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Child Custody, Maintenance, Divorce, Relocations, and other Questions and Answers

   

Our Lawyer (Pty) Ltd provides professional legal advice to their clients through the following options:

  • Face to Face (At our location in Cape Town);
  • Telephonic (We call you on the South African Landline / Mobile number provided);
  • Video (We make use of Skype, FaceTime, and WhatsApp Video Call)
advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceIf however, you have a quick and simple family law advice question you wish to ask, feel free to post it below. There would, therefore, be no need to set-up a consultation and pay a fee.  

The question may relate to any of the following:

  • Child Maintenance;
  • Child Custody;
  • Divorce;
  • Relocation of minor children;
  • Change of minor children’s surname;
  • Guardianship rights;
  • Passport consent issues;
  • Domestic violence;
  • Parenting Plans;
  • and so on.
 

Useful family law Articles

Below are a few useful articles written by us.

Child Relocation, Passports, Custody, Surname Change, and the High Courts – Simplified

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceWhat does Child Relocation, Passport disputes, Custody issues, and surname changes have in common? They are all matters which a court of law resolves if the parties cannot do so. Other than child custody issues that can be resolved by the Children’s Court, disputes in relation to Child Relocation, Passport Disputes and Surname changes for minor children are dealt with in the various Provincial High Courts in South Africa where the child ore parties reside. Click here to read more…

Amendments to the Maintenance Act – Final Changes that took place in 2018 – Know your rights

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorce

Parents have a legal obligation to maintain their children. The same applies to spouses who have to maintain each other, and so on. This obligation should be exercised naturally. In other words, even if a parent did not know of the law enforcing child support, he or she should have a natural inclination to do so. Unfortunately, the true reality is that it is not the case. Countless parents are taken to the maintenance court every year due to not supporting, or inadequately supporting their children. And to be fair, there are parents who abuse the maintenance process who takes the parent to court who is already adequately contributing. Now, for the maintenance enforcement process to function, working mechanisms need to be in place. This is where the Maintenance Act 99 of 1998, and the Maintenance Amendment Act, 9 of 2015 come into play. Read on to learn more. Click here to read more…

Child Maintenance Saga: How a mother forced the father of her child to pay child maintenance after battling for 5 years

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceMaintenance Saga: When Jill was 17 years old, she met Jack. He was much older than her, working, and very charming. Jill was in her final year of high school and in love with Jack. One thing led to another, and Jill fell pregnant with his child. When she told Jack the good news, he asked her to have an abortion. She refused. Jack was then out of the picture and nowhere to be found. She did not know where he stayed, nor did she have his work details. All she had was his mobile number. This number was useless as he blocked her. The furthest thing from her mind at the time was the issue of child maintenance. Click here to read more…

Paternity disputes and Scientific DNA Testing in Child Legal Matters

Paternity disputes are not uncommon in our courts of law. What sparks them varies, however, all disputes are messy. For one, the mere allegation that he is not the father of the child may directly or indirectly affect the dignity of the mother, and that of the child. In other words, it is suggested that she had more than one sexual partner at the time, and the child was born from such a relationship. Nonetheless, the issue can speedily be resolved through scientific DNA testing. Click here to read more…

Victory for Muslim Marriages in South Africa – Court gives the State 2 (two) years to enact legislation

On 31 August 2018, the Western Cape High Court handed down a ground-breaking judgment. In effect, it Orders the State to prepare, initiate, introduce, enact, and bring into operation, diligently, and without delay, legislation to recognise Muslim marriages. The High Court gave the State exactly two (2) years to attend to the latter process. This two (2) years would only be suspended if the matter is taken to the Constitutional Court. However, should the matter not be taken to the Constitutional Court for final determination, and the State does not enact the legislation, then by default, Muslim marriages may be dissolved in accordance with the Divorce Act 70 of 1979. Therefore, it is up to the State to action matters urgently. Click here to read more…

Passport Applications for minor children: What you need to know – Department of Home Affairs – Questions  and Answers

