[embed]https://youtu.be/6OFqAsq8HUE[/embed] Questions posed when registering on www.ourlawyer.co.za/live   Question 1: Gauteng

What is the procedure to dispute child maintenance because I am not happy with the maintenance officer’s ruling I want to take the matter back to court for formal enquiry in front of the magistrate?

I have 3 minor kids aged 118 & 6. I have a bond paying 6000 – the officer said I can’t claim for accommodation which I was not happy with because we are not staying for free. Grocery of R3200 electricity R900 municipal water rates and taxes R1200. Domestic Worker 2500 school fees R3030 school transport R1800 medical aid 3060 uniform clothes twice a year. Stationery. House maintenance household expenditure. I want to dispute the order because the officer was baised. The officer told me that I can’t claim for accommodation because its my bond so it’s my problem. The officer said the domestic Worker work at my house. Worst part none of our documents were scrutinised. I felt so frustrated angry and helpless. The officer decided that the father will pay for school fees school transport stationery school uniform and clothes twice a year. I am still doing more and I am earning way less that the father. Atleast is the matter can be taken back for formal enquiry so that they can look at our income expenses and then child’s need. The office took out lots of things from my claim. Accommodation electricity water and rates grocery domestic Worker medical aid and all other expenses household and house maintenance are on me. I want court to re look at this. Please advise me frustrated mother. Question 2: Gauteng My maintenance file spans from December 2010 when I opened a case against my ex-husband at the Randburg Magistrates Court. It is a long involved saga. We tried subeponas a couple of garnishees section 31 section 10 an attachment orderand still he just avoids pays what he feels like if he feels like moves jobs works as a consultant tries to hide his businesses and who he is working with and for. The case started in Randburg then transfered to Pietermaritzburg when we moved there and now is back at the Randburg Courts. I have finally managed to trace his details but feel so despondent because it feels like we are going to just continue in the fight and it will be fruitless. I have 3 children who have suffered through this and I am needing to ask if there is any hope. He is a smooth talker and manages to smooth talk his way through court proceedings even when he doesnt bring his financials. I suspect too that his life partner is also behind hiding financials as she is a financial accountant and has been on scene since the beginning. Not sure where to turn to or how to begin again. Question 3: Gauteng Am i entitled to claim back maintenance? Question 4: KwaZulu-Natal I do not require legal advice. I want to attend the session as I intend to proceed with pupillage in the near future and this is one of the facets that I have a keen interest in. I would like the opportunity to attend this session to gain more knowledge on the topic and to understand how to handle problems of this nature. Question 5: Gauteng I have twin girls turning 15 this Month. their Father had been paying R2500 maintenance for the last 3 years and 1 school fees and helps with School clothes for 1 child – he is supposed to buy them clothing for when he has them for holidays which hasn’t been done over 2 years – I barely can afford to buy them clothing and this holiday I am sending them to him with no much clothing so he is forced to buy for them while they there. He was supposed to get the girls a medical aid which never happened. They have it now because my Job gave that to me as a perk (which I am very grateful for) . My Salary without his maintenance after debt and deductions is only +/- R5000 which I have to buy food/electricity/fuel for my car/pay School Fees. I have asked him to increase it and I am not asking for a ridiculous amount of money but he hasn’t budged. The girls have needs and I feel he needs to play a bigger financial roll then he is. He is married with 2 other children. Beginning of this year he started working overseas. He comes back for 3 Months and goes back. I want to know if he isn’t in the country could his wife be summoned to court on behalf of him? Thank you. Question 6: Gauteng I have a maintenance case we attend our first date than he said I need DNA to make sure that the kids yours DNA date  was on 26 of October 2021 I go to court when I drive I found this guy send doctor letter he said I tested positive for COVID 19 but he come to sign our ob book Maintenance court is gonna help me  

Questions posed when registering on www.ourlawyer.co.za/live

 

Question 1:

Gauteng

What is the procedure to dispute child maintenance because I am not happy with the maintenance officer’s ruling I want to take the matter back to court for formal enquiry in front of the magistrate?

