Children born out of wedlock now have the same rights as children born to married couples
The case below was successfully argued by Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf. Because of this case, a mother can now claim child maintenance from paternal grandparents of children born out of wedlock. The case can be found on the link: https://www.news24.com/SouthAfrica/News/Pay-support-its-legit-20031112 . It is also copied below.
“‘Pay support – it’s legit’
2003-11-13 08:29
Willemien Brummer
Cape Town – Children born out of wedlock now have the same rights as children born to married couples, under a ground-breaking High Court ruling made in Cape Town on Wednesday.
Judge Lester Fourie overturned a 1930 court ruling that stated only maternal grandparents of illegitimate children could be held responsible for their upkeep. Mother’s of children born out of wedlock could until now only claim from their own parents for maintenance. Now the paternal grandparent’s of an illegitimate child can also be held responsible for their upkeep. The ruling came after Jade Lee Petersen from Muizenberg approached the Simon’s Town maintenance court for maintenance for her 10-month-old son, Jordan. Jordan’s father, Faghmie Abrahams, claimed he could only afford R200 maintenance per month. Petersen wanted R1 000 per month. She requested that Jordan’s grandparents on his father’s side be ordered to cover the balance. When Petersen was informed that the law did not allow this, she took her case to the High Court. After the ruling, Petersen’s advocate, Muhammad Abduroaf, said the case was not just a victory for Petersen but that it was also a victory for other mothers in her position.” https://www.news24.com/SouthAfrica/News/Pay-support-its-legit-20031112 We are certain that you found the above article useful and interesting. Please consider sharing it on the share buttons below. They include Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, Gmail and more. Someone may find it useful as well. Should you require business advice or services, feel free to click on these links: Business SA | Private Legal | Envirolaws

Posted on 11 February 2025 by Telelaw

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Parents with Mental illnesses in child custody and care matters in South Africa
Biological parents are the ones who have parental responsibilities and rights over their children. Not grandparents, aunts, uncles and so on. Parental responsibilities and rights refer to caring, maintaining and acting as guardian for the child, to mention a few. Mothers automatically have parental responsibilities and rights of care, contact and guardianship, and fathers may either have it or acquire it. This depends on the facts of the case. The obligation to maintain your child however always applies.

Various factors are looked at when deciding what is best for a child

Having said the above, how parents exercise their parental responsibilities and rights would differ from case to case, especially if the parents are not living together. In such a case, various factors and circumstances will be looked at in determining what is best for the child. As would be seen later, in the case of a dispute in relation to how separated and divorced parents should exercise care and contact, expert advice needs to be considered. What this article deals with is how to resolve the issue of parental responsibilities and rights of care and contact when it comes to a parent having a mental illness or disease.

The child’s best interests in all matters concerning a child

We all want what is best for our children. That includes for them being cared for in the best possible way, either by you as a parent, or the other parent if that is best. Having parents who are mentally sound as caregivers are, therefore, an important aspect when it comes to raising a child. Logical and rational caring would take place under the circumstances. Parents would, therefore, communicate in a sensible way with the goal of caring for the child in the best possible way.

Mental illness in a parenting situation

If a couple lives together, and one of them has a mental illness, the other parent would be in a good position to care for the children and the other ill parent. However, problems arise when the parents are separated or no longer living together. The question is what happens to the child if one of the parents are mentally ill or have a mental disease or disorder? It must be stated that not all mental illnesses and diseases warrant consideration when it comes to the issue of care and contact in relation to minor children. If the mental illness or disease is adequately treated through medication and therapy, then it may not be a factor when it comes to parent’s parental responsibilities and rights of care and contact.

Types of mental illnesses and disorders

There are various types of mental illness and diseases. Some of the main groups of mental disorders are:

mood disorders (such as depression or bipolar disorder)
anxiety disorders
personality disorders
psychotic disorders (such as schizophrenia)
eating disorders
trauma-related disorders (such as post-traumatic stress disorder)
substance abuse disorders

Examples of signs and symptoms include:

Feeling sad or down
Confused thinking or reduced ability to concentrate
Excessive fears or worries, or extreme feelings of guilt
Extreme mood changes of highs and lows
Withdrawal from friends and activities
Significant tiredness, low energy or problems sleeping
Detachment from reality (delusions), paranoia or hallucinations
Inability to cope with daily problems or stress
Trouble understanding and relating to situations and to people
Problems with alcohol or drug use
Major changes in eating habits
Sex drive changes
Excessive anger, hostility or violence
Suicidal thinking

If any of the above-mentioned mental disorders and symptoms thereof would detrimentally affect a parent’s capability to care for a child; then it needs to be considered in a child custody matter. It could, therefore, happen that one parent who had custody over a child, loses it, due to developing or acquiring a mental illness.

How mental illness and diseases may manifest itself in child care and parenting situation

It may be that people with mental illnesses live normal lives as single individuals without any children. They would go to work, partake in sport, and socialize as any other person would. However, when children come into the picture, their mental illness could cause the following to occur:

The minor children are not cared for due to one parent having an obsessive-compulsive disorder of always washing his or her hands. They are therefore not fed on time, bathed nor care for properly;
A parent is violent and abusive towards the children. He may get angry very fast and act violently;
The parent is on strong medication which causes the parent to want to sleep all the time. The minor children are therefore not cared for at all and left to their own devices;
The parent lost all form of rationality and makes illogical decisions when it comes to the minor children, placing them in danger. For example, the parent may decide to take the minor children to walk with him or her to the shop late at night when it is dangerous to do so; and
The parent may suffer from hallucinations and live in a fantasy world. He or she may be guided on how to parent the minor children from “spirits” who visits and communicates with her.

Diagnoses of mental illness in a parent

It often happens that before a couple has a child, there are no apparent signs of mental illness. It may even happen that the parents of one of the parties knows of some underlying mental illness, but does not want to disclose it to the new person in their child’s life. In other cases, it is well known to all that there is a diagnosis of mental illness which is under control through medication, therapy and so on. And then there is the case where the person with the apparent mental illness does not want to seek any help or is in denial.

