Relocating from South Africa with your child – When do you need consent from the father?

Relocation – If you were born and raised in South Africa, it does not mean that you have to live there for the rest of your life. There are opportunities elsewhere in the world to live and continue your life’s journey. This may include a neighbouring country, or on another continent like Europe. Wherever it is, there are a few things to consider should you wish to relocate with your minor child. This is especially so if you are not relocating with the father. If you are the only parent to your child, then this article may not apply to you. This is where we will start off this article.

The other parent when it comes to relocation

If you are a mother and was never married to the father of your child, the father may have guardianship rights. This would be the case even though the father’s name is not mentioned on the child’s birth certificate. This is so as the Children’s Act affords certain rights to unmarried fathers. Therefore, if an unmarried father has parental rights and responsibilities of guardianship, his consent is required. This we deal with next.

Guardian’s Consent for relocation and passport – What does the law say?

The Children’s Act states the following: 18 Parental responsibilities and rights (1) A person may have either full or specific parental responsibilities and rights in respect of a child. (2) The parental responsibilities and rights that a person may have in respect of a child, include the responsibility and the right- (a) to care for the child; (b) to maintain contact with the child; (c) to act as guardian of the child; and (d) to contribute to the maintenance of the child. (3) Subject to subsections (4) and (5), a parent or other person who acts as guardian of a child must- (a) administer and safeguard the child’s property and property interests; (b) assist or represent the child in administrative, contractual and other legal matters; or (c) give or refuse any consent required by law in respect of the child, including- (i) consent to the child’s marriage; (ii) consent to the child’s adoption; (iii) consent to the child’s departure or removal from the Republic; (iv) consent to the child’s application for a passport; and (v) consent to the alienation or encumbrance of any immovable property of the child. (4) Whenever more than one person has guardianship of a child, each one of them is competent, subject to subsection (5), any other law or any order of a competent court to the contrary, to exercise independently and without the consent of the other any right or responsibility arising from such guardianship. (5) Unless a competent court orders otherwise, the consent of all the persons that have guardianship of a child is necessary in respect of matters set out in subsection (3) (c) .

Consent to the child’s departure or removal from the Republic of South Africa and Passport

As can be seen above, section 18(3)(c)(iii) and (iv), read with section 18(5) of the Children’s Act; both guardians’ consent is required for the minor child’s departure or removal from South Africa and for a passport. Therefore, should a mother decide to relocate to Canada, for example, she would need the father’s consent if he is a guardian. Now it is clear that not all fathers are guardians of their children. Here the law differentiates between married and unmarried fathers.

Parental responsibilities and rights of married fathers

Section 20 of the Children’s Act deals with the Parental responsibilities and rights of married fathers. It states the following: 20 Parental responsibilities and rights of married fathers The biological father of a child has full parental responsibilities and rights in respect of the child- (a) if he is married to the child’s mother; or (b) if he was married to the child’s mother at- (i) the time of the child’s conception; (ii) the time of the child’s birth; or (iii) any time between the child’s conception and birth. From the above, it is a given, that fathers who were married to the mother, as described above should consent for the relocation and application for a passport of the minor child. This is so as full parental responsibilities and rights include the right of guardianship over the child.

Parental responsibilities and rights of unmarried fathers

Section 21 of the Children’s Act deals with Parental responsibilities and rights of unmarried fathers. It states the following: 21 Parental responsibilities and rights of unmarried fathers (1) The biological father of a child who does not have parental responsibilities and rights in respect of the child in terms of section 20, acquires full parental responsibilities and rights in respect of the child- (a) if at the time of the child’s birth he is living with the mother in a permanent life-partnership; or (b) if he, regardless of whether he has lived or is living with the mother- (i) consents to be identified or successfully applies in terms of section 26 to be identified as the child’s father or pays damages in terms of customary law; (ii) contributes or has attempted in good faith to contribute to the child’s upbringing for a reasonable period; and (iii) contributes or has attempted in good faith to contribute towards expenses in connection with the maintenance of the child for a reasonable period. (2) This section does not affect the duty of a father to contribute towards the maintenance of the child. (3) (a) If there is a dispute between the biological father referred to in subsection (1) and the biological mother of a child with regard to the fulfilment by that father of the conditions set out in subsection (1) (a) or (b) , the matter must be referred for mediation to a family advocate, social worker, social service professional or other suitably qualified person. (b) Any party to the mediation may have the outcome of the mediation reviewed by a court. (4) This section applies regardless of whether the child was born before or after the commencement of this Act. Analysing the above, it is clear that only if an unmarried father played a material role in the child’s life, as stipulated, he acquired the parental responsibility and right of guardianship over the child. Therefore, his consent would be required for the relocation and application for a passport.

