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Child custody for fathers

During our years of experience in dealing with child custody battles, we have found it common for fathers fighting for child custody and wanting to know more about their legal rights. Unfortunately, a father paying child maintenance will not be guaranteed full child custody of a child. [caption id="attachment_4238" align="alignleft" width="300"] Call us on: 0211110090
Email: [email protected][/caption] For more on father’s rights in child custody, click on the links below and read our free, expert legal advice article on how to go about your legal rights as a father.   Feel free to call our law offices on 021 424 3487, or our national number on 087 701 1124 if you’re residing out of Cape Town. We are conveniently situated in the heart of the buzzing CBD at The Pinnacle, Suit 702, 7th floor, corner of Strand and Burg Street, Cape Town. Make your online appointment with us today.

Child maintenance procedure in South Africa

Find out where about is the closest magistrates’ court in your area and pay them a visit. It is however, important to bring along the necessary documents such as:
  • Birth certificate of your child/children.
  • Your identity document.
  • Proof of residence.
  • A divorce settlement.
  • Proof of your monthly income and expenses.
  • The personal details of the parent required to pay maintenance such as their name, surname physical and work address.
  • Copy of your bank statement.
[caption id="attachment_4241" align="alignleft" width="300"] Call us on 0211110090
Email: [email protected][/caption] When undergoing the process of claiming maintenance, you will have to fill in a detailed form stipulated by the Magistrate’s Court. This form shall request all details regarding your income and expenses. The form will cover essential expenses such as clothing, food, medical expenses and other relevant bills. Lighter expenses such as entertainment, pocket money and so forth, are also included in the “expenses” section. Expenses of parents and the child are however, listed separately. The court however, will take a number of factors into consideration when stipulating the amount of maintenance that should be paid. Both parent’s income will be analyzed and the court’s decision will be based accordingly. Start calculating today and find out how much you should be receiving or claiming with our free child maintenance calculator.

Grounds for custody

It is often assumed that custody rights would automatically be awarded to the mother but this is not always the case. In some circumstances, the mother may be mentally unstable or she may have an addiction – the court will then award custody to the father. The court takes a number of factors into consideration but the child’s well-being will always be of paramount interest in the court of law. [caption id="attachment_4243" align="alignleft" width="300"] Call: 0211110090
Email: [email protected][/caption] Find out more about your legal rights regarding child access/child custody, and call our law offices on 021 424 3487 for an online appointment for a legal consultation today.
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My husband and I are separated, and we are planning on getting divorced. How do I deal with the emotional aspect of my divorce seeing that we have children together?

Dealing with the emotional aspects of a divorce can be challenging, but there are several strategies and coping mechanisms that may help you navigate this difficult time. Keep in mind that everyone’s experience is unique, so it’s essential to find what works best for you. Here are some suggestions:

Allow Yourself to Grieve:

Understand that divorce is a loss, and it’s okay to grieve. Give yourself permission to feel a range of emotions, including sadness, anger, confusion, and even relief.

Seek Support:

Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist to share your feelings and experiences. Having a support system can provide comfort and understanding during this challenging time.

Take Care of Your Physical Health:

Pay attention to your physical well-being by maintaining a healthy diet, getting regular exercise, and ensuring you get enough sleep. Physical well-being is closely linked to emotional well-being.

Establish Routine and Structure:

Creating a daily routine can help bring a sense of normalcy to your life. Having structure can provide a sense of stability during a period of upheaval.

Set Realistic Expectations:

Understand that healing takes time, and there is no set timeline for getting over a divorce. Be patient with yourself and acknowledge the progress you make, no matter how small.

Focus on Self-Care:

Prioritize self-care activities that bring you comfort and joy. Whether it’s reading, taking long walks, or practicing mindfulness, taking care of yourself is crucial during this challenging time.

Limit Conflict and Communication:

Minimize contact with your ex-partner if possible, especially in the early stages of the divorce. This can help reduce unnecessary conflict and give both parties time to heal.

Consider Professional Help:

Therapy or counseling can be beneficial in navigating the emotional aspects of divorce. A mental health professional can provide guidance, support, and coping strategies tailored to your specific situation.

Rebuild Your Identity:

Take this time to rediscover yourself and explore activities that bring you joy. Rebuilding your identity outside of the marriage can be an essential part of the healing process.

Look Towards the Future:

While it’s important to process the emotions associated with the divorce, try to shift your focus toward the future. Set new goals and aspirations for yourself, and look for opportunities to grow and move forward. Remember that healing is a gradual process, and it’s okay to seek professional help if needed. Taking care of your emotional well-being is a crucial step in rebuilding your life after a divorce.

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