Appeals and Reviews – How does it work?

Appeals in court cases typically involve requesting a higher court to review a decision made by a lower court. For example, approaching the High Court to review the decision in the Magistrates Court matter. The process usually begins with filing a notice of appeal, outlining the grounds for the appeal and providing the necessary documents to support the case.

The appellate court will then review the lower court’s decision and determine whether any errors were made. If successful, the appellate court may either overturn the decision, order a new trial, or modify the original ruling. It’s important to seek legal assistance to navigate the complexities of the appeals process effectively. If you need legal assistance with appeals or reviews, consider reaching out to a qualified attorney or advocate for guidance.

 

Getting Legal Assistance with Appeals

If you require legal assistance or representation with your appeal matter, then feel free to contact us for assistance. The Firm Advocate, Muhammad Abduroaf, deals with these types of matters.

 

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Appeals and Reviews – How does it work?

Appeals in court cases typically involve requesting a higher court to review a decision made by a lower court. For example, approaching the High Court to review the decision in the Magistrates Court matter. The process usually begins with filing a notice of appeal, outlining the grounds for the appeal and providing the necessary documents to support the case.

The appellate court will then review the lower court’s decision and determine whether any errors were made. If successful, the appellate court may either overturn the decision, order a new trial, or modify the original ruling. It’s important to seek legal assistance to navigate the complexities of the appeals process effectively. If you need legal assistance with appeals or reviews, consider reaching out to a qualified attorney or advocate for guidance.

 

Getting Legal Assistance with Appeals

If you require legal assistance or representation with your appeal matter, then feel free to contact us for assistance. The Firm Advocate, Muhammad Abduroaf, deals with these types of matters.

 

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Passport Applications for minor children: What you need to know – Department of Home Affairs – Questions  and Answers

Should you require any advice on an application for a passport of a minor, where the co-parent refuses to consent or co-operate;  feel free to set up a consultation with us. You may call
0211110090 or click here to do it online.
advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceLeaving South Africa, and visiting another country is something many people do on a daily basis. The reason, therefore, could either be for a holiday, business, a death in the family, and so on. Or it might be to relocate to another country to start a new life, either alone, or with your spouse or children. Whatever the reason is, you require a passport when leaving South Africa. For an adult, all you need to do is visit your nearest Department of Home Affairs Offices, with proof of identity, and the prescribed fees, and take your picture, fingerprints, etc. However, if you are a minor child, under the age of 18, it is not that simple. You would need to go with both your parents, and they need to provide their consent.

Parental Consent and Co-operation for a Passport Application of a Minor child

According to Section 18 (3) of the Children’s Act, both parent’s consent is required for a minor’s application for a passport. This is why we refer to consent and co-operation. Co-operation in the sense of going with to the Department of Home Affairs and giving the consent. Now, this can cause a problem should a parent not agree to the application for a passport. Therefore, one of two things could happen in practice should there be children involved. Either the parent would have to go overseas without the children, or not at all. Before we deal with such a scenario in detail, a bit later, let’s look at the law in a bit more detail.

A child’s Constitutional right to a Passport

Our Constitution, Act 108 of 1996 is the supreme law of the Country. All laws and practices should be in line with it. Therefore, it’s always a good idea to find out what it says. Section 21(4) of our Constitution states the following: “Every citizen has the right to a passport.” This is a fundamental right. The question would then be asked, if that is a fundamental right, why would you still require both parents’ consent as stated in the Children’s Act? A possible reason for the writers of the Children’s Act to state that you require both parents’ consent is to ensure that there is no undue removal of children from the Country. Both parents should, therefore, consent to the passport, which is a key to leaving South Africa.

What if a parent refuses to consent and cooperate for the application of a passport for a minor child?

Notwithstanding what section 18(3) of the Children’s Act states, section 18(5) of the same Act says that a Court can order otherwise. What this means is that if a parent does not want to consent for the Application of a passport, then the Court can Order that his or her consent is not required or dispensed with. For this, you would have to file an Application at the High Court and ask for such an Order. The powers the High Court would exercise is that of the upper guardian of all minor children within its jurisdiction. So, there it is, if consent is refused, you can approach a lawyer, who would make the necessary Application to the appropriate Court. Such an application can be expensive, especially if it is opposed. Therefore, it is best that it is avoided, by resolving issues with the other parent beforehand. But if the other parent is unreasonable, approach the Court.

