Our Lawyer (Pty) Ltd supports International Child Support Day 2019

10 December 2019, marks International Child Support Day. It is an initiative coined by Child Maintenance Difficulties in South Africa. Child Maintenance Difficulties in South Africa is headed and steered by an inspirational woman, Felicity An Guest. Click on this link to learn more about her and her causes. Our Lawyer (Pty) Ltd will be providing free 30-minute child maintenance face to face consultations on International Child Support day. Advocate Megan Naidu and Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf would be consulting with you at no charge in support of the initiative. Kindly click on this link below an complete the online form. https://www.ourlawyer.co.za/icsd/  

Our Lawyer (Pty) Ltd supports International Child Support Day 2019

10 December 2019, marks International Child Support Day. It is an initiative coined by Child Maintenance Difficulties in South Africa. Child Maintenance Difficulties in South Africa is headed and steered by an inspirational woman, Felicity An Guest. Click on this link to learn more about her and her causes.

Our Lawyer (Pty) Ltd will be providing free 30-minute child maintenance face to face consultations on International Child Support day. Advocate Megan Naidu and Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf would be consulting with you at no charge in support of the initiative. Kindly click on this link below an complete the online form.

International Child Support Day – Book your Free 30 minute Consultation

 

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Dear Advocate Abduroaf. My child custody case is very complicated. How do I find the best child custody lawyer, attorney or advocate for my case in Durban?

A great child custody lawyer (attorney or advocate) is a legal practitioner who specializes in family law and has expertise in handling cases related to child custody and visitation rights. Family law matters can be very emotionally challenging for both parents. The same applies to the child concerned. Whether you live in Cape Town or in Durban, the law applicable would be the same throughout South Africa.

Here are some qualities and characteristics that can define a great child custody lawyer, or the best one for your case:

Experience and Expertise:

  • Specialization in family law, particularly child custody cases.
  • Proven track record of successfully handling similar cases.

Knowledge of Family Law:

  • In-depth understanding of family law.
  • Awareness of recent legal developments and changes in family law.

Communication Skills:

  • Effective communication skills to clearly articulate your case in court.
  • Ability to negotiate and mediate to reach favourable settlements.

Compassion and Empathy:

  • Understanding and empathy towards the emotional challenges involved in child custody disputes.
  • Ability to provide emotional support to clients during a difficult time.

Strategic Thinking:

  • Ability to devise a strategic legal approach tailored to the unique aspects of your case.
  • Forethought and anticipation of potential challenges.

Availability and Responsiveness:

  • Prompt responses to client inquiries and concerns.
  • Availability for meetings, court appearances, and consultations.

Client Reviews and References:

  • Positive reviews from previous clients.
  • Recommendations from colleagues or other legal professionals.

Ethical Conduct:

  • Adherence to professional and ethical standards.
  • Transparent and fair billing practices.

Courtroom Experience:

  • Comfort and confidence in a courtroom setting.
  • Skillful presentation of arguments and evidence.

Resourcefulness:

  • Resourcefulness in finding legal precedents and utilizing available resources to strengthen the case.

Problem-Solving Skills:

  • Creative problem-solving skills to navigate complex family dynamics and legal issues.

Custody and Visitation Knowledge:

  • In-depth knowledge of various custody arrangements and visitation schedules.
  • Ability to advocate for the best interests of the child.

What should you consider when meeting with a family law attorney or advocate?

When looking for a great child custody lawyer, it’s essential to schedule consultations, discuss your case, and assess whether the lawyer, attorney, or advocate possesses the qualities and skills that align with your needs and goals. Additionally, consider seeking recommendations from trusted friends, family members, or other legal professionals. Finding the best child custody lawyer involves thorough research, careful consideration of your specific needs, and evaluation of the lawyer’s qualifications. Here are some steps you can take to find the right child custody lawyer for your situation:

Define Your Goals and Needs:

  • Clearly identify your goals and priorities in the child custody case.
  • Determine the specific services you need from a lawyer, such as legal representation, mediation, or collaborative law.

