Relocation with my children. What are the rights of the parents

Relocation with my children. What are the rights of the parents

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Finding the best lawyer (attorney or advocate) for your legal matter – Top advice for anyone with a legal problem in South Africa

It is best to stay out of trouble. However, sometimes trouble finds you. And if that happens, you must obtain the best lawyer suited for you (attorney or advocate) to assist you with your legal problems. If you do not need an attorney or advocate to assist you with your matter, it may be best to first schedule a consultation with one, at least for peace of mind. Read on further to ensure you obtain the best legal practitioner (advocate or attorney) that suits your budget and case.

Is the top or best attorney or advocate necessary in every legal matter?

The legal problems people have varied from case to case. Some are simple. For example, a traffic fine which you wish to dispute. Others can have severe consequences on your life. For example, going through a divorce or being arrested and charged for a crime you did not (or did) commit. Whatever the legal issues, obtaining the best advice is always the best. It does not mean you need to source the top lawyers in South Africa for every legal problem. That would not make sense if the issues involved were relatively minor and the consequences were not dire. For example, if you are disputing a traffic fine of R 500 – 00, it does not make sense to consult with the top criminal lawyer in Cape Town, who may charge you R 5000 – 00 for the consultation. However, if you are facing jail time, consult with an experienced attorney or advocate who charges more than others based on their experience and is worth their fee.

What is the first step to take when faced with a legal problem?

When faced with a minor legal problem, it may be a good idea to research the topic first. For example, someone owes you money and does not want to pay you. Doing some basic research will tell you that you can send that person a letter of demand, and if that does not work, approach the small claims court. If you do not want to go through all that effort, approaching an attorney or advocate may be less stressful. However, there would be legal fees involved. And in some cases, the legal costs involved would be more than the amount claimed. If, on the other hand, there are serious legal consequences, for example, losing your home, jail time, custody of minor children and so on, we advise you best to obtain legal advice and assistance from the start. Usually, serious legal matters are time sensitive, and a delay can cause more significant issues. For example, if someone is suing you for money through the court, and you receive the summons, you have two weeks to file a notice informing the court you are defending the matter. If you do not do so within two weeks, the other party, the plaintiff, may obtain a default judgment against you.

Do senior advocates and attorneys charge more than junior lawyers?

The more experience an attorney or advocate has, the better they are for your case. That experience earns the advocate or attorney the right to charge more than his competitor with less experience and who may have to learn how to handle your matter. An experienced lawyer may charge more per hour but spend less time dealing with your matter. A less experienced lawyer may charge less per hour but spend many more hours dealing with your matter with less experience and skill than the senior lawyer would have. At the same time, it would be overkill to use a senior attorney or advocate if your case does not require their skills and expertise. In many cases, a junior lawyer would have the necessary skills and expertise to assist you as a senior advocate would. It would all depend on the nature and complexity of your case and whether your budget allows it.

I cannot afford to pay child maintenance during the Lockdown. What can I do? The other parent of my child has not paid any maintenance since before the lockdown. What should I do?

  We are now on day 19 of the National Lockdown. Many expected the lockdown to endure for only 21 days. However, it is now set for 35 days. Unless you are an essential worker, or a business providing essential services, you may not go out to work or earn a living. You may, however, work from home making use of email, telephone calls, and video calls. However, the vast majority of workers in South Africa do not work from a computer or have the ability to earn money from being online. This applies to restaurants, retail stores and suppliers, the building and maintenance industry, and so on. The list is extensive.
For those who are lucky to be employed, some will only receive half their salary and some none. No work, no pay. This is a sad reality of the national lockdown. Many people will be left without jobs and unable to pay their expenses. We can only hope and pray that the COVID-19, coronavirus pandemic comes to an end as soon as possible. South Africans can then work together in building our nation back to where it was and beyond.

