Can technology be used to have me divorced online? I do not want to go to court or see my spouse again. Is an online divorce possible?

When a marriage breaks down, people naturally would want information on the topic of divorces and the legal process. For this, they usually go online to find answers. This information they seek could include, how divorces works, the process and how long it takes. Of course, if there are minor children involved, parents would want to know what the parental rights and responsibilities are as well. This relates to issues of care, contact, child maintenance etc. Then there is the issue of proprietary rights. In other words who gets what assets or money if there is a joint estate. This article, however, deals with the issue regarding whether or not a couple’s divorce can be done online?

Two main aspects of a divorce process

Broadly speaking the divorce process can be divided into two processes. The first aspect relates to that of instituting the divorce proceedings and getting the matter to court. The second aspect relates to the actual divorce proceedings in court. As can be seen, further below, the divorce process is analogue. The only part of it that can be done online is getting the documentation in order, so that your lawyer may prepare the Summons, Particulars of Claim and so on. However, processing a divorce would entail physically issuing documents at court, serving the summons on the other spouse via the sheriff and attending to court on the date of the divorce. Once the documents have been issued and served, some legal processes thereafter can take place via email. However, physical copies of those documents still need to be filed at court. Therefore, a lot of walking still needs to take place.

The online aspect of the divorce

If you are making use of the services of a legal practitioner to attend to your divorce, you can provide him or her with instructions online. These instructions relate to the names and details of the spouses, the matrimonial property regime, reasons for the breakdown, details of the minor children if any and the assets of the parties if applicable and so on. The legal practitioner (advocate or attorney) would then draft the necessary documentation. He or she would then have to physically issue it at court.  Therefore, the only aspect of the divorce that can be done online as stated earlier is instructing your legal practitioner with the relevant information. [caption id="attachment_9218" align="alignleft" width="441"] Online Divorce – South Africa[/caption]

Things that must be done physically in a divorce process

Once you provided your legal practitioner with the relevant information either in person or online, the following needs to take place. Firstly, the legal practitioner after drafting the documentation would have to have them issued at court, obtain a case number, and then have it served on your spouse by the sheriff of the court. This would have to be done physically. It cannot be done online or via email unless the court authorises it via edictal citation or substituted service.

Physically attending to court to give evidence

We will presume for this example that your spouse will not oppose the divorce. If that is the case then your legal practitioner would physically have to draft and serve a notice of set down on the relevant court. After your legal practitioner ensured that the court file is in order, then either you or your spouse would physically have to appear before the judge or magistrates to provide evidence as to the details of the marriage and the reasons for the breakdown. If the court is so satisfied, that the marriage has broken down irretrievably, and the minor children’s best interest are looked after, a decree of divorce would be granted.

Is there such a thing as an online divorce in South Africa?

Considering the above, there is no such thing as an online divorce in South Africa. The only aspect that can be done online is providing your legal practitioner with the necessary details of your marriage, the children, property, and so on. Your legal practitioner would then use that information to prepare the necessary documentation. These documents would have to be issued at court and served on the other spouse. On the divorce day, one of the parties will still have to appear in court to give evidence. As can be seen above, the concept of an online divorce could be confusing. However, if you’re making use of illegal practitioners, who is tech-savvy, the only time you physically need to be available would be on the date of the divorce at court. All other times you can provide the legal practitioners with instructions telephonically, via email, video and so on.            

Can technology be used to have me divorced online? I do not want to go to court or see my spouse again. Is an online divorce possible?

When a marriage breaks down, people naturally would want information on the topic of divorces and the legal process. For this, they usually go online to find answers. This information they seek could include, how divorces works, the process and how long it takes. Of course, if there are minor children involved, parents would want to know what the parental rights and responsibilities are as well. This relates to issues of care, contact, child maintenance etc. Then there is the issue of proprietary rights. In other words who gets what assets or money if there is a joint estate. This article, however, deals with the issue regarding whether or not a couple’s divorce can be done online?

