Top tips from a Senior Family Law Advocate on how to deal with your Child Custody matter in the Roodepoort Children’s Court

 

Family law legal matters can be very stressful. This is so whether you live in Roodepoort or any other city in South Africa. Especially so if you have no idea how the legal processes work. It is one thing to know that you are entitled to child support, but it is a totally different matter to know the law and procedure on how to claim child support. Luckily in child maintenance matters, the maintenance court is there to assist you in completing the application form. However, many times that is not enough. Especially so if the other parent has a lawyer and knows how to present the case for his or her client.

This article, however, deals with some top tips in care and contact or custody matters in the Children’s Court in Roodepoort. It would explain the processes involved and advise on how to be best prepared for your matter. This advice is applicable whether you live in Roodepoort or any other city in South Africa.

What to do before visiting the Roodepoort Children’s Court

Before you approach the Children’s Court in Roodepoort, first try to resolve the issues with the other parent. Therefore, if you want more contact with your child and the other parent is refusing, try to resolve the matter first with that parent. If that does not work, try mediation. The mediator can be anyone, from a trusted mutual friend, priest, or other religious leaders, or a professional like an attorney, psychologist, or the office of the Family Advocate. Roodepoort has many professionals that can assist you in this regard. If resolving the matter by yourselves is not possible, or mediation fails, then we suggest you approach the Roodepoort Children’s Court for assistance.

TIP: Focus on getting someone neutral to assist in mediating your matter. Organisations like FAMSA and FAMAC can be of assistance. Google them.

Approaching the Roodepoort Children’s Court

The Roodepoort Children’s Court should be approached if it is the closest Children’s Court to you. You need to verify with the Roodepoort Children’s Court that you fall under their area of jurisdiction. If not, they would direct you to which Children’s Court is applicable to you.

Once you arrive at the Roodepoort Children’s Court, they will provide you with a form headed “Bringing Matter to Court in Terms of Section 53 Children’s Act, 2005 (Act no. 38 of 2005) Regulation Relating to Children’s Court and International Child Abduction, 2008 [Regulation 6]. This form is also called Form 2.

In this form, you will provide all your particulars and that of the child or children and the other parent. The sections in the form are as follows:

  • PART A: PARTICULARS OF CHILD(REN)
  • PART B: PARTICULARS OF *CHILD WHO IS AFFECTED BY OR INVOLVED IN THE MATTER/PERSON *ACTING IN THE INTEREST OF THE CHILD/*ON BEHALF OF THE CHILD WHO CANNOT ACT IN HIS/HER OWN NAME/ *MEMBER OF A GROUP OF CLASS OF CHILDREN/*IN THE PUBLIC INTEREST (SECTION 53(2)
  • PART C: PARTICULARS OF PERSONS HAVING AN INTEREST IN THE MATTER
  • PART D: PARTICULARS OF MATTER

In part D, the following is stated which you need to provide in the form:

  • Nature of matter brought to Court: (Please give full details of the matter e.g., registration/amendment of parenting plans, removal of child to safe care, children in need of care and protection, placement in youth care centers, adoption etc.
  • Documents: Are there any documents relating to the matter? (If so please attach)

Once you have completed the form and attached the relevant documents to it, you must take it to a commissioner of Oaths to have it commissioned. It does not have to be in Roodepoort.

TIP: Draft a separate affidavit explaining your case. Outline some background information and reasons why the Court should give you what you request. Attach it to Form 2.

Processing your Application at the Roodepoort Children’s Court

Once you complete the Form A and submit it to the Clerk of the Roodepoort Children’s Court, they will process it and allocate it a case number or reference number. The Clerk of the Court would then allocate a date to the matter and advise the parties accordingly when the court date is. Please note that some courts follow a different process for processing the application and informing the parties of the court date. Please enquire from the Court when making the application what process they follow.

TIP: Obtain the contact details of the Court for you to contact them to obtain the Court date or other information. Ask for their contact number and email address.

Appearing in the Roodepoort Children’s Court

When notified of the Court date, both you and the other parent should attend. If you are making use of a lawyer (Advocate or Attorney), inform them timeously of the date. Depending on the Court, you may first see the Clerk or go directly to the Magistrate. The Children’s Court would do its best to try to resolve the matter. If the parents cannot come to an agreement, the Children’s Court may postpone the matter for either of the following:

  • Get a social worker involved in the matter;
  • Appoint a legal representative for the minor child;
  • Implement interim care and contact arrangements;
  • Having the parties attempt to agree on a parenting plan;
  •  

In serious matters, the Court may remove the minor child from both parents and place the child in foster care. The powers of the Children’s Court are extensive. It will, however, focus on what is in the child’s best interests.