Regulations regarding the movement of children during the lockdown

Concerning the issue of a parent’s inability to pay child maintenance during the lockdown, let us first outline the current regulations regarding the movement of children during this period. This would place this article in perspective. Children may only be moved between homes under the following circumstances:
  1. There are arrangements in place for the children to move for one parent to another in terms of a court order; or
  2. A parental responsibilities and rights agreement or parenting plan registered with the office of the Family Advocate; and
  3. In the household to which the child is to move, there is no person who is known to have come into contact with, or is reasonably suspected to have come into contact with, a person known to have contracted, or reasonably suspected to have contracted, COVID-19;
  4. The parent or caregiver transporting the child concerned must have in his or her possession, the court order or the latter agreement, or a certified copy thereof.
To view the regulations, click here.  

TAKE NOTE! There is NO Child Maintenance Payment Holiday during the National Lockdown Period!

On 07 April 2020, an article was published entitled: TAKE NOTE! There is NO Child Maintenance Payment Holiday during the National Lockdown Period!  This article still stands. We received many queries and comments from parents who cannot afford to pay child maintenance during the lockdown, and parents who have not received any child maintenance prior. Let us deal with this issue.

A parent’s duty to pay child maintenance

Whether or not there is a maintenance order in place, a parent has the duty to maintain his or her child. This duty does not stem from a court order, but by operation of law. A parent, therefore, cannot opt-out from paying child support. The only exception could be if the child, although he or she is a minor, is very wealthy, and does not require any form of child maintenance. This latter scenario is however rare.

What are the social welfare consequences of not paying child support?

The very basic purpose of paying child support is to feed, clothe and give the child shelter. If a child has two (2) parents, then both of them have a legal obligation to maintain that child. If one parent pays child support, the other parent would use that money to supplement the expenses of the child. Therefore, the money would be used to pay for any of the following basic needs during the lockdown period:
  1. Food (breakfast, lunch and supper)
  2. Accommodation (rent)
  3. Electricity, water and gas
  4. Basic clothing
  5. Basic educational expenses
  6. Personal hygiene and medical expenses
Now let’s say both parents are not earning any money during the lockdown period. The parent caring for the child is trying his or her utmost best to feed the child with what little money there is. If the parent who is supposed to pay child support does not pay his or her portion, what would happen? It would mean that the child would not have food to eat during the lockdown period. This is not in the child’s best interest. A parent should, therefore, try his or her utmost to avoid this situation from happening by paying child support.

What if a parent really cannot afford to pay child maintenance during the lockdown period?

It is theoretically possible that a parent, who receives no income during the lockdown period, cannot afford to pay all the child maintenance he or she is obliged to pay. This category of parent would be one who owns no assets of value to sell, is not eligible to take out a loan from someone,  and himself or herself is destitute. In other words, there is no money or assets at all. Should the mother lay a complaint for non-compliance with the Maintenance order, or for paying child support,  he or she should prove that he or she was truly destitute and could not pay any child support, albeit a small amount.

For what may a parent approach the maintenance court during the lockdown?

In terms of direction 8(b)(i) and (ii)issued in the Regulations (No. R418) issued on 28 March 2029 in the Government Gazette (No.43167), the Maintenance Court may deal with maintenance matters during the lockdown as follows: – First time applications for maintenance will only be dealt with if complete information is supplied in respect of required names, surname, telephone or cellular phone number, employment or business address, banking details of the Respondent; and – Application in respect of enforcement of maintenance orders Therefore, if a parent is not paying child support in terms of a court order, approach the maintenance court to enforce it, even during the lockdown. If you do not have a maintenance order, and not receiving maintenance, approach the maintenance court during the lockdown and ensure you have all the information mentioned in the regulations above. We, therefore, urge parents to pay their child support during the lockdown period. This is so even though you never saw your child during the entire lockdown period. Make a loan, sell some goods, or do whatever you can to ensure your child has food to eat during the lockdown and beyond. We are certain that you found the above article useful and interesting. Please consider sharing it on the share buttons below. They include Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, WhatsApp, Gmail and more. Someone may find it useful as well. Should you require business advice or services, feel free to click on these links: Business SA | Private Legal | Envirolaws      

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