Child custody, child maintenance, divorce, Cape Town, South Africa

Child custody, child maintenance, divorce, Cape Town, South Africa

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Getting divorce within 3 days

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceIt often happens, when a marriage has irretrievably broken down, the parties are in agreement that they have to divorce. Furthermore, the parties came to an agreement regarding the propriety aspects of the marriage, care and contact of the minor children, as well as who should pay for the cost in relation to the divorce. If all the latter has been agreed upon, there is no need for the parties to wait many months to get divorced. What this article deals with is a real-life scenario where the marriage between a couple would be dissolved in the shortest possible time. In this case, three (3) days from the date of meeting their lawyer. If you don’t feel like reading this entire article, scroll down to the bottom for an illustration of a divorce finalised in 3 (three) days. Furthermore, it may become necessary for there to be a quick divorce. One such reason could be that a party is only visiting South Africa for a very short while and wants to resolve issues expeditiously. This would especially be so if the parties lived separately for a long time despite being married. Before we proceed with exploring and unpacking the question this article relates to, we will first have to look at certain basic requirements in order for parties to get divorced. This relates to the court’s jurisdiction, as well as the requirement that a marriage has broken down irretrievably. Another one is that they should be married. I guess we all knew that. [ninja_form id=72]

The jurisdiction of the divorce court

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceIt does not mean that because you got married in a specific province or town that the Court situated there has the authority to divorce you. For example, if you married in Cape Town, and relocated to Johannesburg, and live there for quite some time, then Cape Town Court will not necessarily have the jurisdiction to divorce you. The same would apply should the parties have married in Johannesburg and relocated to the United States of America, and are domiciled there. Should they wish to get divorced, they cannot get divorced in Johannesburg. This is so as the Johannesburg Court will not have jurisdiction to divorce this specific couple. Now, what determines jurisdiction? Clearly, it is not the fact that you got married in the Court’s area of jurisdiction. Let’s look at the law.

The Divorce Act

Section 2 of the Divorce Act 70 of 1979 states the following: “A court shall have jurisdiction in a divorce action if the parties are or either of the parties is-
  1.           domiciled in the area of jurisdiction of the court on the date on which the action is instituted; or
  2.           Ordinarily resident in the area of jurisdiction of the court on the said date and have or has been ordinarily resident in the Republic for a period of not less than one year immediately prior to that date.
Well, there you have it. It does not mean that if you got married within the area of jurisdiction of the court, that automatically, that Court would have the jurisdiction to divorce you. You or your spouse should at least be domiciled, or resided within that honorable court’s jurisdiction for a specific period. When we refer to domicile, we basically mean that you intend the specific location to be your permanent home. This is a simple definition. Now let us move on to the second issue. That is the irretrievable breakdown of the marriage.

Irretrievable breakdown of the marriage between the parties

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceIt goes without saying, a court will not divorce a couple who is happily married. There has to be some problem in the marriage. Now let’s go straight into the law and find out when, or under what circumstances a Court of law may divorce you in South Africa.

The Divorce Act

According to section 4(1) of the Divorce Act: “A court may grant a decree of divorce on the ground of irretrievable breakdown of a marriage if it is satisfied that the marriage relationship between the parties to the marriage has reached such a state of disintegration that there is no reasonable prospect of the restoration of a normal marriage relationship between them.” Section 4(3) of the Divorce Act then states: “If it appears to the court that there is a reasonable possibility that the parties may become reconciled through marriage counsel, treatment or reflection, the court may postpone the proceedings in order that the parties may attempt a reconciliation.” Considering the latter law, it is clear that the marriage should have broken down irretrievably, in other words, it cannot be saved. Furthermore, it should not appear to the court that reconciliation is possible. So moving forward, presuming that the court has jurisdiction and the marriage has irretrievably broken down, we can now deal with the aspect of a quick divorce. That is why you are reading this article? We shall start with what is required in order to institute divorce proceedings.

The summons commencing the divorce action

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceAs would be obvious from the foregoing, only a court of law can dissolve a marriage. Therefore, one needs to follow the legal processes in place in order for a court to deal with your matter. In the case of a divorce, the process starts with the issuing of a summons. Basically, this is a document outlining who all the parties are and what the Plaintiff (the person instituting the divorce proceedings) wants from the court. The summons would be signed by the Court Registrar who would direct the Sherriff of the Court to serve it on the Defendant (the other party to the divorce). It would also have attached to it, a particulars of claim, comprising of certain relevant information in order for the court and the other party to know what the reasons for the relief sought, or divorce is. This we deal with next.

