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Posted on 11 February 2025 by Telelaw

Divorce Questions and Answers

Articles and Q&A

Downloadable resources

We created some downloadable resources for free on this website. They are:

1 Free Basic Will Tool Kit

2. Free Shariah Will Template

3. Free Divorce Starter Tool Kit

4. Free Child Maintenance Calculator

5. Free DIY Urgent Child Contact Toolkit

Feel free to download these useful resources. Click on the links above, and complete the online purchase process. The purchase price is R 0. Thereafter, a downloadable link would be emailed to you. Once you received the email, download it as soon as possible as the link would expire after two months. We hope that we assisted you with any queries you had on Divorce. If not, feel free to arrange a consultation with us.

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Evictions in South Africa
by Adv. Muhammad Abduroaf Evicting someone in South Africa is strictly governed by South Africa’s laws and regulations. The Prevention of Illegal Eviction from and Unlawful Occupation of Land Act (PIE Act) provides a legal framework for evictions, which should only be pursued under lawful circumstances such as non-payment of rent or violating lease agreements. The Prevention of Illegal Eviction from and Unlawful Occupation of Land Act is an act of the Parliament of South Africa which came into effect on 5 June 1998 and which sets out to prevent arbitrary evictions. It’s important to note that unlawful removal can result in legal consequences for the landlord.

The Eviction process in South Africa

Here is a general guide on how to approach the eviction process in South Africa: When considering eviction, it’s important to follow the legal process diligently and establish valid legal grounds. Common reasons include non-payment of rent, breach of lease terms, or the landlord’s need for the property for personal use. Before evicting your tenant, give written notice stating the reasons for eviction and the time frame within which the tenant should remedy the situation.

The Court Process of Evictions

If the tenant fails to comply with the notice, the landlord must apply to the local Magistrate’s Court or High Court for an eviction order. The court will consider the case based on the evidence provided and the merits of the situation. The landlord must prepare a Notice of Motion and Founding Affidavit outlining the reasons for eviction, any relevant evidence, and the steps taken to resolve the matter. It is best to make use of a Legal Practitioner (Advocate or Attorney) It’s important to ensure that the tenant receives copies of the court documents, including the Notice of Motion and Founding Affidavit, by legal requirements. This is typically done through a sheriff of the Court. Both parties will have the opportunity to present their cases at the court hearing. If you are the tenant and of the view that you are a lawful occupier, you should state so. The court will decide based on the evidence presented and the legal merits of the situation. If the court grants an eviction order, it will specify the date the tenant must vacate the premises.

After the Eviction Order is granted

Once the eviction is completed, the landlord can take possession of the property. The sheriff will execute the eviction order if the tenant does not comply voluntarily. Contact Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf if you require any assistance. [caption id="attachment_11554" align="alignnone" width="300"] Evictions in South Africa - Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf

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Posted on 11 February 2025 by Telelaw

