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Can you get a divorce without your spouse’s consent?
Yes, you can. The process will take longer if it is defended.How do you get a divorce if you have no money?
Approach the Magistrate’s Court in your area for assistance with your divorce. You do not need a lawyer.Can you refuse to get a divorce?
Yes, you can. However, the Court would grant the divorce if the marriage has broken down and cannot be saved.Can I do my own divorce?
Yes, you can do your own divorce. There is no need for a lawyer.How can you get a divorce if spouse won t sign?
The Court can still divorce you if your spouse won’t sign.Can you be denied a divorce?
Yes, you can if the marriage has not broken down.How many years do you have to be separated to get a divorce?
There is no minimum. A week could be enough. The marriage should have broken down.Can you get a divorce without having to go to court?
One spouse needs to go to court to give evidence.Do both parties have to agree to get a divorce?
No, they do not. The Court will decide if a divorce is warranted.Can you get a divorce without a lawyer?
Yes, you can. A lawyer is not needed. However, it is always a good idea to use one.How long does it take to get a contested divorce?
It depends on the Court. We presume no less than 6 months.How long do you have to respond after being served with divorce papers?
You have 10 (ten) working days.How much does it cost to get a mutual divorce?
It depends on the lawyers you use. The Court does not charge. So if you do it yourself, there is no fee.How cheap can you get a divorce?
Various lawyers charge different fees. If you do it yourself, its free.Can you get a divorce for free?
If you do it yourself, its free.How fast can you get a divorce?
If both parties agree, it can take about three weeks.How much does it cost to get a divorce?
It depends on the lawyer. But if you do it yourself, it free.Do you have to get a lawyer to get a divorce?
No, you do not need a lawyer.How long do you have to be married before you have to pay alimony?
There is no set time.Can you make your spouse pay for the divorce?
Yes, you can.Can you force a divorce?
No, you cannot.How do you stop a divorce after filing?
You have to withdraw the action.Can you contest a divorce?
Yes, you can.What is an uncontested divorce?
It is a divorce where both parties agrees to theWhat do I need for a contested divorce?
You need good reasons why you are contesting it.Can serve divorce papers myself?
No, you need to make use of the Sheriff of the Court.Can you get a divorce without your spouse’s consent?
Yes, you can.How do you get a divorce if you have no money?
You do not need much money to get divorced. The only costs is that of the Sheriff.What are unreasonable terms in a divorce?
Terms which you are not entitled to. For example, wanting the entire joint estate.Can I do my own divorce?
Yes, you can.How much will it cost to get a divorce?
There are no costs. You must, however, pay the sheriff fees.How many years do you have to be separated to get a divorce?
There is no specific minimum. The marriage should only not be able to be saved.Where can I get divorce papers for free?
Visit the divorce court in your area.How much money does it cost to get a divorce?
There are no costs, other than the sheriff’s costs. How do I file for divorce without a lawyer? You can do it yourself. Visit the Magistrate’s Court in your area.Can you refuse to get a divorce?
Yes, you can.Can you get a divorce without having to go to court?
One party must go to court.What happens if your spouse does not sign divorce papers?
The divorce would then proceed on a defended basis if they filed such a notice.Can you be denied a divorce?
Yes, you can if the marriage has not broken down.Do both parties have to agree to get a divorce?
No.How long do you have to wait before a divorce is final?
It’s final once the judge or magistrate gives the decree.How long does it take for a divorce to be final after signing papers?
Once the matter gets heard in Court and the order granted.How long does it take to get a contested divorce?
Can take no less than six months. It depends on the Court and the lawyer.Can a judge not grant a divorce?
Yes, if the marriage has not broken down.Can the father get full custody of his child?
Yes, he can if it is in the child’s best interests.Can you force a divorce?
No, you cannot.How long do you have to be married before you have to pay alimony?
There is no limit.Is it adultery to date while separated?
Yes, it is as you are still married.Is it cheaper to get divorced after 2 years?
The costs might be more for legal fees.Can you get a divorce without the other person knowing?
No, the other person must be notified.Can you get a divorce online?
No, it is not possible. One party must appear in Court and give evidence.Can you get a divorce without a lawyer?
Yes, you can. You can act as your own lawyer.How long do you have to respond after being served with divorce papers?
You have 10 working days. It is best to do it sooner.How do you get a divorce if you do not work?
It is still possible. Visit your nearest magistrate’s court for assistance. All you need is the costs of the sheriff.How can I file for a divorce on my own?
If you know what you are doing, we advise that you do so. However, you can go to the Magistrate’s Court and ask for assistance.How long do you have to be separated in order to get a divorce?
There is no maximum or minimum time period.Can serve divorce papers myself?
No, you have to make use of the Sheriff.What is sexual misconduct during a divorce?
This would be in a spouse is busy with adultery during the divorce.What is an informal separation in a marriage?
This is when the parties do not get divorced, but agree to live separately.Can I date while separated before the divorce?
There is nothing in law preventing you from doing so.Is it okay to date while going through a divorce?
It may be best to first finalise your divorce.How much do you pay in alimony and child support?
