ABC guide on how to obtain a Protection Order

The Steps to follow

The steps to follow to obtain a Protection Order in domestic violence situations are regulated by the Domestic Violence Act 116 of 1998 (hereafter referred to as the act). I strongly suggest that you consult an attorney, advocate or family lawyer should your matter be complicated. Below is a simple A B C guide outlining a few simple steps that a complainant (the person affected by domestic violence) has to follow in order to obtain an interdict (Protection Order) against another person? However, before these steps may be laid down important to know whether you should approach the Domestic Violence Court or the South African Police Services for a Peace Order: Speak to them about it.

Q: What is a Protection Order?

A: In simple terms, a protection order is an order granted by the Domestic Violence Court which prohibits the person whom the order was made against to commit any acts of domestic violence against you. Furthermore, a Court might grant you an interim Protection Order with basically the same effect as a Protection Order which will be finalised later.

Q: Who may approach the Domestic Violence Court?

A: In order to approach the Domestic Violence Court, you have to be a complainant as described by the Act. According to the Act, such a person is someone who is or has been in a domestic relationship with a respondent (the person committing the domestic violence) and who is or has been subjected or allegedly subjected to an act of domestic violence, including any child in the care of the complainant. So, therefore, the next question is what is a domestic relationship?

Q: What is a Domestic Relationship?

A: According to the Act, a “domestic relationship” means a relationship between a complainant and a respondent in any of the following ways: (a) They are or were married to each other, including marriage according to any law, custom or religion; (b) They live or lived together in a relationship in the nature of marriage, although they are not, or were not, married to each other, or are not able to be married to each other; (c) They are the parents of a child or are persons who have or had parental responsibility for that child (whether or not at the same time); (d) They are family members related by consanguinity, affinity or adoption; (e) They are or were in an engagement, dating or customary relationship, including an actual or perceived romantic, intimate or sexual relationship of any duration; or (f) They share or recently shared the same residence. Now the last question is, what is domestic violence? Q: What is domestic violence? A: According to the Act, domestic violence” means- (a) Physical abuse; (b) Sexual abuse; (c) Emotional, verbal and psychological abuse; (d) Economic abuse; (e) Intimidation; (f) Harassment; (g) Stalking; (h) Damage to property; (I) entry into the complainant’s residence without consent, where the parties do not share the same residence; or (j) Any other controlling or abusive behavior towards a Complainant. Therefore, if you are experiencing domestic violence, the following simple steps have to be followed in order to get you started:

Step 1

Write on a page all the incidents of domestic violence done to you or to your children on paper. Be very clear with the names of people, dates and times. Take your time as this information you will have to fill onto a form at Court, which is dealt with in step 2 below. Tip: If you fill in the form at Court without first making a draft to work from at your convenience, you might be so nervous at Court and leave out valuable information. Find out all the details of the person whom you want to be protected against domestic violence, e.g. his/her home and work address and identity number, etc.

Step 2

Go to the Domestic Violence Court closest to your area and the Clerk of the Court will give you a form to fill in. The form is referred to as an Application for Protection Order form. Use the information you have gathered in Step 1 and fill in the form. The form is in the form of an affidavit and you therefore have to swear to the correctness of the information under oath and sign. Therefore, do not hide any information from the Court or unduly exaggerate. Caution: If your information is not 100 % correct, you may be cross-examined on such correctness in Court and if it is found that you were not totally honest, this would not be in your favour.
  • If you require any assistance in filling in the form, the Clerks of the Court would be happy to assist you.
  • Once you have filled in the Application for Protection Order form, return it to the Clerk who will have it commissioned.
  • The Clerk of the Court would then take the completed documents to a Magistrate who would read through it and might want to speak to you as well. The Court will then do one of 3 things:
(a) Dismiss your application if there is no evidence that domestic violence is taking place. (b) Grant you an Interim Protection Order which will be finalized on a date provided by the Court where the Respondent will have a chance to give his / her side of the story; or (c) Postpone the matter without granting an Interim Protection Order and provide a date where the Respondent will get a chance to give his / her side of the story. PLEASE NOTE: An Interim Protection Order has no force and effect until it has been served on the Respondent as in step 3 below. Therefore, do not waste time in getting it served.

