maintenance prior. Let us deal with this issue.

A parent’s duty to pay child maintenance

Whether or not there is a maintenance order in place, a parent has the duty to maintain his or her child. This duty does not stem from a court order, but by operation of law. A parent, therefore, cannot opt-out from paying child support. The only exception could be if the child, although he or she is a minor, is very wealthy, and does not require any form of child maintenance. This latter scenario is however rare.

What are the social welfare consequences of not paying child support?

The very basic purpose of paying child support is to feed, clothe and give the child shelter. If a child has two (2) parents, then both of them have a legal obligation to maintain that child. If one parent pays child support, the other parent would use that money to supplement the expenses of the child. Therefore, the money would be used to pay for any of the following basic needs during the lockdown period:
  1. Food (breakfast, lunch and supper)
  2. Accommodation (rent)
  3. Electricity, water and gas
  4. Basic clothing
  5. Basic educational expenses
  6. Personal hygiene and medical expenses
Now let’s say both parents are not earning any money during the lockdown period. The parent caring for the child is trying his or her utmost best to feed the child with what little money there is. If the parent who is supposed to pay child support does not pay his or her portion, what would happen? It would mean that the child would not have food to eat during the lockdown period. This is not in the child’s best interest. A parent should, therefore, try his or her utmost to avoid this situation from happening by paying child support.

What if a parent really cannot afford to pay child maintenance during the lockdown period?

It is theoretically possible that a parent, who receives no income during the lockdown period, cannot afford to pay all the child maintenance he or she is obliged to pay. This category of parent would be one who owns no assets of value to sell, is not eligible to take out a loan from someone,  and himself or herself is destitute. In other words, there is no money or assets at all. Should the mother lay a complaint for non-compliance with the Maintenance order, or for paying child support,  he or she should prove that he or she was truly destitute and could not pay any child support, albeit a small amount.

For what may a parent approach the maintenance court during the lockdown?

In terms of direction 8(b)(i) and (ii)issued in the Regulations (No. R418) issued on 28 March 2029 in the Government Gazette (No.43167), the Maintenance Court may deal with maintenance matters during the lockdown as follows: – First time applications for maintenance will only be dealt with if complete information is supplied in respect of required names, surname, telephone or cellular phone number, employment or business address, banking details of the Respondent; and – Application in respect of enforcement of maintenance orders Therefore, if a parent is not paying child support in terms of a court order, approach the maintenance court to enforce it, even during the lockdown. If you do not have a maintenance order, and not receiving maintenance, approach the maintenance court during the lockdown and ensure you have all the information mentioned in the regulations above. We, therefore, urge parents to pay their child support during the lockdown period. This is so even though you never saw your child during the entire lockdown period. Make a loan, sell some goods, or do whatever you can to ensure your child has food to eat during the lockdown and beyond. We are certain that you found the above article useful and interesting. Please consider sharing it on the share buttons below. They include Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, Gmail and more. Someone may find it useful as well. Should you require business advice or services, feel free to click on these links: Business SA | Private Legal | Envirolaws      

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