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Top and the best advocate or attorney for your family law legal matters

When it comes to Family Law, it is of paramount importance that you use the best trust account advocate or attorney for your legal matter. Not necessarily the most expensive or most experienced. It, therefore, does not have to be the top lawyer or well-known advocate in the field. However, the trust account advocate or attorney must be someone you can work with and who is willing to fight for you. This applies whether you are dealing with a child maintenance matter or a relocation consent application. It is even more critical if you are dealing with a sensitive matter involving parental alienation. If you cannot work with your attorney or trust account advocate, the results will not be as best as they could have been. Even worse, your case may be doomed if the attorney or trust account advocate is unwilling to fight smartly for you. This is sad because, in most family law matters, the subject is the minor child.

A scenario on what Trust Account Advocate or attorney to choose

The best way to illustrate the above is by way of an example. As stated, the best or top lawyer is not what you should look at in all circumstances. The attorney or trust account advocate must be willing to fight for you. It goes without saying that a highly experienced attorney or trust account advocate is needed under certain circumstances. But not always. Consider your budget and whether you can fuel litigation until the end.

Child Relocation matter – Top Tip

Let us use a child relocation matter as an example. Suppose you are the child’s mother and want to relocate to the United States of America. Your child is 15 years old, and because she is a minor, you require the biological father’s consent because he has parental responsibilities and rights of the minor child. The biological father however does not want to consent to the relocation, and his reason is that he would not see the child as often as he would. Indeed, he would not see the child as often as he would have. However, that is only one aspect of the case. One also needs to look at the benefits the relocation of the minor child to the United States of America would have him or her. Another consideration is whether or not the father can care for the minor child as well as the mother can. Each case is different.

How to choose the best possible attorney or trust account advocate in the above scenario?

Let us apply some common sense principles in finding the best attorney or trust account advocate for you should the above scenario apply. Seeing that the father of the biological child does not want to consent to the relocation of the minor child, you have no alternative but to approach the Court. The High Court, the upper guardian of all minor children, has the authority to dispense with the requirement of the father’s consent. In essence, what this means is that this consent is no longer required.

The best interest of the minor child’s principle – Best you follow it

The Court will only make such an order if it is convinced it would be in the minor child’s best interest. If it is not in the minor child’s best interest for the relocation to take place and then in that regard, the Court would not make such an order. You, as the parent, would, of course, be allowed to relocate to the United States of America; however, you would not be allowed to take the minor child with you. Another aspect is to consider is if the mother does relocate to the United States of America, is it possible for the father to adequately care for the minor child? Most times, he would be able to. But not always.

What happens if you do not make use of the best advocate of attorney for your case – Top problem

Now that we understand the legal principle applicable, it is important that when seeking an attorney or trust account advocate, they can work with you to obtain the best results possible. In other words, if you and the attorney or trust account advocate cannot see eye to eye on what results are required and how to get them, then you would be wasting your money. For example, suppose you use an attorney or trust account advocate who is pro-father only  (as opposed to pro-equal rights) and not on the same page as you regarding the desired outcome. Then, in that case, it is improbable that the desired outcome would be reached. The attorney or trust account advocate would not fight for you the way they should. This is so even if the attorney or trust account advocate is the best in other aspects of family law—for example, child maintenance.

Last words on finding the top and best attorney or trust account advocate for you – Best and Top advice

There is no one-size-fits-all when seeking the top and best attorney or trust account advocate for your case. As clients differ, so do attorneys or trust account advocates. However, getting along well with your attorney or trust account advocate is essential, and that would ensure the best results. Professionalism is one then, but incompatibility is another. Best of luck finding the best attorney or trust account advocate for your legal matter. Reminder, don’t look for the best only. Look for an attorney or trust account advocate willing to fight for you. 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Rule 43 Application – Maintenance Pendente Lite – High Court – Cape Town

Whilst you are in the process of divorcing your spouse, you may require the Western Cape High Court to assist you with regard to maintenance, or contact with your child. You may want the Court to Order t your spouse pays a portion of your legal fees, as well. This can all be done while the divorce is still pending. In the High Court, the court procedure to follow is outlined in its Uniform Rule 43.  That is where the term “Rule 43 Applications” come from.

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Below was provide you with the entire rule 43, as well with an example of the Notice when making use of the rule.

The entire rule 43 is as follows:

How does it work

An Example of a Rule 43 Notice

IN   THE   HIGH   COURT OF SOUTH   AFRICA

NOTICE OF APPLICATION IN TERMS OF RULE 43

1. The minor child shall reside primarily with the Applicant who shall be her primary caregiver; and
2. The Respondent shall have reasonable contact with the minor child as follows:
   • Every alternative weekend, commencing from the Friday until the Sunday. The collecting and drop-off times shall be agreed to by the Parties in advance, which may vary from time to time;
   • Equal sharing of long and short school holidays, in that the minor child shall reside one half with the Applicant and the other with the Respondent which shall alternate each year;
   • The Applicant and/or the Respondent, as the case may be, shall further have contact with the minor child on the following days for 3 (three) hours notwithstanding in whose care the minor child is in on those days:
     • Christmas Day;
     • The minor child’s birthday;
     • Father’s day and Mother’s Day; and
     • The Parties’ birthday.

3. The Parties shall have telephonic contact with the minor child on a regular basis whilst the minor child is in the other’s care;
4. Notwithstanding the above, the Parties shall have reasonable contact with the minor child at all times, provided that any additional contact shall be arranged telephonically and shall only take place by prior arrangement and consensus between the Parties; and
5. The Parties shall respect each other’s privacy and shall not enter each other’s homes at any time without prior invitation, whether for the purpose of fetching or returning the minor child or any other reason whatsoever.
6. JOINT DECISION MAKING
   • The Parties shall make joint decisions about the following aspects of the minor child’s life:
     • Major decisions about the minor child’s schooling and tertiary education;
     • Major decisions about the minor child’s physical care, mental health care and medical care;
     • Major decisions about the minor child’s religious and spiritual upbringing;
     • Decisions about the minor child’s residence both within and outside the Cape Peninsula;
     • Decisions which are likely to significantly change the minor child’s living conditions or to have an adverse effect on her well-being; and
     • Decisions which affect the minor child’s everyday care and daily routine shall be made by the party in whose care the minor child is in at the relevant time.

7. Costs of this Application if opposed; and
8. Further and/or alternative relief.

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