How does one get divorced in South Africa? Adv. Muhammad Abduroaf unpacks the legal process in a simplified manner.

Written by Adv. Muhammad Abduroaf – LL.B LL.M Advocate of the High Court of South Africa

Legal Advice on getting divorced

If you want to get divorced from your spouse, I strongly advise that you approach a legal practitioner, or an attorney to attend to it on your behalf. This I would implore even more under the following circumstances: – There will be a dispute over care and visitation rights over the child/children; – One of the parties will be applying for forfeiture of patrimonial benefits from a marriage in community of property; – The joint estate is huge or complicated; or – The other party will be making use of legal representation. If, however, you would like to know the general procedures on how to go about in obtaining a divorce decree; they are listed summarily below. Many rules regulate divorce processes and the summary below does exclude some of them. These include exceptions, strikeouts, compelling compliance, service addresses etc. Other matters incidental to divorce proceedings, e.g. interim arrangements pending the divorce regarding maintenance for you or your children and care and contact regarding children are not dealt with. Therefore, please consult a legal practitioner or the divorce court throughout your divorce process should you decide to do the divorce yourself.

Summons and Particulars of Claim

A summons needs to be drafted which should be issued by the divorce court to commence the divorce process. It should have on it the details of the court you will be issuing the divorce from, details of the parties, e.g. names, occupation, and address, etc. Every High Court in the area where you live has the authority to attend to a divorce. You may also approach the Magistrate’s Court. Each court has its own rules and procedures. You should then draft a document called “particulars of claim” outlining relevant matters concerning the marriage, children, reasons for wanting a divorce and what do you want the court to grant you in a divorce order. This particulars of claim you attach to the summons. Once you have your summons and particulars of claim in order, you have to have the summons issued. To do this, make three (3) copies of your set of documents (summons and particulars of Claim) and have it issued at court. Other documents may have to be attached as well.

Issuing and Service of the Divorce Summons

Once you are at the court, go to the clerk/registrar of the court and have your documents issued. The clerk/registrar will sign the summons and provide a case number and write it on the summons. You should then take the original and a copy (both must be signed and stamped by the clerk/registrar of the court) and take it to the sheriff which serves documents where your spouse works or lives. You can ask the clerk/registrar of the court for those details. The extra—copy of the summons and particulars of claim you keep for your file and records.

Notice of intention to defend the divorce

Once the sheriff served the documents, your spouse has two weeks to inform you whether he or she will be defending the divorce. This information is outlined in the summons. If your spouse decided not to defend the divorce action, then after two weeks has elapsed, you may set the matter down as an undefended divorce. If your spouse intends to defend the divorce, he or she would then have to do as outlined next.

Plea to particulars of claim in divorces

Once you received notice of your spouse’s intention to defend the divorce, about a month later, your spouse or his or attorney should serve and file a plea. The plea should outline which parts of your particulars of claim your spouse agree (or disagree) with which would give everyone an indication of what to prove at court.

Counter Claim in Divorce Actions

Your spouse might want to file a counter-claim. In the same way, which you outlined your case as to what you want from the court and the reasons therefore in your particulars of claim, your spouse can file on you as well a counter-claim. A counter-claim might still be filed if your spouse agrees to a divorce, but maybe wants primary care of the children, but in your particulars of claim, you asked for primary care. You should then within 10 (ten) days plead to the counter-claim in the same manner in which your spouse pleaded to your particulars of claim.

Discovery in divorce cases

While you are waiting for a trial date, and way before the trial, you may ask, or may be asked to provide under oath a schedule of books and documents in your possession and under your control relating to the divorce. This could be policy documents, deeds etc, and which you or your spouse might want to make use of at trial. Once you received these schedules you may inspect and request copies of the documents.