What does the Department of Home Affairs say?

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceThe following are extracts from the Department of Home Affairs’ Website: “You must also note that:
  • All documents required for passport applications should be completed in black ink
  • Husband, wife and children must all complete separate application forms.  Both parents and the children concerned must be present when applying for passports for children. See exceptions under Tourist Passports: persons under 16
  • Passports are issued in accordance with your names as they appear in the National Population Register (NPR) at the time of your application.  Any changes to your names must be applied for, finalised and recorded in the NPR before you submit your passport application”

Applying for Tourist  Passports: Persons under 16 years

These passports are issued to SA citizens who are 15 years or younger.  The passports are valid for 5 years and are not renewable.  Once the validity period of a passport expires you will have to submit a new application for a passport. To apply for the passport you must submit the following documents:
  • A duly completed passport application Form DHA-73
    • If the parents are married, the passport application form must be signed by both parents and the child and both parents should be in attendance when the application is submitted.
    • Please note that the child and both parents should be in attendance when the application is submitted to the nearest Home Affairs office or SA Mission/Consulate. If a parent cannot be in attendance, a letter of consent and copy of ID will no longer be accepted.
    • If divorced and sole parental rights and responsibilities in regard to guardianship have not been granted to one parent, the child and both parents should be in attendance when the application is submitted and both must sign the application form.
    • If a parent is deceased, his or her death certificate and a copy thereof must accompany the application for the passport
    • In the case of minors born out of wedlock, the biological father ’s consent will also be required if any of the circumstances as outlined in section 21 of the Children’s Act, 1995, are applicable, the child and both parents should be in attendance when the application is submitted.
    • If the applicant is in the care of a guardian other than the parents, proof of the High Court’s appointment must accompany the application.
    • If a parent cannot be located or refuses to consent, or a dispute concerning consent arises, the matter should be referred to the Children’s Court. The Court’s decision must be submitted with the application for the passport.
  • The child’s South African birth certificate and a copy thereof
  • Two colour passport photographs that comply with the Passport and ID Photograph Specifications (NOT needed at smartcard offices as ID images are captured digitally)
  • Payment of the prescribed passport fee”

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceIn summary, on minor children application for a passport

Before moving onto question and answers on passport applications for minor children below. this article can be summarised as follows:
  • Every child has a right to a Passport;
  • Both parents must visit the Department of Home Affairs when applying for the minor child’s passport. The process is outlined above; and
  • If a parent refuses and does not want to co-operate for the passport application, then the High Court may be approached to dispense with that requirement.

Popular relocation countries for South Africans

If you wish to emigrate from South Africa, there are many places in this world to consider. Some would be more ideal than others. But it all depends on the reason for the relocation. Here is a list of the top countries South Africans and emigrating to:
  • United Kingdom (UK)

  • Australia

  • United States of America (USA)

  • New Zealand

  • Canada

  • Angola

  • Botswana

  • Chile

  • Zimbabwe

  • Germany

  • Netherlands

  • Swaziland

  • Israel

  • Portugal

  • Mozambique

  • Ireland

  • Malawi

  • Switzerland

  • Namibia

  • Greece

What follows are questions and answers regarding Applications for Passports for Adults and Children

If you still have questions after reading the article above, and the questions and answers below, feel free to leave a comment hereunder.

Can I get my child a passport without the father’s permission?

If the father is a guardian of the child, his consent is required. That is according to the Children’s Act.

Do you need both parents to get a passport for a child?

Yes. As the law currently stands, you need both parent’s consent.

Can a child get a passport with one parent?

No, you need both parents present when applying for a passport for a minor child.

What documents are needed to renew South African passports?

Visit the Department of Home Affairs Website. Here is the link.

Do both parents need to be present for a child to get a passport?

Yes, they do. Unless only one parent is a guardian.

What documents required for minor’s passport?

Visit the Department of Home Affairs Website. Here is the link.

Do both parents need to be present to get a passport for a child?

Yes, they do. That is the law.

Do you need both parents to get a passport for a 17-year-old?

As you are still a minor at the age of 17, you require both your parents to consent to your passport application. Bot parents should also be at the Department of Home Affairs when making the Application.

Can the noncustodial parent get a passport for the child?

Yes, if the parent is a guardian as well. If there is another parent too, both parents must give consent at the Department of Home Affairs.

How do you get full custody of your child?

