How we deal with divorce matters at our law offices

With extensive experience in family legal matters, we have found divorce, child custody and child maintenance to be the most commonly dealt with legal matters. By observing its popular demand for effective legal services, we have compiled easily accessible legal pieces containing free, expert legal advice for your convenience. Do feel free to visit our online store in which we make it easy for you to purchase your online consultation in a quick and easy manner. Are you interested in a one on one consultation for your divorce? You can now purchase your divorce consultation by virtue of our online store today. Alternatively, do feel free to contact our law offices on 021 424 3487 for online appointment for a professional legal consultation today. Our law offices are situated in the heart of the buzzing CBD at Suit 702, 7th floor, The Pinnacle, Cape Town.

Family law consultancy – the online operation

We have managed to develop an efficient method on how you can get connected with us through our online appointment method. The way it works is that you may call our offices on 021 424 3487 for an online appointment. When calling our law offices, our friendly receptionist will be more than pleased to make your online appointment for you – don’t not despair, this literally takes seconds! The online appointment can be made for any family legal services you require. These will be fall into the following categories:
  • Child Maintenance
  • Ante-nuptial Contact
  • Change Matrimonial Property Regime
  • Child Adoption
  • Child Custody and Access
  • Domestic Violence Protection
  • Family Trust Registration
  • Fast Unopposed Divorces
  • Non-Compliance with maintenance orders
  • Parenting Plans
  • Postnuptial Contract Registration
  • Pre-nikkah Agreement
You will receive an automated email and SMS once the online appointment has been made for you. Connect with us today!

Divorce in South Africa – who gets what?

We have now made our legal products and services easily accessible from our website by placing them directly onto our home page; making our home page easy to navigate. Simply click on the link below and download our free divorce product toolkit below: Free Divorce Tool Kit Our law offices are conveniently situated in the heart of the buzzing CBD at Suit 702, 7th floor, The Pinnacle, corner of Strand and Burg Street. Our law offices offers you the luxury of a professional setting with free Wi-Fi for your convenience. Call our offices and make an online appoint today for your professional legal consultation. Connect with us!

Questions to ask a divorce Attorney on first visit

During your legal consultation, you may have many questions about the way forward with your divorce. The legal expert will clarify all your questions. The most common questions we often faced with are:
  • Your legal rights regarding the divorce
  • Maintenance matters
  • Child custody matters
  • How long does it take to get a divorce?
  • How long does it take for a divorce to be finalized?
  • Splitting of assets
  • Protection order in a case of violence and abuse etc
All of the above are relevant questions to the matter at hand and should be addressed head on with the guidance of the family law legal expert.

How we deal with divorce matters at our law offices

With extensive experience in family legal matters, we have found divorce, child custody and child maintenance to be the most commonly dealt with legal matters.

By observing its popular demand for effective legal services, we have compiled easily accessible legal pieces containing free, expert legal advice for your convenience. Do feel free to visit our online store in which we make it easy for you to purchase your online consultation in a quick and easy manner.

Are you interested in a one on one consultation for your divorce? You can now purchase your divorce consultation by virtue of our online store today. Alternatively, do feel free to contact our law offices on 021 424 3487 for online appointment for a professional legal consultation today. Our law offices are situated in the heart of the buzzing CBD at Suit 702, 7th floor, The Pinnacle, Cape Town.

Family law consultancy – the online operation

We have managed to develop an efficient method on how you can get connected with us through our online appointment method. The way it works is that you may call our offices on 021 424 3487 for an online appointment. When calling our law offices, our friendly receptionist will be more than pleased to make your online appointment for you – don’t not despair, this literally takes seconds!

The online appointment can be made for any family legal services you require. These will be fall into the following categories:

  • Child Maintenance
  • Ante-nuptial Contact
  • Change Matrimonial Property Regime
  • Child Adoption
  • Child Custody and Access
  • Domestic Violence Protection
  • Family Trust Registration
  • Fast Unopposed Divorces
  • Non-Compliance with maintenance orders
  • Parenting Plans
  • Postnuptial Contract Registration
  • Pre-nikkah Agreement

You will receive an automated email and SMS once the online appointment has been made for you.

Connect with us today!

Divorce in South Africa – who gets what?