What happens after the child is born where one parent has a mental illness?

We are not medical doctors, psychologists, nor psychiatrists. However, in our experience, we noticed, in many of the cases we dealt with, that once a couple has a child, the mother’s medical illness surfaces, or becomes worse. The same may apply to the father. This observation could be because those types of matters make it to our office and should therefore not be a general assumption. However, be that as it may, if one parent has a medical illness that could affect her parenting skills, that needs to be looked at. This is so, even though it is not the parent’s fault that he or she has a mental illness. Now the best-case scenario would be for both parents to remain together if one has a mental disorder when there is a child involved. In that way, the child would be raised with both parents in his or her life and they can work as a team. Depending on the symptoms of the medical disorder, the family can live a balanced and fruitful life.

What happens to the child if the parents separate or divorces?

This is where the issues arise. Should the parents’ divorce or separate, the parties would have to decide who is best suited to care for the minor child or children. If the parent with the mental disorder was the primary caregiver of the minor child since birth, it would be hard to consider a change in primary caregiving. The parent with the mental illness may feel that it would be best that he or she care for the child, despite his or her mental condition. This is where things become very complicated and challenging. On the one hand, you have a parent who always cared for the child, but now has a mental illness, and want to retain primary care. On the other hand, you have a parent who was never the primary caregiver but now wants primary care due to the other parent’s mental condition.

Factors to be considered by the court and experts

Various factors come into play. For example, the age of the children, in whose home they will be living in, and also the mental condition itself. For example, if the child is 16 years old, and the mother has a serious mental illness, for the past 10 years, it would make little sense to change the primary residence of the minor child on that factor alone. By now the child would have learned to care for himself with the assistance the mother provided under the circumstances. On the other hand, if the child is 6 years old, and the mother cannot even take care of herself, then under those circumstances, it may be a good idea if the father primarily cares for the child after separation.

How does one resolve the issue of primary care if one of the parents have a mental condition?

Seeing that the condition is a medical one, mental health care experts need to get on board. An assessment would have to be made as to whether or not the child can be cared for by the relevant parent notwithstanding his or her mental condition. If there is no documentary proof, and such is required for court; the problem that one may encounter is that of doctor-patient confidentiality. This may not always be the case. But especially so if the parents were not married or living together. Usually, medical aid statements would give a timeline of the condition and its treatment. This would apply if the parent with the condition is on the other parent’s medical aid. If the medical practitioner is willing to give a report on the patient’s medical condition, and the inability to care for the minor child; things should be easier to resolve. However, if no such report or diagnosis is forthcoming, then things would be a bit more challenging. Either way, even if you have the report confirming the medical condition, and the issue is not resolved, then the court needs to be approached.

Approaching the court in a child custody matter where one parent has a mental illness

Not all cases of mental illness warrant a child being removed from the care of the primary caregiver. Each case is different and it depends on the facts of each one. However, should the mother had primary care, and she refuses to have the minor child reside with the father due to her mental condition, the court, unfortunately, have to be approached. If the father, in this case, has proof that the mother is mentally unsound and unable to care for the minor child, then the court would have to consider such evidence. This could be a report from the treating doctor or some medical records. The court may however not be in a position to decide how contact and care arrangements should be exercised. For this, the court may want the Office of the Family Advocate or a private social worker or psychologist to conduct an investigation and provide a report in the matter. Once the court has the expert report and heard from both parents concerned, would the court be in a favourable position to rule on what is best for the minor child? It does not mean that because the mother has a mental illness that she should not remain the primary caregiver. As outlined above, various factors would need to be considered. Especially the impact the mental illness would have on her caring ability towards the minor child.

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Frequently asked questions when it comes to parental responsibilities and rights of parents having issues or difficulties in co-caring for their children.
As things evolve, so does the legal question surrounding child custody, contact and care. For example, not too long ago, children were generally seen as best being cared for by mothers as opposed to fathers. Fathers would usually get custody if the mother was incapable of caring for a child. Now the law focuses solely on what is best for the child under specific circumstances. Therefore, it often happens that primary care is awarded to fathers where there are no social welfare issues involved. Moreover, a lot of attention is given to the voice of the child. This depends on the child’s age and level of maturity. We decided to answer various popular questions on parental rights and responsibilities when it comes to children. Below are 11 popular legal questions and answers Our Lawyer comes across. Further below are some frequently asked questions that you can apply your mind to.
Does a mother have more rights over a child than a father?
The father of my child never had contact with the child since before my child’s birth. Does he have any parental rights? We were never married.
Do I need a lawyer to obtain contact and care rights for my minor children? I never saw my children for the past 6 (six) months.
I am not a working mother. Does that mean that I cannot have primary care (custody) over my child
The father of my child is threatening to take our child away from me. Can he do that? He can afford lawyers.
Can I refuse the father to have contact with my child if he does not pay child support?
What happens if parents cannot agree on how to exercise their parental rights and responsibilities of care and contact?
Can a parent refuse the other parent’s contact with the minor child if there is no court order?
Can the minor child decide where he or she wants to live if the parents are separated?
How can I get full custody of my child without going to court?
Read on to find the answers to the above questions.
Does a mother have more rights over a child than a father?
If the parents are married, then they have equal parental rights and responsibilities over their child. They, therefore, both have to agree on important aspects of the child’s life. If the parents were not married, then the issue is that of whether or not the father acquired full parental rights and responsibilities over the child. In short, this he would acquire, if he was actively involved in the child’s life since birth, and paid child support. As the child would generally live with the mother, she would decide what is best for the child during the time he spends with her, and the father the same when the child is with him. As he would have acquired parental rights and responsibilities, he would have to consent for guardianship issues. For example, an application for a passport or leaving South Africa with the mother. If the parents cannot agree on these issues, they would have to try to agree on a parenting plan. If that turns out futile, the court may be approached.
The father of my child never had contact with the child since before my child’s birth. Does he have any parental rights? We were never married.
If a father was not married to the child’s mother, he would only obtain parental rights if he was involved in the child’s life since birth and contributed to the child’s maintenance adequately. This is the long and short of it. Concerning the question above, the father does not have any parental responsibilities and rights. Therefore, he cannot come into the child’s life after 10 years and demand to have contact. This may not be in the child’s best interest. Each case is however decided on its own merits.
Do I need a lawyer to obtain contact and care rights for my minor children? I never saw my children for the past 6 (six) months
It is very sad if a parent refuses the other parent’s contact with their minor children. It is not only the parent who loses out but the children as well. The bond the children have been developing with the other parent would be severed and needs to be rebuilt again. Although children may not express it, they do know that things are wrong. A child would know that a parent is no longer visiting. One does not have to have a lawyer to assist you in obtaining a court order to see your children. However, it is advisable. If you cannot afford one, you can approach the Children’s Court to assist you. It is not necessary to have an attorney or advocate in the latter court.