You would have to approach the Court for such an Order. The Court would have to determine whether it is in the child’s best interests. We advise you speak to a lawyer.

Do you need both parents to get a passport for a 16-year-old?

As you are still a minor at the age of 16, you require both your parents to consent to your passport application. Both parents should also be at the Department of Home Affairs when making the Application.

What is the validity of a minor’s passport?

Visit the Department of Home Affairs Website. Here is the link.

Can I apply for a passport without a birth certificate?

Visit the Department of Home Affairs Website. Here is the link.

How do you apply for a passport online?

Visit the Department of Home Affairs Website. Here is the link.

Can a passport application be printed in black and white?

Visit the Department of Home Affairs Website. Here is the link.

Can you travel with a passport that expires in 2 months?

Visit the Department of Home Affairs Website. Here is the link.

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceWhich documents are required for a passport after marriage?

Visit the Department of Home Affairs Website. Here is the link.

What kind of pen do you use to sign a passport?

Visit the Department of Home Affairs Website. Here is the link.

How fast can you get a passport?

Visit the Department of Home Affairs Website. Here is the link.

How old do you have to be to get a passport without parents?

You need to be 18 years old. If you are younger, you require both your parents’ consent.

Can a child leave the country without a parent?

Yes, you can, but you require their consent.

Can I get my child a passport without the father’s permission?

No, you cannot. Unless he is not a guardian.

Do you need both parents to get a passport for a child?

Yes, you do.

Do both parents need to be present for a child to get a passport?

Yes, both parents have to be present.

Do both parents have to sign for a passport for a child?

Yes, both parents have to be presented. This is the legal requirement.

Can a single parent get a passport for their child?

Only in the case if the parent is the sole guardian. If not both parents must apply and consent.

Do both parents need to be present to get a passport for a child?

Yes, they both do.

Can a divorced parent get a passport for a child?

Yes, the parent can. However, if the other parent is also a guardian, his or her consent is also required.

How much is a passport for a kid?

Visit the Department of Home Affairs Website. Here is the link.

Is it illegal to have two passports from different countries?

Dual Citizenship is not illegal.

Do dual citizens have two passports?

Yes, they do.

Can I get my child a passport without the father’s permission?

If the father is a co-guardian, then his consent is required.

View question and answers regarding child maintenance posted on this website in the past. You may find some of the answers useful.

My son is now 10 years old when he was much younger his father would pay here and there in all the years i have been supporting him… i recently got married to the man that loves my son dearly as his own. we want to change his surname also but i need his fathers permission. he said its fine but i need him to send me forms to say i may i have been wait more than over a year now and he keeps saying he is going to send it. i feel if he doesnt want me to change his surname then he should pay and help …..which he has not done in so many years.  please advise me The father will always have an obligation to support his child.

Father and mother separated when she was pregnant

I also have a question to ask or questions rather….my sons father and i separated when i was just a few weeks pregnant, he left me for someone else. I went through the whole pregnancy alone and he never owned up to it. To easy the pressure on my pregnant self i left him alone…….we talked here and there and would even buy preparatory baby stuff for the unborn child upon being asked  only two times that happened. We never quiet spoke and when the baby was born as much as i hated it i knew i had to let him see him n put our differences aside its like we started on a new page. However, upon being asked to support the child he always made it feel like i was nagging or if not made t purely look lyk he was doing me a favour. Every month i constantly have to remind him of the support needed sometyms he goes months before assisting. I just stopped asking him altogether  and i blocked him on any other platform such that he hasnt seen his son for nearly 3 months, i have been taking care of everyrhing by myself and eve  when he gave something it was very little in comparison with what he gets and i make way less than him and have filed for child support with hearing to be held in april…..in light of these circumstances is there any chance that i wont have  the courts favour in winning the case? Did.i do anything to jeorpadise the case from the events? And what proof or tips will i need to win the case?

I have a 10 years old that am not allowed to see.

when I wanted to see him ill be told I will never see him and be told that they don’t need me and my money, they are better man out there who can be a father to him. I still continued paying. when I wanted my son to visit on holidays .. I was being told he will never go there, my son told me that her mother said he is going to die if he come visit me. December last year I did as id used to previous years ,and that is to ask for him so I get buy him clothes . and I was told I wont get him. then he is taken to kzn for holidays.. they will never tell me when they taking him away which is something I always find out from his aunt when am calling since the mother doesn’t stay with him.