Should you require any advice on an application for a passport of a minor, where the co-parent refuses to consent or co-operate;  feel free to set up a consultation with us. You may call 0211110090 or click here to do it online.
advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceLeaving South Africa, and visiting another country is something many people do on a daily basis. The reason, therefore, could either be for a holiday, business, a death in the family, and so on. Or it might be to relocate to another country to start a new life, either alone, or with your spouse or children. Whatever the reason is, you require a passport when leaving South Africa. For an adult, all you need to do is visit your nearest Department of Home Affairs Offices, with proof of identity, and the prescribed fees, and take your picture, fingerprints, etc. However, if you are a minor child, under the age of 18, it is not that simple. You would need to go with both your parents, and they need to provide their consent. Click here to read more…

Father battles for 3 years to finally see his child. This he did with the help of a social worker, lawyer and the court. He now has regular contact with his child.

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceCustody, Contact, and Guardianship are parental responsibilities of all parents. Once the child is born, both parents not only have a right but a duty to form part of a child’s life. This is also the right of the child. Therefore, a parent cannot deny the other parent from exercising his or her parental responsibilities and rights. The Courts have a duty to ensure that a child’s best interests are met when approached. It is therefore of paramount importance that parents ensure that parental responsibilities and rights are exercise and enforced where necessary. This includes the responsibility of paying child maintenance. Click here to read more…
   
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Child Custody, Maintenance, Divorce, Relocations, and other Questions and Answers

 

 

Our Lawyer (Pty) Ltd provides professional legal advice to their clients through the following options:

  • Face to Face (At our location in Cape Town);
  • Telephonic (We call you on the South African Landline / Mobile number provided);
  • Video (We make use of Skype, FaceTime, and WhatsApp Video Call)

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceIf however, you have a quick and simple family law advice question you wish to ask, feel free to post it below. There would, therefore, be no need to set-up a consultation and pay a fee.

 

The question may relate to any of the following:

  • Child Maintenance;
  • Child Custody;
  • Divorce;
  • Relocation of minor children;
  • Change of minor children’s surname;
  • Guardianship rights;
  • Passport consent issues;
  • Domestic violence;
  • Parenting Plans;
  • and so on.

 

Useful family law Articles

Below are a few useful articles written by us.

Child Relocation, Passports, Custody, Surname Change, and the High Courts – Simplified

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceWhat does Child Relocation, Passport disputes, Custody issues, and surname changes have in common? They are all matters which a court of law resolves if the parties cannot do so. Other than child custody issues that can be resolved by the Children’s Court, disputes in relation to Child Relocation, Passport Disputes and Surname changes for minor children are dealt with in the various Provincial High Courts in South Africa where the child ore parties reside. Click here to read more…

Amendments to the Maintenance Act – Final Changes that took place in 2018 – Know your rights

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorce

Parents have a legal obligation to maintain their children. The same applies to spouses who have to maintain each other, and so on. This obligation should be exercised naturally. In other words, even if a parent did not know of the law enforcing child support, he or she should have a natural inclination to do so. Unfortunately, the true reality is that it is not the case. Countless parents are taken to the maintenance court every year due to not supporting, or inadequately supporting their children. And to be fair, there are parents who abuse the maintenance process who takes the parent to court who is already adequately contributing. Now, for the maintenance enforcement process to function, working mechanisms need to be in place. This is where the Maintenance Act 99 of 1998, and the Maintenance Amendment Act, 9 of 2015 come into play. Read on to learn more. Click here to read more…

Child Maintenance Saga: How a mother forced the father of her child to pay child maintenance after battling for 5 years

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceMaintenance Saga: When Jill was 17 years old, she met Jack. He was much older than her, working, and very charming. Jill was in her final year of high school and in love with Jack. One thing led to another, and Jill fell pregnant with his child. When she told Jack the good news, he asked her to have an abortion. She refused. Jack was then out of the picture and nowhere to be found. She did not know where he stayed, nor did she have his work details. All she had was his mobile number. This number was useless as he blocked her. The furthest thing from her mind at the time was the issue of child maintenance. Click here to read more…