We have now made our legal products and services easily accessible from our website by placing them directly onto our home page; making our home page easy to navigate.

Simply click on the link below and download our free divorce product toolkit below:

Free Divorce Tool Kit

Our law offices are conveniently situated in the heart of the buzzing CBD at Suit 702, 7th floor, The Pinnacle, corner of Strand and Burg Street. Our law offices offers you the luxury of a professional setting with free Wi-Fi for your convenience. Call our offices and make an online appoint today for your professional legal consultation.

Connect with us!

Questions to ask a divorce Attorney on first visit

During your legal consultation, you may have many questions about the way forward with your divorce. The legal expert will clarify all your questions. The most common questions we often faced with are:

  • Your legal rights regarding the divorce
  • Maintenance matters
  • Child custody matters
  • How long does it take to get a divorce?
  • How long does it take for a divorce to be finalized?
  • Splitting of assets
  • Protection order in a case of violence and abuse etc

All of the above are relevant questions to the matter at hand and should be addressed head on with the guidance of the family law legal expert.

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Top tips from a Senior Family Law Advocate on how to deal with your Child Custody matter in the Rustenburg Children’s Court

  Family law legal matters can be very stressful. This is so whether you live in Rustenburg or any other city in South Africa. Especially so if you have no idea how the legal processes work. It is one thing to know that you are entitled to child support, but it is a totally different matter to know the law and procedure on how to claim child support. Luckily in child maintenance matters, the maintenance court is there to assist you in completing the application form. However, many times that is not enough. Especially so if the other parent has a lawyer and knows how to present the case for his or her client. This article, however, deals with some top tips in care and contact or custody matters in the Children’s Court in Rustenburg. It would explain the processes involved and advise on how to be best prepared for your matter. This advice is applicable whether you live in Rustenburg or any other city in South Africa.

What to do before visiting the Rustenburg Children’s Court

Before you approach the Children’s Court in Rustenburg, first try to resolve the issues with the other parent. Therefore, if you want more contact with your child and the other parent is refusing, try to resolve the matter first with that parent. If that does not work, try mediation. The mediator can be anyone, from a trusted mutual friend, priest, or other religious leaders, or a professional like an attorney, psychologist, or the office of the Family Advocate. Rustenburg has many professionals that can assist you in this regard. If resolving the matter by yourselves is not possible, or mediation fails, then we suggest you approach the Rustenburg Children’s Court for assistance. TIP: Focus on getting someone neutral to assist in mediating your matter. Organisations like FAMSA and FAMAC can be of assistance. Google them.

Approaching the Rustenburg Children’s Court

The Rustenburg Children’s Court should be approached if it is the closest Children’s Court to you. You need to verify with the Rustenburg Children’s Court that you fall under their area of jurisdiction. If not, they would direct you to which Children’s Court is applicable to you. Once you arrive at the Rustenburg Children’s Court, they will provide you with a form headed “Bringing Matter to Court in Terms of Section 53 Children’s Act, 2005 (Act no. 38 of 2005) Regulation Relating to Children’s Court and International Child Abduction, 2008 [Regulation 6]. This form is also called Form 2. In this form, you will provide all your particulars and that of the child or children and the other parent. The sections in the form are as follows:
  • PART A: PARTICULARS OF CHILD(REN)
  • PART B: PARTICULARS OF *CHILD WHO IS AFFECTED BY OR INVOLVED IN THE MATTER/PERSON *ACTING IN THE INTEREST OF THE CHILD/*ON BEHALF OF THE CHILD WHO CANNOT ACT IN HIS/HER OWN NAME/ *MEMBER OF A GROUP OF CLASS OF CHILDREN/*IN THE PUBLIC INTEREST (SECTION 53(2)
  • PART C: PARTICULARS OF PERSONS HAVING AN INTEREST IN THE MATTER
  • PART D: PARTICULARS OF MATTER
In part D, the following is stated which you need to provide in the form:
  • Nature of matter brought to Court: (Please give full details of the matter e.g., registration/amendment of parenting plans, removal of child to safe care, children in need of care and protection, placement in youth care centers, adoption etc.
  • Documents: Are there any documents relating to the matter? (If so please attach)
Once you have completed the form and attached the relevant documents to it, you must take it to a commissioner of Oaths to have it commissioned. It does not have to be in Rustenburg. TIP: Draft a separate affidavit explaining your case. Outline some background information and reasons why the Court should give you what you request. Attach it to Form 2.