I have 3 minor kids aged 118 & 6. I have a bond paying 6000 – the officer said I can’t claim for accommodation which I was not happy with because we are not staying for free. Grocery of R3200 electricity R900 municipal water rates and taxes R1200. Domestic Worker 2500 school fees R3030 school transport R1800 medical aid 3060 uniform clothes twice a year. Stationery. House maintenance household expenditure. I want to dispute the order because the officer was baised. The officer told me that I can’t claim for accommodation because its my bond so it’s my problem. The officer said the domestic Worker work at my house. Worst part none of our documents were scrutinised. I felt so frustrated angry and helpless. The officer decided that the father will pay for school fees school transport stationery school uniform and clothes twice a year. I am still doing more and I am earning way less that the father. Atleast is the matter can be taken back for formal enquiry so that they can look at our income expenses and then child’s need. The office took out lots of things from my claim. Accommodation electricity water and rates grocery domestic Worker medical aid and all other expenses household and house maintenance are on me. I want court to re look at this. Please advise me frustrated mother.

Question 2:

Gauteng

My maintenance file spans from December 2010 when I opened a case against my ex-husband at the Randburg Magistrates Court. It is a long involved saga. We tried subeponas a couple of garnishees section 31 section 10 an attachment orderand still he just avoids pays what he feels like if he feels like moves jobs works as a consultant tries to hide his businesses and who he is working with and for. The case started in Randburg then transfered to Pietermaritzburg when we moved there and now is back at the Randburg Courts. I have finally managed to trace his details but feel so despondent because it feels like we are going to just continue in the fight and it will be fruitless. I have 3 children who have suffered through this and I am needing to ask if there is any hope. He is a smooth talker and manages to smooth talk his way through court proceedings even when he doesnt bring his financials. I suspect too that his life partner is also behind hiding financials as she is a financial accountant and has been on scene since the beginning. Not sure where to turn to or how to begin again.

Question 3:

Gauteng

Am i entitled to claim back maintenance?

Question 4:

KwaZulu-Natal

I do not require legal advice. I want to attend the session as I intend to proceed with pupillage in the near future and this is one of the facets that I have a keen interest in. I would like the opportunity to attend this session to gain more knowledge on the topic and to understand how to handle problems of this nature.

Question 5:

Gauteng

I have twin girls turning 15 this Month. their Father had been paying R2500 maintenance for the last 3 years and 1 school fees and helps with School clothes for 1 child – he is supposed to buy them clothing for when he has them for holidays which hasn’t been done over 2 years – I barely can afford to buy them clothing and this holiday I am sending them to him with no much clothing so he is forced to buy for them while they there. He was supposed to get the girls a medical aid which never happened. They have it now because my Job gave that to me as a perk (which I am very grateful for) . My Salary without his maintenance after debt and deductions is only +/- R5000 which I have to buy food/electricity/fuel for my car/pay School Fees. I have asked him to increase it and I am not asking for a ridiculous amount of money but he hasn’t budged. The girls have needs and I feel he needs to play a bigger financial roll then he is. He is married with 2 other children. Beginning of this year he started working overseas. He comes back for 3 Months and goes back. I want to know if he isn’t in the country could his wife be summoned to court on behalf of him? Thank you.

Question 6:

Gauteng

I have a maintenance case we attend our first date than he said I need DNA to make sure that the kids yours DNA date  was on 26 of October 2021 I go to court when I drive I found this guy send doctor letter he said I tested positive for COVID 19 but he come to sign our ob book Maintenance court is gonna help me

 

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Top tips from a Senior Family Law Advocate on how to deal with your Child Custody matter in the Krugersdorp Children’s Court

 

Family law legal matters can be very stressful. This is so whether you live in Krugersdorp or any other city in South Africa. Especially so if you have no idea how the legal processes work. It is one thing to know that you are entitled to child support, but it is a totally different matter to know the law and procedure on how to claim child support. Luckily in child maintenance matters, the maintenance court is there to assist you in completing the application form. However, many times that is not enough. Especially so if the other parent has a lawyer and knows how to present the case for his or her client.