Paternity disputes and Scientific DNA Testing in Child Legal Matters

Paternity disputes are not uncommon in our courts of law. What sparks them varies, however, all disputes are messy. For one, the mere allegation that he is not the father of the child may directly or indirectly affect the dignity of the mother, and that of the child. In other words, it is suggested that she had more than one sexual partner at the time, and the child was born from such a relationship. Nonetheless, the issue can speedily be resolved through scientific DNA testing. Click here to read more…

Victory for Muslim Marriages in South Africa – Court gives the State 2 (two) years to enact legislation

On 31 August 2018, the Western Cape High Court handed down a ground-breaking judgment. In effect, it Orders the State to prepare, initiate, introduce, enact, and bring into operation, diligently, and without delay, legislation to recognise Muslim marriages. The High Court gave the State exactly two (2) years to attend to the latter process. This two (2) years would only be suspended if the matter is taken to the Constitutional Court. However, should the matter not be taken to the Constitutional Court for final determination, and the State does not enact the legislation, then by default, Muslim marriages may be dissolved in accordance with the Divorce Act 70 of 1979. Therefore, it is up to the State to action matters urgently. Click here to read more…

Passport Applications for minor children: What you need to know – Department of Home Affairs – Questions  and Answers

Should you require any advice on an application for a passport of a minor, where the co-parent refuses to consent or co-operate;  feel free to set up a consultation with us. You may call 0211110090 or click here to do it online.

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceLeaving South Africa, and visiting another country is something many people do on a daily basis. The reason, therefore, could either be for a holiday, business, a death in the family, and so on. Or it might be to relocate to another country to start a new life, either alone, or with your spouse or children. Whatever the reason is, you require a passport when leaving South Africa. For an adult, all you need to do is visit your nearest Department of Home Affairs Offices, with proof of identity, and the prescribed fees, and take your picture, fingerprints, etc. However, if you are a minor child, under the age of 18, it is not that simple. You would need to go with both your parents, and they need to provide their consent. Click here to read more…

Father battles for 3 years to finally see his child. This he did with the help of a social worker, lawyer and the court. He now has regular contact with his child.

advice-child-maintenance-child-custody-divorceCustody, Contact, and Guardianship are parental responsibilities of all parents. Once the child is born, both parents not only have a right but a duty to form part of a child’s life. This is also the right of the child. Therefore, a parent cannot deny the other parent from exercising his or her parental responsibilities and rights. The Courts have a duty to ensure that a child’s best interests are met when approached. It is therefore of paramount importance that parents ensure that parental responsibilities and rights are exercise and enforced where necessary. This includes the responsibility of paying child maintenance. Click here to read more…

 

 

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I am in search of a trustworthy attorney or advocate. Please direct me to reputable sources to find one.

There are many reputable sources for legal advice and services. Some options include consulting with an advocate or attorney, reaching out to a legal aid organisation, or searching for legal resources through your various websites. It’s essential to research and choose a reliable source to ensure that you receive accurate and trustworthy legal guidance, advice or representation.

When do I decide that there is a need to consult with a lawyer, attorney, or advocate?

Consider consulting with a lawyer, attorney, or advocate if you are facing a legal issue or have questions you need help with. Some everyday situations where you may want to consult a lawyer include:  1. You have been arrested or charged with a crime;  2. You are facing a civil lawsuit or have been served with legal papers.  3. You are considering filing for divorce or dealing with a child custody issue.  4. You are starting a business or need help with business contracts.  5. You are buying or selling a home or other real estate property.  6. You are facing an employment dispute or have questions about your rights as an employee.  A lawyer can provide guidance and support throughout the legal process, ensure that your rights are protected, and help you achieve the best possible outcome in your case. I think it’s essential to choose a lawyer with experience in law that pertains to your specific issue and who you feel comfortable working with.

