Daniella Mair – Psychological Counsellor Professional Summary                                           I am a passionate, positive and driven person. I strive for excellence in everything I do while keeping my own limitations in mind. I am dedicated to being an being an honest, ethical and valuable member of society. I conduct myself from an empathetic internal point of reference and enjoy helping people learn and grow in their own lives. I am a psychological Counsellor who deals with many cases of family trauma and family disjointment and am passionate about helping with the process of repair. I have always been a very maternal person who connects well with children, I am dedicated to being part of decision making that will allow children to have the best possible opportunities, love and care and feel grateful to be able to do so as a divorce mediator. Employment history                                                     Psychological Counsellor & Divorce Mediator, Self. Cape Town                         Mar. 2010 – Present I run a private practice dealing with all areas of psychological well being focusing on child and adolescent development, psychopathology, family therapy and divorce mediation with specific focus on creating parenting plans. My main area of interest is to Counsel individuals, groups, or families to help them understand problems, deal with crisis situations, define goals, and develop realistic action plans.  Facilitator, Various. Cape Town Jan. 2004 – Dec. 2012 Facilitator at Herzlia school for various learners with learning difficulties. Provide ongoing support and advance them in their studies, offer motivational and mental health support.  HR, Ashdan Electronics. Cape Town Jan. 2005 – Jan. 2008 Implement staffing guidelines, Project managed various products. Research and development. Education FAMAC, Cape Town Course, Divorce Mediation, Oct. 2012 UNISA, Cape Town HONORS, Psychology, Nov. 2010 UNISA, Cape Town Bachelor of Arts, Communications, Nov. 2008

Daniella Mair – Psychological Counsellor

Professional Summary                                          

I am a passionate, positive and driven person.

I strive for excellence in everything I do while keeping my own limitations in mind.
I am dedicated to being an being an honest, ethical and valuable member of society.
I conduct myself from an empathetic internal point of reference and enjoy helping people learn and grow in their own lives.
I am a psychological Counsellor who deals with many cases of family trauma and family disjointment and am passionate about helping with the process of repair.
I have always been a very maternal person who connects well with children, I am dedicated to being part of decision making that will allow children to have the best possible opportunities, love and care and feel grateful to be able to do so as a divorce mediator.

Employment history                                                    

Psychological Counsellor & Divorce Mediator, Self. Cape Town                        

Mar. 2010 – Present

I run a private practice dealing with all areas of psychological well being focusing on child and adolescent development, psychopathology, family therapy and divorce mediation with specific focus on creating parenting plans. My main area of interest is to Counsel individuals, groups, or families to help them understand problems, deal with crisis situations, define goals, and develop realistic action plans.

 Facilitator, Various. Cape Town

Jan. 2004 – Dec. 2012

Facilitator at Herzlia school for various learners with learning difficulties.

Provide ongoing support and advance them in their studies, offer motivational and mental health support.

 HR, Ashdan Electronics. Cape Town

Jan. 2005 – Jan. 2008

Implement staffing guidelines, Project managed various products.
Research and development.

Education

FAMAC, Cape Town

Course, Divorce Mediation, Oct. 2012

UNISA, Cape Town

HONORS, Psychology, Nov. 2010

UNISA, Cape Town

Bachelor of Arts, Communications, Nov. 2008

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Top tips and tricks from a Senior Family Law Advocate on claiming maintenance for a five-year-old child in Cape Town.

Child Maintenance is the right of the child, and not that of the parent. It is also not a privilege granted to parents who must pay it. It is their duty to pay child maintenance and support their children. Once the child is self-supporting (being able to care for him or herself), the obligation falls away. This can happen when the child is 18, 20, or even 30. It all depends on the circumstances of the case.

Claiming child maintenance for your child in Cape Town

Whether you claim child maintenance in Cape Town, or any other city in South Africa, the procedures would be the same. There are however two (2) courts that can deal with child maintenance matters. That is a divorce court, in a divorce matter, and a Child Maintenance Court. For this article, we will focus on claiming maintenance in a Maintenance Court matter in Cape Town.

