Child custody appeals from the Children’s Court to the High Court of South Africa

This article deals with an appeal from the Children’s Court to the High Court. I’ve never been one to complain of my legal situation. The father of my daughter, and I have always had a cordial relationship. Until recently, the father of my minor child paid child support, and he would have contact with her regularly. However, what the father has done recently was approach the children’s court and make false allegations that I have been refusing him contact with his minor daughter. This was not to be done, and I could not allow him to continue lying to the court.

Our past relationship before approaching the Children’s Court

To give some context, the father of my minor child and I met 12 years ago. Soon after, I fell pregnant, and my minor child was born. The father was not involved much in the minor child’s life until soon after she was born. He only met the minor child for the first time when she was about seven months old. He saw her at least once a year until she started attending school. At this time, I approached him for child maintenance because he had not been paying adequate child maintenance for the minor child.

Approaching the Maintenance Court and the Children’s Court

We then approached the maintenance court, and the maintenance court ordered that he pay half the minor child’s school fees, place her on his medical aid, and pay a cash contribution towards her daily expenditure. At the same time, we also approached the children’s court, which assisted us in drafting a parenting plan. The father would see the minor child every second weekend from a Friday until late Sunday as well as one evening in the week. We would also share half the school holidays as well as special days. This would include the minor child‘s birthday, Father’s Day, Mother’s Day, and so on.

Father wanting every weekend with teh minor child

All went well regarding visitation until about a year ago. The father said I am limited his contact regarding the minor child. He wanted to have her on weekends with her as well. Me not agreeing to is, according to him, is refusing him contact. I told him that I also need time with the minor child on weekends. I already care for the child during the week. I attend to her homework and all her needs. At least two weekends a month, I require time to go out with her, take her to the beach, maybe watch a movie, and have some fun time together.

Father approaches the Children’s Court for a variation of the Parenting Plan

It is unfair that he should have the minor child every weekend and not take care of her during the week. Furthermore, the care and contact arrangement that is in place was finalised with the children’s court. I was therefore acting in terms of a court order. The father then approached the children’s court, and we had a hearing date. The matter proceeded to the children’s court magistrate, who heard both parties.

Decision of the Children’s Court

At the end of the enquiry, the children’s court made an order that the father may have the minor child in his care for three weekends per month. What the children’s court did not do was ask the minor child what the minor child wanted. Furthermore, it has not appointed a legal representative for the minor child. Lastly, there was no expert recommendation on this matter. For example, the children’s court did not appoint the office of all the family advocates, or are you a social worker to investigate this matter?

Appealing to the High Court regarding the Children’s Court decision

They failed to consider various factors and assistance from other parties that would assist the court in determining the minor child’s best interest. I then sought the assistance of an attorney, who advised me that I would need to appeal the children’s court’s decision. We then requested reasons for the children’s court decision. In short, the children’s court magistrate was of the view that the minor child does not need to spend so much time with me on the weekend, seeing that I am already caring for her during the week.

High Court dealing with the Appeal from the Children’s Court

The matter then proceeded to the High Court. The High Court took issue with the fact that the children’s court had not consulted with the minor child, has not obtained the assistance of the office of all the family advocates or a social worker, nor has the children’s court appointed a legal representative to the minor child to determine what the minor child’s view and wishes are. The High Court ordered that the care and contact arrangement that was in place should remain.

Possitive outcome of the Appeal to the High Court

I was thrilled that I took the matter to the High Court and appealed the children’s court decision. Had I not decided to take the magistrate to the children’s court on appeal, the father of the minor child would’ve had three weekends a month with the minor child and me only one. This, I believe, would have been unfair.

Assistance with an Appeal to the High Court, Supreme Court of Appeal or the Constitutional Court

Should you require assistance with an Appeal to the High Court, Supreme Court of Appeal or the Constitutional Court, feel free to connect with the firm of Adv. Muhammad Abduroaf.    

Child custody appeals from the Children’s Court to the High Court of South Africa

This article deals with an appeal from the Children’s Court to the High Court.

I’ve never been one to complain of my legal situation. The father of my daughter, and I have always had a cordial relationship. Until recently, the father of my minor child paid child support, and he would have contact with her regularly. However, what the father has done recently was approach the children’s court and make false allegations that I have been refusing him contact with his minor daughter. This was not to be done, and I could not allow him to continue lying to the court.