Obtaining a trial date for the divorce

Once you received the plea, without a counter-claim, or have pleaded to your spouses counter-claim, you should then approach the clerk/registrar of the court for a trial date. This you or your spouse may do. Please note that certain courts may have other procedures that need to first be adhered to before obtaining a trial date. For example pre-trial conferences before a judicial officer etc.

Divorce day / Trial date (Finalising the Divorce)

If your spouse does not defend the divorce within the period mentioned above, go back to court and ask for an unopposed divorce date and attend to your divorce on that date. If however your divorce is defended, a trial should ensure. During the trial, each party will prove his or her case. Witnesses will be called and at the end, the Magistrate or Judge will deliver the judgment. Best of luck, and please, don’t take my word, contact a legal practitioner should you decide to get divorced. Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf (Cape Town | Western Cape LL.B & LL.M (Master of Laws) Constitutional Litigation – Advocate of the High Court of South Africa – Member of the Legal Practice Council of South Africa We are certain that you found the above article useful and interesting. Please consider sharing it on the share buttons below. They include Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, Gmail and more. Someone may find it useful as well. Should you require business advice or services, feel free to click on these links: Business SA | Private Legal | Envirolaws    
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How does one get divorced in South Africa? Adv. Muhammad Abduroaf unpacks the legal process in a simplified manner.

Written by Adv. Muhammad Abduroaf – LL.B LL.M Advocate of the High Court of South Africa

Legal Advice on getting divorced

If you want to get divorced from your spouse, I strongly advise that you approach a legal practitioner, or an attorney to attend to it on your behalf. This I would implore even more under the following circumstances:

– There will be a dispute over care and visitation rights over the child/children;

– One of the parties will be applying for forfeiture of patrimonial benefits from a marriage in community of property;

– The joint estate is huge or complicated; or

– The other party will be making use of legal representation.

If, however, you would like to know the general procedures on how to go about in obtaining a divorce decree; they are listed summarily below. Many rules regulate divorce processes and the summary below does exclude some of them. These include exceptions, strikeouts, compelling compliance, service addresses etc. Other matters incidental to divorce proceedings, e.g. interim arrangements pending the divorce regarding maintenance for you or your children and care and contact regarding children are not dealt with. Therefore, please consult a legal practitioner or the divorce court throughout your divorce process should you decide to do the divorce yourself.

Summons and Particulars of Claim

A summons needs to be drafted which should be issued by the divorce court to commence the divorce process. It should have on it the details of the court you will be issuing the divorce from, details of the parties, e.g. names, occupation, and address, etc. Every High Court in the area where you live has the authority to attend to a divorce. You may also approach the Magistrate’s Court. Each court has its own rules and procedures.

You should then draft a document called “particulars of claim” outlining relevant matters concerning the marriage, children, reasons for wanting a divorce and what do you want the court to grant you in a divorce order. This particulars of claim you attach to the summons.

Once you have your summons and particulars of claim in order, you have to have the summons issued.

To do this, make three (3) copies of your set of documents (summons and particulars of Claim) and have it issued at court. Other documents may have to be attached as well.

Issuing and Service of the Divorce Summons

Once you are at the court, go to the clerk/registrar of the court and have your documents issued.

The clerk/registrar will sign the summons and provide a case number and write it on the summons.

You should then take the original and a copy (both must be signed and stamped by the clerk/registrar of the court) and take it to the sheriff which serves documents where your spouse works or lives. You can ask the clerk/registrar of the court for those details.

The extra—copy of the summons and particulars of claim you keep for your file and records.

Notice of intention to defend the divorce

Once the sheriff served the documents, your spouse has two weeks to inform you whether he or she will be defending the divorce. This information is outlined in the summons.

If your spouse decided not to defend the divorce action, then after two weeks has elapsed, you may set the matter down as an undefended divorce. If your spouse intends to defend the divorce, he or she would then have to do as outlined next.

Plea to particulars of claim in divorces

Once you received notice of your spouse’s intention to defend the divorce, about a month later, your spouse or his or attorney should serve and file a plea.