Processing your Application at the Rustenburg Children’s Court

Once you complete the Form A and submit it to the Clerk of the Rustenburg Children’s Court, they will process it and allocate it a case number or reference number. The Clerk of the Court would then allocate a date to the matter and advise the parties accordingly when the court date is. Please note that some courts follow a different process for processing the application and informing the parties of the court date. Please enquire from the Court when making the application what process they follow. TIP: Obtain the contact details of the Court for you to contact them to obtain the Court date or other information. Ask for their contact number and email address.

Appearing in the Rustenburg Children’s Court

When notified of the Court date, both you and the other parent should attend. If you are making use of a lawyer (Advocate or Attorney), inform them timeously of the date. Depending on the Court, you may first see the Clerk or go directly to the Magistrate. The Children’s Court would do its best to try to resolve the matter. If the parents cannot come to an agreement, the Children’s Court may postpone the matter for either of the following:
  • Get a social worker involved in the matter;
  • Appoint a legal representative for the minor child;
  • Implement interim care and contact arrangements;
  • Having the parties attempt to agree on a parenting plan;
In serious matters, the Court may remove the minor child from both parents and place the child in foster care. The powers of the Children’s Court are extensive. It will, however, focus on what is in the child’s best interests. TIP: Be as vocal as possible. Do not expect the Court to be understanding of your case or be on your side. It is your duty to explain your case and provide the Court with all the relevant information they require for them to make a fair decision.

Finalising the matter in the Rustenburg Children’s Court

Once the Rustenburg Children’s Court has enough information to make a final decision, it will do so. Depending on the facts of the matter, that could either be making a Parenting Plan, an Order of the Court or a final care and contact Order. The Court may even make further interim orders, where the parties are to return to Court after a few months, or a year later. TIP: Do not agree to something just because the social worker, a lawyer, or the Court suggest it. You need to be happy with what is decided. The above Rustenburg Children’s Court Application tips should apply to the following provinces and cities:

Eastern Cape:

Alice, Butterworth, East London, Graaff-Reinet, Grahamstown, King William’s Town, Mthatha Port Elizabeth, Queenstown, Uitenhage, Zwelitsha

Free State:

Bethlehem. Bloemfontein, Jagersfontein, Kroonstad, Odendaalsrus, Parys, Phuthaditjhaba, Sasolburg, Virginia, Welkom

Gauteng:

Benoni, Boksburg, Brakpan, Carletonville, Germiston, Johannesburg, Krugersdorp, Pretoria, Randburg, Randfontein, Roodepoort, Soweto, Springs, Vanderbijlpark, Vereeniging

KwaZulu-Natal:

Durban, Empangeni, Ladysmith, Newcastle, Pietermaritzburg, Pinetown, Ulundi, Umlazi

Limpopo:

Giyani, Lebowakgomo, Musina, Phalaborwa, Polokwane, Seshego, Sibasa, Thabazimbi

Mpumalanga:

Emalahleni, Nelspruit, Secunda, North West, Klerksdorp, Mahikeng, Mmabatho, Potchefstroom, Rustenburg, Northern Cape, Kimberley, Kuruman, Port Nolloth

Western Cape:

Bellville, Rustenburg, Constantia, George, Hopefield, Oudtshoorn, Paarl, Simon’s Town, Stellenbosch, Swellendam, Worcester

The role of a facilitator in family matters regarding children – Should he or she make legally binding decisions or directives?

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceWhen parties divorce or they approached a court of law to resolve a dispute regarding a minor child, it was customary for them to appoint a facilitator should they settle the matter. Specific clauses would be inserted into consent papers and settlement agreements which the parties sign and is made an order of Court. The clauses would basically state that the parties appoint a facilitator to resolve disputes regarding the minor child and that the facilitator has certain authority and powers. Such disputes could range from one-party wanting more contact with the child or disputes regarding aspects of education, for example, which school the child goes to, or aspects regarding extramural activities. At the end of this article you would find an example of a facilitator clause.   A facilitator should be a suitably qualified person.  He or she does not necessarily have to be a clinical psychologist, social worker or a lawyer.  He or she should be somebody that knows family law, understands the family dynamics and is skilled in resolving issues between parties. It is therefore very important that the parties appoint a facilitator that they would feel comfortable with and one that will be compatible with their family situation.