Step 3

Now the Respondent has to be informed about the application to Court and the date which both of you have to be back at Court. Depending on the Court, the Clerk of the Court might give you the necessary documents to drop at the Police Station or Sheriff’s Office operating where the Respondent lives or works in order to have it served on the Respondent. Make sure that you receive proof from the officer serving the documents on the Respondent that he has done so.

Hint: The South African Police Services does not charge to serve these documents but the Sheriff does.

If the Respondent commits any acts of domestic violence towards you, report the matter immediately to the Police and if there is no Interim Protection Order in place, go immediately back to the Domestic Violence Court and state your case in order to get one. Go back to Court on the date provided and state your case. If there are grounds, the Court will grant you a Protection Order. If you have a Protection Order against you, it is possible to have it varied or set aside. Consult the Court, your Attorney, Advocate or Family Lawyer in this regard. This and other articles and posts found on this website are written by Adv. Muhammad Abduroaf to assist people with various family law related issues they may have. If you find any of our articles, free resources and posts interesting, or possibly useful to others, please like and share it on Social Media by clicking on the icons below. For more interesting articles and information on Family Law, view our articles and Q&A page. If you have a family law related legal issue and you want someone to answer or reply to it, feel free to post it on our Family Law Blog. Therefore, kindly like and share. Should you require any other legal services and advice, not related to family law, visit Private Legal.

 
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ABC guide on how to obtain a Protection Order

The Steps to follow

The steps to follow to obtain a Protection Order in domestic violence situations are regulated by the Domestic Violence Act 116 of 1998 (hereafter referred to as the act). I strongly suggest that you consult an attorney, advocate or family lawyer should your matter be complicated.

Below is a simple A B C guide outlining a few simple steps that a complainant (the person affected by domestic violence) has to follow in order to obtain an interdict (Protection Order) against another person? However, before these steps may be laid down important to know whether you should approach the Domestic Violence Court or the South African Police Services for a Peace Order: Speak to them about it.

Q: What is a Protection Order?

A: In simple terms, a protection order is an order granted by the Domestic Violence Court which prohibits the person whom the order was made against to commit any acts of domestic violence against you. Furthermore, a Court might grant you an interim Protection Order with basically the same effect as a Protection Order which will be finalised later.

Q: Who may approach the Domestic Violence Court?

A: In order to approach the Domestic Violence Court, you have to be a complainant as described by the Act. According to the Act, such a person is someone who is or has been in a domestic relationship with a respondent (the person committing the domestic violence) and who is or has been subjected or allegedly subjected to an act of domestic violence, including any child in the care of the complainant. So, therefore, the next question is what is a domestic relationship?

Q: What is a Domestic Relationship?

A: According to the Act, a “domestic relationship” means a relationship between a complainant and a respondent in any of the following ways:

(a) They are or were married to each other, including marriage according to any law, custom or religion;

(b) They live or lived together in a relationship in the nature of marriage, although they are not, or were not, married to each other, or are not able to be married to each other;

(c) They are the parents of a child or are persons who have or had parental responsibility for that child (whether or not at the same time);

(d) They are family members related by consanguinity, affinity or adoption;

(e) They are or were in an engagement, dating or customary relationship, including an actual or perceived romantic, intimate or sexual relationship of any duration; or

(f) They share or recently shared the same residence. Now the last question is, what is domestic violence?

Q: What is domestic violence?

A: According to the Act, domestic violence” means-

(a) Physical abuse;

(b) Sexual abuse;

(c) Emotional, verbal and psychological abuse;

(d) Economic abuse;

(e) Intimidation;

(f) Harassment;

(g) Stalking;

(h) Damage to property;

(I) entry into the complainant’s residence without consent, where the parties do not share the same residence; or

(j) Any other controlling or abusive behavior towards a

Complainant.

Therefore, if you are experiencing domestic violence, the following simple steps have to be followed in order to get you started:

Step 1

Write on a page all the incidents of domestic violence done to you or to your children on paper. Be very clear with the names of people, dates and times. Take your time as this information you will have to fill onto a form at Court, which is dealt with in step 2 below.