I am not a working mother. Does that mean that I cannot have primary care (custody) over my child?

There are many parents out there who are not working and caring for their children. The law does not state that a child should reside with a parent who can afford to maintain him or her. If the primary caregiver of the child is unemployed, the maintenance court can order that the other parent pay adequate child support to the other parent. This would be in the child’s best interest. Therefore, primary caregivers of children should not be afraid to fight to keep their children with them despite them being unemployed. They should approach the maintenance court if the other parent is not paying adequate child support for the minor child. The amount they claim can be all the child’s monthly expenses. In other words, the parent caring for the child would not spend any money on the child as she does not have the means. However, caring for the child has great value in it.

The father of my child is threatening to take our child away from me. Can he do that? He can afford lawyers.

This question we often receive from mothers who are separated from the child’s father. They feel vulnerable because the father is bullying them into believing that they will get what they want if the mother does not listen to them. This is a sad reality. However, one that nonetheless needs to be addressed. The law looks at what is best for the child. And does not listen to the parent who has more money or more status in society. If it would indeed be best for the child to live primarily with, the father, then the Court would make such a ruling. However, depending on the age of the child, and how he or she is being cared for, if parents separate, the child would usually remain with the parent who primarily cared for the child. As stated, what is best for the child is the deciding factor. Nothing else.

Can I refuse the father to have contact with my child if he does not pay child support?

Child maintenance obligations and the right to have contact with your child are two separate issues. That is why we have the Maintenance Court and the Children’s court. If a parent is not paying child support or adequate child support for that matter, the primary caregiving parent must approach the maintenance court to decide on the matter. The Maintenance Court would then make a ruling as to what is fair under the circumstances. On the other hand, if a parent is paying more than reasonable child maintenance, it does not mean he or she can have more contact with the minor child. In other words, the more he or she pays, the more contact he or she would have. The law does not work that way. If a parent feels that the other parent is unreasonably withholding contact, then he or she must approach the competent court for relief. But at the same time, continue paying child maintenance.

What happens if parents cannot agree on how to exercise their parental rights and responsibilities of care and contact?

Parental responsibilities and rights refer to aspects of where the child would live, how contact is to be exercised, maintenance and guardianship issues. Parents should first try to agree on a parenting plan should they experience difficulties in exercising their rights. Difficulties in the sense that they cannot agree to the above-mentioned aspects of parenting. The plan would be drafted with the assistance of a social worker, mediator, lawyer, or another suitably qualified person. If the parents cannot agree on the parenting plan, then they may approach the court to deal with their issues. They may approach the Children’s Court or the High Court. The challenge here is that it can take very long, expensive if you make use of lawyers, and further, you are leaving the decision to the court to decide. If you try to mediate a parenting plan beforehand, you and the other parent are in control of the situation.

Can a parent refuse the other parent’s contact with the minor child if there is no court order?

If a parent has parental responsibilities and rights over a minor child, he or she has the right to form part of the child’s life. A parent, therefore, cannot refuse the other parent reasonable contact with the minor child. This would not be in the minor child’s best interest. However, it often happens that a parent believes that under certain circumstances, the other parent should not have contact with the minor child. This is so, despite both parents having full parental responsibilities and rights over a minor child. This attitude can be dangerous, as we have a situation where one parent believes he or she is the sole decider as to what is best for the child. A child has two parents, and both parents should decide. Therefore, if there is no court order, and one parent primarily cares for the minor child, we would expect that parent to act reasonably and, in the child’s, best interest and not in a bossy and controlling manner. If the other parent feels that the primary caregiver is being unreasonable, he or she should attempt to mediate the matter and for a parenting plan to be entered into. If that does not work, the court should be approached to grant a final parenting order.

Can the minor child decide where he or she wants to live if the parents are separated?

Children are to be cared for and therefore, need their parents to decide what is best for them. Therefore, the answer to the question above is, no. It is not up to the child to decide where he or she wants to reside if his or her parents are separated. The parents must resolve this issue between themselves. The child’s views must be considered, based on his or her age and level of maturity. It sometimes happens where a child resides with one parent, and the other parent wants to manipulate the situation. He or she would try to get the child to get the primary caregiver to agree that primary care is reversed. For example, by promising the child something so that the child would act in a certain way which would change the living arrangements. This is not in the child’s best interests.

How can I get full custody of my child without going to court?

Custody is a factual issue. In other words, a parent can be caring for a child on his or her own for years. In such a case, he or she is exercising sole custody over the child. The parents may even agree that the child remains with one parent. Therefore, in such a case, that parent would have full custody. Therefore, it is not necessary to go to court if you are already exercising sole custody over your child. However, it often happens that parents want to formalise this situation with a Court Order. In such a case, approaching the court is necessary. We are certain that you found the above article useful and interesting. Please consider sharing it on the share buttons below. They include Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, Gmail and more. Someone may find it useful as well. Should you require business advice or services, feel free to click on these links: Business SA | Private Legal | Envirolaws

Below are some examples of frequently asked questions on the above topic. If they apply to you, feel free to set-up a consultation with us to discuss them.

What are grounds for sole custody?

Is sole custody permanent?

What are the benefits of sole custody?

How do I fight for full custody?