Our past relationship before approaching the Children’s Court

To give some context, the father of my minor child and I met 12 years ago. Soon after, I fell pregnant, and my minor child was born. The father was not involved much in the minor child’s life until soon after she was born. He only met the minor child for the first time when she was about seven months old. He saw her at least once a year until she started attending school. At this time, I approached him for child maintenance because he had not been paying adequate child maintenance for the minor child.

Approaching the Maintenance Court and the Children’s Court

We then approached the maintenance court, and the maintenance court ordered that he pay half the minor child’s school fees, place her on his medical aid, and pay a cash contribution towards her daily expenditure. At the same time, we also approached the children’s court, which assisted us in drafting a parenting plan. The father would see the minor child every second weekend from a Friday until late Sunday as well as one evening in the week. We would also share half the school holidays as well as special days. This would include the minor child‘s birthday, Father’s Day, Mother’s Day, and so on.

Father wanting every weekend with teh minor child

All went well regarding visitation until about a year ago. The father said I am limited his contact regarding the minor child. He wanted to have her on weekends with her as well. Me not agreeing to is, according to him, is refusing him contact. I told him that I also need time with the minor child on weekends. I already care for the child during the week. I attend to her homework and all her needs. At least two weekends a month, I require time to go out with her, take her to the beach, maybe watch a movie, and have some fun time together.

Father approaches the Children’s Court for a variation of the Parenting Plan

It is unfair that he should have the minor child every weekend and not take care of her during the week. Furthermore, the care and contact arrangement that is in place was finalised with the children’s court. I was therefore acting in terms of a court order. The father then approached the children’s court, and we had a hearing date. The matter proceeded to the children’s court magistrate, who heard both parties.

Decision of the Children’s Court

At the end of the enquiry, the children’s court made an order that the father may have the minor child in his care for three weekends per month. What the children’s court did not do was ask the minor child what the minor child wanted. Furthermore, it has not appointed a legal representative for the minor child. Lastly, there was no expert recommendation on this matter. For example, the children’s court did not appoint the office of all the family advocates, or are you a social worker to investigate this matter?

Appealing to the High Court regarding the Children’s Court decision

They failed to consider various factors and assistance from other parties that would assist the court in determining the minor child’s best interest. I then sought the assistance of an attorney, who advised me that I would need to appeal the children’s court’s decision. We then requested reasons for the children’s court decision. In short, the children’s court magistrate was of the view that the minor child does not need to spend so much time with me on the weekend, seeing that I am already caring for her during the week.

High Court dealing with the Appeal from the Children’s Court

The matter then proceeded to the High Court. The High Court took issue with the fact that the children’s court had not consulted with the minor child, has not obtained the assistance of the office of all the family advocates or a social worker, nor has the children’s court appointed a legal representative to the minor child to determine what the minor child’s view and wishes are. The High Court ordered that the care and contact arrangement that was in place should remain.

Possitive outcome of the Appeal to the High Court

I was thrilled that I took the matter to the High Court and appealed the children’s court decision. Had I not decided to take the magistrate to the children’s court on appeal, the father of the minor child would’ve had three weekends a month with the minor child and me only one. This, I believe, would have been unfair.

Assistance with an Appeal to the High Court, Supreme Court of Appeal or the Constitutional Court

Should you require assistance with an Appeal to the High Court, Supreme Court of Appeal or the Constitutional Court, feel free to connect with the firm of Adv. Muhammad Abduroaf.

 

 

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Relocation with my minor child to Germany, Berlin (Consent and Refusal) – Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf

The world is becoming a much smaller place, and technology plays a huge role. People are moving across the world for employment, love and happiness, something that was not the norm a few decades ago. There is no reason why you should remain in South Africa if you can find a better life for yourself and your family overseas. Moving overseas may provide you with the quality of life you want or the possibility of experiencing things you always wanted. The same applies to your child or children relocating with you.