Is it better to consult with an attorney or advocate virtually or in person?

Whether it is better to consult with a lawyer virtually or in person depends on your preferences and the nature of your legal issue.  Virtual consultations, such as video or phone consultations, can be a convenient option for individuals who cannot travel to a lawyer’s office or prefer the flexibility of consulting with a lawyer from the comfort of their home. Virtual consultations can also benefit individuals with time constraints or who need to consult with a lawyer quickly. However, in-person consultations may be preferable for individuals who prefer face-to-face interaction and feel more comfortable discussing sensitive legal issues. In-person consultations can also allow for a more thorough and detailed discussion of your legal issue and the opportunity to review and sign legal documents on the spot. Ultimately, the decision to consult with a lawyer, attorney or advocate virtually or in person is a personal one and depends on your individual needs and preferences. Many lawyers offer virtual and in-person consultations, so it’s important to discuss your options with your lawyer and choose the best option.

What is free legal advice by an attorney or advocate?

Free legal advice refers to providing legal guidance or information without charge or cost to the recipient. This may be provided by legal aid organisations, pro bono attorneys or advocates, or other resources that offer free legal services. Free legal advice can be helpful for individuals who are unable to afford the cost of hiring an attorney or advocate. Still, ensuring that the advice received is accurate and reliable is essential. Free legal advice may only sometimes be able to address complex legal issues or provide ongoing legal representation fully.

Are all advocates and attorneys the same?

No, not all lawyers are the same. While the High Court has admitted all advocates and attorneys, they may specialise in different areas of law and have varying levels of experience and expertise. Some lawyers may focus on criminal law, while others specialise in family law, intellectual property law, or other areas. Additionally, lawyers may work in private practice, government agencies, or non-profit organisations, impacting their practice and areas of expertise. I think choosing a lawyer with experience in law is essential.

Is there a guarantee that I will win my court case with a lawyer?

No, there is no guarantee that you will win your court case. The outcome of a court case depends on various factors, including the strength of the evidence, the arguments presented by each side, the judge’s interpretation of the law, and other factors. While a lawyer can provide guidance and help prepare your case, they cannot guarantee a specific outcome. It’s essential to have realistic expectations, be prepared for the possibility of an unfavourable outcome, and plan how to proceed if this occurs.

How often should I consult with my attorney or advocate?

The frequency with which you should consult with your lawyer depends on the nature of your legal issue and the complexity of your case. In some cases, you may only need to consult with your lawyer once or twice throughout the entire legal process, while in other cases, you may need to communicate with them more frequently. It’s essential to set clear expectations with your lawyer regarding communication and ensure you are both on the same page regarding how often you will check in and what type of updates you can expect. Also, please feel free to ask me any questions or concerns during the legal process. In that case, reaching out to your lawyer as soon as possible would be essential to ensure they can address them effectively.

What do I do if I am not happy with the outcome of the court case?

If you are not happy with the outcome of your court case, several options may be available to you, depending on the circumstances of your case.  Firstly, you may have the option to file an appeal, which is a formal request for a higher court to review the decision made in your case. You would appeal to the High Court if your matter were heard in the Magistrates  Court. An appeal can only be filed if there were errors in the legal process that may have affected the outcome of your case, such as the application of the wrong law, facts, procedural errors and so on. Additionally, suppose that your lawyer provided inadequate representation or made significant errors that may have impacted the outcome of your case. In that case, you may have the option to file a complaint or a malpractice claim against them.  I think consulting with a lawyer is essential to determine the best course of action in your specific case. They can guide your legal options and help you make an informed decision about how to proceed.

Family Law matter and legal representation by attorneys or advocates. What are common questions asked?

What follows are some  frequently asked questions regarding legal representation and family law matters.

What is the right of mothers in South Africa?