Dear Advocate Abduroaf. My child custody case is very complicated. How do I find the best child custody lawyer, attorney or advocate for my case in Nelspruit?
A great child custody lawyer (attorney or advocate) is a legal practitioner who specializes in family law and has expertise in handling cases related to child custody and visitation rights. Family law matters can be very emotionally challenging for both parents. The same applies to the child concerned. Whether you live in Cape Town or in Nelspruit, the law applicable would be the same throughout South Africa.
Here are some qualities and characteristics that can define a great child custody lawyer, or the best one for your case:
Experience and Expertise:
Specialization in family law, particularly child custody cases.
Proven track record of successfully handling similar cases.
Knowledge of Family Law:
In-depth understanding of family law.
Awareness of recent legal developments and changes in family law.
Communication Skills:
Effective communication skills to clearly articulate your case in court.
Ability to negotiate and mediate to reach favourable settlements.
Compassion and Empathy:
Understanding and empathy towards the emotional challenges involved in child custody disputes.
Ability to provide emotional support to clients during a difficult time.
Strategic Thinking:
Ability to devise a strategic legal approach tailored to the unique aspects of your case.
Forethought and anticipation of potential challenges.
Availability and Responsiveness:
Prompt responses to client inquiries and concerns.
Availability for meetings, court appearances, and consultations.
Client Reviews and References:
Positive reviews from previous clients.
Recommendations from colleagues or other legal professionals.
Ethical Conduct:
Adherence to professional and ethical standards.
Transparent and fair billing practices.
Courtroom Experience:
Comfort and confidence in a courtroom setting.
Skillful presentation of arguments and evidence.
Resourcefulness:
Resourcefulness in finding legal precedents and utilizing available resources to strengthen the case.
Problem-Solving Skills:
Creative problem-solving skills to navigate complex family dynamics and legal issues.
Custody and Visitation Knowledge:
In-depth knowledge of various custody arrangements and visitation schedules.
Ability to advocate for the best interests of the child.
What should you consider when meeting with a family law attorney or advocate?
When looking for a great child custody lawyer, it’s essential to schedule consultations, discuss your case, and assess whether the lawyer, attorney, or advocate possesses the qualities and skills that align with your needs and goals. Additionally, consider seeking recommendations from trusted friends, family members, or other legal professionals. Finding the best child custody lawyer involves thorough research, careful consideration of your specific needs, and evaluation of the lawyer’s qualifications. Here are some steps you can take to find the right child custody lawyer for your situation:
Define Your Goals and Needs:
Clearly identify your goals and priorities in the child custody case.
Determine the specific services you need from a lawyer, such as legal representation, mediation, or collaborative law.
Research Local Family Law Attorneys:
Use online legal directories and referral services to identify family law attorneys or Trust Account Advocate in your area.
Seek recommendations from friends, family, or colleagues who have gone through similar situations.
Check Credentials and Specialization:
Look for lawyers who specialize in family law and, more specifically, child custody cases.
Check their credentials, education, and any certifications related to family law.
Read Reviews and Testimonials:
Read online reviews on legal review websites, social media, or the lawyer’s own website.
Consider testimonials from previous clients to gauge the lawyer’s reputation and success rate.
Consult with Multiple Lawyers:
Schedule consultations with several child custody lawyers to discuss your case.
Prepare a list of questions to ask during the consultation, covering topics such as experience, approach to cases, and expected outcomes.
Evaluate Communication Skills:
Assess the lawyer’s communication style and whether you feel comfortable discussing your case with them.
Ensure that the lawyer listens actively and provides clear explanations of legal processes.
Consider Experience:
Inquire about the lawyer’s experience in handling child custody cases similar to yours.
Ask about their success rate and outcomes in past cases.
Review Legal Fees:
Discuss the lawyer’s fee structure during the consultation.
Clarify billing practices, retainer fees, and any additional costs associated with your case.
Check Disciplinary Records:
Verify the lawyer’s standing with the Legal Practice Council of South Africa.
Check for any disciplinary actions or complaints against the lawyer.
Seek Second Opinions:
If you have initial concerns or uncertainties, consider seeking a second opinion from another attorney or advocate.
Compare advice and recommendations from multiple sources.
Trust Your Instincts:
Pay attention to your instincts and gut feelings about the lawyer.
Choose a lawyer you feel comfortable working with and who understands your unique situation.
Negotiation and Mediation Skills:
Assess the lawyer’s ability to negotiate and mediate, especially if you prefer an amicable resolution.
Remember that finding the best child custody lawyer is a personalized process, and the right fit for one person may not be the best for another. Take the time to thoroughly research and evaluate potential lawyers to make an informed decision based on your specific needs and circumstances.
We service clients in all cities: Cape Town Rustenburg Kimberley East London Nelspruit Polokwane Pietermaritzburg Bloemfontein Port Elizabeth Pretoria Durban Johannesburg

Posted on 11 February 2025 by Telelaw

Relocation with my minor child to Vietnam, Ha Long (Consent and Refusal) – Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf

The world is becoming a much smaller place, and technology plays a huge role. People are moving across the world for employment, love and happiness, something that was not the norm a few decades ago. There is no reason why you should remain in South Africa if you can find a better life for yourself and your family overseas. Moving overseas may provide you with the quality of life you want or the possibility of experiencing things you always wanted. The same applies to your child or children relocating with you.