What can be used against you in a custody battle?

What is the difference between full and sole custody?

Can you get child support with full custody?

Can you file for full custody Online?

Can a father take a child away from the mother?

Can you get a free lawyer for custody?

Do you need a lawyer to get child custody?

Can a parent with sole custody deny visitation?

Can I move if I have sole custody?

Can I deny visitation to the father?

Can you go to jail for denying visitation?

Do I have to allow visitation without a court order?

What do I do if my child refuses visitation?

Can I take my child with me if I leave my husband?

What custody arrangement is best for a child?

How do I get full custody of my child in South Africa?

What does it mean to have sole custody?

What is the definition of sole custody?

What does it mean when you have sole custody?

What do courts look for in a custody battle?

How do you act in court for child custody?

Is a custody battle worth it?

What are the benefits of sole custody?

What are good reasons to get full custody?

Can I move if I have full custody?

How a father can lose a custody battle?

What can be used against you in a custody battle?

Why do fathers lose custody?

Is there a difference between full custody and sole custody?

How does a parent get sole custody?

What rights do I have with sole physical custody?

Who has custody if there is no agreement?

Can I see my child without a court order?

Can a father take a child away from the mother?

Can a father take a child from the mother in South Africa?

What percentage of fathers get custody?

Do you have to go to court for custody?

How can I get full custody of my child without going to court?

Can sole custody be taken away?

What is the difference between sole custody and termination of parental rights?

Can a father get away without paying child support?

Can I take my child with me if I leave my husband?

How much does a custody modification cost?

Can a mother get custody with no job?

What happens when you file for full custody?

How do I get full custody in South Africa?

What can I expect in custody court?

How long can a child custody battle last?

How do I go to court for child custody?

What is the normal visitation for a father?

What is the average custody agreement?

How can a father get 50 50 custody?

How much child maintenance should a father pay South Africa?

At what age can a child choose which parent to live within South Africa?

What age can you legally leave a child home alone in South Africa?

How a father can lose a custody battle?

What can be used against you in a custody battle?

Why do fathers lose custody?

Can a father take a child away from the mother?

Can a mother legally keep her child away from the father?

Can a mother take away a father’s rights?

How can I get full custody of my child without going to court?

What can I do if my child is not given to me for visitation?

Can a parent kidnap their child South Africa?

Can a parent with sole custody deny visitation?

Is sole custody permanent?

Can I move if I have sole custody?

What do courts look for in a custody battle?

How do you prove you should have full custody?

Is a custody battle worth it?

What are grounds for sole custody?

Do you get child support with sole custody?

What are my rights if I have sole custody?

What are the benefits of sole custody?

Is sole custody the same as full custody?

What is the difference between sole custody and termination of parental rights?

What does it mean to have sole custody?

What custody arrangement is best for a child?

What does a father need to get full custody?

Can visitation be denied to a father?

Do I have to allow visitation without a court order?

How can a father lose his visitation rights?

Does a mother automatically have full custody?

How far can I move with full custody?

How can a woman lose custody of her child?

Can a father take a child away from the mother?

How can I get full custody of my child without going to court?

How do I get sole parental responsibility?

What can be used against you in a custody battle?

Why do fathers lose custody?

What age can a family advocate interview?

Can I stop my child seeing his father?

Can a father get away without paying child support?

Can I take my child with me if I leave my husband?

Do I need a lawyer for child support modification?

Can you get a free lawyer for custody?

Do you need a lawyer for a custody battle?

Is a custody battle worth it?

How do you fight a sociopath in custody?

What can I expect in custody court?

What do courts look for in a custody battle?

Can I get married during a custody battle?

How do you deal with a custody battle?

How do you win a custody battle against a narcissist?

Posted on 11 February 2025 by Telelaw

Frequently asked questions when it comes to parental responsibilities and rights of parents having issues or difficulties in co-caring for their children. As things evolve, so does the legal question surrounding child custody, contact and care. For example, not too long ago, children were generally seen as best being cared Continue Reading

How does one get divorced in South Africa? Adv. Muhammad Abduroaf unpacks the legal process in a simplified manner.
Written by Adv. Muhammad Abduroaf – LL.B LL.M Advocate of the High Court of South Africa

Legal Advice on getting divorced

If you want to get divorced from your spouse, I strongly advise that you approach a legal practitioner, or an attorney to attend to it on your behalf. This I would implore even more under the following circumstances: – There will be a dispute over care and visitation rights over the child/children; – One of the parties will be applying for forfeiture of patrimonial benefits from a marriage in community of property; – The joint estate is huge or complicated; or – The other party will be making use of legal representation.

If, however, you would like to know the general procedures on how to go about in obtaining a divorce decree; they are listed summarily below. Many rules regulate divorce processes and the summary below does exclude some of them. These include exceptions, strikeouts, compelling compliance, service addresses etc. Other matters incidental to divorce proceedings, e.g. interim arrangements pending the divorce regarding maintenance for you or your children and care and contact regarding children are not dealt with. Therefore, please consult a legal practitioner or the divorce court throughout your divorce process should you decide to do the divorce yourself.

Summons and Particulars of Claim

A summons needs to be drafted which should be issued by the divorce court to commence the divorce process. It should have on it the details of the court you will be issuing the divorce from, details of the parties, e.g. names, occupation, and address, etc. Every High Court in the area where you live has the authority to attend to a divorce. You may also approach the Magistrate’s Court. Each court has its own rules and procedures. You should then draft a document called “particulars of claim” outlining relevant matters concerning the marriage, children, reasons for wanting a divorce and what do you want the court to grant you in a divorce order. This particulars of claim you attach to the summons. Once you have your summons and particulars of claim in order, you have to have the summons issued. To do this, make three (3) copies of your set of documents (summons and particulars of Claim) and have it issued at court. Other documents may have to be attached as well.