In South Africa, mothers have several important rights concerning their children, particularly in matters of custody, care, and parental responsibilities. Here are some key rights:
  1. Parental Rights: Mothers have the right to make decisions about their child’s upbringing, including education, healthcare, and religion, especially if they are the primary caregiver or have sole custody.
  2. Custody and Access: Mothers can apply for custody of their children, and the courts prioritize the best interests of the child when determining custody arrangements. They also have the right to seek visitation rights if the father has custody.
  3. Child Maintenance: Mothers have the right to claim child maintenance from the father to ensure that the child’s financial needs are met.
  4. Legal Representation: Mothers have the right to seek legal advice and representation in family law matters, including custody disputes and maintenance claims.
  5. Protection Against Unreasonable Actions: Mothers can seek legal recourse if the father is acting unreasonably regarding custody, access, or maintenance obligations.
  6. Participation in Major Decisions: Mothers should be involved in significant decisions affecting their child’s life, such as schooling and medical treatment.
  7. Maternity Leave and Benefits: South African labour laws protect mothers’ rights to maternity leave and benefits in the workplace.
  8. Access to Social Services: Mothers can access social services and support systems to help with parenting, health care, and financial assistance if needed.
It’s essential for mothers to be aware of their rights and seek legal advice if they encounter challenges in exercising them.

Can a mother keep the child away from the father in South Africa?

In South Africa, a mother cannot unilaterally keep a child away from the father without a valid legal reason. Here are some important points to consider:
  1. Legal Custody: If the father has legal custody or parental rights, the mother must adhere to any court orders regarding access and custody. Ignoring these can lead to legal consequences.
  2. Best Interests of the Child: South African law prioritises the best interests of the child. Keeping a child away from a parent without a justifiable reason (e.g., concerns about safety or well-being) is generally not in the child’s best interest.
  3. Valid Reasons: If there are legitimate concerns—such as abuse, neglect, or substance abuse—these should be documented and, if necessary, reported to the authorities or brought before the court.
  4. Court Orders: If there are disputes regarding custody or access, it’s advisable to seek a court order to formally address these issues rather than taking unilateral action.
  5. Mediation: Engaging in mediation can help resolve conflicts between parents regarding custody and access in a way that considers the child’s best interests.

Who has more rights over a child in South Africa, a father or mother?

In South Africa, both parents generally have equal rights over a child, as the law emphasizes the best interests of the child. However, specific rights can depend on factors like custody arrangements and parental responsibilities:
  1. Equal Rights: Both parents have equal rights in making decisions about the child’s upbringing, education, and healthcare, unless a court order states otherwise.
  2. Custody Arrangements: If there is a custody agreement or court order in place, the terms of that order will determine the rights of each parent. For example, if one parent has sole custody, that parent may have more decision-making power.
  3. Parental Responsibilities: The Children’s Act outlines parental responsibilities and rights, which include the right to care for the child, maintain contact, and contribute to the child’s upbringing. Both parents typically share these responsibilities.
  4. Best Interests of the Child: Courts prioritize the child’s best interests when determining custody and access, which can sometimes lead to one parent being granted more rights in certain situations.
Overall, while mothers and fathers have equal rights, individual circumstances and legal agreements can influence specific rights and responsibilities. Legal advice is recommended for parents navigating custody and access issues.

Who qualifies for legal aid in South Africa and how can one apply for it?