2010 I asked my sister to help with medical aid which was used wrongly by taking other kids to the doctors using his name , one doctor told me he is chasing them away cause what they are doing is not right, last year they have  exhorted the medical aid in January alone and was told that they have never taken him to the doctor which also gave me problems at work cause am working with fire and that is why the company help with payment.

in ask for him December and the same thing happened and I told her am going to stop giving her sister money for the child cause he is not a charity where you can put money and don’t care what happen to it. so I want to give him love instead of money that he doesn’t even get to see or know that is from me, and that money wont even give him love that he needs. I stopped giving her money and yesterday I bought clothes and she throe them away saying we will meet in court. what to do in this matter.   My partner is always giving me a problem when he supposed to pay Mantainance, but he end up paid,but it hurts me because I Dont do things in time for the kidz as he pay me late. We advise you to approach the Children’s Court. If they have already done so, then state you case. The Court would do what is best for the child.,1040, Good day   Have a look at the articles on www.ourlawyer.co.za for some guidance.  

Me and my husband are looking for advise he has a child that is 10 years old he pays maintenance 1000 every month .

I have two kids of my previous relationship that I support alone . Their father past away. Me and my husband dint  have kids together so he could afford to pay the 1000 every month .  God has blessed us with twins due in June now . Things are abut tough financially . We would like to know can he go to court and ask if he can reduce maintenance to 500 every month. Hi, my name is Noluvuyo I have a six months old baby girl who’s father is original from Lesotho but staying here in SA he doesn’t want to support the child since she was born apparently he got married whii the child was 3mnths old. We advise you approach the maintenance court.  

How much is your consultation fee?,

Good day   Please click on this <a href=https://www.ourlawyer.co.za/service-custody-divorce-maintenance/>link</a> hi,I am young mother of 5years old boy,his father leaved me when I was 2 months pregnant, after the child born he supported him for 7 months then since he leave to maintain the child, I once open maintenance case for him but I never complete it because his wife claimed to kill  my baby,so now I want to go for maintenance again. is that possible?, Yes, you may approach the maintenance again.

 hi i am Xoliswa i have a problem with my baby daddy i have a 8 month baby girl he has not been supporting her for since she was born, when i was pregnant he was supportive the problem persistent when i gave birth he only gave 500 that all every time when i am asking for cash for the baby he will promise to give when the month end he will come up with different stories.

than it changed and said it not his child i told him to do a DNA test he promised to do it but he never did i went in one of the court here in Johannesburg to request a DNA i was told that i will have to apply for a maintenance 1st they gave a maintenance form to take home and fill in and i told the baby daddy that because he does not want to support his child am putting him on maintenance he apologized  and promised to support the child he supposed to start supporting the child last month the month ended he came up with stories saying he is sick i told him i will take him to court he said it fine with him i advised him that if he want a DNA everything will be on him but he did not reply.

 hi i am Xoliswa i have a problem with my baby daddy i have a 8 month baby girl he has not been supporting her for since she was born, when i was pregnant he was supportive the problem persistent when i gave birth he only gave 500 that all every time when i am asking for cash for the baby he will promise to give when the month end he will come up with different stories,than it changed and said it not his child i told him to do a DNA test he promised to do it but he never did i went in one of the court here in Johannesburg to request a DNA

i was told that i will have to apply for a maintenance 1st they gave a maintenance form to take home and fill in and i told the baby daddy that because he does not want to support his child am putting him on maintenance he apologized  and promised to support the child he supposed to start supporting the child last month the month ended he came up with stories saying he is sick i told him i will take him to court he said it fine with him i advised him that if he want a DNA everything will be on him but he did not reply. Hi i want to apply for maintance but i do not know the defended’s home and or work address. Can i apply without them? You Can still Apply. The Maintenance Court has investigators. Hi I’m ntombozuko I have six yes old bby gal but her father he pay maintenance know I’m 6months pregnant with different father but he dump me can a go to court for father child maintenance please I need help,1210, I am currently in the application process, however wanted to find out how to claim for outstanding maintenance fees not paid for over a year. How do you go about this? Thank you.