The Particulars of Claim

In the case of a divorce summons, you will state who the parties are, when they got married, details of the minor children involved, and reasons for the breakdown of the marriage. With regard to the reasons for the breakdown of the marriage, you will state that for example, there is no longer any love and affection between the parties, and both parties wish to get divorced. advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceThe latter information is stated in a document, called “particulars of claim”. This document is attached to the summons. The particulars of claim will then also outline the relief sought. For example, it will first state that you wish for a decree of divorce, and further what you wish in relation to care and contact in relation to the minor children, child maintenance, personal maintenance, the division of the joint estate, and who pays the legal fees. It is also wise for the parties to enter into a consent paper or settlement agreement. This we deal with next.

The Consent Paper or Settlement Agreement

You should stipulate in the particulars of claim exactly what you wish the court to grant you. However, what is a good idea, if the divorce is undefended, to enter into a consent paper or settlement agreement. This document basically outlines what the parties agree upon in relation to the divorce. It deals with child custody, maintenance, and the division of the joint estate if it applies. The parties would sign the consent paper or settlement agreement and it would be made an order of court should the court so grant it. Therefore, if you follow this route, the court would basically make an order stating that it grants a decree of divorce, incorporating the terms of the consent paper or settlement agreement. advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceThe consent paper or settlement agreement may be entered into between the parties before divorce proceedings are instituted or after. If it is done before divorce proceedings are instituted, it is usually attached to the summons. Your prayers in your particulars of claim would basically be that you ask for a decree of divorce, incorporating the terms of the consent paper attached thereto.

What happens after the summons has been issued?

Let us presume that the summons, particulars of claim and consent paper have been drafted, and all documents have been signed. It should then be taken to a court to be issued and a case number is allocated to it. The next step would be for the summons with all the relevant documents attached thereto to be served on the defendant. This would be the case even though the divorce is agreed upon. Service of the divorce documents on the defendant would have to be done by the office of the sheriff. In other words, the sheriff would give a copy of the divorce papers to the other party, in this case, the defendant. A sheriff then provides a document called, “return of service”. Basically, it tells the court that he served the documents on the defendant. The defendant would then have a period of ten (10) working days to decide whether or not to defend the divorce. This is stated in the summons. A reason for defending would be that he or she opposes the divorce, or don’t believe the contact arrangements are in the children’s best interests. Once the ten (10) working days have passed, the divorce may be set down for hearing.

How quick can the divorce be finalised

Continuing with the example of a friendly divorce, once the ten (10) days have lapsed, and the defendant did not file a notice of his intention to defend the divorce action, the divorce can proceed on an undefended basis. The Plaintiff or the person who instituted the divorce proceedings may then set the divorce matter down for hearing on an undefended basis. If the divorce was instituted in the Western Cape High Court, it could be set-down within three (3) days. For example, if the ten (10) days have expired, The Plaintiff may file his notice of set-down the Monday before noon with the Registrar, to be heard on Wednesday. This is explained at the end of this article.

Waiving the ten (10) ten days waiting period – The waiver

This is where this article becomes interesting. It is also possible under certain circumstances, for a defendant to file a waiver. Basically, the defendant would file a document stating that he waives his right to ten (10) days to decide whether or not he wants to defend the divorce. If a waiver is filed, and the court has no issue therewith, then the divorce can take place much sooner than ten (10) days. This we explain a bit more next.

Demonstrating a quick divorce

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceConsidering the above and, ensuring that all legal processes are in place, a divorce can be finalised very quickly and in certain circumstances, within a few days. As long as the court has jurisdiction to hear the matter and the marriage has broken down irretrievably, there is no reason why the divorce can’t take a maximum period of four weeks to finalise. If, however, the divorce is urgent and undefended it is possible for the defendant to file a waiver advising the court that he has no issue with a divorce taking place within the ten (10) days given to him. His reason for this could also be that he and the Plaintiff entered into a Consent Paper and wants the divorce as well. In this case, the divorce could take three (3) days. This would apply in the following hypothetical example:

Monday:

  1.     Meet with the fast and efficient lawyer (or give us a call to refer you to one);
  2.     Draft the summons, particulars, consent paper;
  3.     Sign the consent paper and issue the summons;
  4.     Serve the summons on the defendant by the sheriff;
  5.     The defendant signs a waiver;
  6.     File the consent paper at the office of the family advocate for endorsement; and
  7.     Ensure the court file is in order and set the matter down before noon.

Tuesday:

  1.     Collect the endorsed consent paper from the office of the Family Advocate.
  2.     Meet with your lawyer, or one of our recommended lawyers, to prepare you for court the next day.

Wednesday:

  1.     Be at Court early.
  2.     Get divorced.
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Can you get a divorce without your spouse’s consent?

Yes, you can.  The process will take longer if it is defended.