In South Africa, legal aid is available to individuals who cannot afford legal representation. Here’s a breakdown of who qualifies and how to apply: Qualifications for Legal Aid
  1. Financial Means Test: Legal aid is primarily aimed at those with limited financial resources. Applicants must meet specific income and asset thresholds, which are reviewed periodically.
  2. Type of Case: Legal aid typically covers civil, criminal, and family law matters, including:
    • Criminal cases where imprisonment may be a consequence.
    • Family law matters, such as divorce, custody, and maintenance.
    • Certain civil cases, such as disputes involving social grants or housing.
  3. Merit of the Case: The case must have a reasonable chance of success. Legal aid is not provided for cases deemed frivolous or without merit.
How to Apply for Legal Aid
  1. Visit a Legal Aid Office: Applicants can visit a local Legal Aid South Africa office. These offices are located throughout the country.
  2. Complete the Application Form: At the office, you’ll need to fill out an application form. Staff will assist you in understanding the process and requirements.
  3. Provide Documentation: You may need to present supporting documents, such as:
    • Proof of income (payslips, bank statements).
    • Details about your assets.
    • Information about the legal issue you are facing.
  4. Assessment: Once your application is submitted, it will be assessed for eligibility based on financial means and the merits of the case.
  5. Await Decision: You will be informed about the outcome of your application. If approved, you will be assigned a legal representative.
How does pro bono work in South Africa? Pro bono legal services in South Africa refer to legal work undertaken voluntarily and without charge, aimed at assisting individuals or communities who cannot afford legal representation. Here’s how pro bono work functions in South Africa: Key Aspects of Pro Bono Work
  1. Purpose: Pro bono services are intended to promote access to justice, particularly for marginalized or disadvantaged individuals who may be unable to afford legal fees.
  2. Eligibility: There are typically no strict eligibility criteria for receiving pro bono services, but organizations may prioritize cases based on need, urgency, and the potential impact of the legal issue.
  3. Types of Cases: Pro bono work often covers a range of legal matters, including:
    • Family law (e.g., custody, divorce)
    • Criminal defense
    • Land rights and housing issues
    • Employment law
    • Public interest litigation
How Pro Bono Work is Organized
  1. Law Firms and NGOs: Many law firms, both large and small, have pro bono departments or initiatives. Non-governmental organizations (NGOs) also provide pro bono legal services, often focusing on specific areas of law.
  2. Legal Aid Clinics: Some universities and legal organizations operate legal aid clinics staffed by law students under the supervision of qualified attorneys, offering free legal advice and representation.
  3. Referral Systems: Legal practitioners may refer clients to pro bono services if they identify that the client cannot afford legal representation.
How to Access Pro Bono Services
  1. Contact Law Firms or NGOs: Individuals seeking pro bono assistance can reach out to local law firms or NGOs that offer these services. Many firms have specific programs dedicated to pro bono work.
  2. Legal Aid South Africa: While this is a separate entity, it’s important to note that Legal Aid South Africa provides legal services to those who qualify based on financial means, and they may refer clients to pro bono resources.
  3. Community Legal Clinics: Some communities have legal clinics that provide free advice and assistance. These clinics often focus on specific legal issues and can be a valuable resource.
Benefits of Pro Bono Work
  • Access to Justice: Pro bono work helps bridge the gap for individuals who might otherwise be unable to afford legal help.
  • Public Interest: It allows lawyers to engage in matters that benefit society as a whole, addressing systemic issues.
  • Professional Development: For young lawyers and law students, pro bono work provides valuable experience and the opportunity to develop their skills while making a difference.
Overall, pro bono legal services play a crucial role in promoting equality and justice in South Africa.

What is the difference between an advocate and an attorney?

In South Africa, the terms “advocate” and “attorney” refer to different roles within the legal profession. Here are the key differences: Advocate
  1. Role: Advocates primarily represent clients in court and are specialised in litigation. They provide expert legal opinions and arguments during trials.
  2. Direct Access: Generally, advocates are instructed by attorneys. However, in some cases, clients can approach an advocate directly (known as “direct access”).
  3. Chambers: Advocates typically work independently from their own chambers or practice, rather than as part of a law firm.
Attorney
  1. Role: Attorneys handle a wide range of legal matters, including providing legal advice, preparing documents, and managing client relationships. They often deal with clients directly.
  2. Court Representation: While attorneys can represent clients in lower courts, they may instruct an advocate for higher courts or more complex litigation matters.
  3. Law Firms: Attorneys typically work in law firms or practice independently. They may specialize in various areas of law, such as family law, criminal law, or commercial law.
  4. Regulation: Attorneys are regulated by the Law Society of South Africa and must complete practical legal training and pass exams to practice.
Summary In essence, attorneys are the first point of contact for clients and handle a broad range of legal work, while advocates specialize in courtroom representation and litigation. The two roles complement each other within the legal system.