What if a father does not want to consent to the relocation and application for a passport?

If the father does not want to consent to the relocation and application for a passport of the minor child and he has legal guardianship over that child; section 18(5) of the Children’s Act referred to above finds application. The mother would then have to approach the High Court to dispense with the father’s consent. We are certain that you found the above article useful and interesting. Please consider sharing it on the share buttons below. They include Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, Gmail and more. Someone may find it useful as well. Should you require business advice or services, feel free to click on these links: Business SA | Private Legal | Envirolaws  

Relocating from South Africa with your child – When do you need consent from the father?

Relocation – If you were born and raised in South Africa, it does not mean that you have to live there for the rest of your life. There are opportunities elsewhere in the world to live and continue your life’s journey. This may include a neighbouring country, or on another continent like Europe. Wherever it is, there are a few things to consider should you wish to relocate with your minor child. This is especially so if you are not relocating with the father. If you are the only parent to your child, then this article may not apply to you. This is where we will start off this article.

The other parent when it comes to relocation

If you are a mother and was never married to the father of your child, the father may have guardianship rights. This would be the case even though the father’s name is not mentioned on the child’s birth certificate. This is so as the Children’s Act affords certain rights to unmarried fathers. Therefore, if an unmarried father has parental rights and responsibilities of guardianship, his consent is required. This we deal with next.

Guardian’s Consent for relocation and passport – What does the law say?

The Children’s Act states the following:

18 Parental responsibilities and rights

(1) A person may have either full or specific parental responsibilities and rights in respect of a child.

(2) The parental responsibilities and rights that a person may have in respect of a child, include the responsibility and the right-

(a) to care for the child;

(b) to maintain contact with the child;

(c) to act as guardian of the child; and (d) to contribute to the maintenance of the child.

(3) Subject to subsections (4) and (5), a parent or other person who acts as guardian of a child must-

(a) administer and safeguard the child’s property and property interests; (b) assist or represent the child in administrative, contractual and other legal matters; or

(c) give or refuse any consent required by law in respect of the child, including-

(i) consent to the child’s marriage;

(ii) consent to the child’s adoption;

(iii) consent to the child’s departure or removal from the Republic;

(iv) consent to the child’s application for a passport; and

(v) consent to the alienation or encumbrance of any immovable property of the child.

(4) Whenever more than one person has guardianship of a child, each one of them is competent, subject to subsection (5), any other law or any order of a competent court to the contrary, to exercise independently and without the consent of the other any right or responsibility arising from such guardianship.

(5) Unless a competent court orders otherwise, the consent of all the persons that have guardianship of a child is necessary in respect of matters set out in subsection (3) (c) .

Consent to the child’s departure or removal from the Republic of South Africa and Passport

As can be seen above, section 18(3)(c)(iii) and (iv), read with section 18(5) of the Children’s Act; both guardians’ consent is required for the minor child’s departure or removal from South Africa and for a passport. Therefore, should a mother decide to relocate to Canada, for example, she would need the father’s consent if he is a guardian. Now it is clear that not all fathers are guardians of their children. Here the law differentiates between married and unmarried fathers.

Parental responsibilities and rights of married fathers

Section 20 of the Children’s Act deals with the Parental responsibilities and rights of married fathers. It states the following:

20 Parental responsibilities and rights of married fathers

The biological father of a child has full parental responsibilities and rights in respect of the child-

(a) if he is married to the child’s mother; or

(b) if he was married to the child’s mother at-

(i) the time of the child’s conception;

(ii) the time of the child’s birth; or

(iii) any time between the child’s conception and birth.

From the above, it is a given, that fathers who were married to the mother, as described above should consent for the relocation and application for a passport of the minor child. This is so as full parental responsibilities and rights include the right of guardianship over the child.

Parental responsibilities and rights of unmarried fathers

Section 21 of the Children’s Act deals with Parental responsibilities and rights of unmarried fathers. It states the following:

21 Parental responsibilities and rights of unmarried fathers

(1) The biological father of a child who does not have parental responsibilities and rights in respect of the child in terms of section 20, acquires full parental responsibilities and rights in respect of the child-

(a) if at the time of the child’s birth he is living with the mother in a permanent life-partnership; or

(b) if he, regardless of whether he has lived or is living with the mother-

(i) consents to be identified or successfully applies in terms of section 26 to be identified as the child’s father or pays damages in terms of customary law;

(ii) contributes or has attempted in good faith to contribute to the child’s upbringing for a reasonable period; and

(iii) contributes or has attempted in good faith to contribute towards expenses in connection with the maintenance of the child for a reasonable period.

(2) This section does not affect the duty of a father to contribute towards the maintenance of the child.