Relocation of your minor child to Berlin, Germany

If you are single and do not have any minor children, then moving around the world would not be too complicated. All you need to do is ensure that you have the necessary travel documentation and travel ticket (and spending money), and off you go. However, if you want to travel with your minor children (for example, ages one or two) or relocate to another country, things may not be that simple. Firstly, if there is another parent, and he or she has parental responsibilities and rights, then his or her consent is required. For example, let us say you live in Simon’s Town or Phalaborwa, South Africa, and you want to relocate to Berlin, Germany, you would require the other parent’s consent to leave South Africa with your minor child. This can cause challenges, especially if the staying parent (in South Africa) does not agree to the relocation.

What about Passport Consent to travel or relocate to Berlin, Germany?

The same applies when it comes to your minor child applying for a South African passport to relocate to Germany, or any country. Both parents who have parental responsibilities and rights of guardianship will have to consent to the minor child’s passport application as well. In this regard, both parents have to be at the Department of Home Affairs (or the relevant bank that also assists with passport application) when making the Application with the minor child. This can be challenging if you have a disinterested parent who does not want to cooperate with the passport application. As you will see later, legal action would need to be taken.

What are the steps to follow when I want to relocate to Berlin, Germany with my minor child? There is there another parent.

To simplify the process for relocation, the first step would be to receive the other parent’s consent in principle for the relocation and that he or she will co-operate in this regard. Once that has been resolved, the parent relocating would need to make the appointment for the minor child’s passport application as well as the application for the relevant VISA. Each country has different requirements; however, seeing that it is a relocation, you need to apply for the correct VISA. For that, you need the Passport. Once the visa and travel arrangements have been finalised, the parent remaining behind will sign a parental consent letter for the international travel. That letter can be found on the Department of Home Affairs website. Basically, the parent remaining behind would state that he or she gives consent for the minor child to leave the Republic of South Africa and travel and/or relocate to Berlin, Germany.

What can I do if the other parent does not want to consent to the minor child’s relocation to Berlin, Germany?

If the parent remaining in South Africa does not want to consent to the minor child’s passport application and/or his or her relocation to Berlin, Germany, then you would need to approach the Court. The Court, as upper guardian of the minor child, may order that the parent’s consent for the passport application and relocation be dispensed with. What this entails is submitting Court documents explaining why you want to relocate to Berlin, Germany. The other parent would also have an opportunity to give reasons why he or she objects. At the end of the process, the Court would determine what is in the minor child’s best interests. If it is in the minor child’s best interests to relocate to Berlin, Germany, the Court would make it possible despite the issue of consent or refusal.

What is the first step I should take if the other parent does not want to consent to the minor child’s passport application and/or relocation to Berlin, Germany?

If the other parent does not want to consent to the passport application and/or the relocation of the minor child to Berlin, Germany – in that case, we suggest you approach an attorney or advocate (trust account) to assist you with the legal process. He or she would then contact the other parent explaining the reasons for the relocation and request the necessary consent. If the parent remaining in South Africa does still not agree to the passport application and/or to the relocation to Berlin, Germany, then the attorney or advocate will proceed to take the matter to court. The legal route can be expensive. However, it is necessary to make the relocation of the minor child possible. You may also attend to the legal process yourself.

Getting legal assistance or help with your relocation application to Berlin, Germany

If you require legal assistance or representation with relocating to Berlin, Germany due to the other parent not cooperating or providing consent, then feel free to contact us for assistance. The Firm Advocate, Muhammad Abduroaf, deals with these types of matters.

Top tips and tricks from a Senior Family Law Advocate on claiming maintenance for a five-year-old child in Thabazimbi.

Child Maintenance is the right of the child, and not that of the parent. It is also not a privilege granted to parents who must pay it. It is their duty to pay child maintenance and support their children. Once the child is self-supporting (being able to care for him or herself), the obligation falls away. This can happen when the child is 18, 20, or even 30. It all depends on the circumstances of the case.

Claiming child maintenance for your child in Thabazimbi

Whether you claim child maintenance in Thabazimbi, or any other city in South Africa, the procedures would be the same. There are however two (2) courts that can deal with child maintenance matters. That is a divorce court, in a divorce matter, and a Child Maintenance Court. For this article, we will focus on claiming maintenance in a Maintenance Court matter in Thabazimbi.