Can a client pay an advocate directly?

In South Africa, it is generally not standard practice for clients to pay advocates directly. Advocates are typically retained by attorneys, who then handle the payment arrangements. Here are some key points regarding this process:
  1. Attorney-Advocate Relationship: Clients usually hire an attorney, who will then brief an advocate for specific legal representation. The attorney is responsible for paying the advocate’s fees.
  2. Direct Payments: While it’s possible for a client to pay an advocate directly in certain circumstances, this is less common and may require prior agreement. If an advocate is briefed directly (as in some cases of direct access), they may accept payment from the client.
  3. Fee Agreements: If a client and an advocate agree on direct payment, it’s essential to have a clear fee agreement in writing, outlining the services provided and the payment structure.
  4. Cost Orders: In court cases, if a client wins, the court may order the losing party to pay the legal costs, which could include the advocate’s fees, but these costs typically flow through the attorney.
It’s advisable for clients to clarify payment arrangements with their attorney or advocate upfront to avoid misunderstandings.

Questions parents ask in child custody disputes. What are some of the difficulties parents face when dealing with child custody issues and problems?

When parents have issues and difficulties regarding their parental responsibilities and rights, they often go online for answers. These issues can relate to contact rights or guardianship issues. One parent may want to have more contact, and the other parent refuses such a request. Or a parent wants to relocate with a minor child, and the other parent refuses guardianship consent. Whatever the issues are, they need to be resolved in the child’s best interests. Read on for some interesting questions parents ask online.

Does the abuse of alcohol affect the outcome of a child custody case?

Abusing alcohol is very dangerous. Not only for you but for your relationship and parenting as well. If a parent abuses alcohol in the presence of a child, then the child is in danger, or at the very least, in a potential neglectful situation. If both parents abuse alcohol, then the case is much more serious and social welfare needs to get involved. On the issue of a child custody case, the abuse of alcohol is material and would play a huge role in the outcome of the case. The extent could be that custody is revoked.

What can you not say in a child custody mediation process?

You can say whatever you wish to say. However irrelevant information is discouraged. At the end of the day, you should assist the court with relevant information that would be of use to the mediation process. Sometimes bringing up the past and old issues would not be of much use to your mediation case. Badmouthing and trying your utmost to put the other parent in a bad light could be extremely damaging to your case. Focus on what is important on moving forward.

What evidence can you use in a custody case?

In a child custody case, the court needs to know that all relevant information was placed before it. This is so as the court would then be able to make a fair decision. You can use any evidence to prove your case. However, the evidence must be relevant. Dealing with the past or unresolved personal issues won’t be of much use to the court. Focus on the child and how either parent would best be able to care for the child.

How do you write a letter to a judge for child custody?

The courts have their own set of rules and procedure. Court procedures are usually commenced with a Founding Affidavit, followed by an Answering Affidavit, and then a Replying Affidavit. After you provided information via affidavit, you would give a copy to the other party. Letters can be provided, but it should be attached to an affidavit as an annexure.

Why do fathers walk away after a divorce?

Many marriages are stressful and the divorce is the final chapter. Not all fathers walk away after a divorce. If they do, it may be because they want nothing to do with the ex-wife. If there are children involved, then there would be a limited relationship with the mother. For example, should she have custody, then you may have to pay her child support and so on. Sometimes, the least contact you can have with your former spouse the better. Especially if the marriage was riddled with domestic violence.

What are the chances of a father getting full custody in South Africa?

The chances are high if he can prove that it would be in the child’s best interest. It does not mean that you are the father that you are entitled to have full custody. Some fathers never formed part of a child’s life and all of a sudden wants full custody. That does not make sense. The child does not even know the man. Under those circumstances, phased in contact should first take place.

What to do if your ex-partner or lover won’t let you see your child?