TIP: Be as vocal as possible. Do not expect the Court to be understanding of your case or be on your side. It is your duty to explain your case and provide the Court with all the relevant information they require for them to make a fair decision.

Finalising the matter in the Roodepoort Children’s Court

Once the Roodepoort Children’s Court has enough information to make a final decision, it will do so. Depending on the facts of the matter, that could either be making a Parenting Plan, an Order of the Court or a final care and contact Order. The Court may even make further interim orders, where the parties are to return to Court after a few months, or a year later.

TIP: Do not agree to something just because the social worker, a lawyer, or the Court suggest it. You need to be happy with what is decided.

The above Roodepoort Children’s Court Application tips should apply to the following provinces and cities:

Eastern Cape:

Alice, Butterworth, East London, Graaff-Reinet, Grahamstown, King William’s Town, Mthatha

Port Elizabeth, Queenstown, Uitenhage, Zwelitsha

Free State:

Bethlehem. Bloemfontein, Jagersfontein, Kroonstad, Odendaalsrus, Parys, Phuthaditjhaba, Sasolburg, Virginia, Welkom

Gauteng:

Benoni, Boksburg, Brakpan, Carletonville, Germiston, Johannesburg, Krugersdorp, Pretoria, Randburg, Randfontein, Roodepoort, Soweto, Springs, Vanderbijlpark, Vereeniging

KwaZulu-Natal:

Durban, Empangeni, Ladysmith, Newcastle, Pietermaritzburg, Pinetown, Ulundi, Umlazi

Limpopo:

Giyani, Lebowakgomo, Musina, Phalaborwa, Polokwane, Seshego, Sibasa, Thabazimbi

Mpumalanga:

Emalahleni, Nelspruit, Secunda, North West, Klerksdorp, Mahikeng, Mmabatho, Potchefstroom, Rustenburg, Northern Cape, Kimberley, Kuruman, Port Nolloth

Western Cape:

Bellville, Roodepoort, Constantia, George, Hopefield, Oudtshoorn, Paarl, Simon’s Town, Stellenbosch, Swellendam, Worcester

Top tips from a Senior Family Law Advocate on how to deal with your Child Custody matter in the Roodepoort Children’s Court

 

Family law legal matters can be very stressful. This is so whether you live in Roodepoort or any other city in South Africa. Especially so if you have no idea how the legal processes work. It is one thing to know that you are entitled to child support, but it is a totally different matter to know the law and procedure on how to claim child support. Luckily in child maintenance matters, the maintenance court is there to assist you in completing the application form. However, many times that is not enough. Especially so if the other parent has a lawyer and knows how to present the case for his or her client.

This article, however, deals with some top tips in care and contact or custody matters in the Children’s Court in Roodepoort. It would explain the processes involved and advise on how to be best prepared for your matter. This advice is applicable whether you live in Roodepoort or any other city in South Africa.

What to do before visiting the Roodepoort Children’s Court

Before you approach the Children’s Court in Roodepoort, first try to resolve the issues with the other parent. Therefore, if you want more contact with your child and the other parent is refusing, try to resolve the matter first with that parent. If that does not work, try mediation. The mediator can be anyone, from a trusted mutual friend, priest, or other religious leaders, or a professional like an attorney, psychologist, or the office of the Family Advocate. Roodepoort has many professionals that can assist you in this regard. If resolving the matter by yourselves is not possible, or mediation fails, then we suggest you approach the Roodepoort Children’s Court for assistance.

TIP: Focus on getting someone neutral to assist in mediating your matter. Organisations like FAMSA and FAMAC can be of assistance. Google them.

Approaching the Roodepoort Children’s Court

The Roodepoort Children’s Court should be approached if it is the closest Children’s Court to you. You need to verify with the Roodepoort Children’s Court that you fall under their area of jurisdiction. If not, they would direct you to which Children’s Court is applicable to you.

Once you arrive at the Roodepoort Children’s Court, they will provide you with a form headed “Bringing Matter to Court in Terms of Section 53 Children’s Act, 2005 (Act no. 38 of 2005) Regulation Relating to Children’s Court and International Child Abduction, 2008 [Regulation 6]. This form is also called Form 2.