The maintenance scenario – Cape Town South Africa

In this article, we will deal with the following fictitious scenario, in a child maintenance matter:

  1. The Child is seven years old and attends school in Cape Town
  2. The child is cared for by the mother who works in Cape Town
  3. The mother works and earns a Salary of R 10 000
  4. The father sees the child every second weekend. He also lives and works in Cape Town
  5. The child’s monthly expenses are R 6000 – 00 which includes food, clothing, accommodation, education, travel etc.
  6. The father earns a reasonable salary and can afford the R 20 000 – 00 per month
  7. The mother claims R 4 000 – 00 maintenance as the father earns double her salary

What is the first step the mother must take in claiming child maintenance?

The first thing the mother must do is work out exactly what the child costs by item. She breaks down the minor child’s living expenses, starting from rent or accommodation to groceries to school fees etc. Once she has done that, she would need to determine what exactly does the minor child cost per month, seeing that she will be asking the father to contribute towards that. As best as possible, she needs to collect proof of expenses. This can be in the form of receipts.

How does she start the legal process?

The mother now needs to approach the maintenance court in the area where she lives or works to lodge a complaint for child maintenance. If she lives or works in Cape Town, it would be the maintenance court in Cape Town. She will complete a Form A wherein she will provide all the expenses for her and the minor child. She would also have to stipulate her income. Once she completed the form and submitted it to the maintenance court, she must then follow the next step.

What do you do while waiting for the maintenance court date?

While you wait to be informed of the court date by the Maintenance Court of Cape Town, and up until the actual first court date, you need to ensure that you keep a record of all income and expenses for you and the child. This is very important as the court allocates maintenance based on recent income and expenses.

What happens at the first court appearance at the Cape Town Maintenance Court?

Once you have been notified of the maintenance court date by the Cape Town Maintenance Court, you need to ensure that you attend it. On that day, both you and the father of the child would appear before a maintenance officer. The maintenance officer would go through both your income and expenses as well as that of the father. If all the relevant information is not before the maintenance court, then the matter may be postponed in order for the parties to submit it.

The maintenance officer will try to settle the matter and have the parents come to an agreement regarding the amount of child maintenance to be paid. If they cannot come to an agreement regarding the child maintenance to be paid, the matter would have to proceed to a formal hearing or trial before a Magistrate.

How does the Maintenance Court hearing or trial work in Cape Town?

Essentially, the maintenance court is called upon to make a fair ruling regarding what is a fair amount of child support that needs to be paid. For that to happen, the parents would have to give evidence in that regard. The mother would present to the court what the child costs, what she contributes and what she requires the other parent to pay. The Father would have a right to question the mother and to present evidence as to why he cannot afford the amount requested or why he feels it is an unfair amount. The mother can they also question him.

At the end of the day, the Cape Town Maintenance Court would be able to properly determine what is a fair and adequate amount of child maintenance to pay after being presented will all relevant information. The Cape Town Maintenance Court should play an active role in determining what is a fair amount of child maintenance the father should pay.

The above child maintenance application principles should apply to the following provinces and cities:

Eastern Cape:

Alice, Butterworth, East London, Graaff-Reinet, Grahamstown, King William’s Town, Mthatha

Port Elizabeth, Queenstown, Uitenhage, Zwelitsha

Free State:

Bethlehem. Bloemfontein, Jagersfontein, Kroonstad, Odendaalsrus, Parys, Phuthaditjhaba, Sasolburg, Virginia, Welkom

Gauteng:

Benoni, Boksburg, Brakpan, Carletonville, Germiston, Johannesburg, Krugersdorp, Pretoria, Randburg, Randfontein, Roodepoort, Soweto, Springs, Vanderbijlpark, Vereeniging

KwaZulu-Natal:

Durban, Empangeni, Ladysmith, Newcastle, Pietermaritzburg, Pinetown, Ulundi, Umlazi

Limpopo:

Giyani, Lebowakgomo, Musina, Phalaborwa, Polokwane, Seshego, Sibasa, Thabazimbi

Mpumalanga:

Emalahleni, Nelspruit, Secunda, North West, Klerksdorp, Mahikeng, Mmabatho, Potchefstroom, Rustenburg, Northern Cape, Kimberley, Kuruman, Port Nolloth

Western Cape:

Bellville, Cape Town, Constantia, George, Hopefield, Oudtshoorn, Paarl, Simon’s Town, Stellenbosch, Swellendam, Worcester