The plea should outline which parts of your particulars of claim your spouse agree (or disagree) with which would give everyone an indication of what to prove at court.

Counter Claim in Divorce Actions

Your spouse might want to file a counter-claim. In the same way, which you outlined your case as to what you want from the court and the reasons therefore in your particulars of claim, your spouse can file on you as well a counter-claim.

A counter-claim might still be filed if your spouse agrees to a divorce, but maybe wants primary care of the children, but in your particulars of claim, you asked for primary care.

You should then within 10 (ten) days plead to the counter-claim in the same manner in which your spouse pleaded to your particulars of claim.

Discovery in divorce cases

While you are waiting for a trial date, and way before the trial, you may ask, or may be asked to provide under oath a schedule of books and documents in your possession and under your control relating to the divorce. This could be policy documents, deeds etc, and which you or your spouse might want to make use of at trial.

Once you received these schedules you may inspect and request copies of the documents.

Obtaining a trial date for the divorce

Once you received the plea, without a counter-claim, or have pleaded to your spouses counter-claim, you should then approach the clerk/registrar of the court for a trial date. This you or your spouse may do.

Please note that certain courts may have other procedures that need to first be adhered to before obtaining a trial date. For example pre-trial conferences before a judicial officer etc.

Divorce day / Trial date (Finalising the Divorce)

If your spouse does not defend the divorce within the period mentioned above, go back to court and ask for an unopposed divorce date and attend to your divorce on that date.

If however your divorce is defended, a trial should ensure. During the trial, each party will prove his or her case. Witnesses will be called and at the end, the Magistrate or Judge will deliver the judgment.

Best of luck, and please, don’t take my word, contact a legal practitioner should you decide to get divorced.

Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf (Cape Town | Western Cape LL.B & LL.M (Master of Laws) Constitutional Litigation – Advocate of the High Court of South Africa – Member of the Legal Practice Council of South Africa

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The plight and fight of unmarried fathers in obtaining primary care (custody) of their children in South Africa. Can the battle be won, and what are their rights?

By Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf (LL.B LL.M) There is a common misconception that if a child was born out of wedlock, only the mother can be the primary caregiver of the child concerned. This may however generally be the case. However, it is presumed by some that if a mother cared for the child since his or her birth, the father would not be able to be the child’s primary caregiver. In other words, the child would no longer live with the mother, but with the father. We do not blame our clients for thinking so. That is the stereotype. However, as the world changes, so does the law. We are often approached by fathers who have a child that was born out of wedlock. He and the mother most probably lived together when the child was born. But things did not work out between them. The mother moved out and lived with her parents or on her own. The father would then regularly have contact with the child. The type of contact would be decided by the mother. Now the question is, even if the child is 10 years old, is it theoretically possible for the child to be cared for by the father and live with him primarily? The answer to that is yes. This is so, as the law looks at what is best for the child concerned.

What is the best interests of the child principle when it comes to parenting?

Both the South African Constitution and the Children’s Act, says that the child’s best interests are given priority. In other words, a child’s best interests are of paramount importance in matters relating to it. Therefore, for one to assume at the outset, that only mothers are the best primary caregivers, it is not only incorrect but potentially dangerous when dealing in children matters. The law expects us to look at all factors, not only who historically looked after the child, but also, the possibility of whether the father can better care for the child go forward. Also, as the child’s best interests are of paramount importance, deciding as to whether or not to move a child from the primary care of a mother to that of the father should not be done lightly. Therefore, even if the father 10 years later, can on the face of it care better for the child than the mother, this should not be the deciding factor. One would need to look at the emotional and psychological impact it would have on the child as well.

What would be an ideal situation where moving the child from the mother to the father would be warranted?