The maintenance scenario – Thabazimbi South Africa

In this article, we will deal with the following fictitious scenario, in a child maintenance matter:

  1. The Child is seven years old and attends school in Thabazimbi
  2. The child is cared for by the mother who works in Thabazimbi
  3. The mother works and earns a Salary of R 10 000
  4. The father sees the child every second weekend. He also lives and works in Thabazimbi
  5. The child’s monthly expenses are R 6000 – 00 which includes food, clothing, accommodation, education, travel etc.
  6. The father earns a reasonable salary and can afford the R 20 000 – 00 per month
  7. The mother claims R 4 000 – 00 maintenance as the father earns double her salary

What is the first step the mother must take in claiming child maintenance?

The first thing the mother must do is work out exactly what the child costs by item. She breaks down the minor child’s living expenses, starting from rent or accommodation to groceries to school fees etc. Once she has done that, she would need to determine what exactly does the minor child cost per month, seeing that she will be asking the father to contribute towards that. As best as possible, she needs to collect proof of expenses. This can be in the form of receipts.

How does she start the legal process?

The mother now needs to approach the maintenance court in the area where she lives or works to lodge a complaint for child maintenance. If she lives or works in Thabazimbi, it would be the maintenance court in Thabazimbi. She will complete a Form A wherein she will provide all the expenses for her and the minor child. She would also have to stipulate her income. Once she completed the form and submitted it to the maintenance court, she must then follow the next step.

What do you do while waiting for the maintenance court date?

While you wait to be informed of the court date by the Maintenance Court of Thabazimbi, and up until the actual first court date, you need to ensure that you keep a record of all income and expenses for you and the child. This is very important as the court allocates maintenance based on recent income and expenses.

What happens at the first court appearance at the Thabazimbi Maintenance Court?

Once you have been notified of the maintenance court date by the Thabazimbi Maintenance Court, you need to ensure that you attend it. On that day, both you and the father of the child would appear before a maintenance officer. The maintenance officer would go through both your income and expenses as well as that of the father. If all the relevant information is not before the maintenance court, then the matter may be postponed in order for the parties to submit it.

The maintenance officer will try to settle the matter and have the parents come to an agreement regarding the amount of child maintenance to be paid. If they cannot come to an agreement regarding the child maintenance to be paid, the matter would have to proceed to a formal hearing or trial before a Magistrate.

How does the Maintenance Court hearing or trial work in Thabazimbi?

Essentially, the maintenance court is called upon to make a fair ruling regarding what is a fair amount of child support that needs to be paid. For that to happen, the parents would have to give evidence in that regard. The mother would present to the court what the child costs, what she contributes and what she requires the other parent to pay. The Father would have a right to question the mother and to present evidence as to why he cannot afford the amount requested or why he feels it is an unfair amount. The mother can they also question him.

At the end of the day, the Thabazimbi Maintenance Court would be able to properly determine what is a fair and adequate amount of child maintenance to pay after being presented will all relevant information. The Thabazimbi Maintenance Court should play an active role in determining what is a fair amount of child maintenance the father should pay.

The above child maintenance application principles should apply to the following provinces and cities:

Eastern Cape:

Alice, Butterworth, East London, Graaff-Reinet, Grahamstown, King William’s Town, Mthatha

Port Elizabeth, Queenstown, Uitenhage, Zwelitsha

Free State:

Bethlehem. Bloemfontein, Jagersfontein, Kroonstad, Odendaalsrus, Parys, Phuthaditjhaba, Sasolburg, Virginia, Welkom

Gauteng:

Benoni, Boksburg, Brakpan, Carletonville, Germiston, Johannesburg, Krugersdorp, Pretoria, Randburg, Randfontein, Roodepoort, Soweto, Springs, Vanderbijlpark, Vereeniging

KwaZulu-Natal:

Durban, Empangeni, Ladysmith, Newcastle, Pietermaritzburg, Pinetown, Ulundi, Umlazi

Limpopo:

Giyani, Lebowakgomo, Musina, Phalaborwa, Polokwane, Seshego, Sibasa, Thabazimbi

Mpumalanga:

Emalahleni, Nelspruit, Secunda, North West, Klerksdorp, Mahikeng, Mmabatho, Potchefstroom, Rustenburg, Northern Cape, Kimberley, Kuruman, Port Nolloth

Western Cape:

Bellville, Thabazimbi, Constantia, George, Hopefield, Oudtshoorn, Paarl, Simon’s Town, Stellenbosch, Swellendam, Worcester

 

 

 

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