Issuing and Service of the Divorce Summons

Once you are at the court, go to the clerk/registrar of the court and have your documents issued. The clerk/registrar will sign the summons and provide a case number and write it on the summons. You should then take the original and a copy (both must be signed and stamped by the clerk/registrar of the court) and take it to the sheriff which serves documents where your spouse works or lives. You can ask the clerk/registrar of the court for those details. The extra—copy of the summons and particulars of claim you keep for your file and records.

Notice of intention to defend the divorce

Once the sheriff served the documents, your spouse has two weeks to inform you whether he or she will be defending the divorce. This information is outlined in the summons. If your spouse decided not to defend the divorce action, then after two weeks has elapsed, you may set the matter down as an undefended divorce. If your spouse intends to defend the divorce, he or she would then have to do as outlined next.

Plea to particulars of claim in divorces

Once you received notice of your spouse’s intention to defend the divorce, about a month later, your spouse or his or attorney should serve and file a plea. The plea should outline which parts of your particulars of claim your spouse agree (or disagree) with which would give everyone an indication of what to prove at court.

Counter Claim in Divorce Actions

Your spouse might want to file a counter-claim. In the same way, which you outlined your case as to what you want from the court and the reasons therefore in your particulars of claim, your spouse can file on you as well a counter-claim. A counter-claim might still be filed if your spouse agrees to a divorce, but maybe wants primary care of the children, but in your particulars of claim, you asked for primary care. You should then within 10 (ten) days plead to the counter-claim in the same manner in which your spouse pleaded to your particulars of claim.

Discovery in divorce cases

While you are waiting for a trial date, and way before the trial, you may ask, or may be asked to provide under oath a schedule of books and documents in your possession and under your control relating to the divorce. This could be policy documents, deeds etc, and which you or your spouse might want to make use of at trial. Once you received these schedules you may inspect and request copies of the documents.

Obtaining a trial date for the divorce

Once you received the plea, without a counter-claim, or have pleaded to your spouses counter-claim, you should then approach the clerk/registrar of the court for a trial date. This you or your spouse may do. Please note that certain courts may have other procedures that need to first be adhered to before obtaining a trial date. For example pre-trial conferences before a judicial officer etc.

Divorce day / Trial date (Finalising the Divorce)

If your spouse does not defend the divorce within the period mentioned above, go back to court and ask for an unopposed divorce date and attend to your divorce on that date. If however your divorce is defended, a trial should ensure. During the trial, each party will prove his or her case. Witnesses will be called and at the end, the Magistrate or Judge will deliver the judgment. Best of luck, and please, don’t take my word, contact a legal practitioner should you decide to get divorced. Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf (Cape Town | Western Cape LL.B & LL.M (Master of Laws) Constitutional Litigation – Advocate of the High Court of South Africa – Member of the Legal Practice Council of South Africa We are certain that you found the above article useful and interesting. Please consider sharing it on the share buttons below. They include Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, Gmail and more. Someone may find it useful as well. Should you require business advice or services, feel free to click on these links: Business SA | Private Legal | Envirolaws

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Commonly asked questions about divorce in South Africa.
The South African Courts are granting divorces to people on a daily basis. Some divorces were initiated a few weeks ago, and others go back several years. The distinction between couples who obtained a divorce in a matter of weeks and those who waited for years is straightforward. Those who chose to wait a few weeks realised that fighting was futile, and by getting divorced sooner, they could move on with their lives more quickly.
Our unopposed divorce service
If your marriage has broken down and you and your spouse agree to get divorced, talk to us about your uncontested divorce options. We guarantee that your divorce will be resolved swiftly and with minimal stress and anxiety. Here are some frequently asked questions about divorce. If you have any particular questions, don’t hesitate to schedule a consultation with us.
What are the costs of an unopposed divorce?
The costs of an unopposed divorce would vary. That would depend on the law firm and the issues involved. We offer an unopposed divorce at a fixed fee.
What questions to ask when considering divorce?
The most important question to ask when considering divorce is whether your marriage can be saved. If your marriage cannot be saved, then a divorce may be the best thing for you.
What is the requirement for a divorce in Court?
For a court to divorce you, the Court has to be convinced on a few aspects. They relate to the issue or jurisdiction; you are married, and the marriage has broken down irretrievably. If there are minor children involved, the Court would want to be convinced that their best interests are being upheld.
What is the biggest challenge of divorce?
The biggest challenge in divorce is for the parties to accept that their marriage is over.
What not to do when asking for a divorce?
Do not agree on things you may regret later—for example, agreeing to relinquish assets you may want to keep.
What to do before telling your spouse you want a divorce?
Make sure you want a divorce.
What to do before telling your wife you want a divorce?
Make sure you want a divorce.
What is the first step when you want a divorce?
It would be best if you saw a lawyer.
What are my rights as a wife in a divorce in South Africa?
If you were maintained by your husband during the marriage, you may have a right to personal maintenance or alimony.
How do I start a divorce process?
The divorce process starts with a Summons.
How much does divorce cost in South Africa?
It can range from a few thousand rands. You can also do it yourself for free.
How long does a divorce take in South Africa?
I can take a few weeks if it is unopposed or a few years if opposed. It depends on the Court as well. Some courts are very busy.
What is the first step to divorce in South Africa?
It is to institute if at Court.
What is a free divorce in South Africa?
It is where you do not make use of a lawyer. You can do the divorce yourself.
How can I speed up my divorce in South Africa?
Try to settle the divorce.
What happens to the provident fund when you divorce?
If you are married in a community of property, the non-member spouse should receive half.
How much is a wife entitled to in a divorce pension?
If you are married in a community of property, the wife is entitled to half.
How long after divorce can you remarry in South Africa?
Immediately.
Can I claim my husband’s pension after the divorce in South Africa?
Yes, you can.
What is spousal maintenance in South Africa?
It is where your spouse has to continue supporting you after the marriage.
How long does a pension fund take to pay out after divorce?
Usually between two to three months.
How long does it take to get money from GEPF after divorce?
It is best to contact them. However, it is estimated to take about two to three months.
Does GEPF pay a lump sum?
They should pay what the divorce order says.
Who qualifies for GEPF?
A spouse is someone who is married to the member.
How do I claim my spouse’s pension after divorce?
You should claim before the divorce. If after, you must approach the Court.
What are the spousal benefits of GEPF?
You should contact them.
How is the Gepf payout calculated?
You should contact them.
What is the final salary for Gepf?
You should contact them.
How much is a lump sum from the final salary pension?
It will usually be 50 % if you are married in a community of property.
Can my wife claim half of my pension?
Yes.
How is spouse pension calculated?
It is calculated at the value of the divorce.
How can I check my GEPF balance?
Contact them.
What is rule 43 in South Africa for divorce?
It is a procedure in the High Court where you claim child maintenance, custody or contribution towards legal costs pending the divorce finalisation.
Who loses the most in a divorce?
The children, if the parties keep fighting.
Do I have to support my wife after the divorce?
No, unless a court orders you to do so.
What are the stages of divorce for a woman?
There are no specific stages.
How do I decide when to divorce?
If your marriage has broken down and cannot be saved.
What is the number 1 reason for divorce?
Parties are incompatible.
What are the three effects of divorce?
It varies between people.
Who initiates divorce more?
One would have to look at the divorce statistics.
Can a divorce be denied in South Africa?
Yes, it can.
What should I ask myself before divorce?
Can the marriage be saved?
What are the disadvantages of divorce?
You are no longer together as a family unit.
What should you think about before divorce?
Can the marriage relationship be saved?
What to do before telling your spouse you want a divorce?
Speak to a divorce lawyer.
What to do before telling your wife you want a divorce?
Speak to a divorce lawyer.
Why should you never bring up divorce?
You should only bring it up if the marriage has broken down.
What are my rights as a wife in a divorce in South Africa?
You have a right to alimony if you can prove your claim.
What is the pensionable salary?
A salary where the pension is paid.
How is pension calculated?
It would be best if you spoke to your employer.
What is the rule 58 in divorce?
It is where you claim interim maintenance, custody or a contribution towards costs in the magistrates court.
Is everything split 50-50 in a divorce in South Africa?
Only if you are married in a community of property.
What happens to the provident fund when you divorce?
If you are married in a community of property, the non-member spouse will receive half the value as of the date of the divorce.
How much tax do you pay on a divorce settlement in South Africa?
You should speak to an accountant.
What documents are needed for divorce in South Africa?
Marriage certificate for the Court.
How much does it cost to file for divorce in SA?
From free to a few thousand.
What is a free divorce in South Africa?
It is where you do it yourself, or a lawyer does not charge you.
How long does it take to Finalise a divorce in South Africa?
From a few weeks if all is agreed upon to a few years if the parties cannot.
How long after divorce can you remarry in South Africa?
Immediately.
Who should file for divorce first in South Africa?
Any spouse.
Who gets custody of the child in divorce in South Africa?
The parent that can best care for the child.