Tip: If you fill in the form at Court without first making a draft to work from at your convenience, you might be so nervous at Court and leave out valuable information.

Find out all the details of the person whom you want to be protected against domestic violence, e.g. his/her home and work address and identity number, etc.

Step 2

Go to the Domestic Violence Court closest to your area and the Clerk of the Court will give you a form to fill in. The form is referred to as an Application for Protection Order form. Use the information you have gathered in Step 1 and fill in the form. The form is in the form of an affidavit and you therefore have to swear to the correctness of the information under oath and sign. Therefore, do not hide any information from the Court or unduly exaggerate.

Caution: If your information is not 100 % correct, you may be cross-examined on such correctness in Court and if it is found that you were not totally honest, this would not be in your favour.

  • If you require any assistance in filling in the form, the Clerks of the Court would be happy to assist you.
  • Once you have filled in the Application for Protection Order form, return it to the Clerk who will have it commissioned.
  • The Clerk of the Court would then take the completed documents to a Magistrate who would read through it and might want to speak to you as well. The Court will then do one of 3 things:

(a) Dismiss your application if there is no evidence that domestic violence is taking place.

(b) Grant you an Interim Protection Order which will be finalized on a date provided by the Court where the Respondent will have a chance to give his / her side of the story; or

(c) Postpone the matter without granting an Interim Protection Order and provide a date where the Respondent will get a chance to give his / her side of the story.

PLEASE NOTE: An Interim Protection Order has no force and effect until it has been served on the Respondent as in step 3 below. Therefore, do not waste time in getting it served.

Step 3

Now the Respondent has to be informed about the application to Court and the date which both of you have to be back at Court. Depending on the Court, the Clerk of the Court might give you the necessary documents to drop at the Police Station or Sheriff’s Office operating where the Respondent lives or works in order to have it served on the Respondent. Make sure that you receive proof from the officer serving the documents on the Respondent that he has done so.

Hint: The South African Police Services does not charge to serve these documents but the Sheriff does.

If the Respondent commits any acts of domestic violence towards you, report the matter immediately to the Police and if there is no Interim Protection Order in place, go immediately back to the Domestic Violence Court and state your case in order to get one.

Go back to Court on the date provided and state your case. If there are grounds, the Court will grant you a Protection Order.

If you have a Protection Order against you, it is possible to have it varied or set aside. Consult the Court, your Attorney, Advocate or Family Lawyer in this regard.

This and other articles and posts found on this website are written by Adv. Muhammad Abduroaf to assist people with various family law related issues they may have. If you find any of our articles, free resources and posts interesting, or possibly useful to others, please like and share it on Social Media by clicking on the icons below. For more interesting articles and information on Family Law, view our articles and Q&A page. If you have a family law related legal issue and you want someone to answer or reply to it, feel free to post it on our Family Law Blog. Therefore, kindly like and share.

Should you require any other legal services and advice, not related to family law, visit Private Legal.

 

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Father being refused contact to his child! What are his rights as a Father?

The concept of Family

Fam-i-ly. A three-syllable word, that means so much.  The concept of family is a very broad one and one that takes more than one form. There is the traditional form, and a more modern one. When you say “she is family”, you may be referring to your father’s cousin, a grandparent, or a niece. However, people most often referred to are those closest to you, referring to blood relations, for example, a parent or child. The most basic social unit of what a family comprises of – two parents and in most cases a child.
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However, the law now sees people as family who are not necessary married to each other in law, but who may be cohabiting as life partners, bringing a more modern concept to it. As the law recognises family relations, it therefore imposes certain rights, obligations, and certain restraints when it comes to family. For example, spouses have a legal obligation to maintain each other, and you may not marry your sibling. Another example is that of inheritance, even if you never knew you had a child, at your death, he or she would inherit from you if you die intestate, all just because, you are Fam-i-ly.

What is a father?