Research Local Family Law Attorneys:

  • Use online legal directories and referral services to identify family law attorneys or Trust Account Advocate in your area.
  • Seek recommendations from friends, family, or colleagues who have gone through similar situations.

Check Credentials and Specialization:

  • Look for lawyers who specialize in family law and, more specifically, child custody cases.
  • Check their credentials, education, and any certifications related to family law.

Read Reviews and Testimonials:

  • Read online reviews on legal review websites, social media, or the lawyer’s own website.
  • Consider testimonials from previous clients to gauge the lawyer’s reputation and success rate.

Consult with Multiple Lawyers:

  • Schedule consultations with several child custody lawyers to discuss your case.
  • Prepare a list of questions to ask during the consultation, covering topics such as experience, approach to cases, and expected outcomes.

Evaluate Communication Skills:

  • Assess the lawyer’s communication style and whether you feel comfortable discussing your case with them.
  • Ensure that the lawyer listens actively and provides clear explanations of legal processes.

Consider Experience:

  • Inquire about the lawyer’s experience in handling child custody cases similar to yours.
  • Ask about their success rate and outcomes in past cases.

Review Legal Fees:

  • Discuss the lawyer’s fee structure during the consultation.
  • Clarify billing practices, retainer fees, and any additional costs associated with your case.

Check Disciplinary Records:

  • Verify the lawyer’s standing with the Legal Practice Council of South Africa.
  • Check for any disciplinary actions or complaints against the lawyer.

Seek Second Opinions:

  • If you have initial concerns or uncertainties, consider seeking a second opinion from another attorney or advocate.
  • Compare advice and recommendations from multiple sources.

Trust Your Instincts:

  • Pay attention to your instincts and gut feelings about the lawyer.
  • Choose a lawyer you feel comfortable working with and who understands your unique situation.

Negotiation and Mediation Skills:

Assess the lawyer’s ability to negotiate and mediate, especially if you prefer an amicable resolution.
  • Remember that finding the best child custody lawyer is a personalized process, and the right fit for one person may not be the best for another. Take the time to thoroughly research and evaluate potential lawyers to make an informed decision based on your specific needs and circumstances.
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ABC guide on how to obtain a Protection Order

The Steps to follow

The steps to follow to obtain a Protection Order in domestic violence situations are regulated by the Domestic Violence Act 116 of 1998 (hereafter referred to as the act). I strongly suggest that you consult an attorney, advocate or family lawyer should your matter be complicated. Below is a simple A B C guide outlining a few simple steps that a complainant (the person affected by domestic violence) has to follow in order to obtain an interdict (Protection Order) against another person? However, before these steps may be laid down important to know whether you should approach the Domestic Violence Court or the South African Police Services for a Peace Order: Speak to them about it.

Q: What is a Protection Order?

A: In simple terms, a protection order is an order granted by the Domestic Violence Court which prohibits the person whom the order was made against to commit any acts of domestic violence against you. Furthermore, a Court might grant you an interim Protection Order with basically the same effect as a Protection Order which will be finalised later.

Q: Who may approach the Domestic Violence Court?

A: In order to approach the Domestic Violence Court, you have to be a complainant as described by the Act. According to the Act, such a person is someone who is or has been in a domestic relationship with a respondent (the person committing the domestic violence) and who is or has been subjected or allegedly subjected to an act of domestic violence, including any child in the care of the complainant. So, therefore, the next question is what is a domestic relationship?

Q: What is a Domestic Relationship?