Relocation of your minor child to Ha Long, Vietnam

If you are single and do not have any minor children, then moving around the world would not be too complicated. All you need to do is ensure that you have the necessary travel documentation and travel ticket (and spending money), and off you go. However, if you want to travel with your minor children (for example, ages five or six) or relocate to another country, things may not be that simple. Firstly, if there is another parent, and he or she has parental responsibilities and rights, then his or her consent is required. For example, let us say you live in Butterworth or Bloemfontein, South Africa, and you want to relocate to Ha Long, Vietnam, you would require the other parent’s consent to leave South Africa with your minor child. This can cause challenges, especially if the staying parent (in South Africa) does not agree to the relocation.

What about Passport Consent to travel or relocate to Ha Long, Vietnam?

The same applies when it comes to your minor child applying for a South African passport to relocate to Vietnam, or any country. Both parents who have parental responsibilities and rights of guardianship will have to consent to the minor child’s passport application as well. In this regard, both parents have to be at the Department of Home Affairs (or the relevant bank that also assists with passport application) when making the Application with the minor child. This can be challenging if you have a disinterested parent who does not want to cooperate with the passport application. As you will see later, legal action would need to be taken.

What are the steps to follow when I want to relocate to Ha Long, Vietnam with my minor child? There is there another parent.

To simplify the process for relocation, the first step would be to receive the other parent’s consent in principle for the relocation and that he or she will co-operate in this regard. Once that has been resolved, the parent relocating would need to make the appointment for the minor child’s passport application as well as the application for the relevant VISA. Each country has different requirements; however, seeing that it is a relocation, you need to apply for the correct VISA. For that, you need the Passport. Once the visa and travel arrangements have been finalised, the parent remaining behind will sign a parental consent letter for the international travel. That letter can be found on the Department of Home Affairs website. Basically, the parent remaining behind would state that he or she gives consent for the minor child to leave the Republic of South Africa and travel and/or relocate to Ha Long, Vietnam.

What can I do if the other parent does not want to consent to the minor child’s relocation to Ha Long, Vietnam?

If the parent remaining in South Africa does not want to consent to the minor child’s passport application and/or his or her relocation to Ha Long, Vietnam, then you would need to approach the Court. The Court, as upper guardian of the minor child, may order that the parent’s consent for the passport application and relocation be dispensed with. What this entails is submitting Court documents explaining why you want to relocate to Ha Long, Vietnam. The other parent would also have an opportunity to give reasons why he or she objects. At the end of the process, the Court would determine what is in the minor child’s best interests. If it is in the minor child’s best interests to relocate to Ha Long, Vietnam, the Court would make it possible despite the issue of consent or refusal.

What is the first step I should take if the other parent does not want to consent to the minor child’s passport application and/or relocation to Ha Long, Vietnam?

If the other parent does not want to consent to the passport application and/or the relocation of the minor child to Ha Long, Vietnam – in that case, we suggest you approach an attorney or advocate (trust account) to assist you with the legal process. He or she would then contact the other parent explaining the reasons for the relocation and request the necessary consent. If the parent remaining in South Africa does still not agree to the passport application and/or to the relocation to Ha Long, Vietnam, then the attorney or advocate will proceed to take the matter to court. The legal route can be expensive. However, it is necessary to make the relocation of the minor child possible. You may also attend to the legal process yourself.

Getting legal assistance or help with your relocation application to Ha Long, Vietnam

If you require legal assistance or representation with relocating to Ha Long, Vietnam due to the other parent not cooperating or providing consent, then feel free to contact us for assistance. The Firm Advocate, Muhammad Abduroaf, deals with these types of matters.

Changing your matrimonial property regime from in community of property to out of community of property

Are you married? Do you know what is your matrimonial property regime?