Facilitator’s Power

It would often happen that the parties cannot resolve a dispute amicably through a facilitator.  In such a case, a decision will have to be made.  The facilitator would then have to issue a directive.  In other words, make a firm and binding decision for the parties. A further clause would then usually be inserted into the consent paper stating that the facilitator’s directive would be binding upon the parties as if it was an order of the court.  The directive of the facilitator would then remain binding upon the parties unless a court of competent jurisdiction orders otherwise.  It is this latter aspect that this article deals with.  

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceIntroduction of the Facilitation Clause

Based on our history with family law matters, this specific facilitation clause came about in or about 2008, a short while after the Children’s Act came into operation. It was then customary for parties to insert this facilitation clause as a matter of course. In our experience, the family advocate’s office would insist that such a clause be inserted and furthermore the courts would have no issue therewith.  

Limiting the power of the Facilitator

What has now happened since 2018, in the Western Cape at least, was that certain judges started having an issue with the fact that a facilitator had the authority of making binding decisions on the parties which had the effect of an order of Court. In other words, due to the clause stating, that the facilitator’s directive would be binding upon the parties as if it was an order of Court; certain judges began to question such authority.  

The court’s reasoning

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceBasically, the court’s reasoning is how could judicial authority be delegated to a third party? Taking it one step back when, the courts in the past made an order incorporating the settlement agreement, which had a clause therein authorising the facilitator to make binding directives; it basically gave judicial authority to the facilitator. In other words, the facilitator had the authority of a Judge.   What has now become a practice, should a facilitation clause be inserted into a settlement agreement, the office of the Family Advocate of Cape Town, at least, would endorse the Consent Paper or Settlement, Agreement but also direct the Court to determine whether or not the parties understand the role of the facilitator and that they would be responsible for the cost associated therewith.  

The Family Advocates Reasoning

There could be many reasons why the Family Advocate is directing the parties to advise the court whether or not they understand the role of the facilitator. One such reason could be that they do not want parties to come to them to facilitate disputes and issues that might arise. And of course, the other reason could be due to the court judgments that recently stated that a court can’t delegate its authority to a facilitator.   In our view, asking a party in court, whether or not they understand the role of a facilitator, and that they will be responsible for the cost thereof is unnecessary. The party would say that they understand the role and that they are responsible for the cost thereof. What value that has in the case of a dispute arising in the future is very little. advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorce

The future role of the facilitator

Going forward, we still recommend that a facilitation clause be inserted in settlement agreements and consent papers. We further agree that a Court cannot delegate its judicial authority to a third party, unless in exceptional circumstances. However, at the same time, we feel that the facilitator could play a crucial role in resolving disputes between the parties.  Having said that, the parties need to discuss whether or not they would require a facilitator, and in the event they do, they should specifically outline the role of their intended facilitator in the consent paper or settlement agreement.

An example of a neutral facilitation clause

  1. FACILITATOR
    • A facilitator shall be appointed by the parties jointly to facilitate and assist in resolving disputes between the parties relating to the minor children;
    • These disputes shall include contact disputes should one party feel that contact should be increased or decreased, or varied for either party;
    • In the event of the facilitator being unable to continue as facilitator, then he/she shall appoint a facilitator in his/her place, alternatively, or should the parties be unable to agree on the appointment of a facilitator or replacement facilitator, such facilitator or replacement facilitator as the case may be shall be appointed by the chairperson for the time being of FAMAC (Western Cape);
    • The facilitator shall be entitled in his/her sole discretion to appoint such other person as may be necessary in order to make a decision in respect of the issue in dispute, including the right to co-opt a facilitator or the assistance of an appropriate expert if he/she deems it appropriate or necessary; and
    • The cost of sessions with the facilitator and the services of the expert shall be shared equally between the parties unless otherwise directed by the facilitator. Each Party shall, however, be liable for the facilitator’s costs incurred attendant upon such party’s written and telephonic communications with the facilitator.
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