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I am a victim of Domestic Violence – Please provide me with questions and answers for general issues in domestic violence matters.

  • What is considered domestic violence in South Africa?
    • Domestic violence in South Africa includes physical, emotional, sexual, or economic abuse within an intimate relationship or household.
  • Are men also protected under South African domestic violence laws?
    • Yes, South African laws protect both men and women from domestic violence. Any person, regardless of gender, can be a victim or perpetrator.
  • How can one obtain a protection order against domestic violence in South Africa?
    • To obtain a protection order, a victim can apply at the Magistrate’s Court, and if in immediate danger, they can approach the police.
  • What are the consequences of violating a protection order in South Africa?
    • Violating a protection order is a criminal offence, and penalties may include fines or imprisonment.
  • Can domestic violence victims get legal assistance in South Africa?
    • Yes, victims can seek legal assistance through organizations like Legal Aid South Africa or private attorneys specializing in domestic violence cases.
  • Are there support services available for domestic violence victims in South Africa?
    • Yes, various organizations provide support services, including shelters, counseling, and legal advice for domestic violence victims.
  • What role can the police play in domestic violence cases in South Africa?
    • The police can intervene, arrest the perpetrator if necessary, and assist and/or advise victims in obtaining protection orders.
  • Is it possible to report domestic violence anonymously in South Africa?
    • While anonymous reporting might be challenging, victims can request confidentiality, and their information can be protected during legal proceedings.
  • What rights do children have in cases of domestic violence in South Africa?
    • Children have the right to be protected from domestic violence, and authorities may intervene to ensure their safety.
  • Can a victim drop charges against an alleged perpetrator of domestic violence in South Africa?
    • In criminal cases, only the state can drop charges. However, in civil cases like obtaining a protection order, the victim has control over the process.
  • Are there cultural considerations in addressing domestic violence in South Africa?
    • Yes, cultural sensitivities are considered, but domestic violence is universally condemned, and legal measures apply regardless of cultural background.
  • What is the role of social workers in domestic violence cases in South Africa?
    • Social workers can provide counseling, support, and assistance in finding resources for victims of domestic violence.
  • Can a victim of domestic violence in South Africa claim compensation?
    • Yes, victims may seek compensation through civil claims against the perpetrator for damages suffered due to domestic violence.
  • Are employers obligated to support employees experiencing domestic violence in South Africa?
    • Employers are encouraged to support employees facing domestic violence and can provide assistance such as counseling or time off for legal proceedings.
  • Can technology be used as evidence in domestic violence cases in South Africa?
    • Yes, text messages, emails, or other electronic communications can be used as evidence in domestic violence cases.
  • What steps can schools take to address domestic violence affecting students in South Africa?
    • Schools can create awareness, provide counseling services, and collaborate with relevant authorities to address domestic violence affecting students.
  • How does the South African legal system handle false accusations of domestic violence?
    • False accusations can be taken seriously, and the legal system aims to discern the truth through investigations to prevent misuse of protection orders.
  • Is domestic violence education mandatory in South African schools?
    • While not mandatory, initiatives exist to incorporate awareness programs about domestic violence into school curricula.
  • Can immigration status affect a victim’s ability to report domestic violence in South Africa?
    • No, immigration status should not be a barrier to reporting domestic violence, and victims are encouraged to seek help regardless of their legal status.
  • What community resources are available to combat domestic violence in South Africa?
    • Community resources include NGOs, helplines, and community centers that provide support, counseling, and education on domestic violence.

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How do I strategies my child maintenance case? I am struggling to grasp how to approach my maintenance matter. Please give me some advice?

As with any legal matter where you have a dispute, you need to have a strategy or a plan to be successful. Without a strategy or plan, you are just hoping for the best. However, hope does not steer a boat to shore. There are some, and in most cases, a lot of work, planning and thinking. Let’s face it, the other party or parent in your legal matter also has a plan or strategy. Suppose they put the necessary energy into executing it for the intended results, or at least more than what you are putting into it; their results will favour them much more. That is so, despite all the hope you put into it.

Understand the maintenance laws and how it works

But before we move on, with any plan or strategy, comes knowledge. It would do little good if you did not research how child maintenance works, the legal process, and what outcomes are possible. With all the information online, it is expected that you would watch some online videos on child maintenance and read some of the many articles on the topic. Knowledge is key, and that is what is going to get you through your case.