This article, however, deals with some top tips in care and contact or custody matters in the Children’s Court in Krugersdorp. It would explain the processes involved and advise on how to be best prepared for your matter. This advice is applicable whether you live in Krugersdorp or any other city in South Africa.

What to do before visiting the Krugersdorp Children’s Court

Before you approach the Children’s Court in Krugersdorp, first try to resolve the issues with the other parent. Therefore, if you want more contact with your child and the other parent is refusing, try to resolve the matter first with that parent. If that does not work, try mediation. The mediator can be anyone, from a trusted mutual friend, priest, or other religious leaders, or a professional like an attorney, psychologist, or the office of the Family Advocate. Krugersdorp has many professionals that can assist you in this regard. If resolving the matter by yourselves is not possible, or mediation fails, then we suggest you approach the Krugersdorp Children’s Court for assistance.

TIP: Focus on getting someone neutral to assist in mediating your matter. Organisations like FAMSA and FAMAC can be of assistance. Google them.

Approaching the Krugersdorp Children’s Court

The Krugersdorp Children’s Court should be approached if it is the closest Children’s Court to you. You need to verify with the Krugersdorp Children’s Court that you fall under their area of jurisdiction. If not, they would direct you to which Children’s Court is applicable to you.

Once you arrive at the Krugersdorp Children’s Court, they will provide you with a form headed “Bringing Matter to Court in Terms of Section 53 Children’s Act, 2005 (Act no. 38 of 2005) Regulation Relating to Children’s Court and International Child Abduction, 2008 [Regulation 6]. This form is also called Form 2.

In this form, you will provide all your particulars and that of the child or children and the other parent. The sections in the form are as follows:

  • PART A: PARTICULARS OF CHILD(REN)
  • PART B: PARTICULARS OF *CHILD WHO IS AFFECTED BY OR INVOLVED IN THE MATTER/PERSON *ACTING IN THE INTEREST OF THE CHILD/*ON BEHALF OF THE CHILD WHO CANNOT ACT IN HIS/HER OWN NAME/ *MEMBER OF A GROUP OF CLASS OF CHILDREN/*IN THE PUBLIC INTEREST (SECTION 53(2)
  • PART C: PARTICULARS OF PERSONS HAVING AN INTEREST IN THE MATTER
  • PART D: PARTICULARS OF MATTER

In part D, the following is stated which you need to provide in the form:

  • Nature of matter brought to Court: (Please give full details of the matter e.g., registration/amendment of parenting plans, removal of child to safe care, children in need of care and protection, placement in youth care centers, adoption etc.
  • Documents: Are there any documents relating to the matter? (If so please attach)

Once you have completed the form and attached the relevant documents to it, you must take it to a commissioner of Oaths to have it commissioned. It does not have to be in Krugersdorp.

TIP: Draft a separate affidavit explaining your case. Outline some background information and reasons why the Court should give you what you request. Attach it to Form 2.

Processing your Application at the Krugersdorp Children’s Court

Once you complete the Form A and submit it to the Clerk of the Krugersdorp Children’s Court, they will process it and allocate it a case number or reference number. The Clerk of the Court would then allocate a date to the matter and advise the parties accordingly when the court date is. Please note that some courts follow a different process for processing the application and informing the parties of the court date. Please enquire from the Court when making the application what process they follow.

TIP: Obtain the contact details of the Court for you to contact them to obtain the Court date or other information. Ask for their contact number and email address.