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Domestic violence cases in South Africa
As a legal consultancy, we deal with domestic violence cases on a regular basis. Most of the situations are unique and comes with its own set of dynamics in which the legal expert will have to make the appropriate legal call. It is safe to say, if we may, that most times the cases we deal with involves women and children as the vulnerable targets in the process. The legal expert have cleverly compiled some free, expert legal advice articles that may be of help to the layperson who happens to stumble across our website. We are conveniently situated at The Pinnacle, corner of Strand and Burg Street in the CBD, Cape Town, South Africa. Make use of our online appointment system which is efficient and stress free. Call our offices for an online appointment today.

Types of domestic violence in South Africa

Often, we mistake domestic violence as only physical and this is not the case. Below are some brief examples of the different types of domestic violence and abuse:

Control
Physical
Emotional and Domination
Verbal Abuse
Economic Abuse
Physiological Abuse

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How does the Domestic Violence Act protect citizens?

The Domestic Violence Act 116 or 1198, was introduced to afford woman the right to protect themselves by which they can enforce their rights legally if they fear for their life – the Act highlights that domestic violence as a serious offense. Victims of domestic violence, woman and children that is, can now stand up for themselves by virtue of a protection order or restraining order. Arrange for an online appointment for a professional legal consultation today and have the legal expert explain to you in context how your legal rights can be executed. Connect with us today!

Defending Protection Order in South Africa

First of all, a Protection Order or harassment order serves as a direct order from court which should be adhered to. Any violation of a court’s instruction can be legally detrimental. The court order granted, will only be suitable to the person suffering any form of violence or harassment. A Protection Order is mainly applicable in cases of domestic violence in which the perpetrator lives with the victim. In a case of harassment, the perpetrator is not living with the victim. This is where a harassment order comes in. Do you fear for your life? Make an online appointment with us today and have your legal right asserted!