 Another question? Is it compulsory to exchange documentation (Pay slips, bank statements etc.) with the father as ordered by the Maintenance officer. I do not feel that this is needed as I will be presenting these directly to the maintenance officer/court?,

Hi good day ,My childs father has never contributed for the last 2 and a half  years since my child was born. He claimed it was not his court made us do a DNA and came back 99.99 % .The court only wanted him to give 1000 per month ,but says nothing about medical aid,clothing or even for the years he never paid . Do you think im unreasonable to ask them to do a financial investigation cause he did not present a payslip or nothing .Do you think i have the right to ask for the previous years he never paid. Hi i’m Abigail. I have a 7 months old baby girl. I am currently unemployed and studying part time. My problem started when I gave birth, I asked the father of my child to help me with buying clothes for the baby which he never did. Told me he doesnt have money &amp; is busy saving for the December holidays. I supported the child with the help of my mother. Then came Dec ge gave me R1000 to buy baby clothes after that he never bothered himself by supporting the baby.

I recently asked him to buy baby formula because I do not have money, its been 3 weeks of waiting till to date. Instead he has resorted in not answering my calls and messages. How do I go about with the process of applying child support as I do not keep the till slips that could be proof?

Good day. We advise you approach the maintenance court in your area ASAP. They will start the process. Yes, keep proof of expenses and take it with you., It may be best for you to speak to the Maintenance Court about those issues., We would advise that you do a full and frank disclosure of your financial position., Good day.  I have been divorced for 2 years.  My husband stopped paying after he received a lump sum from my pension.  I approached the court in January last year to garnish his salary.  Every month i would follow up and there was always a huge back log.  Eventually in May he was retrenched and was due to receive his pension.  I immediately requested an attorney to stop the payout.  Suddenly my lost file was found and we appeard in court.  He was told to pay the arears and he requested for the maintenance to be halfed as he was now unemployed.  he got married two weeks later.  They have been going on extravegant holidays , bought fancy cars but i have not received anything for my kids.  The court granted this reduced amount but since then he has not paid a cent.  It is now going for a year. Divorce atorneys are so expensive per consultation.  Do you have offices in Johannesburg and how much is it for a consultation?  I dont want to go to the maintenance court myself and feel that i do need representation.  Please let me know.

We are struggling in the maintenance case  my for sister, where court pass order of maintenance, Its been 1 year opposite party didn’t pay maintenance, Police is also not taking action. and family court judge saying I can only issue the DW, rest is on opposite party to pay.

Good day. We are based in Cape Town, and only have referring attorneys there. The best we can do is to set up a telephonic consultation for legal advice. You may contact us on 0214243487. Good day. Yes, you can approach the maintenance court. It is a criminal offence not to pay maintenance if so ordered. If that is the case, lay a complaint at the maintenance court. Hello my name is Bianca.I just had a question regarding my baby daddy not wanting to pop out a cent to prepare for our unborn child.is there anyway I can force him to prepare for our unborn child? And might I add it was his idea I fall pregnant!! This is a type of matter which is best to speak to the maintenance court about. The ideal is to wait for the child to be born and then claim for lying in expenses, birth costs etc. But see what the court has to say.  

I have a 2 year old son . and make a decent salary however I have a lot of debts to my name of which I’m planning to clear by the end of this year.

Now I had asked the father of my child to pay just the school fees for him and buy him nappies, while I will take care of  his food , medical aid and clothing. He told me that he cant afford the first school I opted for because its close to my work place (which was R1700) 2 weeks later he bought a brand new car (one of the expensive brands)  so we went for the second one (at R390)  and nappies , he just recently told me he cant afford to buy the nappies anymore as his financially unable too. My worry about filling is the fear of losing cause he has another son now which he pays everything for as his partner doesn’t work apparently will this affect my case should I apply for support?   We still advise you apply for child support from the father at the Maintenance Court.

 Good morning. Is it possible that a father does not get a summon and is not aware about the case even though the date was given? Is it also a right thing to find a way to get the summon to the father yourself? Please take me through the process on how does it work.

Good day The summons must be served on the father. If they cannot find the father, they must serve him in an alternative manner with the consent of the court. Good Day   I am applying for an increase in Maintenance – had first meeting with MO and ex husband on the 25th April….he had a lawyer and they did not want to discuss anything other than taking the matter to Trial. The MO was not very helpful at all but rather rude. Did not try and assist me at all – should I make a formal complaint with the Court Manager – please advise   Now I need to email my bundle to his lawyer and they will do same – we have no contact or anything till Trial – is this how it should work – I feel i am being bullied into going directly to Trial?,1291, Hi..I have a 1yr old daughter.. Her father is hesitant towards supporting the child..sometimes he doesn’t bother supporting..sometimes he does support but not with the money we agreed on..sometimes he is nowhere to be found.. Can I apply to maintenance?, Good day   Yes you can still apply. We advise that you approach the maintenance court ASAP  

This seems like a situation you need to see a lawyer face to face about. If you feel aggrieved, we cant see anything wrong with speaking to the court manager.