Two main aspects of a divorce process

Broadly speaking the divorce process can be divided into two processes. The first aspect relates to that of instituting the divorce proceedings and getting the matter to court. The second aspect relates to the actual divorce proceedings in court. As can be seen, further below, the divorce process is analogue. The only part of it that can be done online is getting the documentation in order, so that your lawyer may prepare the Summons, Particulars of Claim and so on. However, processing a divorce would entail physically issuing documents at court, serving the summons on the other spouse via the sheriff and attending to court on the date of the divorce. Once the documents have been issued and served, some legal processes thereafter can take place via email. However, physical copies of those documents still need to be filed at court. Therefore, a lot of walking still needs to take place.

The online aspect of the divorce

If you are making use of the services of a legal practitioner to attend to your divorce, you can provide him or her with instructions online. These instructions relate to the names and details of the spouses, the matrimonial property regime, reasons for the breakdown, details of the minor children if any and the assets of the parties if applicable and so on. The legal practitioner (advocate or attorney) would then draft the necessary documentation. He or she would then have to physically issue it at court.  Therefore, the only aspect of the divorce that can be done online as stated earlier is instructing your legal practitioner with the relevant information.

Online Divorce – South Africa

Things that must be done physically in a divorce process

Once you provided your legal practitioner with the relevant information either in person or online, the following needs to take place. Firstly, the legal practitioner after drafting the documentation would have to have them issued at court, obtain a case number, and then have it served on your spouse by the sheriff of the court. This would have to be done physically. It cannot be done online or via email unless the court authorises it via edictal citation or substituted service.

Physically attending to court to give evidence

We will presume for this example that your spouse will not oppose the divorce. If that is the case then your legal practitioner would physically have to draft and serve a notice of set down on the relevant court. After your legal practitioner ensured that the court file is in order, then either you or your spouse would physically have to appear before the judge or magistrates to provide evidence as to the details of the marriage and the reasons for the breakdown. If the court is so satisfied, that the marriage has broken down irretrievably, and the minor children’s best interest are looked after, a decree of divorce would be granted.

Is there such a thing as an online divorce in South Africa?

Considering the above, there is no such thing as an online divorce in South Africa. The only aspect that can be done online is providing your legal practitioner with the necessary details of your marriage, the children, property, and so on. Your legal practitioner would then use that information to prepare the necessary documentation. These documents would have to be issued at court and served on the other spouse. On the divorce day, one of the parties will still have to appear in court to give evidence. As can be seen above, the concept of an online divorce could be confusing. However, if you’re making use of illegal practitioners, who is tech-savvy, the only time you physically need to be available would be on the date of the divorce at court. All other times you can provide the legal practitioners with instructions telephonically, via email, video and so on.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Top tips and tricks from a Senior Family Law Advocate on claiming maintenance for a five-year-old child in Cape Town.

Child Maintenance is the right of the child, and not that of the parent. It is also not a privilege granted to parents who must pay it. It is their duty to pay child maintenance and support their children. Once the child is self-supporting (being able to care for him or herself), the obligation falls away. This can happen when the child is 18, 20, or even 30. It all depends on the circumstances of the case.

Claiming child maintenance for your child in Cape Town

Whether you claim child maintenance in Cape Town, or any other city in South Africa, the procedures would be the same. There are however two (2) courts that can deal with child maintenance matters. That is a divorce court, in a divorce matter, and a Child Maintenance Court. For this article, we will focus on claiming maintenance in a Maintenance Court matter in Cape Town.

The maintenance scenario – Cape Town South Africa

In this article, we will deal with the following fictitious scenario, in a child maintenance matter:

  1. The Child is seven years old and attends school in Cape Town
  2. The child is cared for by the mother who works in Cape Town
  3. The mother works and earns a Salary of R 10 000
  4. The father sees the child every second weekend. He also lives and works in Cape Town
  5. The child’s monthly expenses are R 6000 – 00 which includes food, clothing, accommodation, education, travel etc.
  6. The father earns a reasonable salary and can afford the R 20 000 – 00 per month
  7. The mother claims R 4 000 – 00 maintenance as the father earns double her salary

What is the first step the mother must take in claiming child maintenance?

The first thing the mother must do is work out exactly what the child costs by item. She breaks down the minor child’s living expenses, starting from rent or accommodation to groceries to school fees etc. Once she has done that, she would need to determine what exactly does the minor child cost per month, seeing that she will be asking the father to contribute towards that. As best as possible, she needs to collect proof of expenses. This can be in the form of receipts.