A: According to the Act, a “domestic relationship” means a relationship between a complainant and a respondent in any of the following ways: (a) They are or were married to each other, including marriage according to any law, custom or religion; (b) They live or lived together in a relationship in the nature of marriage, although they are not, or were not, married to each other, or are not able to be married to each other; (c) They are the parents of a child or are persons who have or had parental responsibility for that child (whether or not at the same time); (d) They are family members related by consanguinity, affinity or adoption; (e) They are or were in an engagement, dating or customary relationship, including an actual or perceived romantic, intimate or sexual relationship of any duration; or (f) They share or recently shared the same residence. Now the last question is, what is domestic violence? Q: What is domestic violence? A: According to the Act, domestic violence” means- (a) Physical abuse; (b) Sexual abuse; (c) Emotional, verbal and psychological abuse; (d) Economic abuse; (e) Intimidation; (f) Harassment; (g) Stalking; (h) Damage to property; (I) entry into the complainant’s residence without consent, where the parties do not share the same residence; or (j) Any other controlling or abusive behavior towards a Complainant. Therefore, if you are experiencing domestic violence, the following simple steps have to be followed in order to get you started:

Step 1

Write on a page all the incidents of domestic violence done to you or to your children on paper. Be very clear with the names of people, dates and times. Take your time as this information you will have to fill onto a form at Court, which is dealt with in step 2 below. Tip: If you fill in the form at Court without first making a draft to work from at your convenience, you might be so nervous at Court and leave out valuable information. Find out all the details of the person whom you want to be protected against domestic violence, e.g. his/her home and work address and identity number, etc.

Step 2

Go to the Domestic Violence Court closest to your area and the Clerk of the Court will give you a form to fill in. The form is referred to as an Application for Protection Order form. Use the information you have gathered in Step 1 and fill in the form. The form is in the form of an affidavit and you therefore have to swear to the correctness of the information under oath and sign. Therefore, do not hide any information from the Court or unduly exaggerate. Caution: If your information is not 100 % correct, you may be cross-examined on such correctness in Court and if it is found that you were not totally honest, this would not be in your favour.
  • If you require any assistance in filling in the form, the Clerks of the Court would be happy to assist you.
  • Once you have filled in the Application for Protection Order form, return it to the Clerk who will have it commissioned.
  • The Clerk of the Court would then take the completed documents to a Magistrate who would read through it and might want to speak to you as well. The Court will then do one of 3 things:
(a) Dismiss your application if there is no evidence that domestic violence is taking place. (b) Grant you an Interim Protection Order which will be finalized on a date provided by the Court where the Respondent will have a chance to give his / her side of the story; or (c) Postpone the matter without granting an Interim Protection Order and provide a date where the Respondent will get a chance to give his / her side of the story. PLEASE NOTE: An Interim Protection Order has no force and effect until it has been served on the Respondent as in step 3 below. Therefore, do not waste time in getting it served.

Step 3

Now the Respondent has to be informed about the application to Court and the date which both of you have to be back at Court. Depending on the Court, the Clerk of the Court might give you the necessary documents to drop at the Police Station or Sheriff’s Office operating where the Respondent lives or works in order to have it served on the Respondent. Make sure that you receive proof from the officer serving the documents on the Respondent that he has done so.

Hint: The South African Police Services does not charge to serve these documents but the Sheriff does.

If the Respondent commits any acts of domestic violence towards you, report the matter immediately to the Police and if there is no Interim Protection Order in place, go immediately back to the Domestic Violence Court and state your case in order to get one. Go back to Court on the date provided and state your case. If there are grounds, the Court will grant you a Protection Order. If you have a Protection Order against you, it is possible to have it varied or set aside. Consult the Court, your Attorney, Advocate or Family Lawyer in this regard. This and other articles and posts found on this
website are written by Adv. Muhammad Abduroaf to assist people with various family law related issues they may have. If you find any of our articles, free resources and posts interesting, or possibly useful to others, please like and share it on Social Media by clicking on the icons below. For more interesting articles and information on Family Law, view our articles and Q&A page. If you have a family law related legal issue and you want someone to answer or reply to it, feel free to post it on our Family Law Blog. Therefore, kindly like and share. Should you require any other legal services and advice, not related to family law, visit Private Legal.

 

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