In this form, you will provide all your particulars and that of the child or children and the other parent. The sections in the form are as follows:

  • PART A: PARTICULARS OF CHILD(REN)
  • PART B: PARTICULARS OF *CHILD WHO IS AFFECTED BY OR INVOLVED IN THE MATTER/PERSON *ACTING IN THE INTEREST OF THE CHILD/*ON BEHALF OF THE CHILD WHO CANNOT ACT IN HIS/HER OWN NAME/ *MEMBER OF A GROUP OF CLASS OF CHILDREN/*IN THE PUBLIC INTEREST (SECTION 53(2)
  • PART C: PARTICULARS OF PERSONS HAVING AN INTEREST IN THE MATTER
  • PART D: PARTICULARS OF MATTER

In part D, the following is stated which you need to provide in the form:

  • Nature of matter brought to Court: (Please give full details of the matter e.g., registration/amendment of parenting plans, removal of child to safe care, children in need of care and protection, placement in youth care centers, adoption etc.
  • Documents: Are there any documents relating to the matter? (If so please attach)

Once you have completed the form and attached the relevant documents to it, you must take it to a commissioner of Oaths to have it commissioned. It does not have to be in Roodepoort.

TIP: Draft a separate affidavit explaining your case. Outline some background information and reasons why the Court should give you what you request. Attach it to Form 2.

Processing your Application at the Roodepoort Children’s Court

Once you complete the Form A and submit it to the Clerk of the Roodepoort Children’s Court, they will process it and allocate it a case number or reference number. The Clerk of the Court would then allocate a date to the matter and advise the parties accordingly when the court date is. Please note that some courts follow a different process for processing the application and informing the parties of the court date. Please enquire from the Court when making the application what process they follow.

TIP: Obtain the contact details of the Court for you to contact them to obtain the Court date or other information. Ask for their contact number and email address.

Appearing in the Roodepoort Children’s Court

When notified of the Court date, both you and the other parent should attend. If you are making use of a lawyer (Advocate or Attorney), inform them timeously of the date. Depending on the Court, you may first see the Clerk or go directly to the Magistrate. The Children’s Court would do its best to try to resolve the matter. If the parents cannot come to an agreement, the Children’s Court may postpone the matter for either of the following:

  • Get a social worker involved in the matter;
  • Appoint a legal representative for the minor child;
  • Implement interim care and contact arrangements;
  • Having the parties attempt to agree on a parenting plan;
  •  

In serious matters, the Court may remove the minor child from both parents and place the child in foster care. The powers of the Children’s Court are extensive. It will, however, focus on what is in the child’s best interests.

TIP: Be as vocal as possible. Do not expect the Court to be understanding of your case or be on your side. It is your duty to explain your case and provide the Court with all the relevant information they require for them to make a fair decision.

Finalising the matter in the Roodepoort Children’s Court

Once the Roodepoort Children’s Court has enough information to make a final decision, it will do so. Depending on the facts of the matter, that could either be making a Parenting Plan, an Order of the Court or a final care and contact Order. The Court may even make further interim orders, where the parties are to return to Court after a few months, or a year later.

TIP: Do not agree to something just because the social worker, a lawyer, or the Court suggest it. You need to be happy with what is decided.

The above Roodepoort Children’s Court Application tips should apply to the following provinces and cities:

Eastern Cape:

Alice, Butterworth, East London, Graaff-Reinet, Grahamstown, King William’s Town, Mthatha

Port Elizabeth, Queenstown, Uitenhage, Zwelitsha

Free State:

Bethlehem. Bloemfontein, Jagersfontein, Kroonstad, Odendaalsrus, Parys, Phuthaditjhaba, Sasolburg, Virginia, Welkom

Gauteng:

Benoni, Boksburg, Brakpan, Carletonville, Germiston, Johannesburg, Krugersdorp, Pretoria, Randburg, Randfontein, Roodepoort, Soweto, Springs, Vanderbijlpark, Vereeniging

KwaZulu-Natal:

Durban, Empangeni, Ladysmith, Newcastle, Pietermaritzburg, Pinetown, Ulundi, Umlazi

Limpopo:

Giyani, Lebowakgomo, Musina, Phalaborwa, Polokwane, Seshego, Sibasa, Thabazimbi

Mpumalanga:

Emalahleni, Nelspruit, Secunda, North West, Klerksdorp, Mahikeng, Mmabatho, Potchefstroom, Rustenburg, Northern Cape, Kimberley, Kuruman, Port Nolloth

Western Cape:

Bellville, Roodepoort, Constantia, George, Hopefield, Oudtshoorn, Paarl, Simon’s Town, Stellenbosch, Swellendam, Worcester

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I want the best lawyer for my legal case. What are the traits of the best lawyers (advocate or attorney) in South Africa? I want to win.