This article deals with the legal relationship between a biological father and a child. Not all men are blessed with being referred to as a father. In order to be a father, you have to be a male parent to a child. The child must have been born from you. And therefore, every child can only have one father. However, from the moment you became a father, the law imposed certain rights and responsibilities. These responsibilities will remain until you or your child’s demise. The scope of this article is not to stipulate what a good or bad father is. It is to outline what the responsibilities and rights of a father are towards his child.

What are the father’s rights towards his child?

This article is inspired by the fact that many fathers who are not in a marital, or romantic relationship with the mother of his child, are refused the rights to exercise his parental rights and responsibilities towards his child. In South Africa, we have the Children’s Act 38 (Act 38 of 2005), which came into effect on 1 April 2010. Here section 10 of the Act is of use. It defines parental responsibilities and rights, which includes the right to care for the child, to maintain contact with the child, to act as guardian of the child; and to contribute to the maintenance of the child. Fathers of children born out of wedlock does not automatically have rights towards their child. In order for you to form part of such a child’s life you need to fulfil the requirements of section 21 of the Act, which basically states:
  • at the time of the child’s birth, you are living with the mother in a permanent life-partnership; and
  • you contribute or have attempted in good faith to contribute to the child’s upbringing for a reasonable period;
  • you contribute or have attempted in good faith to contribute towards expenses in connection with the maintenance of the child for a reasonable period.
Many fathers would have been married to the mother. Others would have meaningfully partook in the child’s life from birth. Therefore, there should generally be no difference between a child born from a marriage and a child born outside of a marriage.  To take the statement further, it is possible for a father of a child born out of wedlock to be the primary care giver of the child, where the mother is only entitled to see the child at certain times and circumstances, or not at all.

What is meant by the terms care and contact?

The question is now posed, what is meant by this right of care and contact a father has towards his child? The Act provides a very holistic understanding of the concept of care. This includes providing the child with proper accommodation, guidance, protection and so on. Basically, to do, and provide the child with whatever is in his or her best interests. Contact, on the other hand entails maintaining a personal relationship with the child, visiting or being visited by him or her, and communication with the child in various forms.

Can the mother of your child deny you contact and care rights?

Now we deal with the issue of whether or not the mother of your child can arbitrary deny you from exercising your parental responsibilities and rights of care and contact. Should a mother feel that the father of her child should have limited rights and care to his child; in order for her to limit his rights, the mother should have a very good reason for doing so. Her reason should be motivated by what is in the child’s best interest and nothing else. However, what is in the child’s best interest is an objective assessment and not a maternal one. All factors are to be considered. Therefore, by way of example, should the mother’s reason be that the father has a new girlfriend, or that she does not like his parents – that would not on the face of it be a good reason. Therefore, should the father unreasonably be refused care and contact, he can invoke the law. Should he decide to litigate, the court would assess the matter and make a ruling as to what is in the minor child’s best interest. The court may agree with the mother, or the father, or with none of them.

Final words to fathers

As a father of a child, you are legally afforded with certain parental responsibilities in relation to your child. In South African law, there is no distinction between the rights of a mother and that of a father in relation to a child if the father has full parental rights and responsibilities. However, what the law looks at is what would practically make sense when exercising those rights and responsibilities. In other words, we cannot cut the child in half. The yardstick is, what is in the child’s best interests. All families are different, with many variables at play. Therefore, if it would be in the minor child’s best interests to reside with their mother, that should happen. Even if the father only sees the child on Christmas eve, then that should be the case. However, in the same breath if it would be in the minor child’s best interest for the minor child to reside with the father and the mother to have contact once a month, then that should be enforced. Therefore, if you as a father are unreasonably being obstructed from exercising your rights of care and contact, get legal advice, and enforce your rights.

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This and other articles and posts found on this website are written by Adv. Muhammad Abduroaf to assist people with various family law related issues they may have. If you find any of our articles, free resources and posts interesting, or possibly useful to others, please like and share it on Social Media by clicking on the icons below. For more interesting articles and information on Family Law, view our articles and Q&A page. If you have a family law related legal issue and you want someone to answer or reply to it, feel free to post it on our Family Law Blog. Therefore, kindly like and share. Should you require any other legal services and advice, not related to family law, visit Private Legal.
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