Hi i am father. My chils was born when i was still in varsity and i spent three years doing my articles. Now that i have employment, i decided to put my child on medical aid and paying 800 every month but the mother insisted to approach the maintenance officer for an order while i am paying maintenance and her reason is that she does not trust me.,1317, Hello I have 2 kids with my ex we broke because he verbally abused infront of the kids at my parents place last year October them my mom told him to never set his foot in her house meaning he won’t be able to see his kids then he stopped supporting his kids, my mom told him to come pay damage money before he can see his kids due to what he did to me at my parents. So can I take him to maintenance Court even when he doesn’t see his kids I mean its his fault cos he never reached out he just kept quite. You can still take him to the maintenance court.

 It is up to the maintenance court to grant and order or now. You need to bring up a good argument as to why an order should not be granted.

I have a 14month old daughter. Her has given milk and food items one or twice in the 1st 6months of her life since then nothing because he says he doesnt have the money. I recently found out that when was born he was in the process of buying a house yet couldnt assist with the basic needs of our child. He has 3 other children which he has given a roof over there head and pay’s there medical aid and has education policies for them yet our child gets nothing from him. I also now need to start looking for a creche for next year and the fees are R3000 per month in 2019. I have taken him to Maintenance court we are only meeting in November 2018. What are my options untill then. It is unfortunate that the Maintenance Court is giving you a date so late. Maybe see if you can get a lawyer to speed things up or send him a letter.

 If the court decides on a maintenance amount and the father pays it does that mean visitation rights are also guaranteed. He has only recently asked to spend time with our daughter. Before he never made any effort and now everything must be on his terms.

Visitation rights and an obligation to pay child support are two separate issues. However, paying child support does in some way, most of the time play a role in visitation matters. Good day   The father pays R2000 for our baby however  I still need assistance with paying a nanny/daycare, he refuses. I’ve asked him to add the baby on his medical aid so I can cancel mine and pay for day care, he refuses.  

People tell me, R2000 is enough if I go to court it will be reduced. I don’t know what to do because i really can’t afford a nanny and i need to go to work.

  This guy owns properties, he pays more than R120 000 school fees for his 2 children a year, lives in one of the most expensive surbubs in Johannesburg, owns cars.   His excuse is, the mother of his 2 children doesn’t pay maintenance – he is doing everything on his own.   He says he will get an expensive lawyer who will make sure i get less than what i get. Please advise me, We advise you go to the maintenance court. They will assess the matter the father of my child failed to appear in court twice and they told me the Npa issued subpoena to him.What would happen next time I go there.,1431, That question is best to ask the Court.,1436, Hello, Please I beg for sincere and if possible very polite feedback please because I am a man I know things are already against my odds so please bare with me and forgive me if I offend anyone, I am just looking for a better understanding of things I may not be well certain of.

So, my partner and I recently split up and likewise she went away with my (our) little girl. The problem is I used to support my daughter starting from 100% financially, anything school related or other social related activities. The mother worked for a few months after she was born and got fired then after.

Unfortunately, she has not quite contributed to the child’s financial needs, 2y7m later still incapable of offering support because initially she was obviously unemployed but eventually I realized she just didn’t want to make effort to find another job. For over 2 years as we’re both still young and on my side have not saved much money, it put a lot of strain on my financial capabilities as I would’ve to financially support 4 people, myself, herself, our daughter as well her first son.

For many reasons this relationship didn’t quite work and I called it quit. At the moment I am required to cater 100% for my daughter as she’s not working or even not making effort to find a job and for whatever reasons I’ve now been deemed unsafe for my daughter so, apparently she cannot visit me. As above, the little girl is 2y7m now and it’s hurting me that I am forced to provide 100% for her because the mother is unable yet I cannot spend time with her, apparently in the absence of the mother. Not that I’ve a problem with that but her mother and myself just don’t get along so it’s easy to turn my time with my daughter into my fight with her mother. I am confused now because I am hesitate to go 100% on this, I know that my child in the end will suffer so it seems as if I do not have a choice but to continue giving everything I can to my girl as I would when we lived together even if I cannot spend time with her without the presence of the mother. Though I know in actual fact me not spending time with my daughter she’ll either way suffer from no longer having the father interaction she had when we lived together. If I had to present my daily duties: Take her to school, fetch her from school, sometimes change her nappy and wash her in the evening, sometimes make food for everyone which of course daughter fed from, every night take her to sleep. Shelter I provided, finance I provided, social life I provided, mommy could obviously do some small daily stuff if she felt like it.