Appearing in the Krugersdorp Children’s Court

When notified of the Court date, both you and the other parent should attend. If you are making use of a lawyer (Advocate or Attorney), inform them timeously of the date. Depending on the Court, you may first see the Clerk or go directly to the Magistrate. The Children’s Court would do its best to try to resolve the matter. If the parents cannot come to an agreement, the Children’s Court may postpone the matter for either of the following:

  • Get a social worker involved in the matter;
  • Appoint a legal representative for the minor child;
  • Implement interim care and contact arrangements;
  • Having the parties attempt to agree on a parenting plan;
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In serious matters, the Court may remove the minor child from both parents and place the child in foster care. The powers of the Children’s Court are extensive. It will, however, focus on what is in the child’s best interests.

TIP: Be as vocal as possible. Do not expect the Court to be understanding of your case or be on your side. It is your duty to explain your case and provide the Court with all the relevant information they require for them to make a fair decision.

Finalising the matter in the Krugersdorp Children’s Court

Once the Krugersdorp Children’s Court has enough information to make a final decision, it will do so. Depending on the facts of the matter, that could either be making a Parenting Plan, an Order of the Court or a final care and contact Order. The Court may even make further interim orders, where the parties are to return to Court after a few months, or a year later.

TIP: Do not agree to something just because the social worker, a lawyer, or the Court suggest it. You need to be happy with what is decided.

The above Krugersdorp Children’s Court Application tips should apply to the following provinces and cities:

Eastern Cape:

Alice, Butterworth, East London, Graaff-Reinet, Grahamstown, King William’s Town, Mthatha

Port Elizabeth, Queenstown, Uitenhage, Zwelitsha

Free State:

Bethlehem. Bloemfontein, Jagersfontein, Kroonstad, Odendaalsrus, Parys, Phuthaditjhaba, Sasolburg, Virginia, Welkom

Gauteng:

Benoni, Boksburg, Brakpan, Carletonville, Germiston, Johannesburg, Krugersdorp, Pretoria, Randburg, Randfontein, Roodepoort, Soweto, Springs, Vanderbijlpark, Vereeniging

KwaZulu-Natal:

Durban, Empangeni, Ladysmith, Newcastle, Pietermaritzburg, Pinetown, Ulundi, Umlazi

Limpopo:

Giyani, Lebowakgomo, Musina, Phalaborwa, Polokwane, Seshego, Sibasa, Thabazimbi

Mpumalanga:

Emalahleni, Nelspruit, Secunda, North West, Klerksdorp, Mahikeng, Mmabatho, Potchefstroom, Rustenburg, Northern Cape, Kimberley, Kuruman, Port Nolloth

Western Cape:

Bellville, Krugersdorp, Constantia, George, Hopefield, Oudtshoorn, Paarl, Simon’s Town, Stellenbosch, Swellendam, Worcester

I am searching for the top divorce attorney or advocate in Cape Town, South Africa.

How do I find the best divorce lawyer in Cape Town?

There are a few ways to find the best divorce lawyer in Cape Town. One option is to ask for recommendations from friends or family members in Cape Town who have gone through a similar experience. Another option is to search online for divorce lawyers in Cape Town and read reviews from previous clients. You can also check with the law associations to find reputable lawyers in Cape Town. It’s essential to do your research and find a lawyer who has experience and expertise in divorce law to ensure that your case is handled correctly.

How do I find the best lawyer for my divorce in Cape Town?

Finding the best lawyer for your divorce in Cape Town can be a complex and overwhelming process, but there are a few steps you can take to help ensure that you find the right one. Here are some tips: 1. Do your research: Start by researching divorce lawyers in your area or in Cape Town. You can do this by looking online, asking for recommendations from friends or family, or checking with your local bar association. 2. Read reviews: Once you have a list of potential lawyers, read reviews from previous clients to get a sense of the lawyer’s track record and reputation. 3. Schedule consultations: Schedule consultations with a few different lawyers in Cape Town to discuss your case and get a sense of their experience and approach. Many lawyers offer free initial consultations. 4. Ask questions: During the consultation, ask the lawyer questions about their experience, track record, and approach to divorce cases. Be sure to ask about their fees and how they bill for their services. 5. Trust your instincts: Ultimately, the best divorce lawyer for you in Cape Town is someone you feel comfortable working with and who you trust to handle your case effectively. Trust your instincts and choose a lawyer who you feel has your best interests at heart. By following these tips, you can find a divorce lawyer in Cape Town with the experience, skills, and expertise necessary to help you navigate the divorce process and achieve a favourable outcome.