It depends on the means and need of the parties concerned.How do you figure out alimony?
You look at income, expenses and needs.Can you refuse to get divorced?
Yes, you can. However, you must have good reasons. If the marriage is over, then the divorce would proceed.How can you get a divorce if the spouse will not sign?
The Court can still divorce you.Can a mother take her child away from the father?
Yes, if it is in the child’s bests interests. However, one should not do so unless a child care expert advises you to do so.Do you still have to pay child support if you have 50 50 custody?
It is possible if you earn more than the other parent.Can a judge not grant a divorce?
Yes, it is possible if the marriage has not broken down. Can the court deny a divorce?How long does it take to get a contested divorce?
It can take a long time, from six months to over a year.How much is a contested divorce?
It depends on your lawyer and how long it takes.Do you have to have proof of divorce to remarry?
No. But it is illegal to marry again if you are not divorced.Is a decree of divorce the final divorce?
Yes, it is. You should receive and Order.How long do you have to wait before a divorce is final?
It is final once the Judge gives a final order or divorce.How long does divorce take?
It depends on the case. If your spouse and you fight on every issue, it can take years.Can I divorce my wife without her consent?
Yes, you can.Do both husband and wife have to agree to divorce?
No, they do not have to. The Court would divorce you if the marriage has broken down completely.Can you force your spouse to divorce you?
No, you cannot. You need to follow the court process.Can you contest a divorce?
Yes, you can.How long do you have to keep your divorce papers?
You should keep it indefinitely.Where can I get a copy of my divorce papers?
You should visit the Court that gave you the divorce.How do you get a divorce if you have no money?
We advise that you approach the Magistrate’s Court in your area.What does it mean when a divorce is contested?
It means your spouse is not agreeing to the divorce.Can you fight a divorce?
Yes, you can fight it. The legal term is defend it.How much does it cost to get an uncontested divorce?
It depends on the lawyer. But if you do it yourself, there is no fee other than the sheriff.How long do you have to keep bank statements for?
It depends on what. If it is for maintenance, we suggest three years.Are all divorce records public?
Yes, it is.Can I find divorce orders online?
No, you need to visit the court.How do you find out if your divorce is final?
You need to visit the court and ask for a copy.Are divorce filing public records?
Yes it is.How can I get my divorce certificate?
You need to visit the court and ask for a copy.How do you get a copy of a divorce decree?
You need to visit the court and ask for a copy.Can you refuse to get divorced?
Yes, you can.Is everything Split 50 50 in a divorce?
Yes if you are married In Community of Property.Can a wife claim her husband property in the divorce?
It is possible if there is a legal basis for it.Can I keep my house in a divorce?
Yes, if it is agreed upon or awarded by the court.Who gets the child in a divorce?
The parent who can best care for the child primarily.Can infidelity be used in a divorce?
Yes, it can.Can you lose custody of your child due to adultery?
Its possible, but very unlikely if its the sole reason.Can you sue your spouse for adultery?
No, you cannot.Can the father get full custody of his child?
Yes, he can.What is considered adultery in a divorce?
If there was sexual intercourse.Can a mother take her child away from the father?
If it is in the child’s best interest. It is advised to get the advice of a social worker first.Do you still have to pay child support if you have 50 50 custody?
It is possible. Depending on your income. If you earn more, then it is possible.How do you prove a parent unfit?
It depends on the facts. If there are such facts, it must be brought to the court’s attention.What is considered an unfit mother?
A mother who does not act in the best interests of the child and the child suffers.How can mother win child custody?
She must prove that it is in the best interest of the child if she gets custody.Can you get custody of a child that is not yours?
Yes, it is possible.What is considered a stable environment for a child?
Where there child’s best interests are met.How long does divorce take?
If it is defended, it can take a year. If not, a month.What is unreasonable divorce settlement in a divorce?
Where it favours one party.Can you contest a divorce if you not happy with it?
Yes, you can.Can you defend a divorce?
Yes, you can.What happens if your wife does not sign divorce papers?
The divorce would go ahead, however, it might take longer.Can you be denied a divorce?
Yes, you can be denied a divorce if the marriage has not broken down.