I really don’t know how well I can conquer this because at the moment I know the child is just suffering and my unwillingness to go 100% as I would before but this time without being able to spend quality time with her means things will just get worse for my little girl.

From what i understand the mother is stubborn and in this case just using the girl to feel power over me because she knows full well I had so much daily interaction with my daughter which has all just disappeared. Really i am confused perhaps I’ve not even expressed myself properly here. But perhaps anyone with similar experience or better understand and knowledge in this regard kindly help out a young fella take a better direction here. Good day  

We advise that you approach the Children’s Court in the area where the mother lives and apply for proper contact to your child.

Good day I’m Lindokuhle but have a query about my sister Sophie and her kids father about maintenance,they have been together for eight years and had a son and separated after when she was pregnant for the second time he left her for someone else,Sophie applied for maintainance and the court granted her R1000 per month and R1200 for winter clothes once a year for both the kids and my sister is not working.The father has now two kids with the new woman and the new woman has a first born who’s not fathered by my babies father.Sophie’s  kids are not in the medical aid they go to public clinic whenever they are sick and attend public school,on the last maintainance it appeared that he earns R30 000 and has has a house and car so I’m confused how the court allowed him to pay such a small money for both his kids,now my sis wants to re-apply for maintainance what should she do to receive a proper outcome? regards Hi there  

need an advise I am a father of three girls we always have conflicts in the house with their mother,now she was moved out from our house by her mother s decision and she confirmed to me that she is not breaking up with me she loves me ,she needs time leaving in her mom s roof. The mother went to local child maintenance social workers which is surprising, I was requested to come see them. I really don’t know where these thing leads me because I love my daughters. And I would always want to leave around them.,1459,

The Court would decide what is best for the children. Good day   As long as all relevant information is before the court, the court would decide what is fair. This is based on the income and expenses of the parents and the needs of the child. Hi i have a 7 year old son by a woman.. I married the year after he was born to my wife For the first 3 years i have been supporting him.. For 2 years i have been unemployed.. But my wife . Mother and sister helped me supporting him .. After the 2 years i have been started working again.. And  have supporting my son ever since… R800.00.. But in that time we had arguments whom have let to.. That i could not see my son.. Only when  the mother decides when i can see him.. And she filed for maintenance she wants more R1000.. But i only get pain R5000 a month.. Where i have 3 childrem to support.. And petrol expenses to get to work.. Ens. 2 months ago her mother sended me msgs stateing that he daugther is an alkolic and she uses my childs supporting for the own luxury.. Nd she has also has 3 children of her own.. Whereby im the only father of the one whom pays child support… Any advice,1471, Hi, visit your nearest maintenance court on this issue. hi i have 2 children.their father is only sending me 1500 every month n some times 1300 he has medical aid but didn’t not put them on the medical aid. December and winter he doesn’t help in buying them clothes. can the court grant medical aid for the children since he has one and can the able to make him pay 2000 for both children. pls advice.

 The court can make any order if it is fair an reasonable. If the facts support your application, the Court would Order it.

Hi am single mom who applied for a maintenance order last year at rabasotho magistrate court we were told to opt for a settlement out of court since the maintenance officer was absent now the person has been so behind on the maintainance order n I was told I have to re apply and the problem is his no longer working at the same company and has moved from where he lived so my question is what do I do incase of that situation.,1548, HI , the father of my child has always made false promises about helping with the birth of our sun (financially ) my son is now 10months and his father has only sent money three time since he was born , can I include the medical bills for the birth of my son and his hospital bill as he was admitted after birth and I had to use my medical aid to pay for all the expenses when I apply for maintenance. Hello I have took the father of my twins to court february his bin delaying to come until 31 may he was making excuses and he just made sure he buy second car and another house on march n came with those in court and he has other 3 kids that he was not supporting for more than 12years he started giving them money march and bring the proof I became angry and left while we were still talking with him and prosituter I took a walk and came back and went to the prosituter and said sorry I became angry and left but now im back can we continue she started shouting me saying I cant help u I closed the file and I had u and other mothers u were gossiping about me outside saying I take man’s side so I cant help u so I went to another room to ask her coligue what to to do so they say I must come so that we can start the process again from start so what do I do.,1558, Yes you can. We advise that you approach the maintenance court again.