How do you get a divorce if you have no money?

Approach the Magistrate’s Court in your area for assistance with your divorce. You do not need a lawyer.

Can you refuse to get a divorce?

Yes, you can. However, the Court would grant the divorce if the marriage has broken down and cannot be saved.

Can I do my own divorce?

Yes, you can do your own divorce. There is no need for a lawyer.

How can you get a divorce if spouse won t sign?

The Court can still divorce you if your spouse won’t sign.

Can you be denied a divorce?

Yes,  you can if the marriage has not broken down.

How many years do you have to be separated to get a divorce?

There is no minimum. A week could be enough. The marriage should have broken down.

Can you get a divorce without having to go to court?

One spouse needs to go to court to give evidence.

Do both parties have to agree to get a divorce?

No, they do not. The Court will decide if a divorce is warranted.

Can you get a divorce without a lawyer?

Yes, you can. A lawyer is not needed. However, it is always a good idea to use one.

How long does it take to get a contested divorce?

It depends on the Court. We presume no less than 6 months.

How long do you have to respond after being served with divorce papers?

You have 10 (ten) working days.

How much does it cost to get a mutual divorce?

It depends on the lawyers you use. The Court does not charge. So if you do it yourself, there is no fee.

How cheap can you get a divorce?

Various lawyers charge different fees. If you do it yourself, its free.

Can you get a divorce for free?

If you do it yourself, its free.

How fast can you get a divorce?

If both parties agree, it can take about three weeks.

How much does it cost to get a divorce?

It depends on the lawyer. But if you do it yourself, it free.

Do you have to get a lawyer to get a divorce?

No, you do not need a lawyer.

How long do you have to be married before you have to pay alimony?

There is no set time.

Can you make your spouse pay for the divorce?

Yes, you can.

Can you force a divorce?

No, you cannot.

How do you stop a divorce after filing?

You have to withdraw the action.

Can you contest a divorce?

Yes, you can.

What is an uncontested divorce?

It is a divorce where both parties agrees to the

What do I need for a contested divorce?

You need good reasons why you are contesting it.

Can serve divorce papers myself?

No, you need to make use of the Sheriff of the Court.

Can you get a divorce without your spouse’s consent?

Yes, you can.

How do you get a divorce if you have no money?

You do not need much money to get divorced. The only costs is that of the Sheriff.

What are unreasonable terms in a divorce?

Terms which you are not entitled to. For example, wanting the entire joint estate.

Can I do my own divorce?

Yes, you can.

How much will it cost to get a divorce?

There are no costs. You must, however, pay the sheriff fees.

How many years do you have to be separated to get a divorce?

There is no specific minimum. The marriage should only not be able to be saved.

Where can I get divorce papers for free?

Visit the divorce court in your area.

How much money does it cost to get a divorce?

There are no costs, other than the sheriff’s costs. How do I file for divorce without a lawyer? You can do it yourself. Visit the Magistrate’s Court in your area.

Can you refuse to get a divorce?

Yes, you can.

Can you get a divorce without having to go to court?

One party must go to court.

What happens if your spouse does not sign divorce papers?

The divorce would then proceed on a defended basis if they filed such a notice.

Can you be denied a divorce?

Yes, you can if the marriage has not broken down.

Do both parties have to agree to get a divorce?

No.

How long do you have to wait before a divorce is final?

It’s final once the judge or magistrate gives the decree.

How long does it take for a divorce to be final after signing papers?

Once the matter gets heard in Court and the order granted.

How long does it take to get a contested divorce?

Can take no less than six months. It depends on the Court and the lawyer.

Can a judge not grant a divorce?

Yes, if the marriage has not broken down.

Can the father get full custody of his child?

Yes, he can if it is in the child’s best interests.

Can you force a divorce?

No, you cannot.

How long do you have to be married before you have to pay alimony?

There is no limit.

Is it adultery to date while separated?

Yes, it is as you are still married.

Is it cheaper to get divorced after 2 years?

The costs might be more for legal fees.

Can you get a divorce without the other person knowing?

No, the other person must be notified.

Can you get a divorce online?

No, it is not possible. One party must appear in Court and give evidence.

Can you get a divorce without a lawyer?

Yes, you can. You can act as your own lawyer.

How long do you have to respond after being served with divorce papers?

You have 10 working days. It is best to do it sooner.

How do you get a divorce if you do not work?

It is still possible. Visit your nearest magistrate’s court for assistance. All you need is the costs of the sheriff.

How can I file for a divorce on my own?

If you know what you are doing, we advise that you do so. However, you can go to the Magistrate’s Court and ask for assistance.

How long do you have to be separated in order to get a divorce?

There is no maximum or minimum time period.

Can serve divorce papers myself?