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Dear Advocate Abduroaf. My child custody case is very complicated. How do I find the best child custody lawyer, attorney or advocate for my case in Pietermaritzburg?
A great child custody lawyer (attorney or advocate) is a legal practitioner who specializes in family law and has expertise in handling cases related to child custody and visitation rights. Family law matters can be very emotionally challenging for both parents. The same applies to the child concerned. Whether you live in Cape Town or in Pietermaritzburg, the law applicable would be the same throughout South Africa.
Here are some qualities and characteristics that can define a great child custody lawyer, or the best one for your case:
Experience and Expertise:
Specialization in family law, particularly child custody cases.
Proven track record of successfully handling similar cases.
Knowledge of Family Law:
In-depth understanding of family law.
Awareness of recent legal developments and changes in family law.
Communication Skills:
Effective communication skills to clearly articulate your case in court.
Ability to negotiate and mediate to reach favourable settlements.
Compassion and Empathy:
Understanding and empathy towards the emotional challenges involved in child custody disputes.
Ability to provide emotional support to clients during a difficult time.
Strategic Thinking:
Ability to devise a strategic legal approach tailored to the unique aspects of your case.
Forethought and anticipation of potential challenges.
Availability and Responsiveness:
Prompt responses to client inquiries and concerns.
Availability for meetings, court appearances, and consultations.
Client Reviews and References:
Positive reviews from previous clients.
Recommendations from colleagues or other legal professionals.
Ethical Conduct:
Adherence to professional and ethical standards.
Transparent and fair billing practices.
Courtroom Experience:
Comfort and confidence in a courtroom setting.
Skillful presentation of arguments and evidence.
Resourcefulness:
Resourcefulness in finding legal precedents and utilizing available resources to strengthen the case.
Problem-Solving Skills:
Creative problem-solving skills to navigate complex family dynamics and legal issues.
Custody and Visitation Knowledge:
In-depth knowledge of various custody arrangements and visitation schedules.
Ability to advocate for the best interests of the child.
What should you consider when meeting with a family law attorney or advocate?
When looking for a great child custody lawyer, it’s essential to schedule consultations, discuss your case, and assess whether the lawyer, attorney, or advocate possesses the qualities and skills that align with your needs and goals. Additionally, consider seeking recommendations from trusted friends, family members, or other legal professionals. Finding the best child custody lawyer involves thorough research, careful consideration of your specific needs, and evaluation of the lawyer’s qualifications. Here are some steps you can take to find the right child custody lawyer for your situation:
Define Your Goals and Needs:
Clearly identify your goals and priorities in the child custody case.
Determine the specific services you need from a lawyer, such as legal representation, mediation, or collaborative law.
Research Local Family Law Attorneys:
Use online legal directories and referral services to identify family law attorneys or Trust Account Advocate in your area.
Seek recommendations from friends, family, or colleagues who have gone through similar situations.
Check Credentials and Specialization:
Look for lawyers who specialize in family law and, more specifically, child custody cases.
Check their credentials, education, and any certifications related to family law.
Read Reviews and Testimonials:
Read online reviews on legal review websites, social media, or the lawyer’s own website.
Consider testimonials from previous clients to gauge the lawyer’s reputation and success rate.
Consult with Multiple Lawyers:
Schedule consultations with several child custody lawyers to discuss your case.
Prepare a list of questions to ask during the consultation, covering topics such as experience, approach to cases, and expected outcomes.
Evaluate Communication Skills:
Assess the lawyer’s communication style and whether you feel comfortable discussing your case with them.
Ensure that the lawyer listens actively and provides clear explanations of legal processes.
Consider Experience:
Inquire about the lawyer’s experience in handling child custody cases similar to yours.
Ask about their success rate and outcomes in past cases.
Review Legal Fees:
Discuss the lawyer’s fee structure during the consultation.
Clarify billing practices, retainer fees, and any additional costs associated with your case.
Check Disciplinary Records:
Verify the lawyer’s standing with the Legal Practice Council of South Africa.
Check for any disciplinary actions or complaints against the lawyer.
Seek Second Opinions:
If you have initial concerns or uncertainties, consider seeking a second opinion from another attorney or advocate.
Compare advice and recommendations from multiple sources.
Trust Your Instincts:
Pay attention to your instincts and gut feelings about the lawyer.
Choose a lawyer you feel comfortable working with and who understands your unique situation.
Negotiation and Mediation Skills:
Assess the lawyer’s ability to negotiate and mediate, especially if you prefer an amicable resolution.
Remember that finding the best child custody lawyer is a personalized process, and the right fit for one person may not be the best for another. Take the time to thoroughly research and evaluate potential lawyers to make an informed decision based on your specific needs and circumstances.
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Dear Advocate Abduroaf. My child custody case is very complicated. How do I find the best child custody lawyer, attorney or advocate for my case in Pietermaritzburg? A great child custody lawyer (attorney or advocate) is a legal practitioner who specializes in family law and has expertise in handling cases Continue Reading

How do you know if a Lawyer is good?
When it comes to choosing a good Attorney or legal expert, the layperson can fall into a big trap. This is not necessary due to ignorance – anyone can be fooled. Knowing this full well, we decided that this piece could help you determine whether a particular legal expert is capable of dealing with your legal matter. It is interesting to note that we often get questions such as:
Is your legal expert experienced?
How long has your legal expert been in the game?
What are his legal expertise?
What kind of law does your legal consultancy specialise in…and so forth
What is great is that our law offices can truly boast a professional legal expert who will be on board to guide you through your legal consultations. For more on the experiences and expertise of our legal expert, see the following free, expert legal advice articles in the following categories: Child Maintenance
How to Apply for Child Maintenance at Court – Step by Step Guide and Advice
Child Maintenance Question. How much should I pay or contribute as a parent?
Child Support or maintenance claims. Does an unemployed father pay?
Non-compliance with Maintenance Orders — Civil and Criminal Remedies
Tricks and tips on how to win your child maintenance case
Child Custody
The Law Regarding Children – The Children’s Act 38 of 2005
Child born out of wedlock: Mother will not consent to her surname change and to be registered as her biological father. What can I do?
How do I get full custody over my child?
Parental Child Abuse in Custody Cases
Relocate with minor child. Parent Refusing Consent for a Passport
Father being refused contact to his child! What are his rights as a Father?
Father’s Parental Responsibilities and Rights to his Child
Urgent Access to your Children without a Lawyer
Parenting Plans and the Law
What happens in a custody dispute where one parent is mentally ill?
How to win your child custody and access court case – Tips and Tricks
Rights of care, contact and guardianship of grandparents to their grandchildren – What does the law say?
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Attorney and Advocate – the difference?

Believe it or not, but there is a major difference between the two professions – though both experts have the law in common. We are very much aware of the confusion so feel free to see our Advocate of the High Court page as well as our Lawyers, Attorneys, Advocates, Legal Practitioners explained page. Feel free to call our friendly receptionist to make an online appointment with us today and consult with a legal expert.