Child Maintenance Court – What do you have to know to win. Tips and Tricks
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Best interests of a child: When it comes to child maintenance, the child’s best interests are of paramount importance. This principle is immortalised in our Constitution and applied in our Courts of Law. Therefore, in relation to child maintenance matters, and specifically to the child maintenance court, the moment a parent files an application for child maintenance, the principal should apply. Before we move on, on a side note, it is not only child maintenance that the maintenance court deals with. A spouse may take the other to the maintenance court for personal maintenance. Read on above a Successful Child Maintenance Appeal before the Full Bench Argued by Adv M AbduroafParental Maintenance Obligations
Both parents have a duty of support towards their minor child’s proper living and upbringing. This should be according to their means, standard of living, station in life, and the needs of the child. This is found in our common law and further applies to divorced parents. According to section 15(2) of the Maintenance Act, the duty “extends to such support as a child reasonably requires for his or her proper living and upbringing, and includes the provision of food, clothing, accommodation, medical care and education.” Furthermore, the duty is not discharged where one parent earns substantially more than the other. According to section 15(3) of the Maintenance Act, in determining the maintenance amount, the maintenance court must take into consideration the following: “(i) that the duty of supporting a child is an obligation which the parents have incurred jointly; (ii) that the parents’ respective shares of such obligation are apportioned between them according to their respective means; and (iii) that the duty exists, irrespective of whether a child is born in or out of wedlock or is born of a first or subsequent marriage. (b) Any amount so determined shall be such amount as the maintenance court may consider fair in all the circumstances of the case.” Lastly, there is an onus on both the maintenance officer and the maintenance magistrate in placing evidence before the court in determining a fair maintenance amount. This is our starting point going forward.Processing the Maintenance Application
When a parent approaches the maintenance court for child maintenance, it is the duty of the maintenance clerk to expeditiously process the application. In doing so, the clerk through the other resources of the maintenance court, should ascertain the details of the other parent, and ensure that he or she is brought to court as soon as possible for a maintenance enquiry before a maintenance officer. Therefore, for example, should the maintenance clerk not have the living or work address of the father, then he or she must enlist the assistance of the maintenance investigator to obtain it. For that, he or she can make use of the search and tracking resources the maintenance investigator makes use of and has access to. Getting the non-paying parent to the maintenance court
After the maintenance application has been processed, it is the duty of the maintenance court to ensure that the non-paying parent makes his or her way to the maintenance court as soon as possible for a maintenance enquiry. This enquiry is held before a maintenance officer. Even if the maintenance court’s diary is quite full, it should still expedite this process, giving both parents adequate time to make arrangements to appear in the maintenance court. Therefore, if the next available date for a maintenance enquiry is in three (3) months time, the parties can use this time to make arrangements with their work, obtain necessary information for the enquiry, or make alternative school traveling arrangements for the kids. There should therefore not be a delay in notifying the parents of the date of the maintenance enquiry. Furthermore, when notified of the court date, both parents receive a document stating what information they should bring with to the maintenance enquiry. These include three (3) months bank statements, and salary advices as well as proof of expenses. Giving the parties adequate time to obtain this information would be vital and, in the child’s best interests. The last thing we want is for the matter to be postponed to another date due to either parent not having been given adequate time to obtain the documents, even though the mother made the application many months ago. The maintenance enquiry before a maintenance officer
The maintenance enquiry is the next legal step in the process. This is where things get interesting. Sometimes, at this enquiry, it is the first time the parents are in the same room together, since the child was conceived. Quite often, both parents do not know much about the current financial affairs of the other parent. The parent asked to pay child support, furthermore, does not know what the child costs to maintain.Denial of paternity
What sometimes happens, is that the father denies paternity. This he would either do out of spite or due to genuine doubt on his side. This would often be the case if there was a brief encounter between the parents when the child was conceived. Sometimes the father is married to someone else, and for the sake of his current marriage, he needs to deny paternity. Once the paternity tests are finalised, the parties would need to return to court again for the results. If the results are positive, in that he is the father, then the enquiry proceeds. If he is not the biological father, the application is removed from the court roll.Role of the maintenance officer
Again, the golden standard in which the enquiry should be conducted is that of the child’s best interests. This is of paramount importance. The maintenance officer should, therefore, ensure that all the financial information about the parties are properly disclosed. This is very important. However, at the same time, the maintenance officer should try to settle the matter, taking into consideration the child’s best interests. Should the parents not be forthcoming regarding their income and expenses, and the needs of the child, then the maintenance officer must subpoena witnesses if need be and make use of the maintenance investigator which we deal with next. The maintenance investigator
Section 7(1)(d) of the Maintenance Act empowers the maintenance officer to “require a maintenance investigator of the maintenance court concerned to perform such other functions as may be necessary or expedient to achieve the objects of this Act.” Section 7(2)(e) of the Maintenance Act empowers the maintenance investigator after so being instructed by the maintenance officer, to: “gather information concerning- (i) the identification or whereabouts of any person who is legally liable to maintain the person mentioned in such complaint or who is allegedly so liable; (ii) the financial position of any person affected by such liability; or (iii) any other matter which may be relevant concerning the subject of such complaint; or (f) gather such information as may be relevant concerning a request referred to in subsection (1) (c). Now that we looked at the importance of the role of the maintenance officer and maintenance investigator, we move on to the role of the maintenance magistrate. This is where the formal enquiry takes place.
The formal enquiry before a Magistrate
Should the parties not be able to come to an agreement regarding the amount of child maintenance to be paid at the enquiry before the maintenance officer; the matter would have to go before the maintenance magistrate for a formal enquiry. Here the court has to properly consider the means and needs of the mother, the means and needs of the father, and the needs of the minor child. Thereafter, make a maintenance award. There is a legal obligation upon the maintenance officer and the magistrate to conduct a thorough enquiry. The court should not play the role of an umpire. Therefore, a passive attitude should not be taken by a judicial officer in a maintenance enquiry and then give judgment. Should all go well, at the end of the enquiry, a maintenance award would be made.Sharing is Caring
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