What are the basic principles in a child maintenance matter?

We would not say child maintenance matters are simple. Very few, if any, legal matters are simple. But anyone can learn. However, if you are guided by the principle that the maintenance amount payable is based on what the child costs, you are getting somewhere. That is your starting point and stay focused on that. Not what the parents earn or what they own. That is secondary. It does not mean that if a parent earns R 50 000 – 00 a month, that they should pay R 10 000 – 00 a month, despite the child costing R 1 000 – 00 a month. At best, the most the parent would pay is R 1 000 – 00. It would help if you worked from the ground up.

You need to focus on two words, “reasonable”, and “necessary.”

The child’s expenses must be reasonable and necessary for you to convince a Court to allow those expenses. In other words, force a parent to contribute towards it. In determining what is reasonable and necessary, one would look at what the child needs for daily living and whether that falls within the standard of living of the parents and the child. For example, if the parents are modest salary earners, living in humble homes, and were brought up in the same way, then that would be what the minor child would be entitled to when calculating child maintenance. If the parents never had ponies as pets, then a pony would not amount to a reasonable and necessary expense for the minor child. However, it is up to you to explain to the court why an expense is “reasonable” and “necessary”. If you can do so for a pony, then you did a good job.

Look at the means or money available in the maintenance equation

The principle one must move towards is that parents have to contribute towards the minor child based on their means. Remember, their contribution is firstly based on what the child costs and not what the earnings and wealth of the parents are. Then we need to look at what the parents can afford. Now affordability is not only based on your income, but also on your assets. If a parent does not have an income but owns expensive assets, then that has to be taken into account. Think of it this way – a parent can convert that asset into money by selling the asset.

Remember, parents have to live as well (They also have expenses)

It is not that simple just to take the gross or net salary of the parent and then work out the maintenance payable from there, based on the needs of the child. If that was the case, then maintenance matters would be resolved much quicker. Parents have expenses that need to be factored into the equation. Hold that in mind all the time because that principle applies to you. Therefore, in order for a parent to earn a salary to pay child support, he or she needs to eat at work, buy clothes for work, travel to work and so on. Circumstances need to be assessed on what they are and not what one hopes them to be. If the parents cannot afford for the child to be enrolled at a specific school, then that is what one must accept and be happy with a less expensive school for your child.

Analyse the situation from all angles

Once you have analysed the situation, take stock of the fact that all factors need to be looked at. You need to focus on what is reasonable. Reasonability applies to all aspects of the child maintenance equation. This includes the reasonable needs of the minor child, considering the income and means of the parents. When focusing on the child, determine whether or not his or her expenses are reasonable considering the standard of living and your position in life. Does the child need everything, or are there some items that you now require seeing that the child is older or circumstances have changed?

Are the parents spending reasonably?

Look at your situation and that of the other parent as well. Is it reasonable for him or her to spend R 2000 – 00 on fuel to go to work when he or she can take public transport? This is so even though this parent earns R 6000 – 00 a month. This must be considered in conjunction with what the needs of the child are. If the parent says he or she cannot afford to pay half the school fees, which is a reasonable amount, then one needs to question whether under the circumstances using up a third of your income for fuel is reasonable, where after you are unable to pay towards your child’s school fees.

Create arguments to support your point of view

Remember, you need to convince the maintenance court that what you are requesting as child support is reasonable. Reasonable based on the facts before the court or at hand, and not what one party wishes it to be. And those facts are also your income, expenses, as well as that of the other parent. Let us not forget the standard of living. This is important as we all want what is best for our children. However, not all families can afford to send their children to the most expensive schools. For many, it is not sustainable. On the other hand, parents should contribute toward their minor children, which is fair and reasonable. What is fair and reasonable is determined based on the information and facts at hand. Furthermore, what is fair and reasonable for one family will definitely not be fair and reasonable for another family. This is so despite both families having the same number of children and ages. All families and children are unique. In conclusion, if you understand the above general principles, you would find it easier to deal with and handle your child maintenance case. You will focus on what is necessary in order to be successful. Good luck with your maintenance matter.  

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