To register your Antenuptial Contact, Click here. Are you married in Community of Property? Do you want to change your matrimonial property regime to Out of Community of Property? Did you not know that a marriage Out of Community of Property was possible when getting married? There is legal relief for you and your spouse.

In Community of Property

All civil marriages are automatically In Community of Property. This means that there is one estate shared between wife and husband. Therefore, if anyone of the spouses incurs a debt, that debt belongs to both of them.

Out of Community of Property

The other option is to get married Out of Community of Property. This means that there are two separate estates and each party is responsible for his or her own debt. For some people, this would be a better option, especially if you are a business person.

Accrual system

The usual process to be married Out of Community of Property is to enter into an antenuptial contract before the marriage. The contract will have clauses in it stating:

That there shall be no community of property;
That there shall be no community of profit or loss; and
That the accrual system provided for in Chapter 1 of the Matrimonial Property Act, no 88 of 1984 is expressly excluded from the marriage.

However, if you did not do so, there is a way of changing your matrimonial property regime from In Community of Property to Out of Community of Property. For this, you need the consent of the High Court in your Jurisdiction. Here you will make use of section 21 of the Matrimonial Property Act 88 of 1984.

Getting the High Court’s Consent to change your matrimonial property regime to Out of Community of Property

Once you and your spouse have decided to change your matrimonial property regime to Out of Community of Property, you would need to approach the High Court in your area for consent. If you know the law, legal process, Court rules, and procedure, you and your spouse can do it on your own. If you cannot do it on your own, an attorney would be able to do it for you. This the attorney may attend to with or without the assistance of an Advocate.

Drafting a post-nuptial contract

What they do is draft a post-nuptial contract for you which would outline what matrimonial property regime you want and also how the joint estate should be divided.

Application to the High Court for consent to change your matrimonial property regime to Out of Community of Property

Then they draft a Notice of Motion (notifying the Court what you want) and Founding Affidavit (your affidavit outlining your case etc.). Your case must satisfy the Court that:

There are sound reasons for the proposed change of the matrimonial property regime;
There has been sufficient notice to creditors regarding the proposed change; and
No other person will be prejudiced by the proposed change.

If, however, you cannot make a case for the above, your application may be unsuccessful.

Costs involved in changing your matrimonial property regime

As stated, you have to approach the High Court for consent to change your matrimonial property regime. There, therefore, would be the costs of an attorney who may instruct and advocate, and further costs in drafting and registration of the postnuptial contract. Furthermore, there is advertisement cost involved as you would have to give notice in the Government Gazette and in one or two local newspapers. You would further have to serve your application on the Registrar of Deeds and give notice to your creditors via registered mail. The total costs can range from R 25 000 – 00 should your matter be straight forward, to R 30 000 – 00 should it be more complicated.

Complicated applications to change your matrimonial property regime to Out of Community of Property

Complicated would mean the joint estate has many creditors. Furthermore, there may be many assets in the joint estate that needs to be divided, especially if they are not easily describable. The above-mentioned fee is obviously dependent on your application not being opposed by any interested party. One reason for opposing the application could be that the Joint Estate is deeply indebted to a creditor, and she feels that her claim would be prejudiced by the proposed change. Should your application be opposed for any reason, many more hours will be spent fighting for the success of your application which could costs you a small fortune and you may even be ultimately unsuccessful. Therefore, you would need to advise your legal team of all relevant facts before the application is made.

Time estimates to change your matrimonial property regime to Out of Community of Property

The estimated time in preparing your application, your post-nuptial contract and ultimately obtaining consent from the High Court is about 4 weeks. This is also dependent on whether or not the High Court is sitting within 4 weeks after the drafting of your application. If the High Court is in recess, a few extra weeks may apply. The Court may also want a report from the Registrar of Deeds which could cause delays.

Registering the postnuptial contract

Once your application is successful and the High Court, therefore, gave consent, you will usually have 3 (three) months to register the postnuptial contract. So once consent is granted, you need to see a Notary Public before whom you will sign your post-nuptial contract and then have it registered. This, therefore, needs to be done within the three months of obtaining the consent of the High Court.

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