In our view, material comforts are not reason enough to move a child from the primary care of a mother to that of a father. If the father is a wealthy person, and the mother not, he can be ordered to pay more child support towards the child’s expenses. However, if the child is of a certain age, and he needs to have certain living conditions, and the father has it, then that would be a possible factor. For example, if the child is a gifted swimmer, 17 years old and in matric, a need to train consistently, then it makes sense that the father’s living amenities may be an important factor to justify the movement of the child.

Drug Abuse, Alcohol Abuse, and Mental Illness. Are these factors?

Then there is the obvious reason to move the child from the primary care of the mother to that of the father. This would be because the mother is incapable of caring for the minor child. She may have developed a mental illness, become an uncontrollable alcoholic, or addicted to illegal drugs. However, this alone does not automatically call for the father to be the minor child’s primary caregiver. It must first be determined that he can in fact care for the child. If the father only had supervised contact with the minor child and has his own issues, then in such a case, it may be better if the child is placed in foster care.

So it all depends on the facts and circumstances of the child and parents?

What we are attempting to demonstrate above is that depending on the facts and circumstances, it may be best that a child is moved from the care of a mother who cared for the child since birth, and be placed in the care of the father. The circumstances do not necessarily have to be serious like alcoholism a drug abuse on the part of the mother. Other reasons could be the academic needs, or the preference of the child, depending on his or her age. What can a father do if he wants to have primary care of his 10-year-old child? As stated above, the law looks at what is best for the child when it comes to who is to be the primary caregiver. It is just not there for the taking. If the parents can agree to a change of primary care, then the law would in most instances respect such a decision. However, if they cannot agree, the father would have to approach the competent court. But before doing so, he should attempt to mediate the matter.

What about the Child Care expert’s recommendations (Social worker, psychologist, Office of the Family Advocate)?

If mediation fails, and the matter proceeds to court, the court may decide to call on child care experts to assist the court in the matter. A social worker, psychologist, or the office of the family advocate may be appointed to provide a report and recommendations to the court. The court would only be guided by this document. In other words, the court would not be bound by the recommendations of the experts. If the court determines based on all the facts of the matter, that it would be in the minor child’s best interests for the father to have primary care; the court would then so order it. Therefore, in answering the question posed above; yes, an unmarried father in South Africa can obtain full custody of a 10-year-old child. This depends on the facts of the matter of course. Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf, Advocate of the High Court of South Africa Member of the Legal Practice Council We are certain that you found the above article useful and interesting. Please consider sharing it on the share buttons below. They include Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, Gmail and more. Someone may find it useful as well. Should you require business advice or services, feel free to click on these links: Business SA | Private Legal | Envirolaws    
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Do I need a lawyer for child custody matters at the Children’s Court? 

When it comes to children, the law upholds the principle of the best interests of the child. In other words, the focus is not on what is best for the parents but rather on what is beneficial for the child. To achieve this, one must consider all the facts of the particular case. This principle applies whether or not you have a lawyer representing you or if you are representing yourself. The question arises: is it necessary to have a lawyer (Advocate or Attorney) in a Children’s Court matter, given that the court has a duty to focus on the child’s best interests? The short answer is that having a lawyer is not essential, nor is it obligatory. You may represent yourself in the Children’s Court. However, we cannot overlook the advantages of having your own lawyer present, as they are knowledgeable about the law and are not personally implicated in the case. Being involved in a court case can be highly emotional and may lead you to concentrate on your feelings rather than the pertinent issues that genuinely matter to the child’s best interests. Another challenge in the Children’s Court is that the other parent of the child will be present. Arguments may arise that primarily concern the past rather than the current issues. This might render the prospect of attending the Children’s Court somewhat daunting. However, if you are well prepared, it should not be a significant worry.

Prepare yourself for the Children’s Court

If you attend the Children’s Court alone, ensure that you are adequately prepared. Bring all relevant information and documents with you, and also ready yourself for any questions you may receive from the court. Familiarise yourself with the law and the issues at hand, and strive to be the best possible advocate for yourself. By doing so, the outcomes could well exceed your expectations.

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