How does she start the legal process?

The mother now needs to approach the maintenance court in the area where she lives or works to lodge a complaint for child maintenance. If she lives or works in Cape Town, it would be the maintenance court in Cape Town. She will complete a Form A wherein she will provide all the expenses for her and the minor child. She would also have to stipulate her income. Once she completed the form and submitted it to the maintenance court, she must then follow the next step.

What do you do while waiting for the maintenance court date?

While you wait to be informed of the court date by the Maintenance Court of Cape Town, and up until the actual first court date, you need to ensure that you keep a record of all income and expenses for you and the child. This is very important as the court allocates maintenance based on recent income and expenses.

What happens at the first court appearance at the Cape Town Maintenance Court?

Once you have been notified of the maintenance court date by the Cape Town Maintenance Court, you need to ensure that you attend it. On that day, both you and the father of the child would appear before a maintenance officer. The maintenance officer would go through both your income and expenses as well as that of the father. If all the relevant information is not before the maintenance court, then the matter may be postponed in order for the parties to submit it.

The maintenance officer will try to settle the matter and have the parents come to an agreement regarding the amount of child maintenance to be paid. If they cannot come to an agreement regarding the child maintenance to be paid, the matter would have to proceed to a formal hearing or trial before a Magistrate.

How does the Maintenance Court hearing or trial work in Cape Town?

Essentially, the maintenance court is called upon to make a fair ruling regarding what is a fair amount of child support that needs to be paid. For that to happen, the parents would have to give evidence in that regard. The mother would present to the court what the child costs, what she contributes and what she requires the other parent to pay. The Father would have a right to question the mother and to present evidence as to why he cannot afford the amount requested or why he feels it is an unfair amount. The mother can they also question him.

At the end of the day, the Cape Town Maintenance Court would be able to properly determine what is a fair and adequate amount of child maintenance to pay after being presented will all relevant information. The Cape Town Maintenance Court should play an active role in determining what is a fair amount of child maintenance the father should pay.

The above child maintenance application principles should apply to the following provinces and cities:

Eastern Cape:

Alice, Butterworth, East London, Graaff-Reinet, Grahamstown, King William’s Town, Mthatha

Port Elizabeth, Queenstown, Uitenhage, Zwelitsha

Free State:

Bethlehem. Bloemfontein, Jagersfontein, Kroonstad, Odendaalsrus, Parys, Phuthaditjhaba, Sasolburg, Virginia, Welkom

Gauteng:

Benoni, Boksburg, Brakpan, Carletonville, Germiston, Johannesburg, Krugersdorp, Pretoria, Randburg, Randfontein, Roodepoort, Soweto, Springs, Vanderbijlpark, Vereeniging

KwaZulu-Natal:

Durban, Empangeni, Ladysmith, Newcastle, Pietermaritzburg, Pinetown, Ulundi, Umlazi

Limpopo:

Giyani, Lebowakgomo, Musina, Phalaborwa, Polokwane, Seshego, Sibasa, Thabazimbi

Mpumalanga:

Emalahleni, Nelspruit, Secunda, North West, Klerksdorp, Mahikeng, Mmabatho, Potchefstroom, Rustenburg, Northern Cape, Kimberley, Kuruman, Port Nolloth

Western Cape:

Bellville, Cape Town, Constantia, George, Hopefield, Oudtshoorn, Paarl, Simon’s Town, Stellenbosch, Swellendam, Worcester

 

 

 

What is a marriage out of community of property?