Find a specialized expert

Our law offices are situated in the heart of the buzzing CBD at Suit 702, 7^th floor, The Pinnacle, corner of Strand and Burg Street. We are legal experts in family law whereby we offer a range of family law legal services. These are:

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Family Law Service – Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf – Finding the best lawyer for you.
Choosing the right law firm (Attorney or Advocate) can be a daunting task in the intricate landscape of legal matters. Whether you’re facing a complex litigation case, navigating corporate law, or seeking legal assistance for personal issues, the decision of which law firm to engage is crucial. At the firm Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf, we understand the significance of this decision, and we aim to demonstrate why choosing our firm can make all the difference.
Expertise and Specialisation
One of the primary reasons for choosing our law firm is our expertise and specialisation in diverse legal areas. As you can see from this website, advocate Muhammad Abduroaf practices in various fields of law. This breadth of expertise ensures that no matter the nature of your legal issue, you will have access to knowledgeable and experienced professionals who can provide tailored solutions.
Personalised Approach
We recognise that every client and every case is unique. That’s why we prioritise a personalised approach to legal representation. From the moment you engage our services, we take the time to understand your specific needs, concerns, and objectives. This allows us to develop strategies and solutions customised to your circumstances, ensuring the best possible outcome for your case.
Commitment to Excellence
At Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf, excellence is not just a goal – it’s our standard. We are committed to providing our clients with the highest quality legal services, characterized by thorough research, meticulous attention to detail, and strategic thinking. Our track record of success speaks for itself, with numerous satisfied clients who have benefited from our dedication to excellence.
Responsive and Accessible
Legal matters can be stressful and overwhelming, so we prioritise responsiveness and accessibility. Our team is readily available to address your questions, concerns, and needs throughout your case. Whether you prefer to communicate via phone, WhatsApp, email, or in-person meetings, we are here to provide you with the support and guidance you need when you need it.
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Legal representation shouldn’t break the bank. That’s why we are committed to providing cost-effective solutions that deliver value for our clients. We offer transparent billing practices and strive to minimise unnecessary expenses wherever possible, ensuring you receive top-notch legal services without the hefty price tag.
Ethical and Professional Conduct
Integrity and ethics are at the core of everything we do. Our team adheres to the highest standards of professional conduct, ensuring your case is handled with the utmost integrity, honesty, and discretion. You can trust that your legal matters will be handled with care and respect, and your confidentiality will always be protected. In conclusion, choosing the right law firm can significantly impact the outcome of your legal matters. At Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf, we offer expertise, specialisation, personalised service, commitment to excellence, responsiveness, cost-effective solutions, and ethical conduct. These qualities set us apart and make us the ideal choice for clients seeking top-notch legal representation. Contact us today to learn how we can assist you with your legal needs. If you require an Advocate Law Firm to assist you in your legal matter, feel free to contact us using the following details:
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Uncontested divorce in South Africa
What do we mean when we use the term “uncontested divorce”? Our law offices have potential clients calling in on a regular basis and when asked about the nature of the divorce, we’re met with “What do you mean?“. This is perfectly normal from a layperson’s perspective. To put it simply, an uncontested divorce is a divorce in which both parties are in agreement with. Because of the less complex nature of this divorce; it can be done within a matter of three weeks with our legal expert on board. As explained by the legal expert on our website, for Undefended Divorce in the Western Cape High Court, you will have to: Complete the free online divorce form below to assist you with your unopposed divorce. View the following related pages: Free DIY Online Divorce Guide and Form A divorce guide in PDF format A Sample Summons in Word format A Particulars of Claim in Word Format A notice of Set Down in Word Format Find out more about Undefended Divorce in the Western Cape High Court and call our law offices on 021 424 3487 to make an online appointment with us for a professional legal consultation today!

DIY divorce in Cape Town, Western Cape

Are you interested in finding out more about doing your own divorce? While this can be more economically viable option, you will need the assistance of the legal expert to guide you along the way. Our website has been designed to navigate easily for the layperson. The creators of this website have also tried to make content easy to navigate. With this in mind, we have supplied a number of free, expert legal advice articles that has been carefully crafted by the legal expert himself. According to the legal expert stated in Do Your Own Unopposed Divorce, the following will need to be done: A summons needs to be drafted which will be issued by the divorce court to commence the divorce process. It should have on it the details of the court you will be issuing divorce, details of the parties, e.g. names, occupation and address etc. Every High Court in the area where you live has the authority to attend to a divorce. There are however specialized divorce courts that may attend to a divorce as well. You should then draft a particulars of claim, outlining relevant matters concerning the marriage, children, reasons for wanting a divorce and what do you want the court to grant you in a divorce order. This particulars of claim you attach to the summons. Here is an example of a summons and particulars of claim for a divorce for a couple married in community of property with no children getting divorce in the High Court in Cape Town. For more on how to go about your DIY Divorce, see our Do Your Own Unopposed Divorce and make an online appointment with us today by calling our friendly receptionist at 021 424 3487.

Contested divorce in South Africa

When it comes to contested divorce – we’re talking long Court procedures due to overbearing court rolls. First of all, a contested divorce is a divorce in which both, or one party opposes the divorce and is not in agreement of the divorce. We have found that the parties becomes overly emotional about the process and tend to lose track of the bigger picture. This is a major contributing factor that adds to dragging process. However, our legal expert would always inform parties that easy divorces are generally rare (even in a case of an uncontested divorce). One too many times, where there’s children involved, you will find issues of child custody, visitation rights and child maintenance will arise in the process. As advised on How to Win Your Divorce Case article, it is encouraged to acquaint yourself with the laws regarding child maintenance. The following scenario is highlighted for instance: Lets say a couple was married for 10 (years). They married in community of property. In other words, they share in everything. There are 2 children born from the marriage. They live in a home that is bonded, but purchased by the wife before the marriage. The bond is only registered on her name, and gets deducted from her personal banking account. The father however does not work, but attends to the household, which includes cleaning, taking the kids to school, making food etc. When the children are ill, the father would be the one who stays up caring for them. School projects and homework is also attended to by the father. The father does some web designing work for income, but his income is minimal compared to that of his wife. The best would be to enter into a parenting plan. For more on this, read our How to Win Your Divorce Case article on our web page. Call our law offices on 021 424 3487 to make an online appointment with us for a professional legal consultation today!

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As previously mentioned, we pride ourselves in trying to make legal information easily accessible. Do feel free to link on the relevant links below and start downloading our free, legal advice products for your convenience:

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