In the intricate tapestry of the legal profession, certain individuals rise to the zenith, embodying the epitome of legal excellence. The title of the “best lawyer” is not merely a matter of subjective opinion but is earned through a combination of exceptional skills, unwavering ethics, and a profound commitment to justice. In this article, we delve into the defining characteristics that set the best lawyers apart in their pursuit of legal mastery.

Expertise and Knowledge:

At the heart of every exceptional lawyer is a vast reservoir of legal knowledge and expertise. The best lawyers are not just well-versed in the letter of the law; they possess a deep understanding of its nuances and implications. Continuous learning and staying abreast of legal developments are essential traits that distinguish them from their peers. Whether it’s civil law, criminal law, or corporate law, the best lawyers are adept at navigating the complex web of statutes and legal precedents.

Exceptional Analytical Skills:

Legal issues are seldom straightforward; they require a meticulous and analytical approach. The best lawyers possess an innate ability to dissect complex legal problems, identify key issues, and formulate effective strategies. Their analytical skills allow them to foresee potential challenges and devise solutions that stand up to scrutiny in the courtroom.

Effective Communication:

The ability to communicate persuasively is a hallmark of a top-tier lawyer. From crafting compelling arguments to articulating legal principles in a manner accessible to clients and court, effective communication is a multi-faceted skill. The best lawyers can distill intricate legal concepts into digestible information, ensuring their clients are well-informed and judges and court are swayed by their persuasive prowess.

Integrity and Ethics:

The legal profession places a premium on ethics, and the best lawyers exemplify the highest standards of integrity. Trust is the bedrock of the attorney-client relationship, and maintaining ethical conduct is paramount. Whether dealing with confidential information or navigating ethical dilemmas, the best lawyers prioritize honesty and integrity in all their professional endeavors.

Tenacity and Perseverance:

Legal battles can be protracted and demanding. The best lawyers exhibit unwavering tenacity and perseverance in the face of adversity. They approach challenges with a determined spirit, tirelessly advocating for their clients’ interests. Whether in negotiations, mediations, or courtroom trials, these lawyers stand resolute, demonstrating a commitment to achieving the best possible outcomes for their clients.

Empathy and Client-Centered Approach:

Beyond legal acumen, the best lawyers understand the human element of their profession. Empathy is a crucial quality that enables them to connect with clients on a personal level, comprehend their concerns, and tailor legal strategies to meet individual needs. A client-centered approach underscores the best lawyers’ commitment to achieving justice for those they represent.

Adaptability:

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My husband and I are separated, and we are planning on getting divorced. How do I deal with the emotional aspect of my divorce seeing that we have children together?

Dealing with the emotional aspects of a divorce can be challenging, but there are several strategies and coping mechanisms that may help you navigate this difficult time. Keep in mind that everyone’s experience is unique, so it’s essential to find what works best for you. Here are some suggestions:

Allow Yourself to Grieve:

Understand that divorce is a loss, and it’s okay to grieve. Give yourself permission to feel a range of emotions, including sadness, anger, confusion, and even relief.

Seek Support:

Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist to share your feelings and experiences. Having a support system can provide comfort and understanding during this challenging time.

Take Care of Your Physical Health:

Pay attention to your physical well-being by maintaining a healthy diet, getting regular exercise, and ensuring you get enough sleep. Physical well-being is closely linked to emotional well-being.

Establish Routine and Structure:

Creating a daily routine can help bring a sense of normalcy to your life. Having structure can provide a sense of stability during a period of upheaval.

Set Realistic Expectations:

Understand that healing takes time, and there is no set timeline for getting over a divorce. Be patient with yourself and acknowledge the progress you make, no matter how small.

Focus on Self-Care:

Prioritize self-care activities that bring you comfort and joy. Whether it’s reading, taking long walks, or practicing mindfulness, taking care of yourself is crucial during this challenging time.

Limit Conflict and Communication:

Minimize contact with your ex-partner if possible, especially in the early stages of the divorce. This can help reduce unnecessary conflict and give both parties time to heal.

Consider Professional Help:

Therapy or counseling can be beneficial in navigating the emotional aspects of divorce. A mental health professional can provide guidance, support, and coping strategies tailored to your specific situation.

Rebuild Your Identity:

Take this time to rediscover yourself and explore activities that bring you joy. Rebuilding your identity outside of the marriage can be an essential part of the healing process.

Look Towards the Future:

While it’s important to process the emotions associated with the divorce, try to shift your focus toward the future. Set new goals and aspirations for yourself, and look for opportunities to grow and move forward. Remember that healing is a gradual process, and it’s okay to seek professional help if needed. Taking care of your emotional well-being is a crucial step in rebuilding your life after a divorce.

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