There may be good grounds why an ex-husband or spouse won’t let you see the child. One could be that the child does not know you, or you are a danger to the child. However, unless there is good grounds to refuse you contact to your child, such contact must take place. The type and duration of the contact may be in dispute. And the mother may set down the terms. If you are not happy with the refusal or the terms, you would need to approach the Children’s Court or the High Court.

What can I do if the mother keeps a child from the father?

For a mother to keep a child away from a father, she would need to have good grounds. For example, the child is being neglected by the other parent or is in danger. The father needs to approach the Children’s Court or the High Court. If the child does not know the father at all, and the father is a drug addict, then it may make sense to keep the child away from the father. Each case is different. At the end of the day, parents must do what is best for the child.

Who owns the child? The father or the mother?

No one owns the child. However, both parents have a legal obligation to care for the child. A court may grant one parent more rights over the child than the other. For example, one parent would care for the child during the week, and the other parent only on weekends. A court may also limit guardianship rights. For example, allowing only one parent to consent when it comes to a child’s school, passport application or travelling overseas.

Who has more parental rights?

Usually, both parents would have equal parental rights. However, a court can limit a parent’s parental rights. If the parents cannot agree on how to care for a child, a court can step in and limit certain parental rights if it deems so necessary. This it would do if it believes that it would be in the child’s best interest. For example, a parent cannot collect a child on weekends because the child is neglected when in that parent’s care.

How does child support work if the mother has no job?

If the mother does not have a job, then the father would have to support the child according to his means. However, in deciding what amount the father should pay, various factors have to be looked at. One needs to look at his income, expenses, assets and liabilities.

Can a father take a newborn child away from the mother?

He can if it would be in the child’s best interest. Usually, a newborn would be best cared for by the mother. However, if the mother is a big drug addict, or a drunkard and unable to care for the child, it may be ordered that the father care for the child.

Can a mother lose custody for cheating in South Africa?

Cheating and being able to care for a child are two separate issues. However, if the cheating affects her ability to care for the child, then it could affect her chances of retaining custody. For example, she is out whole night with different people.

At what age can the father take the baby?

It is always best for a child to be cared for by his or her mother once he or she is born. Mothers have a beneficial bond with the child after birth and would be able to provide the child with breastmilk and so on. Under certain circumstances, it may be best that the father cares for a child soon after birth. And in other cases, much later. A father can take custody at any age. Generally, the older the child, the easier it would be. At the end of the day, when deciding when a child should be taken care of by the father, the child’s best interests needs to be upheld.

How can a father win a child custody case in Cape Town?

A father can win a child custody case in Cape Town or any city in South Africa if he can prove that it would be best for the child to be in his care. There need to be facts to support a successful custody application. The father should be able to prove that he can care for the child better than the mother and that it would be best for there to be a change in custody arrangements. Earning more, or having a better car or home is not necessarily deciding factors when it comes to winning a child custody case.

What is considered an unfit home?

An unfit home is a home where a child is in danger or neglected. For example, there is alcohol laying around or a balcony where the child can easily fall from. Our law expects all parents to be the best parents they can be for the child. Not all homes are the same in South Africa. A fit home for one set of children may not be a fit home for another set of children. At the end of the day, as long as parents try their best to keep their children safe, that should be adequate to call a fit home.

How do I find an unfit parent?

Not all parents are fit parents. However, they are the parents of the child and need to care for him or her. Parents should try to become the best parents they can be for their child. As time evolves, they will become better and fitter at it. You may speak to social workers in your area who can advise you where to find an unfit parent.

How do you Co-parent with a toxic ex-partner or spouse?

Before a couple had a child, they would usually communicate well with each other. This would continue after the child is born until when the couple separates. At this point, the level of communication they had previously no longer exists. This is when their relationship could become toxic, or at least so for one of the parents. At this point, a child needs both parents to communicate well with each other. This is not only in the child’s best interests, but also would benefit the parents. It would be best to see a family counsellor with your ex to assist in co-parenting if this problem persists.  

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