 Hello, my son is 14 years now his father and I broke up when he was only 2 years, I never take him to court but now I want to make an application at maintenance court the problem is I know his name,surname and physical address bt I don’t know where he is working. My question is will they be able to help me at court?

The Court has maintenance investigators who could assist in tracking him down.

Best advice on finding a top divorce lawyer for your divorce case in Muizenberg, Cape Town

Do you live in Muizenberg, and are you considering divorcing your spouse? Or have you been threatened with divorce? Either way, a divorce is a legal matter, and it is best to find sound legal advice or assistance. Furthermore, divorcing someone has potential severe legal consequences you may not know of. The first consequence, of course, is that you are no longer married to your former spouse, and there is no legal obligation to maintain each other (unless you qualify for alimony). You may also not inherit from your former spouse’s intestate. Lastly, and obviously, you are free to marry someone else. However, do you know of the proprietary (property) consequences of getting a divorce? What about the assets and debt you and your spouse incurred in Muizenberg or elsewhere during your marriage? Do you know what should happen to it? If not, it is best you find out about these critical aspects and others before getting divorced. Then there is the issue of parental responsibilities and rights after the divorce should there be minor children involved. This article aims to provide guidance on finding the best attorney or advocate for your divorce matter that can adequately and properly advise you or handle your divorce. The advice would apply whether you live in Muizenberg or anywhere else in South Africa. The issues we shall deal with are the following.
  • Gender of the Advocate or attorney;
  • Location of the Advocate or attorney;
  • Experience of the Advocate or attorney;
  • Costs of the Advocate or Attorney; and
  • The personality of the Advocate or Attorney.

What is the best gender of the Advocate or Attorney I need to use for my divorce? Is a male or female better?

Generally, the gender of your Advocate or Attorney should not play a role at all in a legal matter. However, depending on your background and the issues involved in your divorce, you may prefer a specific gender where you may feel more comfortable. A female who has been emotionally, physically and psychologically abused may be more comfortable with a female Attorney or Advocate. However, the same female client may prefer a male Advocate or Attorney. No more will be said on this issue.

What is the ideal office location of the Advocate or attorney? Does it have to be in Muizenberg?

The location or office of your attorney or Advocate is essential if you wish to consult with them in person. It is also ideal, but not necessary, for their offices to be close to the Court where the divorce would be handled. However, many lawyers make use of correspondent lawyers for this purpose. Furthermore, location should not be an issue if you want a specific lawyer to handle your case. This is so especially seeing that people are making use of virtual meetings.

What level of experience should the Advocate or attorney have?

It is important to remember that not all legal matters require the best lawyer. If your divorce is straightforward, finding the best lawyer in the field is unnecessary. The best may be very busy and lack the time to give your case the attention it deserves. However, if your matter is complicated, then in that case, the most experienced and best lawyer out there is not warranted.

What about the Costs of an Attorney or Advocate?

For many, the costs of the Attorney or Advocate are the most crucial consideration when it comes to enlisting their services. Usually, the more experienced the Attorney or Advocate, the more they would charge. Another aspect that affects costs is the nature of the expertise of the Advocate or Attorney. If the issues in your matter are highly technical and complicated, an Advocate or Attorney with expertise and experience may charge more.

What about the personality of the Advocate or Attorney?

Many may discard the Advocate or Attorney’s personality as not important. However, it is essential to note that it may be time to change lawyers if you do not get along well with the Advocate or Attorney because of their personality. A lawyer and their client would develop a professional relationship in family law matters. This is especially so when the lawyer must discuss many personal issues regarding you, your marriage, children, finance, spouse etc. If you cannot get along well with your Attorney or Advocate, you may not divulge important information relevant to your case.

What is our best advice to a client looking for an Advocate or Attorney in a divorce matter?

Considering all the factors mentioned above, before enlisting the services of an Advocate or Attorney, ensure you enlist the right one. Do not look for the most experience or best, or the top one in family law. You may have to change lawyers if you do so and cannot afford legal bills. Therefore consider the above and any other factors that you may consider necessary when deciding on enlisting the services of an Advocate or an Attorney. Best of luck.

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