In South Africa, a Marriage out of community of property is a legal arrangement that allows a married couple to keep their financial assets and liabilities separate from each other. This means that each spouse has full ownership and control over their own property and finances, and they are not automatically responsible for each other’s debts and financial obligations. They have to enter into an antenuptial contract.  In the event of a divorce or the death of one spouse, the assets and debts of each spouse are usually distributed according to the terms of an ante-nuptial contract. There are typically two main types of marital property regimes when it comes to marriage out of community of property:
  1. Marriage out of community of property with accrual: In this type of arrangement, the couple’s financial affairs are separate during the marriage, but they agree that if the marriage ends (either through divorce or death), the growth or increase in the value of their respective assets during the marriage will be shared equally. This means that any assets or wealth acquired before the marriage remains separate, but the increase in value of these assets during the marriage is subject to sharing.
  2. Marriage out of community of property without accrual: In this arrangement, the financial separation between spouses is strict. Each spouse’s assets and debts are entirely their own, and there is no sharing of assets or growth in assets during the marriage. In the event of divorce or death, each spouse retains what they brought into the marriage, and any assets acquired during the marriage are not subject to sharing.
It’s important to note that the specific laws and regulations governing marriage property regimes vary from one country to another. Some jurisdictions might have default rules regarding property division upon divorce or death, and couples may have the option to enter into prenuptial agreements or other legal arrangements to customize their property rights based on their preferences. Marriage out of community of property is often chosen by individuals who want to maintain separate financial identities and protect their individual assets, especially if they have significant wealth or assets before entering the marriage. However, it’s important for couples to understand the legal implications of their chosen property regime and to consult with legal professionals to ensure that their rights and intentions are properly documented and protected. We service clients in all cities: Rustenburg Kimberley East London Nelspruit Polokwane Pietermaritzburg Bloemfontein Port Elizabeth Pretoria Durban Johannesburg

Frequently asked questions on Divorce

[caption id="attachment_7079" align="alignleft" width="259"]Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf - Advocate High Court Cape Town Advocate Muhammad Abduroaf – Advocate High Court of South Africa[/caption] We proud ourselves on our knowledge on family law, and related matters relevant to South Africa. This includes issues and questions surrounding divorces, custody and child maintenance. Feel free to browse through the questions and answers below. Should you not find the answer to a divorce question you are looking for, scroll down to the bottom of this page and post your divorce-related question. Or you may click here to take you to the bottom of this post where the questions start. Want to know more about Rule 43 Applications in the High Court and Rule 58 Applications in the Magistrates’ Court? Click here.

How does it work to get a divorce/divorce process?

Only a court of law can divorce you. Therefore, a spouse should take the other spouse to court. You or your lawyer would have to approach the Divorce Court of the Family Court.

What is the procedure or process a for divorce?

One party needs to sue the other party for a divorce. This can be done in the High Court of the Family Courts. Once all the paperwork is done, the matter is set down for hearing or trial where a judge or magistrate would divorce you.

How long does it take for a divorce to be finalized?

If a divorce is undefended, it can take about 6 weeks. However, if the parties wish to litigate, it can take many months, up to 2 (two) years.

How long will it take for a divorce to be final?

If the parties agree and co-operate, it can take less than two months. If not, up to 2 (two) months.

How long does it take for someone to be served with divorce papers?

  If the person’s home and work address are known and the person is usually there, it can take a day or two. This depends on when the Sheriff is available to serve the summons. However, if the person is not always at work or at home to be served, it can take some time.

How long does it take for a divorce to be finalized?

If the parties agree and co-operate, it can take less than two months. If not, up to 2 (two) months.

How long does it take to get a divorce decree paper?

One the divorce is finalised, it should take about a week for the divorce decree or order to be typed out and available for collection.

How is a divorce finalized?

A divorce is finalised by a magistrate or judge granting a decree or order of divorce.

How long does it take to get an amicable divorce?

If the parties are on the same page and want to keep things friendly, it can take less than two months.

Why does it take so long to get a divorce?

If the parties agree and co-operate, it can take less than two months. If not, up to 2 (two) months. The problem is that when the matter becomes defended. it can take many months to finalise.

How long does it take to get a divorce by mutual consent in Cape Town?

[video width="1920" height="1080" mp4="https://www.ourlawyer.co.za/wp-content/uploads/Child-Custody-Visitation-and-Contact.mp4"][/video] If the parties agree and co-operate, it can take less than two months. If not, up to 2 (two) months.

Is adultery against the law in South Africa?

No, it is not a crime. However, it can be ground for a divorce.

What does in community of property means?

In community of property means that there is just one estate. At divorce, the estate has to be divided.

What can be contested in a divorce?

Anything the other spouse asks for can be contested. This includes maintenance, custody and the divorce itself.

How long does it take to get a divorce in South Africa?

If the parties agree and co-operate, it can take less than two months. If not, up to 2 (two) months.

What is the meaning of uncontested divorce?