No, you have to make use of the Sheriff.

What is sexual misconduct during a divorce?

This would be in a spouse is busy with adultery during the divorce.

What is an informal separation in a marriage?

This is when the parties do not get divorced, but agree to live separately.

Can I date while separated before the divorce?

There is nothing in law preventing you from doing so.

Is it okay to date while going through a divorce?

It may be best to first finalise your divorce.

How much do you pay in alimony and child support?

It depends on the means and need of the parties concerned.

How do you figure out alimony?

You look at income, expenses and needs.

Can you refuse to get divorced?

Yes, you can. However, you must have good reasons. If the marriage is over, then the divorce would proceed.

How can you get a divorce if the spouse will not sign?

The Court can still divorce you.

Can a mother take her child away from the father?

Yes, if it is in the child’s bests interests. However, one should not do so unless a child care expert advises you to do so.

Do you still have to pay child support if you have 50 50 custody?

It is possible if you earn more than the other parent.

Can a judge not grant a divorce?

Yes, it is possible if the marriage has not broken down. Can the court deny a divorce?

How long does it take to get a contested divorce?

It can take a long time, from six months to over a year.

How much is a contested divorce?

It depends on your lawyer and how long it takes.

Do you have to have proof of divorce to remarry?

No. But it is illegal to marry again if you are not divorced.

Is a decree of divorce the final divorce?

Yes, it is. You should receive and Order.

How long do you have to wait before a divorce is final?

It is final once the Judge gives a final order or divorce.

How long does divorce take?

It depends on the case. If your spouse and you fight on every issue, it can take years.

Can I divorce my wife without her consent?

Yes, you can.

Do both husband and wife have to agree to divorce?

No, they do not have to. The Court would divorce you if the marriage has broken down completely.

Can you force your spouse to divorce you?

No, you cannot. You need to follow the court process.

Can you contest a divorce?

Yes, you can.

How long do you have to keep your divorce papers?

You should keep it indefinitely.

Where can I get a copy of my divorce papers?

You should visit the Court that gave you the divorce.

How do you get a divorce if you have no money?

We advise that you approach the Magistrate’s Court in your area.

What does it mean when a divorce is contested?

It means your spouse is not agreeing to the divorce.

Can you fight a divorce?

Yes, you can fight it. The legal term is defend it.

How much does it cost to get an uncontested divorce?

It depends on the lawyer. But if you do it yourself, there is no fee other than the sheriff.

How long do you have to keep bank statements for?

It depends on what. If it is for maintenance, we suggest three years.

Are all divorce records public?

Yes, it is.

Can I find divorce orders online?

No, you need to visit the court.

How do you find out if your divorce is final?

You need to visit the court and ask for a copy.

Are divorce filing public records?

Yes it is.

How can I get my divorce certificate?

You need to visit the court and ask for a copy.

How do you get a copy of a divorce decree?

You need to visit the court and ask for a copy.

Can you refuse to get divorced?

Yes, you can.

Is everything Split 50 50 in a divorce?

Yes if you are married In Community of Property.

Can a wife claim her husband property in the divorce?

It is possible if there is a legal basis for it.

Can I keep my house in a divorce?

Yes, if it is agreed upon or awarded by the court.

Who gets the child in a divorce?

The parent who can best care for the child primarily.

Can infidelity be used in a divorce?

Yes, it can.

Can you lose custody of your child due to adultery?

Its possible, but very unlikely if its the sole reason.

Can you sue your spouse for adultery?

No, you cannot.

Can the father get full custody of his child?

Yes, he can.

What is considered adultery in a divorce?

If there was sexual intercourse.

Can a mother take her child away from the father?

If it is in the child’s best interest. It is advised to get the advice of a social worker first.

Do you still have to pay child support if you have 50 50 custody?

It is possible. Depending on your income. If you earn more, then it is possible.

How do you prove a parent unfit?

It depends on the facts. If there are such facts, it must be brought to the court’s attention.

What is considered an unfit mother?

A mother who does not act in the best interests of the child and the child suffers.

How can mother win child custody?

She must prove that it is in the best interest of the child if she gets custody.

Can you get custody of a child that is not yours?

Yes, it is possible.

What is considered a stable environment for a child?

Where there child’s best interests are met.

How long does divorce take?

If it is defended, it can take a year. If not, a month.

What is unreasonable divorce settlement in a divorce?

Where it favours one party.

Can you contest a divorce if you not happy with it?

Yes, you can.

Can you defend a divorce?

Yes, you can.

What happens if your wife does not sign divorce papers?

The divorce would go ahead, however, it might take longer.

Can you be denied a divorce?

Yes, you can be denied a divorce if the marriage has not broken down.

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