(3) (a) If there is a dispute between the biological father referred to in subsection

(1) and the biological mother of a child with regard to the fulfilment by that father of the conditions set out in subsection

(1) (a) or (b) , the matter must be referred for mediation to a family advocate, social worker, social service professional or other suitably qualified person. (b) Any party to the mediation may have the outcome of the mediation reviewed by a court.

(4) This section applies regardless of whether the child was born before or after the commencement of this Act.

Analysing the above, it is clear that only if an unmarried father played a material role in the child’s life, as stipulated, he acquired the parental responsibility and right of guardianship over the child. Therefore, his consent would be required for the relocation and application for a passport.

What if a father does not want to consent to the relocation and application for a passport?

If the father does not want to consent to the relocation and application for a passport of the minor child and he has legal guardianship over that child; section 18(5) of the Children’s Act referred to above finds application. The mother would then have to approach the High Court to dispense with the father’s consent.

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My husband and I are separated, and we are planning on getting divorced. How do I deal with the emotional aspect of my divorce seeing that we have children together?

Dealing with the emotional aspects of a divorce can be challenging, but there are several strategies and coping mechanisms that may help you navigate this difficult time. Keep in mind that everyone’s experience is unique, so it’s essential to find what works best for you. Here are some suggestions:

Allow Yourself to Grieve:

Understand that divorce is a loss, and it’s okay to grieve. Give yourself permission to feel a range of emotions, including sadness, anger, confusion, and even relief.

Seek Support:

Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist to share your feelings and experiences. Having a support system can provide comfort and understanding during this challenging time.

Take Care of Your Physical Health:

Pay attention to your physical well-being by maintaining a healthy diet, getting regular exercise, and ensuring you get enough sleep. Physical well-being is closely linked to emotional well-being.

Establish Routine and Structure:

Creating a daily routine can help bring a sense of normalcy to your life. Having structure can provide a sense of stability during a period of upheaval.

Set Realistic Expectations:

Understand that healing takes time, and there is no set timeline for getting over a divorce. Be patient with yourself and acknowledge the progress you make, no matter how small.

Focus on Self-Care:

Prioritize self-care activities that bring you comfort and joy. Whether it’s reading, taking long walks, or practicing mindfulness, taking care of yourself is crucial during this challenging time.

Limit Conflict and Communication:

Minimize contact with your ex-partner if possible, especially in the early stages of the divorce. This can help reduce unnecessary conflict and give both parties time to heal.

Consider Professional Help:

Therapy or counseling can be beneficial in navigating the emotional aspects of divorce. A mental health professional can provide guidance, support, and coping strategies tailored to your specific situation.

Rebuild Your Identity:

Take this time to rediscover yourself and explore activities that bring you joy. Rebuilding your identity outside of the marriage can be an essential part of the healing process.

Look Towards the Future:

While it’s important to process the emotions associated with the divorce, try to shift your focus toward the future. Set new goals and aspirations for yourself, and look for opportunities to grow and move forward. Remember that healing is a gradual process, and it’s okay to seek professional help if needed. Taking care of your emotional well-being is a crucial step in rebuilding your life after a divorce.

Daniella Mair – Psychological Counsellor Professional Summary                                           I am a passionate, positive and driven person. I strive for excellence in everything I do while keeping my own limitations in mind. I am dedicated to being an being an honest, ethical and valuable member of society. I conduct myself from an empathetic internal point of reference and enjoy helping people learn and grow in their own lives. I am a psychological Counsellor who deals with many cases of family trauma and family disjointment and am passionate about helping with the process of repair. I have always been a very maternal person who connects well with children, I am dedicated to being part of decision making that will allow children to have the best possible opportunities, love and care and feel grateful to be able to do so as a divorce mediator. Employment history                                                     Psychological Counsellor & Divorce Mediator, Self. Cape Town                         Mar. 2010 – Present I run a private practice dealing with all areas of psychological well being focusing on child and adolescent development, psychopathology, family therapy and divorce mediation with specific focus on creating parenting plans. My main area of interest is to Counsel individuals, groups, or families to help them understand problems, deal with crisis situations, define goals, and develop realistic action plans.  Facilitator, Various. Cape Town Jan. 2004 – Dec. 2012 Facilitator at Herzlia school for various learners with learning difficulties. Provide ongoing support and advance them in their studies, offer motivational and mental health support.  HR, Ashdan Electronics. Cape Town Jan. 2005 – Jan. 2008 Implement staffing guidelines, Project managed various products. Research and development. Education FAMAC, Cape Town Course, Divorce Mediation, Oct. 2012 UNISA, Cape Town HONORS, Psychology, Nov. 2010 UNISA, Cape Town Bachelor of Arts, Communications, Nov. 2008

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