An uncontested divorce is a term used to describe a divorce where both spouses agree to the divorce and the terms thereof. They then both co-operate if the finalisation of the divorce.

What is the divorce?

A divorce is the dissolution of the marriage. In other words, you are no longer married after the divorce.

When do you get served divorce papers?

Once a spouse instituted divorce proceedings, you should then be served with divorce papers by the sheriff of the court.

How long does it take to file for a divorce?

If the parties agree and co-operate, it can take less than two months. If not, up to 2 (two) months.

How long does it take to get a divorce in Cape Town if both parties agree?

If the parties agree and co-operate, it can take less than two months. If not, up to 2 (two) months. What is the final decree of divorce? It is an order, where the Court dissolves your marriage.

How much does it cost to get a divorce?

The court does not charge for a divorce. However, your lawyer would charge a fee, as well as the sheriff of the court who serves the divorce documents.

How long does it take to get a divorce in Cape Town?

If the parties agree and co-operate, it can take less than two months. If not, up to 2 (two) months.

How do I go about filing for divorce?

You should issue a summons at the Divorce Court.

Is a civil marriage in community of property?

Yes, unless you entered into an ante-nuptial contract beforehand stating otherwise.

What happens if your spouse refuses to sign divorce papers?

If your spouse refused to sign divorce papers, the divorce proceeds on a defended bases.

What happens when you file for a divorce?

The legal process follows. Ultimately, you want to have the matter heard before a magistrate or judge.

What is the meaning of notice of bar?

A notice of bar is a notice given to the Defendant, who filed a notice of intention to defend, but did nothing afterward. Therefore, you a notice of bar is issued, the Plaintiff may go ahead with finalising the case. [caption id="attachment_8258" align="alignleft" width="476"] Child Custody Visitation and Contact[/caption]

What is the meaning of a customary marriage?

A customary marriage is a marriage based on custom. An example is that of Xhosa or Zulu marriages.

How long does it take to get a divorce in South Africa?

If the parties agree and co-operate, it can take less than two months. If not, up to 2 (two) months. Therefore, it is in their best interest to try to resolve matters as soon as possible.

How does it work to get a divorce?

One party needs to summons the other party to Court. Therefore, a divorce cannot take place without a court process.

What is the procedure for divorce?

One party needs to summons the other party to Court.

How long does it take to get a divorce if both parties agree?

The quickest is for four weeks.

How much does it cost to file for a divorce in South Africa?

If you attend to your divorce, there are no costs, other than sheriff fees.

How do you file for divorce in South Africa?

A divorce has to start with a court process called a Summons. This document is issued at the divorce court and served on the spouse.

What is an uncontested divorce in South Africa?

An uncontested divorce in South Africa is where both parties agree on the terms of the divorce. In other words, there won’t be any opposition to the divorce. Only co-operation.

How long does it take to get a divorce in Cape Town, South Africa?

If all goes well and the divorce is uncontested, it would take approximately two (2) months to finalise.

How long does it take to get a fast divorce in Cape Town, South Africa?

Approximately two (2) months.

How long does it take to get a divorce in South Africa?

Each court is different. However approximately two (2) months.

When a divorce is final?

A divorce is final when you obtain a decree of divorce from the Judge or Magistrate. Therefore, a court process needs to take place.

How can I get a divorce without a lawyer?

You do not need a lawyer to attend to your divorce. You can do it on your own. The best option would be is to approach the Family Court in your area for assistance.

How long does it take to get a divorce in Cape Town, South Africa?

If the divorce is undefended, it can take about six (6) weeks.

How long does it take for someone to be served with divorce papers?

It can take a day or a few weeks. It all depends on when the sheriff is available to serve the divorce papers, as well as the ability to serve. In other words, sometimes the Sheriff takes a while to locate the party who must be served.

How long does it take for a divorce to be finalized?

It can take up to 6 weeks. Therefore, if you want to finalise a divorce quickly, agree as soon as possible.

How can I get a quick divorce in South Africa?

A divorce is very quick if you and your spouse agree on the terms of the divorce. You may then enter into a consent paper and have that made an order of the court. If you follow that route, with a divorce lawyer, you can be divorced within a few weeks. Purchase a Consultation with us from our Online Shop, by clicking here.

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