What makes a good divorce lawyer in Cape Town?

A good divorce lawyer in Cape Town should understand the law and legal procedures related to divorce cases. They should have experience handling cases similar to yours and be able to provide you with sound legal advice and guidance throughout the process. A good divorce lawyer should also be a good communicator and listener, as they will need to understand your unique situation and work with you to develop a strategy that meets your needs and goals. Additionally, a good divorce lawyer should be compassionate and empathetic, as divorce can be emotionally challenging for their clients. Finally, a good divorce lawyer should be able to work efficiently and effectively to ensure that your case is resolved as quickly and smoothly as possible.

Is the most expensive divorce lawyer in Cape Town better?

Not necessarily. The most expensive divorce lawyer in Cape Town may not necessarily be the best one for your specific case. Considering factors such as experience, track record, and reputation is essential when choosing a lawyer rather than just their fees. While it’s true that experienced and highly skilled lawyers may charge higher fees, this is not always the case. Finding a divorce lawyer in Cape Town who has the skills and expertise necessary to handle your case effectively and who you feel comfortable working with is essential. It’s also a good idea to discuss fees and costs upfront with any potential lawyer so that you can make an informed decision about whether or not their services are within your budget.

Is it better to contest a divorce in Cape Town?

It’s difficult to say whether it is better to contest a divorce, as every situation is different. Sometimes, contesting a divorce may be necessary if spouses have significant disagreements about child custody, property division, and spousal support. However, in many cases, it may be better to try to reach a settlement or agreement through negotiation or mediation to avoid the time, expense, and stress of a contested divorce. Contested divorces can be lengthy, expensive, and emotionally draining, mainly if the dispute involves children. It’s also important to remember that the court will decide in a contested divorce, which may not always align with what either spouse wants. In contrast, settling through negotiation or mediation can give both spouses more control over the outcome and may be less stressful and costly overall. Ultimately, the decision to contest a divorce should be made after careful consideration of the case’s specific circumstances and with the advice and guidance of an experienced divorce lawyer.

What is the fastest way to get divorced in Cape Town?

The fastest way to get divorced in Cape Town is through an uncontested divorce, which involves both spouses agreeing to the divorce terms, including issues such as child custody, property division, and spousal support. If both spouses agree on these issues, they can file for an uncontested divorce, which can be resolved relatively quickly and without a trial. An uncontested divorce can be filed with the court once the spouses have been separated for at least one year. Once the divorce papers are filed, the court will review the agreement and issue a final divorce decree if everything is in order. The entire process can take as little as a few months, depending on the court’s schedule and the case’s complexity. It’s important to note that if there are disputes or disagreements between spouses regarding the divorce terms, the process may take longer and be more complicated. In these cases, hiring a divorce lawyer in Cape Town may be necessary to help resolve the issues and negotiate a settlement.

How are children affected in a divorce matter?

Divorce can have a significant impact on children, both emotionally and psychologically. Children may feel confused, anxious, and uncertain about the future when their parents are going through a divorce. They may feel caught in their parent’s conflict, blame themselves for the divorce, or feel they have to choose sides. Children of divorce may also experience changes in their living arrangements, routines, and relationships with family members, which can be challenging to adjust to. Parents need to prioritise their children’s well-being during a divorce and minimise the divorce’s impact on their children. This can involve working together to create a parenting plan that considers the children’s needs and preferences and allows both parents to stay involved in their children’s lives. It can also involve seeking the help of a therapist or counsellor to support the children and help them cope with the changes that come with divorce.  

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